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By *ruceyy OP   Man
over a year ago

London

In each decade of your adult life starting from 18 to 20s, 30s etc...has the age of the people you've slept with in correlation to you changed? Did you used to be attracted to older but then moved to younger?

I've always been older or the same but recently since 30 it's headed towards younger...and I do miss older!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve always slept with people older than me or the same age and expect that won’t change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In each decade of your adult life starting from 18 to 20s, 30s etc...has the age of the people you've slept with in correlation to you changed? Did you used to be attracted to older but then moved to younger?

I've always been older or the same but recently since 30 it's headed towards younger...and I do miss older!"

I was always older until recently. Now the craving for younger is strong lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The innocent looking ones are very rarely innocent I’m pleased to report back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normally around my age. But there are anomalies. And pleasant ones at that.

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By *zeroMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

In the last few years its been older and the same age but honestly it doesn't bother me either way. Unless the younger one is a lot younger than me and really fresh faced I think it would feel weird.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually older. Young men don’t have that effortless charisma that comes with age and life experience. They just don’t lounge gracefully.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really have a preference

When In my late teens early 20's I was with a couple of women in their late 30s. Since then it all depends on the person and attraction.

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By *reg45Man
over a year ago

durham

I’ve always been attracted to older ladies and men

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Always the trend has been slightly older than me. A few anomalies either way along the line. But I tend towards around 5-10 years older than myself

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By *raggyjackMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Younger than me.... that's easier to find than ever before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slept with any ages, always dated younger

For fun I find under 30 or over 40 best. Dunno why but 30s seems to be an odd age for me

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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With women - age has never been a factor.

Men? Well I was exclusively attracted to men at least ten years older than me. In the latter half of last year I found myself finding men around my age/less than ten years, increasingly attractive. So yes, it's changed slightly. No idea why but I'm rather enjoying it.

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By *ruceyy OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"With women - age has never been a factor.

Men? Well I was exclusively attracted to men at least ten years older than me. In the latter half of last year I found myself finding men around my age/less than ten years, increasingly attractive. So yes, it's changed slightly. No idea why but I'm rather enjoying it."

Its lookin good for Brucey!

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By *hatKlungeEnigmaMan
over a year ago

St Leonards

Well here's the thing. It's a mindset I'm attracted to.

And it's inquisitive, independent, adventurous, and settled.

Difficult mix to find in full, and some aren't there when young, and some get lost a bit during the ageing process.

So that was generally women 25-35 when I was younger, and is generally 25-45 now (coz generations have changed a little, psychologically). Very occasionally there was/is someone younger than that, slightly more often there is someone older than that.

If they have the mindset, 18-125 is on the cards.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

It's always been a pretty even spread. I'm an equal opportunities fucker

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cliche I know but definitely older, that’s because of the most erotic 9 years of my life with someone who was 15 years older.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I've generally gone for around my age range, maybe a bit older.

It's not really changed.

Mrs

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By *arlot o scaraWoman
over a year ago

Hell

It’s always been older, almost without exception.

I blame the daddy issues

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By *ruceyy OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"It’s always been older, almost without exception.

I blame the daddy issues"

Ah it's hot though even though it counts me out!

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By *ruceyy OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"It's always been a pretty even spread. I'm an equal opportunities fucker

LvM"

So ethical!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Teenage years was always guys around the same age... now im older i always go for guys younger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Older than me, definitely. Even from a younger age and it still hasn't changed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your legs are amazing by the way x

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Bliss

Same age till I hit 40. Then I've opened up my age range to younger and older but within a age range

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By *educing_EmCouple
over a year ago

Tipperary

Always been same age or a little bit older.

In later years I'm finding I'm being drawn in by men 10+ years older too.

Em x

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By *ruceyy OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Always been same age or a little bit older.

In later years I'm finding I'm being drawn in by men 10+ years older too.

Em x"

Daddy vibes!

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By *educing_EmCouple
over a year ago

Tipperary


"Always been same age or a little bit older.

In later years I'm finding I'm being drawn in by men 10+ years older too.

Em x

Daddy vibes!"

No Brucey! Just sexy, mature vibes.

I don't want to have sex with anyone my Dad's age

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Older. I like dirty old(er) men.

I have been knobbed by a few men younger than me though.

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By *ruceyy OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Always been same age or a little bit older.

In later years I'm finding I'm being drawn in by men 10+ years older too.

Em x

Daddy vibes!

No Brucey! Just sexy, mature vibes.

I don't want to have sex with anyone my Dad's age "

Sexy mature, sounds like me

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By *ruceyy OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Older. I like dirty old(er) men.

I have been knobbed by a few men younger than me though.

"

Oldest Luna?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

older.

always older.

Px

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales


"Older. I like dirty old(er) men.

I have been knobbed by a few men younger than me though.

Oldest Luna?! "

60 plus year old when I was in my 30’s

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By *ruceyy OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"older.

always older.

Px "

*Checks age*

Phewww

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By *ruceyy OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Older. I like dirty old(er) men.

I have been knobbed by a few men younger than me though.

Oldest Luna?!

60 plus year old when I was in my 30’s

"

Now that - is hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Older. I like dirty old(er) men.

I have been knobbed by a few men younger than me though.

"

I love the way you describe ‘doing it!!! ‘

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just me who likes the younger then

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

Always been women in their late 30's/40's for me regardless of my age.

I guess I'm attracted to women who have lived a little. Stories are far more interesting.

Saying that as I get older the age range has widened on the odd occasion.

Marc

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Older in my teens to 30s , younger in 40s/50s. No surprise really when you’re a kid you like the allure of older sexually experienced women, when you get older you like the energy and attitudes of younger women

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By *outhern man.Man
over a year ago

Weymouth

Who ever wants me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ours has always been in the 25-40 range, but definitely more 30s, we joined when we was 22/23, we're 26/27 now.

We prefer people similar age or older, don't tend to go younger, conversation is like getting blood out of a stone

We've always been told we seem older than we are.

Miss S x

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

Age has never been a factor for me in physical attraction. But, on reflection, I have seen way more women that have been older than me. Usually 5-10 years.

I’be always harboured fantasies with younger women but the reality is I find them mostly immature and we don’t click.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

I lost my virginity at 25 with my then to be husband, he was 20.

Needless to say, I was never attracted to men my age or older, and I don’t see that changing anytime soon.

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Getting younger

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By *lovetoowatchMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Oh it changes. When i was younger i preferred slightly older women. Then it almost even its self out. My last partner was 10 years younger. Now I really dont have strong preferences if im attracted to someone age don't matter. But got few fantasies with younger women but its not time nor the place for it

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

Same as you OP. Always went older. My last relation had a 12 year age gap. I’ve recently met a few younger guys and well, I’m pleasantly surprised

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8


"Getting younger "

I wish you were!!

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"Getting younger

I wish you were!! "

Ouch

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I have always liked slightly older women but as I have gotten older I have learnt that women enter their sexual prime in their 40s and 50s. 40+ works well for me now!

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales


"I have always liked slightly older women but as I have gotten older I have learnt that women enter their sexual prime in their 40s and 50s. 40+ works well for me now!"

You’ve just made my day! Naughty 40 here I come!!!!!

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8


"Getting younger

I wish you were!!

Ouch "

Just teasing sexy x

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By *ogk9Man
over a year ago

worksop

My last gf was 18

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By *histle do nicelyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow South

Teens twenties and thirties I liked older. The youngest now would be 30s probably

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age never really comes into for me I've been with older and 15 yrs younger if we get on we get on

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

Lately, younger

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