FabSwingers.com forum: What do you do nowhere to go

By *aughtyhub80 OP Man
over a year ago

Wallasey

Walk out of my home away from marriage but nowhere to go

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By *ocialWatchingMan
over a year ago

Alnwick / Newcastle

I suggest a hotel

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Hey i did it it gets easier with time.

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden

I found a flat to rent.

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

Can you find somewhere first, a small flat to rent maybe?

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

Get a hotel or go to a friends/family member who won’t grill you on all the details so you can rest, get a goodnight sleep and work out a plan tomorrow. Best of luck

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden

"Can you find somewhere first, a small flat to rent maybe?"

Or maybe an Airbnb for a short let until you find something more permanent

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

Winterlets are really cheap, as certain holiday places offer cheaper out of season rates.

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

Golf

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

Hotel or friends/family for a few nights while you figure out next steps. Beating luck with it all OP

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By *melia DominaTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)

Its hard to break free from a negative relationship.

But for your own sanity its a must. Dont be rash. Be very sure and formulate a plan first.

Squirrel some savings away for a deposit for a cheap flat. Play the long haul game, 6 months, even a year..

Get a good lawyer.

When your prepared, make it swift and sharp, without hesitation.

Have everything moved within a couple of hours. Serve the papers, Break the ties, break the bonds, block the phones, emails, straight after.

Been there, bought the t shirt, hat and pen on this one.

3 years of courts and thousands of pounds pocketed by lawyers, just so I could get access to my children, an ex scorned because I left her and found the arms of another, tried everything to stop me being apart of their lives...

Be careful and smart. Good luck.

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

"Walk out of my home away from marriage but nowhere to go "

Look up EMMAUS the charity has a branch in Sefton, so only over the water. They'll sort out a bed and work on their site if space allows.

They are a french based charity, that helped me out in 1993, so I am qualified to say go-for-it.

0151 928 1588

42-44 Sandy Road, Seaforth, Sefton, L21 3TW

Hope the mods don't block me for posting charity details.

Good luck/bon chance!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

A friend if you can. A hotel if you can't manage a friend at short notice.

If you're not leaving right this second, plan, as others have said.

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

any update OP?

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Walk out of my home away from marriage but nowhere to go "

Hopefully you can work out where to go with your partner - deciding together to split up isn’t walking out

Friends or family is probably best initially.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s tough pal.

It took me nearly a year to find my own place. And that was after 6 months of trying to live under the same roof after a marriage ended,… which was after 4years of trying to ‘make it work’

My advice, when you KNOW it’s over and irreversible, do everything you can to get in a space where you can rebuild yourself. It’s easier than being around the things that are keeping you down. *just my opinion.

Good luck op, I hope you found (or find) somewhere.

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