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"I just block people I don't want to hear directly from. Sometimes it's just a single comment that gives me that ick feeling." I've only blocked fellas offering me blowies so far. Which is a sentence I'd never pictured myself hoying out. | |||
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"I just block people I don't want to hear directly from. Sometimes it's just a single comment that gives me that ick feeling." *** Do you ever change your mind or think it happened it the heat of the moment? I mean it in general, not any person in mind. I did unblock a couple of people. I could block plenty of people from forum because of 1 or 2 comments I didn't like, but unsure what would be the point. They don't like me, so unlikely they will message me. About some actually I changed my mind recently in both, positive or negative way as well. | |||
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"I have never blocked anyone for a reason that could be regarded as silly and have no idea of what reasons any one else may have blocked me" *** They didn't like 1 of your comment or the color of your vig?  | |||
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"I block for a number of reasons and I'm sure I've been blocked for numerous reasons" *** You're always in hidden mode, so it would be a difficult task to block you. | |||
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"I just block people I don't want to hear directly from. Sometimes it's just a single comment that gives me that ick feeling. *** Do you ever change your mind or think it happened it the heat of the moment? I mean it in general, not any person in mind. I did unblock a couple of people. I could block plenty of people from forum because of 1 or 2 comments I didn't like, but unsure what would be the point. They don't like me, so unlikely they will message me. About some actually I changed my mind recently in both, positive or negative way as well." Oh. Yes. Once or twice someone I blocked after seeing a few comments that I heartily disagreed with, but then I started to see and understand their humour more, and have since become friendly with, even if we're definitely never going to fuck. If someone says something directly to me in a message, I have a lot less room for forgiveness, there's no reasoning out the playing to an audience in private. | |||
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"I just block people I don't want to hear directly from. Sometimes it's just a single comment that gives me that ick feeling. *** Do you ever change your mind or think it happened it the heat of the moment? I mean it in general, not any person in mind. I did unblock a couple of people. I could block plenty of people from forum because of 1 or 2 comments I didn't like, but unsure what would be the point. They don't like me, so unlikely they will message me. About some actually I changed my mind recently in both, positive or negative way as well. Oh. Yes. Once or twice someone I blocked after seeing a few comments that I heartily disagreed with, but then I started to see and understand their humour more, and have since become friendly with, even if we're definitely never going to fuck. If someone says something directly to me in a message, I have a lot less room for forgiveness, there's no reasoning out the playing to an audience in private." *** I don't hate or dislike anyone forever. (Except my father + some nasty people from my private life, but not a long list) I just kind of counter hate.
Someone pushing me, then I push back.
Someone makes steps to be nicer, then I react the same probably.
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"I am easily irritated & put off so I block as soon as I start to get that feeling. Biboss" *** Forum or private? | |||
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"I don't hate or dislike anyone forever. (Except my father + some nasty people from my private life, but not a long list) I just kind of counter hate.
Someone pushing me, then I push back.
Someone makes steps to be nicer, then I react the same probably.
"I don't hate anyone. Apart from occasionally the people I love. Feeding off someone else's energy is a pretty natural reaction. I come across fairly cold and hostile to those who don't know me, so I tend to provoke hostile responses. It is what it is  | |||
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"I don't hate or dislike anyone forever. (Except my father + some nasty people from my private life, but not a long list) I just kind of counter hate.
Someone pushing me, then I push back.
Someone makes steps to be nicer, then I react the same probably.
I don't hate anyone. Apart from occasionally the people I love.
Feeding off someone else's energy is a pretty natural reaction. I come across fairly cold and hostile to those who don't know me, so I tend to provoke hostile responses. It is what it is "I don't find you very hostile? You always seem fairly reasoned to me but prehaps I haven't paid enough attention MrsAbz | |||
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"I just block people I don't want to hear directly from. Sometimes it's just a single comment that gives me that ick feeling. I've only blocked fellas offering me blowies so far. Which is a sentence I'd never pictured myself hoying out." Pretty much this  .
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"I just block people I don't want to hear directly from. Sometimes it's just a single comment that gives me that ick feeling. I've only blocked fellas offering me blowies so far. Which is a sentence I'd never pictured myself hoying out. Pretty much this .
