FabSwingers.com forum: Response to winks

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Does anybody respond to them. I've allways responded to the few that I've received wether its a yes please or no thanks, however I've never had a wink that I've sent replied to. Is sending winks pointless?

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

No, I dont respond to them at all, I just see them as someone saying I like your profile, if they want to introduce themselves then I would expect more than just a wink.

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By *utumnWoman
over a year ago

leeds

I specifically say "don't send winks , if you want to get to know me send a message" so if anyone does wink I just delete (after having a peek at their profile of course!!)

A lot put in "if I send a wink it shows I'm interested please wink back if you are and I'll send a message" which is a good way too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me a wink is just me saying I like your profile without sending a message, if I get a wink I send a thank you message.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Does anybody respond to them. I've allways responded to the few that I've received wether its a yes please or no thanks, however I've never had a wink that I've sent replied to. Is sending winks pointless?"
Everyone is different, but when i was playing alone i used to respond if i liked the look but i have to say 9/10 i ignored them.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I look at the profile of everyone who winks at me. Sometimes they do not interest me, if they do I either wink back or send a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I like the profile I will wink back but that's it I don't send messages.

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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago

Bedworth

I just delete em all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just delete em all"

^^^ This

But I did wink a bloke today, just for fun. I don't expect a replY (in fact, winkeee, please don't think that I fancy ya, it was just a joke! LOL)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don't bother with them. I just leave them in the wink box same as friend request. That way I don't get them sending them daily.

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over a year ago

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

There you go jangles ... Pix all fab bed wink sent xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i don't look at them its messages that count to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. I don't respond to them. As far as I am concerned, it just says "Looked at your profile, but can't be arsed to write a message so this'll do".

No, it won't. So piss off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There you go jangles ... Pix all fab bed wink sent xxx

Yay thankyou

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I dont generally. Just seen on my psge it tells me I have 34 winks to add to the list of ones I dont look at. Do other people not psy attention to them too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rarely notice i have one.last one had been there four days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's funny that people ignore them but then like to tell everyone that they ignore them.

Or go to the effort of deleting them but apparently not looking at them - why not just ignore them then?!

We sometimes miss them or forget them, but when bored it's nice to have a scan through, check out any we like, sometimes wink back, and sometimes send a message.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

I don't pay any attention to them. I just checked and I have 271. I just mass delete every so often. Same as friends requests.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend not to reply to them to be honest, I never know if they have winked me because they are interested in me as a person or because they have winked every women in their area in the hope at least one will reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say thank you to each and ever one of them. Errm or the one that I got that should read. I don't totally understand them either. I've no idea what they're meant to mean x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I say thank you to each and ever one of them. Errm or the one that I got that should read. I don't totally understand them either. I've no idea what they're meant to mean x"

ive got to be honest ive never been to sure

is it the general understanding that if someone winks you you mail them?

or does anyone else think people just wink everyone lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I say thank you to each and ever one of them. Errm or the one that I got that should read. I don't totally understand them either. I've no idea what they're meant to mean x

ive got to be honest ive never been to sure

is it the general understanding that if someone winks you you mail them?

or does anyone else think people just wink everyone lol

So it's just a lazy way of saying " oi message me" ? I ain't know ones winking bitch. No more replies from me. lazy bastards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I say thank you to each and ever one of them. Errm or the one that I got that should read. I don't totally understand them either. I've no idea what they're meant to mean x

ive got to be honest ive never been to sure

is it the general understanding that if someone winks you you mail them?

or does anyone else think people just wink everyone lol

I don't know - some winkers are good, others are just winkers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't pay attention to them, I deleted all of mine on Saturday and have 496 since...way too much effort and time consuming to go through them...a message is by far the best approach.

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

"I think it's funny that people ignore them but then like to tell everyone that they ignore them.

Or go to the effort of deleting them but apparently not looking at them - why not just ignore them then?!

We sometimes miss them or forget them, but when bored it's nice to have a scan through, check out any we like, sometimes wink back, and sometimes send a message."

I hadnt noticed how many I had and when I saw how many recent ones I decided to post about it. Interested in if others like me dont really pay attention to them like me. I am a bit the same for friend invites.

I just like to do some general removing of winks friend invites and sent mail every so often. I know others do similar.

I often wont bother to look who winked at me but just do a mass delete.

We all use the site in different ways. Am sure some pay lots of attention to them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I say thank you to each and ever one of them. Errm or the one that I got that should read. I don't totally understand them either. I've no idea what they're meant to mean x

ive got to be honest ive never been to sure

is it the general understanding that if someone winks you you mail them?

or does anyone else think people just wink everyone lol

So it's just a lazy way of saying " oi message me" ? I ain't know ones winking bitch. No more replies from me. lazy bastards

I think that about sums it up lol

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I don't pay attention to them, I deleted all of mine on Saturday and have 496 since...way too much effort and time consuming to go through them...a message is by far the best approach."

Julie I agree. I mailed someone recently and noticed when viewing their profile or sonething like that it said they winked at me 2 months ago.....I hadnt noticed lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't pay attention to them, I deleted all of mine on Saturday and have 496 since...way too much effort and time consuming to go through them...a message is by far the best approach.

Julie I agree. I mailed someone recently and noticed when viewing their profile or sonething like that it said they winked at me 2 months ago.....I hadnt noticed lol"

Often the case lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will have a nosey and if I like the profile will wink back...don't completely ignore them but only respond to those I like the look of!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you count them? I just had a look at ours and I doubt it's that much but it's more than I'd be bothered to count.

I confess to ignoring a couple too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you count them? I just had a look at ours and I doubt it's that much but it's more than I'd be bothered to count.

I confess to ignoring a couple too

My account...next to messages the winks icon and says how many lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Omg!! Just looked at ours and we have 4..going back quite a few months..just not fair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why tho do people bother to wink and then do nothing to follow it up if you wink back, especially if their profile states that the wink is a way of gauging mutual interest?!!

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

I dont respond. if they want a response they can message me

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

It seems blokes are the biggest winkers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose for women/couples it's like the messages. If you get loads per day you tend to delete/ignore/cherry pick.

I tend to get one or two a day so can take time to perve the profile, and if I like the look wink back. It's up to them to then message me. If I wink first I message first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you count them? I just had a look at ours and I doubt it's that much but it's more than I'd be bothered to count.

I confess to ignoring a couple too

My account...next to messages the winks icon and says how many lol "

Ah got it - the bit that says..

You have no unread messages

You have no new winks

You have no friend requests

You have no hope whatsoever

Ignorance was better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It seems blokes are the biggest winkers"

No they're just more willing to admit to their winking

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"It seems blokes are the biggest winkers

No they're just more willing to admit to their winking"

I used to wink when I first joined. Can't remember the last one I sent though.

I tend to get winks but not messages from men and messages but not winks from women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We tend to reply more to people who have taken time to fab one of our pics. Means they've actually had a look at our profile. Too easy for lazy folk to click "wink" or "send friend request". Ideally a well written message but secondly a fab of a picture is what encourages us to check that person out.

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