FabSwingers.com forum: The one that got away!!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Does anyone have an instance where you met someone on here years ago who was just the most amazing person.

Over time you lost contact (probably because you were a bit of a dick), now they are no where to be found on here.

Give me some reassurance that I'm not the only sad bastard on here.

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By *atch1982Man
over a year ago

Abingdon

Yes, although it was actually someone I recognised personally - we got over the fact that we were both on here and had a lot of fun ….. and then she was gone! Doesnt feel right to contact her any other way as she needed discretion.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Not on here. But yes

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Oh wow that's really hard.

So they were local to you.

See mine is like 90 miles away, remember their fab name and their first name, but we never exchanged surnames.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they’re hidden. Or blocked you.

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

Welcome to the forums

If you click on 'reply and quote' we know who you are responding to.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"Does anyone have an instance where you met someone on here years ago who was just the most amazing person.

Over time you lost contact (probably because you were a bit of a dick), now they are no where to be found on here.

Give me some reassurance that I'm not the only sad bastard on here. "

Nope, in my case I was a bit of an idiot but also he met someone on here and now they've shacked up together ... they had a couples profile for a while but have now vanished altogether... oh well...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. The sex was *chef’s kiss*

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe they’re hidden. Or blocked you. "

Yeahh I had thought that, would be a shame.

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT

Thought this was going to be a Hardy Kruger thread.

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
over a year ago

The last house on the left…

"Does anyone have an instance where you met someone on here years ago who was just the most amazing person.

Over time you lost contact (probably because you were a bit of a dick), now they are no where to be found on here.

Give me some reassurance that I'm not the only sad bastard on here. "

Yes.

On Fab of all places I finally found her. Knew she was special, because I hadn’t felt that way in over a decade.

Beautiful

Made me laugh

Finally, the one I’d be willing to get down on a knee for but...

The feelings were unrequited

And she already has a partner

AND she lives 300miles away

AAAAAND her parents wouldn’t have accepted me

I have the best luck in the world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone have an instance where you met someone on here years ago who was just the most amazing person.

Over time you lost contact (probably because you were a bit of a dick), now they are no where to be found on here.

Give me some reassurance that I'm not the only sad bastard on here. "

Just a heads up buddy

If you were a dick, she isn’t “the one that got away” in that sense

She’s the one that escaped

Don’t be a dick then expect sympathy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, mine tend to be 'boomerangs' mostly. Not sure if that's good or bad though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Does anyone have an instance where you met someone on here years ago who was just the most amazing person.

Over time you lost contact (probably because you were a bit of a dick), now they are no where to be found on here.

Give me some reassurance that I'm not the only sad bastard on here.

Just a heads up buddy

If you were a dick, she isn’t “the one that got away” in that sense

She’s the one that escaped

Don’t be a dick then expect sympathy "

Everyone has the ability to be a dick dude, give certain circumstances. Your reply being perfect proof of that.

But everyone has their opinion. And everyone likes to be the hero.

Good to hear that there is one person on this planet who has never done one dickish thing. Good on you. When do you become a saint?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone have an instance where you met someone on here years ago who was just the most amazing person.

Over time you lost contact (probably because you were a bit of a dick), now they are no where to be found on here.

Give me some reassurance that I'm not the only sad bastard on here.

Just a heads up buddy

If you were a dick, she isn’t “the one that got away” in that sense

She’s the one that escaped

Don’t be a dick then expect sympathy

Everyone has the ability to be a dick dude, give certain circumstances. Your reply being perfect proof of that.

But everyone has their opinion. And everyone likes to be the hero.

Good to hear that there is one person on this planet who has never done one dickish thing. Good on you. When do you become a saint? "

Sorry if the dose of reality hit a little hard than the plate of sympathy you wanted

She escaped. Lesson learned. Don’t be a dick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely yes there have been a couple of people who I wish I were still in contact with… but these things happen

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"Does anyone have an instance where you met someone on here years ago who was just the most amazing person.

Over time you lost contact (probably because you were a bit of a dick), now they are no where to be found on here.

Give me some reassurance that I'm not the only sad bastard on here.

Just a heads up buddy

If you were a dick, she isn’t “the one that got away” in that sense

She’s the one that escaped

Don’t be a dick then expect sympathy "

People do make mistakes we are human after all

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Does anyone have an instance where you met someone on here years ago who was just the most amazing person.

Over time you lost contact (probably because you were a bit of a dick), now they are no where to be found on here.

Give me some reassurance that I'm not the only sad bastard on here.

Just a heads up buddy

If you were a dick, she isn’t “the one that got away” in that sense

She’s the one that escaped

Don’t be a dick then expect sympathy

Everyone has the ability to be a dick dude, give certain circumstances. Your reply being perfect proof of that.

