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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’ve just stumbled across the profile of a work colleague and his wife. I quickly blocked in case they recognised me.

It got me thinking. Has anyone else come across the profile of someone they knew and then decided to meet them for some fun?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

A work colleague found me on here and wasn't a creep about it. So I took him to his first swingers club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A work colleague found me on here and wasn't a creep about it. So I took him to his first swingers club "

You’re an awesome person for doing that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found a girl I went to school with on here. We met and she was gross. A true love story

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I found a girl I went to school with on here. We met and she was gross. A true love story "

I hope she doesn't see this

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A work colleague found me on here and wasn't a creep about it. So I took him to his first swingers club "

That was great of you. I’m sure he had a great time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I found a girl I went to school with on here. We met and she was gross. A true love story

I hope she doesn't see this "

She won’t. Thus was a long time ago on a profile that wasn’t about sucking cock through a hole in a door

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. Px

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By *ystic DWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I saw a lady on here with her bf, I worked with her. Instant block ! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"A work colleague found me on here and wasn't a creep about it. So I took him to his first swingers club

That was great of you. I’m sure he had a great time."

He certainly seemed to. Might look at going again once the January lull is out of the way

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By *ocktowerMan
over a year ago

north Wales and Bulgaria.


"I found a girl I went to school with on here. We met and she was gross. A true love story

I hope she doesn't see this "

She's probably to polite to say what she thought bofvyou .

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
over a year ago

The last house on the left…


"I’ve just stumbled across the profile of a work colleague and his wife. I quickly blocked in case they recognised me.

It got me thinking. Has anyone else come across the profile of someone they knew and then decided to meet them for some fun?"

*Former work colleague

*A guy I used to be in a band with(& his Mrs)

*And I’m pretty sure a girl who I met off Face Party yeeeeaaars ago is on here right now.

Might drop her a message

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By *eeper ThanMan
over a year ago

Dartford

Face party wow that’s a blast from the past!!!

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By *emidemiWoman
over a year ago

basingstoke

I’ve had a message from someone who I went to uni with, saying he always fancied me but was too shy and would love to meet up. Forgot that we followed each other on Instagram, and he is newly engaged with a baby on the way

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By *imisugarWoman
over a year ago

Rugby


"Face party wow that’s a blast from the past!!!"

Was thinking the same! Was thinking about it the other day and couldn't remember the name of it.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

I have OP. When I was here before one of my oldest friends contacted me. Turns out he was a Dom and we then went to lots of munches and socials together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No never happened. Yet.

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By *mudge616Man
over a year ago

DONCASTER

Seen couple of people i work on here and a family member that was a shock

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By *rgasmicChemistryCouple
over a year ago

east coast

One of my work mates told me about fab about 3years ago

I told him that me and H wanted a threesome FFM but we never done anything like this before lol and still haven't had a threesome but have had Sixsome and foursome

J

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No never happened. Yet. "

I love the fact you said ‘yet’

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

We're all adults and it's inevitable we'll bump into people we know. Especially us who live in densely populated areas. It's how we handle these situations that makes the difference.

Probably 90% of the time its a bad idea to message people we know who dont know we know. And if you do want to approach someone do it with tact and sensitivity. Lots of people (including us) get creeped out by people saying they know who we are.

Also some people in our experience seem to think that knowing you outside of fab gives them auto bonus points or insider access. It doesn't and that attitude is creepy.

Personally I would say if you do message them message them as you'd message anyone else. Don't reveal straight away that you know them. See how it flows first. If it's a no from them just block and forget about it. However if its genuinely going somewhere just mention BTW you think you may know them and ask if this a problem to them? Explain if it is a problem you totally respect that, will never mention to anyone or bring it up with them and you will block them and ask they block you. This way you don't creep anyone out needlessly and show you'll totally respect their privacy if they do end up knowing you know. It's just about being respectful and remembering the rules of Fab Club.

Also on the scene we've bumped into to people we know at clubs or bumped into people from the scene out in at shops etc. Again it's about tact and respect. If they see you and avoid eye contact or move away likewise you keep your space from them. They clearly are uncomfortable with it. If they make eye contact, smile and/or say hello you reciprocate (unless you don't want to). Personally we've never experience any awkwardness regarding bumping into people in person. Like I said it maybe be inevitable to bump into people you know but respect and having regard for people's comfort and privacy is key (as you'd hope they have for you).

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By *urvelover87Man
over a year ago

London

Never happened. Or they spotted my profile first and blocked me. I'll never know.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I sent my picture to a lady on here. She came clean, that she knew me. We used to work together. We sometimes message on here, but when I bump into her (twice a year) fab is never mentioned.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We're all adults and it's inevitable we'll bump into people we know. Especially us who live in densely populated areas. It's how we handle these situations that makes the difference.

Probably 90% of the time its a bad idea to message people we know who dont know we know. And if you do want to approach someone do it with tact and sensitivity. Lots of people (including us) get creeped out by people saying they know who we are.

Also some people in our experience seem to think that knowing you outside of fab gives them auto bonus points or insider access. It doesn't and that attitude is creepy.

Personally I would say if you do message them message them as you'd message anyone else. Don't reveal straight away that you know them. See how it flows first. If it's a no from them just block and forget about it. However if its genuinely going somewhere just mention BTW you think you may know them and ask if this a problem to them? Explain if it is a problem you totally respect that, will never mention to anyone or bring it up with them and you will block them and ask they block you. This way you don't creep anyone out needlessly and show you'll totally respect their privacy if they do end up knowing you know. It's just about being respectful and remembering the rules of Fab Club.

Also on the scene we've bumped into to people we know at clubs or bumped into people from the scene out in at shops etc. Again it's about tact and respect. If they see you and avoid eye contact or move away likewise you keep your space from them. They clearly are uncomfortable with it. If they make eye contact, smile and/or say hello you reciprocate (unless you don't want to). Personally we've never experience any awkwardness regarding bumping into people in person. Like I said it maybe be inevitable to bump into people you know but respect and having regard for people's comfort and privacy is key (as you'd hope they have for you).

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That’s some excellent advice you’ve given there. Hopefully someone will benefit from it

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By *arried West End CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

We’ve met a few people on here we know and had lots of fun with them

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Yes but no. I blocked them because their attitude was they knew me so they could fuck me and my attitude was I know you but there’s a reason I’ve not fucked you.

And that reason was I just didn’t fancy them.

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By *lmost TouchingMan
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat.

A girl from school. It was weird and didn’t work.

I think there is a couple that I know but can’t see enough from their profile to tell for certain and so I have them on my hotlist and waiting to see

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

Had to block someone I know on here because it would just be weird with how I know them. Nothing personal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes a client of mine after we’d been chatting and swapped face pictures she automatically thought it would lead to sex but it didn’t … lovely lady though. Reminds us what a small world it can be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one I wouldn't expect to see here yet - only couples and poly guys I know from the scene.

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