FabSwingers.com forum: Interesting Problem getting to a social

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Twwo5profikes are advertising a social meet in Durham:

Invited are M MF MM FF TV.

one problem. When I try contacting them. They've blocked single men.

How does this work?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sorry, should read two profiles

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

It means they don’t want to be overwhelmed by single men so will contact any they like the look of. Women and trans can be trusted not to overwhelm them!

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By *rMonkeyMan
over a year ago

Somewhere

They don't want single men would be my guess.

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

They are contacting the single men they are interested in.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Twwo5profikes are advertising a social meet in Durham:

Invited are M MF MM FF TV.

one problem. When I try contacting them. They've blocked single men.

How does this work? "

Because it's normally the case when they have are doing their own search

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not uncommon these days for socials to be open to all, except single men, the people organising pick the ones they want to turn up

It’s just to limit the amount of single guys so everyone gets a fair shot I think

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Not uncommon these days for socials to be open to all, except single men, the people organising pick the ones they want to turn up

It’s just to limit the amount of single guys so everyone gets a fair shot I think "

Plus anyone who may view their profile they can check and decide

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not uncommon these days for socials to be open to all, except single men, the people organising pick the ones they want to turn up

It’s just to limit the amount of single guys so everyone gets a fair shot I think

Plus anyone who may view their profile they can check and decide "

Exactly

I get it’s probably a little disheartening when the forum tells guys to go to a social then the socials are invite only

But at the same time, I don’t think it’s gonna do anyone too much good if there’s 50

Single guys to every women/couple

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"Sorry, should read two profiles"

Is the social advertised in the meets section of the forum? They usually are for people to add their names.

Mrs

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Perhaps it was first come first served and you weren't in the first 20 to message them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Perhaps it was first come first served and you weren't in the first 20 to message them

Probably.... never mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you posted in the Durham social forum thread? They may respond to you that way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have you posted in the Durham social forum thread? They may respond to you that way. "

Hi, yes thanks for the suggestion..

Doubtful I'll get there as it's extremely exclusive.

Never mind,.. I'll try somewhere else as the get posted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Twwo5profikes are advertising a social meet in Durham:

Invited are M MF MM FF TV.

one problem. When I try contacting them. They've blocked single men.

How does this work? "
they’ll contact you init

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i wouldnt attend a social i was invited to

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"i wouldnt attend a social i was invited to"

I think you have to put your name down first.

Is it not your thing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they’ve been over run with single men, maybe they’ve had a lot of interested messages from people they think won’t even turn up (hello again single men).

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe they’ve been over run with single men, maybe they’ve had a lot of interested messages from people they think won’t even turn up (hello again single men). "

Strict rules. Must be verid by people they know.

Limited singles. Full up but I wouldn't qualify anyway. Not sure how common these events are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe they’ve been over run with single men, maybe they’ve had a lot of interested messages from people they think won’t even turn up (hello again single men).

Strict rules. Must be verid by people they know.

Limited singles. Full up but I wouldn't qualify anyway. Not sure how common these events are "

Tbf there is no reason why you couldn’t or shouldn’t just arrange a social gathering yourself. I used to joint run one back in the day (feeling old now lol).

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe they’ve been over run with single men, maybe they’ve had a lot of interested messages from people they think won’t even turn up (hello again single men).

Strict rules. Must be verid by people they know.

Limited singles. Full up but I wouldn't qualify anyway. Not sure how common these events are

Tbf there is no reason why you couldn’t or shouldn’t just arrange a social gathering yourself. I used to joint run one back in the day (feeling old now lol). "

Looks difficult.. could try sn informal meet in a well known town centre bar I suppose.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe they’ve been over run with single men, maybe they’ve had a lot of interested messages from people they think won’t even turn up (hello again single men).

Strict rules. Must be verid by people they know.

Limited singles. Full up but I wouldn't qualify anyway. Not sure how common these events are

Tbf there is no reason why you couldn’t or shouldn’t just arrange a social gathering yourself. I used to joint run one back in the day (feeling old now lol). "

Nonsense! Your not old at 50! You look great too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe they’ve been over run with single men, maybe they’ve had a lot of interested messages from people they think won’t even turn up (hello again single men).

Strict rules. Must be verid by people they know.

Limited singles. Full up but I wouldn't qualify anyway. Not sure how common these events are

Tbf there is no reason why you couldn’t or shouldn’t just arrange a social gathering yourself. I used to joint run one back in the day (feeling old now lol).

Looks difficult.. could try sn informal meet in a well known town centre bar I suppose."

The key is consistency, they take a while to build up and get going. People tend to take more interest when see something regular rather than a one off.

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