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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago

The good ole ménage à trois.

Is it something you enjoy? Why so if yes?

What would make you think "nope, never doing that again"?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Nah.

I worry I have to focus on two people simultaneously, or I'm maliciously causing someone to feel left out.

Which means I can't focus on anyone properly.

I get stressed out that I'm disappointing everyone, regardless of feedback, and always feel fucking terrible afterwards.

2? Great. 4 or more? The other people can entertain each other, it's not my responsibility. All good.

3 I simply don't enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yo, I never fucked Wayne, I never fucked Drake

On my life, man, fuck's sake

If I did, I'd ménage with 'em

And let 'em eat my ass like a cupcake

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"The good ole ménage à trois.

Is it something you enjoy? Why so if yes?

What would make you think "nope, never doing that again"?"

I’m not sure if there’s anything that would ever make me say I’m never doing that again OP

I do enjoy it. Of all varieties. But only when the connection is right. And that is rare sadly

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

"Yo, I never fucked Wayne, I never fucked Drake

On my life, man, fuck's sake

If I did, I'd ménage with 'em

And let 'em eat my ass like a cupcake"

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

I’ve had fantastic, life-changing sex in threesomes. I’ve also had rubbish times where there was no chemistry but a weird determination to plough on anyway. And one where a guy fell over and smashed right through a glass coffee table while his heavily pregnant girlfriend went down on me, which caused their little dog to come barrelling into the room and completely freak out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not for me

Much prefer 1 on 1...always the worry some one is feeling left out...not getting "appropriate" attention etc

So as a result you cant just relax and enjoy

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

When three becomes one... You kicked the other two out and had a wank, didn't you!?

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Also it's a lot of extra effort that I'm having to give instead of the focus and enjoyment of just me and the other person.

I know it's sort of shared and all that but urgh. It takes a lot and some very special people for me to enjoy it.

I end up with a favourite.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

It is our preferred choice

With 3 you can watch and join in. When it’s 4 or more you are too busy to enjoy watching your partner.

With us 2 and another female, we can all work together ensuring we all get pleasure, sometimes taking turns to enjoy the attention of two or helping give one full attention along with the other.

With us 2 and another gent we can give our full attention to C or take turns to build the heat.

I adore watching C give and receive pleasure and she definitely becomes filthier the more excited she becomes.

We both thrive off looking into each others eyes as we are getting pleasure and in a 3 that works perfectly.

Anyway it’s fair to say we love threesomes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

absolutely yes.

because i enjoy them very, very much. Px

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The good ole ménage à trois.

Is it something you enjoy? Why so if yes?

What would make you think "nope, never doing that again"?"

I had one in my late teens and one in my early 20s, but they were d*unk random occurrences that I loved at the time because it was one to tick of the bucket list.

Now looking back they wernt how I'd want.

I know I'd definitely enjoy it in the right setting.

Preferably I'd like a day/weekend of exploring in a relaxed atmosphere, bit of craic and just see where that moment took us. More intimate and letting our bodies go.

The only thing I could think that would ruin it is somebody overstepping someone's boundary or jealousy.

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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago

"Nah.

I worry I have to focus on two people simultaneously, or I'm maliciously causing someone to feel left out.

Which means I can't focus on anyone properly.

I get stressed out that I'm disappointing everyone, regardless of feedback, and always feel fucking terrible afterwards.

2? Great. 4 or more? The other people can entertain each other, it's not my responsibility. All good.

3 I simply don't enjoy

Ah that's fair enough. I could never take part in an orgy and foursomes tend to leave me feeling rather cold.

You don't have to focus on everyone simultaneously but you can't help how you feel. If it doesn't work for you, it doesn't.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Yes I like a threesome.

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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago

"Yo, I never fucked Wayne, I never fucked Drake

On my life, man, fuck's sake

If I did, I'd ménage with 'em

And let 'em eat my ass like a cupcake"

I like that you bring a contemporary take on the world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There were three in the bed and woody said, roll over….

Loads of fun. I’m in

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Not my favourite thing. There's too much to do to relax enough to really enjoy it.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"Ah that's fair enough. I could never take part in an orgy and foursomes tend to leave me feeling rather cold.

You don't have to focus on everyone simultaneously but you can't help how you feel. If it doesn't work for you, it doesn't. "

I do though. I hyperfocus on how it would feel to be sat there watching and left out while everyone else is having a good time. I don't want to inflict those feelings on anyone. And I just can't relax into a threesome.