Don't bother blocking anyone else. "Although I may start blocking anyone who uses the word ick | |||
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"I don't hate anyone. Apart from occasionally the people I love. Feeding off someone else's energy is a pretty natural reaction. I come across fairly cold and hostile to those who don't know me, so I tend to provoke hostile responses. It is what it is
I don't find you very hostile? You always seem fairly reasoned to me but prehaps I haven't paid enough attention
MrsAbz "It's more apparent in direct messages I think. I don't think I'm quite so intolerable in the forum. But then usually if someone has messaged me uninvited I'm considerably less open than I am out here | |||
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"Also is there any point to block someone pretty much lives on the forum?" Yes. If the topics/comments irritate (or whichever term) me, that makes them incompatible, chances of a private communication are slim, but i’d sooner not risk it - BLOCK  | |||
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"I don't hate or dislike anyone forever. (Except my father + some nasty people from my private life, but not a long list) I just kind of counter hate.
Someone pushing me, then I push back.
Someone makes steps to be nicer, then I react the same probably.
I don't hate anyone. Apart from occasionally the people I love.
Feeding off someone else's energy is a pretty natural reaction. I come across fairly cold and hostile to those who don't know me, so I tend to provoke hostile responses. It is what it is "*** I never hate someone for disagreeing with me. Unless they're being childish or offensive about it in comments. Even then I try to ignore them, if possible. I rarely use the block button. Not much point on forum anyway.I know you're not a fan, but still often you give the best responses. Hardly ignore people, if you have something to say. I don't judge you in a bad way. The opposite actually. The only one who surprised me so far. Don't take this as a love letter. I'm alright with vomiting words sometimes as well. | |||
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"I dont block. I just never read messages, and no- one could offend me enough from what they said on the forum. I wouldn't know the reasons I get blocked as I doubt they would explain anyway "*** Considering blocking you, because you're hurting my eyes. | |||
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"Also is there any point to block someone pretty much lives on the forum? Yes. If the topics/comments irritate (or whichever term) me, that makes them incompatible, chances of a private communication are slim, but i’d sooner not risk it - BLOCK "*** how do you feel after in a situation like... Good comment/thread, then you want to comment too. Until you see the name of that person, then you hold yourself back....etc. Doesn't feel childish/weird/stupid at that point? | |||
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"I dont block. I just never read messages, and no- one could offend me enough from what they said on the forum. I wouldn't know the reasons I get blocked as I doubt they would explain anyway
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Considering blocking you, because you're hurting my eyes.
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"Also is there any point to block someone pretty much lives on the forum? Yes. If the topics/comments irritate (or whichever term) me, that makes them incompatible, chances of a private communication are slim, but i’d sooner not risk it - BLOCK
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how do you feel after in a situation like...
Good comment/thread, then you want to comment too.
Until you see the name of that person, then you hold yourself back....etc.
Doesn't feel childish/weird/stupid at that point?"Not really, its a forum where everyone is entitled to express an opinion and everyone is entitled to engage, it just means I want nothing more to with said person(s) outside of the forum | |||
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"I block for lots reasons. Not interested in them and they didn't get the message the first time in my inbox. Or other shite like they slagged me off in messages to someone who then told me or showed me and they were quite horrid in their comments. There's loads more. I listed them on a thread not so long ago. Probably in my last 35 somewhere." *** Those are the shit stirrers usually who are changing sides, whichever is more comfortable. 1 is friend this week, then the other one is friend/future FWB the other week. Many things seem worse than it is, if it's removed from the context or missing previous messages. That's my experience. Probably you will be the bad one the following week. I usually try to avoid all involved in this kind of games. To old to be involved in petty games, plus there's no prize usually on the end of the tunnel. I always lose anyway, so I just move on. I wouldn't block someone who would never contact me anyway, but obviously I know nothing about things like this. Everyone does whatever they want. I'd rather be blocked, than get involved in games where 2+ against one and the game is rigged from the start. | |||
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"I dont block. I just never read messages, and no- one could offend me enough from what they said on the forum. I wouldn't know the reasons I get blocked as I doubt they would explain anyway
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Considering blocking you, because you're hurting my eyes.
I'll pop it in my notes "*** FYI I was joking, just in case you will get trigger happy. | |||
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"Where is the twist ?" **** On my penis.
Sorry gran, if you were expecting something funnier.
No a big joke really, but...
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"Also is there any point to block someone pretty much lives on the forum? Yes. If the topics/comments irritate (or whichever term) me, that makes them incompatible, chances of a private communication are slim, but i’d sooner not risk it - BLOCK
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how do you feel after in a situation like...
Good comment/thread, then you want to comment too.
Until you see the name of that person, then you hold yourself back....etc.
Doesn't feel childish/weird/stupid at that point?