But everyone has their opinion. And everyone likes to be the hero.

Good to hear that there is one person on this planet who has never done one dickish thing. Good on you. When do you become a saint?

Sorry if the dose of reality hit a little hard than the plate of sympathy you wanted

She escaped. Lesson learned. Don’t be a dick "

Thank you. Your a very helpful human.

I appreciate you being my Monday morning teacher.

I expect your wisdom will help many many people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Does anyone have an instance where you met someone on here years ago who was just the most amazing person.

Over time you lost contact (probably because you were a bit of a dick), now they are no where to be found on here.

Give me some reassurance that I'm not the only sad bastard on here.

Just a heads up buddy

If you were a dick, she isn’t “the one that got away” in that sense

She’s the one that escaped

Don’t be a dick then expect sympathy

People do make mistakes we are human after all "

Absolutely right,

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By *riveinsaturdayXXXMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Yup - absolutely dynamite young woman from another site. 8-months of regular fun but then she met someone for something more serious. Quite right too - not as if that was what I was offering.

However, I know someone like that is unlikely to happen again - not only was I punching above my weight I bb the looks department, but the sex was amazing, & I don’t tend to interest women on Fab, haha. Not a complaint - I’ve seen some of the exceptional guys they meet, so fair play.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

If you were a dick, she probably made a run for it. And might well still be on here with different details so you can't go looking... It's really annoying when men come sniffing round after months/years of no contact, because they think you were "the one".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not on here but yes

First girl I went out with after I got divorced

She was perfect but my head was not in the right place for a long term relationship

Wish I had met her a bit later after the divorce

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you were a dick, she probably made a run for it. And might well still be on here with different details so you can't go looking... It's really annoying when men come sniffing round after months/years of no contact, because they think you were "the one"."

I completely agree, I imagine that would be a horrible situation to be out in. I don't intend to do that.

I'm sure they are on here.

It's one of those situations where you learn a lot about them and from the things I know I'd just love to know they are okay.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not on here but yes

First girl I went out with after I got divorced

She was perfect but my head was not in the right place for a long term relationship

Wish I had met her a bit later after the divorce

That was very very similar to my situation.

That is what I meant by being a dick.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I completely agree, I imagine that would be a horrible situation to be out in. I don't intend to do that.

I'm sure they are on here.

It's one of those situations where you learn a lot about them and from the things I know I'd just love to know they are okay. "

So I said the same thing as the guy above, yet you answered me perfectly nicely and him you were confrontational. Who's the dick?

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By *cholarmanMan
over a year ago

Reading

I met someone great via another site last year, but she had a family crisis and we stopped seeing each other. We used to chat on Telegram which she has since deleted so I guess she has moved on - fair enough, but I think about her a lot and (sad sod that I am) hope that she may get back in touch. Adam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was not unkind or being a dick.

Just wasn’t ready for a long term relationship

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Does anyone have an instance where you met someone on here years ago who was just the most amazing person.

Over time you lost contact (probably because you were a bit of a dick), now they are no where to be found on here.

Give me some reassurance that I'm not the only sad bastard on here. "
sorry you are, all the ones i like are chained up in my dungeon

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Nope. I never let them get away!! Mwhahahahahahahah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Summer after high school, when we first met

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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In another lifeeeeeeeeee

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"…

In another lifeeeeeeeeee"

I would be your girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

here not yet.

rl there has been

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By *onameyet2Man
over a year ago

chorley

"Summer after high school, when we first met"

Sounds like the intro to Grease

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

Yes. There’s been some. Mostly because they were dicks. But that’s just life

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By *hrek101Man
over a year ago

Herts

"Not on here but yes

First girl I went out with after I got divorced

She was perfect but my head was not in the right place for a long term relationship

Wish I had met her a bit later after the divorce

Same

... hindsight a wonderful but sometimes painful thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think as you get older you tend to reflect back on your life choices

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe

"Does anyone have an instance where you met someone on here years ago who was just the most amazing person.

Over time you lost contact (probably because you were a bit of a dick), now they are no where to be found on here.

Give me some reassurance that I'm not the only sad bastard on here. "

Happens to the best of us mate. You meet someone hot and fun, have some mind blowing times, then one or both of you cocks it up somehow, and now it's just a memory in the wank bank. I shed a tear just typing that, and used it for wank lube

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope. I never let them get away!! Mwhahahahahahahah"

Haha. You feed them right? Right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"…

In another lifeeeeeeeeee

I would be your girl "

You know the words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Summer after high school, when we first met

Sounds like the intro to Grease

We’d make out in your mustang to Radiohead

And for my eighteenth birthday, we got matching tattoos

-That’s less like grease

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