Four and up is okay, because if someone is left out at least it's not solely because I'm being a selfish asshole.

One on one with someone I adore is generally my preference though

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"I like that you bring a contemporary take on the world. "

I know, right? I was still stuck on the Spice Girls after your thread title.

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Me wanting to experience MFM was the reason we started swinging. It most certainly has not disappointed. When we were actively meeting I absolutely loved being the centre of attention. I'm sure when we get back to meeting the majority of meets will stay as MFM as they're so good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ah that's fair enough. I could never take part in an orgy and foursomes tend to leave me feeling rather cold.

You don't have to focus on everyone simultaneously but you can't help how you feel. If it doesn't work for you, it doesn't.

Four and up is okay, because if someone is left out at least it's not solely because I'm being a selfish asshole.

One on one with someone I adore is generally my preference though

4 is a good number.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

L adores women so three is great. Me I just have to go along with it

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By *lder.Woman
over a year ago

Not Local

"I’ve had fantastic, life-changing sex in threesomes. I’ve also had rubbish times where there was no chemistry but a weird determination to plough on anyway. And one where a guy fell over and smashed right through a glass coffee table while his heavily pregnant girlfriend went down on me, which caused their little dog to come barrelling into the room and completely freak out."

A weird determination to carry on

describes a lot of my sex

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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago

"I’m not sure if there’s anything that would ever make me say I’m never doing that again OP

I like the honesty.

Okay, what would be a bad one for you?

"I do enjoy it. Of all varieties. But only when the connection is right. And that is rare sadly

Yes, I think finding that right dynamic is important, however it looks for you. And connection - with everyone involved (for me anyway, a straight MFM wouldn't need it that way.

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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago

Why would you plough on anyway Rosie?

Are you able to erm, complete that kind of scenario or do you just keep going until someone voices their boredom?

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Absolutely love them! We both do.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

It's not for me. Whatever passions I'm bringing to my one-to-one encounters are far too concentrated. I'm unable - nor willing - to dilute them on something that I feel requires undivided attentions.

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By *eronicaExplorerWoman
over a year ago

London

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By *eronicaExplorerWoman
over a year ago

London

On my bucket list

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over a year ago

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

For me, three is definitely the magic number - MFM or ideally MMF. I love taking 2 cocks simultaneously and as I have a voracious appetite it works well sexually. I find I can give absolutely equally with two - once there are more people thrown into the equation it's fun but too easy for someone to be left out.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"I’m not sure if there’s anything that would ever make me say I’m never doing that again OP

I like the honesty.

Okay, what would be a bad one for you?

I do enjoy it. Of all varieties. But only when the connection is right. And that is rare sadly

Yes, I think finding that right dynamic is important, however it looks for you. And connection - with everyone involved (for me anyway, a straight MFM wouldn't need it that way.

I’ve never had a bad one darling so it’s hard to say what would make one rubbish. I just like to make the right connections before I meet anyone. And glad I made you smile. I do love to be honest. Brutally so at times

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Logistically difficult, but damn good fun

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By *eddfmyd11Man
over a year ago

Towcester

Haven't got to try it yet, but would love to

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By *ake_or_deathMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I've not tried it. I was once asked by a regular partner if I would join her and another partner of hers for a MFM but I wasn't into the idea. If the opportunity for a FFM came up I'd consider it but I'd prefer the ladies to be into each other, otherwise it'd be too much pressure on me! But it's not something I'm desperate to do.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"Why would you plough on anyway Rosie?

Are you able to erm, complete that kind of scenario or do you just keep going until someone voices their boredom?"

Nothing so dramatic. Just … not every encounter is perfect, is it? And there’s that thing others have mentioned about not wanting to disappoint. Add to that, I’m really talking about things quite a few years in the past here, when I was less … self-assured, shall we say.

I’ll throw in an example. I know you like stories.

I’d chatted with a couple for a while and we’d arranged to meet. At their place. When I arrived, the husband answered the door, invited me in, offered me a beer (I was driving, but this was back in the days when ‘just the one’ was considered fine). I sat with him in his living room and we talked, a little bit awkwardly.

He told me he’d been the one messaging me, not his wife. And that she was upstairs making herself more comfortable. Which we all know is code for feeling awkward and deciding what lingerie to wear.