Not really, its a forum where everyone is entitled to express an opinion and everyone is entitled to engage, it just means I want nothing more to with said person(s) outside of the forum "*** That's nice if you are being civil no matter what.  | |||
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"Because I can Because I don't want certain cunts nosing at my profile. " *** I just performed a cuntcheck on myself. | |||
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"Because I can Because I don't want certain cunts nosing at my profile. *** I just performed a cuntcheck on myself. "You're not that much of a cunt though | |||
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"So please tell me the silliest reason you've been blocked for/or blocked someone. "How would I know why they blocked me? As for blocking, I only block based on what people have said in the forum, and how they align with my views on life. | |||
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"I block for lots reasons. Not interested in them and they didn't get the message the first time in my inbox. Or other shite like they slagged me off in messages to someone who then told me or showed me and they were quite horrid in their comments. There's loads more. I listed them on a thread not so long ago. Probably in my last 35 somewhere. *** Those are the shit stirrers usually who are changing sides, whichever is more comfortable. 1 is friend this week, then the other one is friend/future FWB the other week. Many things seem worse than it is, if it's removed from the context or missing previous messages. That's my experience. Probably you will be the bad one the following week. I usually try to avoid all involved in this kind of games. To old to be involved in petty games, plus there's no prize usually on the end of the tunnel. I always lose anyway, so I just move on. I wouldn't block someone who would never contact me anyway, but obviously I know nothing about things like this. Everyone does whatever they want. I'd rather be blocked, than get involved in games where 2+ against one and the game is rigged from the start. " Shit stirrers changing sides? Who's sides? On what? Friend to FWB? Interesting. I need to get my head round that one....are you saying a man would shit stir to get in someone's knickers? Or do women do this to men? Or shit stir with other women? Nope I'm not following this one, explain? If previous messages and context are removed...some sentences still read shit no matter what the context. Game? Rigged from the start? What games? 
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"I block for lots reasons. Not interested in them and they didn't get the message the first time in my inbox. Or other shite like they slagged me off in messages to someone who then told me or showed me and they were quite horrid in their comments. There's loads more. I listed them on a thread not so long ago. Probably in my last 35 somewhere. *** Those are the shit stirrers usually who are changing sides, whichever is more comfortable. 1 is friend this week, then the other one is friend/future FWB the other week. Many things seem worse than it is, if it's removed from the context or missing previous messages. That's my experience. Probably you will be the bad one the following week. I usually try to avoid all involved in this kind of games. To old to be involved in petty games, plus there's no prize usually on the end of the tunnel. I always lose anyway, so I just move on. I wouldn't block someone who would never contact me anyway, but obviously I know nothing about things like this. Everyone does whatever they want. I'd rather be blocked, than get involved in games where 2+ against one and the game is rigged from the start. Shit stirrers changing sides? Who's sides? On what? Friend to FWB? Interesting. I need to get my head round that one....are you saying a man would shit stir to get in someone's knickers? Or do women do this to men? Or shit stir with other women? Nope I'm not following this one, explain? If previous messages and context are removed...some sentences still read shit no matter what the context. Game? Rigged from the start? What games?
And how can you know you'd never need to block someone because they'd never contact you, how would you know they'd never contact you? "*** Sorry I wrote this^ without knowing the facts obviously. I mean what do I know. Right? Had too much squash probably, plus stayed up late yesterday looking for Nick's goats. I don't want a 48h break, so please let it go. Thanks!
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"Because I can Because I don't want certain cunts nosing at my profile. *** I just performed a cuntcheck on myself.
You're not that much of a cunt though "*** That's the 2nd nicest thing anybody said to me today.
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"I've blocked someone because they said they didn't like football. It wasn’t just that, they used the same well-trodden classist tropes about footballers & the fans in order to justify it, that you hear from bitter rugby followers who cannot fathom why egg chasing isn't seen as the most interesting thing you could do on grass by most people. I know I've been blocked by someone because I made valid criticisms of their favourite football team & they were unable to handle it "I like my egg-catching to be classless, and my football to be spectacular. Sometimes, they both happen. | |||
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"I just block people I would have no interest in meeting, like anyone with a beard. I just use it as another filter really. " *** Are you unblocking them when they shave?
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"Also, if someone messages me & writes "tee hee", they are immediately binned "Haha I hate this also hee hee ffs. | |||
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"Also, if someone messages me & writes "tee hee", they are immediately binned
Haha I hate this also hee hee ffs. "Reminds me of MJ  | |||
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