FabSwingers.com forum: Does love makes us do crazy things?

By *hagTonight OP Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

I was watching a woman talking about it in a program about love and relationship and she mentioned how love makes us do crazy things

things.

She added the reason was because love makes us feel and do things we usually wouldnt do under any other cirumstances, because love affects the brain in a way similar to any other addiction and not only that, it also affects us psychologically and behaviorally as well.

That makes me wonder, what kind of things would we do and ro you agree with that? One fun example was going to get a pedicure with your girlfriend

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I do things because I want to do them. Do I sometimes want to do them for the sake of seeing someone else light up? Sure. But I do that for my friends as well as the people I love

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By *hrimper36Couple
over a year ago

Central France dept 36

Have you done crazy things for love or because of live op I know I have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

True love makes you do sensible things. When you really love someone you’ll do what’s good for them. Entirely selfless.

The only love that makes you do silly things is the possessive type. The obsessive. The compulsive.

If we all stopped looking for love in others and chose to truly love ourselves first, we’d do what’s right first.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I don't think love makes us do crazy things.

Limerence perhaps. Even those early stages of infatuation when you find yourself falling for someone. Sure.

But love? Real love? Love makes us takes risks. Do things we wouldn't normally dream of doing, it makes us brave and give us a reason to fight for something. Someone.

Love makes us vulnerable, open up even though it might hurt. Believe in people again. Ourselves for being deservering of it. It makes us think of another, not always put ourselves first. Hope.

I wouldn't say that's crazy. I'd say love makes us brave. Stronger. More who we really are.

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By *hatKlungeEnigmaMan
over a year ago

St Leonards

Can I just venture that crazy is our default setting, and love comes along to corroborate and accentuate?

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT

I don’t think love makes people do crazy things.

I think the need to fulfill a lust does

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

...since when is a pedicure crazy?

Fuckin' spoil yourselves, lads.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

When I was young and didn't really understand what love was I probably did some crazy things thinking it was for love. Nowadays I don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isnt love great? It can make me want to lick her where she pee’s from.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...since when is a pedicure crazy?

Fuckin' spoil yourselves, lads.

I was wondering the same

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By *hagTonight OP Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

No. Love doesn't. Lust does. Obsession does. Desire does. Jealously does...... but Love ..... NO.

True love is unassuming.

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By *hagTonight OP Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

"I do things because I want to do them. Do I sometimes want to do them for the sake of seeing someone else light up? Sure. But I do that for my friends as well as the people I love

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Yes, that is good that you do things because you want to do them too

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Makes you do the right things

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By *hagTonight OP Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

"Have you done crazy things for love or because of live op I know I have.

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No. I havent done any crazy things for love, that is good that you have done it too

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Yep it does but it's a choice you make and doesn't matter who else thinks it's crazy

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

It makes us put up with shorter really shouldn’t

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We went to Blackpool and rode the big one.

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

I was supposed to say it makes us put up with shit we really shouldn’t

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By *hatKlungeEnigmaMan
over a year ago

St Leonards

"I was supposed to say it makes us put up with shit we really shouldn’t "

Maybe you did, but the first attempt made me smile a whole lot more

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

"I was supposed to say it makes us put up with shit we really shouldn’t

Maybe you did, but the first attempt made me smile a whole lot more

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By *esafinadOHolyNightMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Absolutely. I stayed with a complete drain on my life force for over a year because I thought I was in love. She was a pure nightmare, but my heart wouldn't let me see the truth.

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By *BWLOVER1965Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

"I was watching a woman talking about it in a program about love and relationship and she mentioned how love makes us do crazy things

things.

That makes me wonder, what kind of things would we do and ro you agree with that? One fun example was going to get a pedicure with your girlfriend

No chance

Draw the line at pedicures

Next it will be sack back and crack

No way Jose

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Not love. But lust, has done that to me, becoming lust blinkered is scary and you have no idea you are in it, I'm lucky to have friends who pulled me out of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no such thing as love.

People use it as an excuse to get other people I.e partner to do something that they would not normally do. It is used to guilt trip people.

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By *tarboy8696Man
over a year ago

kirkintilloch

I'm by no means an authority on the subject. I can see why people say the last or obsession side of it, and the doing things because you think you should argument aswell.

But I do think love can make you do crazy things. Bacuse if it dident what's the point. Just existing with somone that makes you meals? I think it's the safety and security that comes with knowing somone and being at peace,and being able to say anything and not have to worry about it.

Well that's my 2 cents lol

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By *hagTonight OP Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

"When I was young and didn't really understand what love was I probably did some crazy things thinking it was for love. Nowadays I don't. "
Yes, love could mean different things when one is younger and another thing when one is older too

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By *xfordjohnMan
over a year ago

Oxford

"Yep it does but it's a choice you make and doesn't matter who else thinks it's crazy "

I agree so much, and I would still do those crazy things if I was in love now.

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

Any parent who has crawled around on all fours and barked like a dog, will know love makes you do silly things

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

I would do anything for love.

(taps fingers)

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I stayed in an abusive relationship to long because I thought I was in love.

But you here of incredible revenge tactics people have done. Completely crazy things. These arnt an act of love but from an obsession and very scary.

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By *hagTonight OP Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

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By *hagTonight OP Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

"Not love. But lust, has done that to me, becoming lust blinkered is scary and you have no idea you are in it, I'm lucky to have friends who pulled me out of it

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Hi beatrice and yes, it can be lust too and it is good that your friends pulled you out of it too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think lust can be far more destructive.

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

Losing it can make you even crazier but yes love can too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was watching a woman talking about it in a program about love and relationship and she mentioned how love makes us do crazy things

things.

That makes me wonder, what kind of things would we do and ro you agree with that? One fun example was going to get a pedicure with your girlfriend

Erogenous you mean Shag.

What you on

Oh it is

getting near valentines

Testosterone not Toblerone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the name of love bit never because of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bye him a creme egg Shag x

They in shops now

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By *hagTonight OP Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

"I was watching a woman talking about it in a program about love and relationship and she mentioned how love makes us do crazy things

things.

That makes me wonder, what kind of things would we do and ro you agree with that? One fun example was going to get a pedicure with your girlfriend

Erogenous you mean Shag.

What you on

Oh it is

getting near valentines

Testosterone not Toblerone "
Hi becs yes. I did mean erogenous too, yes it is getting near valentines, that was fun with the testosterone and not the toblerone too

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

Mr Ball said love, love changes everything. In what way though is a totally different ball game.

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By *ildo_swagginsthe3rdWoman
over a year ago

Wales

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By *ildo_swagginsthe3rdWoman
over a year ago

Wales

"...since when is a pedicure crazy?

Fuckin' spoil yourselves, lads.

I was wondering the same

There's a podiatrist in Wales that uses a foot file the size of a tennis bat. She dances around with it to the sound of whale music.

Crazy.

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By *hagTonight OP Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

"I stayed in an abusive relationship to long because I thought I was in love.

But you here of incredible revenge tactics people have done. Completely crazy things. These arnt an act of love but from an obsession and very scary.

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Hi diamondsmiles, it is good that you got out of it too and you are right there, that isnt love, but yes more of an obsession too.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"I do things because I want to do them. Do I sometimes want to do them for the sake of seeing someone else light up? Sure. But I do that for my friends as well as the people I love

Well, we all think that!

. The illusion of freedom is strong.

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