So … little red flag number one: I thought I’d spoken to both of them. Apparently not. And flag number two: I was still to meet his wife.

She came down eventually, and she was beautiful. Quite slim, long straight blonde hair, a nice white lingerie set in the end, suspender belt included. But she didn’t say much beyond ‘hi’ and she sat beside me on the sofa with her hands in her lap. She didn’t look comfortable.

Not great. But I’m overplaying things - she was smiling, she was into it, etc. Just not *really* into it. We had a fun couple of hours, the three of us. But it wasn’t an all-timer. It was okay, not amazing. And the goodbye afterwards was perfunctory, not friendly, sexy and lasting. If you know what I mean. I came away from it all feeling that I’d fulfilled the husband’s fantasy - not a fantasy they both had.

It was like when you see a new band and they tick all the boxes for something you should be into, but the spark just isn’t there. We had a threesome. It was pleasant. But it wasn’t memorable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yo, I never fucked Wayne, I never fucked Drake

On my life, man, fuck's sake

If I did, I'd ménage with 'em

And let 'em eat my ass like a cupcake

I like that you bring a contemporary take on the world. "

I’m here for a good time not a long time you know

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

"On my bucket list

A lady friend and I helped a few ladies tick this off

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

I like them, a lot. The FFMs were just amazing. I've only done a 'mini' MFM though so I want to do that properly this year.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"We had a threesome. It was pleasant. But it wasn’t memorable."

That's a lot of detail for something not memorable

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By *xfordjohnMan
over a year ago

Oxford

"The good ole ménage à trois.

Is it something you enjoy? Why so if yes?

What would make you think "nope, never doing that again"?"

Threesomes have always been my thing and if you do find the right people to share all round, and take time to work out how to do that most effectively, it's just mind-blowing. There are times when I'm with my regular friends that we just seem to be on another planet, we are so carried away with giving and receiving pleasure.

But I have had bad ones too, and they don't bear thinking about.

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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago

"It is our preferred choice

With 3 you can watch and join in. When it’s 4 or more you are too busy to enjoy watching your partner.

With us 2 and another female, we can all work together ensuring we all get pleasure, sometimes taking turns to enjoy the attention of two or helping give one full attention along with the other.

With us 2 and another gent we can give our full attention to C or take turns to build the heat.

I adore watching C give and receive pleasure and she definitely becomes filthier the more excited she becomes.

We both thrive off looking into each others eyes as we are getting pleasure and in a 3 that works perfectly.

Anyway it’s fair to say we love threesomes

You really do! I love the way you write K, it's clear to read your passion. And I can hear you saying it in my mind.

I don't think there's anything wrong in taking turns to focus on another - I'd much rather have focus on the other two than me in a way.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

This year, I learned that I prefer a MFM to a FFM. My 16-year old self could never imagine me saying that?

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By *exycarlashane181Couple
over a year ago

Leamington Spa

I was once part of the threesome. Ffm and the guy couldn't satisfy the both of us together.. I got bored and ended up getting dressed and going downstairs to watch TV lol

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

We love a 3some. A threesome offers something more and different without it getting complicated. 3 is a good number.

3somes have a very different dynamic for us depending if its a MFM or FFM due to sexuallity.

Being a straight male couple a 3some with a guy is all about both guys lavishing their attention on Mrs Misfit and her really having her hands full lavishing attention on each of us back. (Although sadly our experience of MFM is very because we struggle to find the right guys)

Having a 3some with a female it's a lot more of an equal free flowing experience, almost like a combined puddle of sex (if that makes sense). Everyone just kissing, touching, holding, adoring and playing with each other without restriction.

However we've only experience 3 somes with bi women and men. So I'm sure again a 3some with a straight woman would be a different (and probably the most limited) dynamic.

For me personally I find both MFM and FFM completely hot. MFM I get to share My Girl with another guy who appreciates her as much as she appreciates him. It's hot to share in that, she her completey seen to and in her element and for everyone to be completely satisfied. As for an FFM is just really hot to flow freely with 3 people who find each other attractive and let it all go. Hands everywhere, everyone's bare skin on skin, all adoring each other and having each other.

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

"And one where a guy fell over and smashed right through a glass coffee table while his heavily pregnant girlfriend went down on me, which caused their little dog to come barrelling into the room and completely freak out."

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