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By *heitaliandreamer OP   Man
over a year ago

Northampton

Hi folks...women complaint they cant keep up with incoming messages. My friend showed me 230 unread messages in her inbox.I wish i had the same issue. I could hear the echo in my inbox this morning

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By *alleyDaveMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

I have an unused inbox free to a good home. Never been used .Free delivery .

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By *heitaliandreamer OP   Man
over a year ago

Northampton


"I have an unused inbox free to a good home. Never been used .Free delivery ."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only ever had that many messages when I first joined here.

Nowadays I maybe get about half a dozen a week.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most women only get that number when they first join, or after when they are so active on here you can't go 24 hrs without seeing another one of their tit pic updates to stay relevant to get an inbox refresh. Don't stress it's all good.

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By *ebaucherous_duoCouple
over a year ago

Bristol/ Daventry

Things that get inboxes: posting new photos and videos, unfiltered messaging, statuses and meets. For those that are looking for messages can get them, but like the poster above, we tend to prefer quality and fit over quantity.

I suspect for single guys, uploading tasteful photos (not dick pics, unless you would like an inbox full of men), and funny/interesting statuses (what ever appeals to your target market), might be a way to go.

But many I know don’t go hunting for single men. We put a meet up, and then sift through the inbox. It’s a more efficient use of time. Whenever I have approached single males we rarely get a response and wait for days.

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did a mass delete. 190 messages. The vast majority of which were pretty much free now, will you suck me off etc. it’s not flattering. Don’t about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking at my sea of yellow is all that keeps me going some days - don't take that away from me. You wouldn't be so cruel as to deny me the chance to receive more scintillating missives as "hi. Dave here. Fun?"*. Don't be envious of women like me who are so very popular. We carry a huge burden of close up angry dick pics.

*an example for illustrative purposes

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

[Removed by poster at 08/01/24 08:37:16]

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

And of those 230 message about 1 or 2 MIGHT be of interest.

So don’t be envious of woman and their apparent ‘choice’ from endless messages - they don’t have it any easier.

You’d be moaning about having to sift through your inbox full of dick pics, one liners, FAF, you free now messsges to find that one message that might be interesting and you’ll establish further down the line that they are married

K

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

Had that many messaged a few yrs ago but no a days, it's more like 20 a day.

Quality over quantity please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get about 1 a month and its always bullshit promises of a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most women only get that number when they first join, or after when they are so active on here you can't go 24 hrs without seeing another one of their tit pic updates to stay relevant to get an inbox refresh. Don't stress it's all good.

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I second that. If you post a picture as a lady you tend to get an influx or when you first join.... That was my experience. Also if your active on the forums too.

What I would say is this, you may get quantity as a woman but most messages are 'hi how are you' or 'would you like to meet and suck my cock' or even a straight 'hello' and that's it. They don't encourage you to answer them back, or if you say 'no thanks', depending on the initial message the answer seems very presumptuous.

I think someone who actually read my profile and was interested in me as a person rather than the three holes, or the arse or whatever would make for a much better message. So I wouldn't be bothered with numbers or lack of, it's the quality messages personally that I would be wanting.

Anyway, I hope you get something on your inbox soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friend ^

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By *hrimper36Couple
over a year ago

Central France dept 36

Let me know when you’re ready op and I will send you the standard man type message of “Hi” or Awesome or great tits or in your case cock I guess.

Your friend had 230 messages and I’d bet my right bollock that 229 were shit messages by the usual I want to dump my load brigade.

Good fishing thread op and I wish you luck.

T

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I only ever had that many messages when I first joined here.

Nowadays I maybe get about half a dozen a week."

I'd send more, but I don't like to be a pest.

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By *nox.Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Most women only get that number when they first join, or after when they are so active on here you can't go 24 hrs without seeing another one of their tit pic updates to stay relevant to get an inbox refresh. Don't stress it's all good.

"

Have to agree my inbox has never been this full and I've been posting daily with boredom recently. Not missing much tho pretty sure 99% of people who message me would fuck a well lubed armpit if it said yes

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT

My inbox is absolutely stacked, reminds me, I must reply to those messages I keep sending myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i prefer mine empty

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I use quite a few filters to keep messages lower, anyone can use them.

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By *BWLOVER1965Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

lol

Mine always empty anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This may sound like a humble-brag but it’s not. I have 90 today, and it’s not all it’s cracked out to be. It takes a while to read them all and check everyone’s profiles…

I often forget to reply or find it hard to keep track with who’s who. I’m sure it annoys a lot of those who message me, because sometimes I can take days to respond or (most often) I totally forget.

I’m sure it gives a wrong impression to others and people probably think I’m rude or a player. But juggling “real life”, other social media, and this, is a bit much at times and sometimes it’s easier to just focus on one or two people who message and have the rest as “I’ll reply later”… but then I forget.

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