FabSwingers.com forum: Am I being a dick?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm a social fella, I like chatting to people, having a bit of craic etc.

So I reply to alot of messages.

Obviously when you post a thread most of the replies are aimed at you.

Now I've done my adult duties and I've gone back to reply to messages from a while back I'm conscious it's starting to look like I'm going "ooooh look at me" and keeping my own threads active.

As that a thing?

Am I over analysing.

Should I limited how much I respond?

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By *stwo2023Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

You're over thinking for sure.

Evie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a social fella, I like chatting to people, having a bit of craic etc.

So I reply to alot of messages.

Obviously when you post a thread most of the replies are aimed at you.

Now I've done my adult duties and I've gone back to reply to messages from a while back I'm conscious it's starting to look like I'm going "ooooh look at me" and keeping my own threads active.

As that a thing?

Am I over analysing.

Should I limited how much I respond?"

No one likes a chatty dick. Quiet dicks are better.

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By *hatKlungeEnigmaMan
over a year ago

St Leonards

"You're over thinking for sure.

Evie"

Yup - replying to everyone is really difficult...go with the flow a little more maybe.

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By *he ass man 666Man
over a year ago

paradise city

No that whole point of starting a thread I would have thought personally

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm a social fella, I like chatting to people, having a bit of craic etc.

So I reply to alot of messages.

Obviously when you post a thread most of the replies are aimed at you.

Now I've done my adult duties and I've gone back to reply to messages from a while back I'm conscious it's starting to look like I'm going "ooooh look at me" and keeping my own threads active.

As that a thing?

Am I over analysing.

Should I limited how much I respond?

No one likes a chatty dick. Quiet dicks are better. "

Noted

I'll reign it in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try and reply to everyone when I do them

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

If that's what you want to do, do it. Don't let anyone else tell you different.

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
over a year ago

Maidstone

Wtf. Who cares?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be you. If you want to reply to everyone, do it! Don’t let anyone else’s opinion dim your sparkle.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

You do you! If you want to reply to everyone, do it!

A lot of the time my own threads go nowhere and would be on page 2 in no time if I didn't bump them by replying to those that did comment. But then I get bored and stop because it ends up as me for posting 10 replies in a row.

But do what you enjoy doing, if that's replying to everyone, do it!

That is often how threads take hold and get busy, by the OP making them active.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As someone that posts A LOT, bro, fuck them man that you’re worried about. Anyone that complains about it is usually jealous or extremely bored

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just be you. If you want to reply to everyone, do it! Don’t let anyone else’s opinion dim your sparkle. "

Oh no idea had a negative opinion, I just have rare moments to of self awareness and realised I was doing too much

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"You do you! If you want to reply to everyone, do it!

But do what you enjoy doing, if that's replying to everyone, do it!

That is often how threads take hold and get busy, by the OP making them active. "

This

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

I love replying to everyone. But then sometimes I overthink it too. Hosting the Nocturnal is a marvellous excuse to reply to everyone!

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"I'm a social fella, I like chatting to people, having a bit of craic etc.

So I reply to alot of messages.

Obviously when you post a thread most of the replies are aimed at you.

Now I've done my adult duties and I've gone back to reply to messages from a while back I'm conscious it's starting to look like I'm going "ooooh look at me" and keeping my own threads active.

As that a thing?

Am I over analysing.

Should I limited how much I respond?"
most people don't go back to a thread unless its personal to them, so i guess you're wasting your time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

TO MUCH TIME ON YOUR HANDS

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"As someone that posts A LOT, bro, fuck them man that you’re worried about. Anyone that complains about it is usually jealous or extremely bored"

I agree with the former. Disagree with the latter.

Well, partially disagree. Not just jealousy or bordem. They can simply just not like it, which is fine and valid.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

As a gardener, I naturally sow seeds and cultivate but don't much interfere with new life, as seeds find their own way and many may be new hybrids, with an unknown form. I've not been as substantial a bonsai cultivator, as I prefer a more organic growth style.

The beauty of the forum is the diversity of us all. If you enjoy stimulation of your threads, that's fine

As you're respectful, it doesn't matter

I give some of my seeds bottom heat (what else!

), whilst others are scattered on wild ground There's never only one way to do many things.

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By *hunky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Be glad you are not me, if get pissed off once being ignored.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

if I start a thread I try to respond to everyone. If I can't I say 'thank you for all the replies'.

My threads are normally so mundane that it isn't much of a task

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

"I'm a social fella, I like chatting to people, having a bit of craic etc.

So I reply to alot of messages.

Obviously when you post a thread most of the replies are aimed at you.

Now I've done my adult duties and I've gone back to reply to messages from a while back I'm conscious it's starting to look like I'm going "ooooh look at me" and keeping my own threads active.

As that a thing?

Am I over analysing.

Should I limited how much I respond?"

It’s like anything in life, OP. You’ll find your own groove. You seem like a fun chap and you’ll figure out what works for you in the lounge. If we all did things the same it’d be boring as hell. Do you and enjoy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing more... ooohh look at me... than a thread dedicated to it. Ahhm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can’t reply to everyone. As much as you intend to or want to. …..

It would be a full time job …

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

I worry about this, so rarely post a thread, and feel weird replying to everyone on it. So I get self conscious and don't reply any more, then I wonder if people think I am rude if I don't

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"Nothing more... ooohh look at me... than a thread dedicated to it. Ahhm"

Play nicely

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By *educing_EmCouple
over a year ago

Tipperary

I try to reply to everyone, it's just what I like to do.

Do whatever you want, you can't please everyone anyway.

Em x

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

Don’t worry about it, you do you. What’s wrong with going back to reply if you’ve got the time and want to. I wouldn’t take you for an attention whore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try to reply to everyone... Do what you feel comfortable with

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nothing more... ooohh look at me... than a thread dedicated to it. Ahhm"

Fair enough, I was looking for how it came across.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

All these forum sluts giving their replies around to anyone and everyone!

Do you have no respect for yourselves!?

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By *hunky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich

"I try to reply to everyone... Do what you feel comfortable with "

What'up, huh?

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By *educing_EmCouple
over a year ago

Tipperary

"All these forum sluts giving their replies around to anyone and everyone!

Do you have no respect for yourselves!? "

Someone needs a bit of alone time

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

"All these forum sluts giving their replies around to anyone and everyone!

Do you have no respect for yourselves!? "

Classy.

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By *hunky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich

"All these forum sluts giving their replies around to anyone and everyone!

Do you have no respect for yourselves!?

Someone needs a bit of alone time"

Nah.

That's him being funny.

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By *educing_EmCouple
over a year ago

Tipperary

"All these forum sluts giving their replies around to anyone and everyone!

Do you have no respect for yourselves!?

Someone needs a bit of alone time

Nah.

That's him being funny."

I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think there are rules. Do what you want OP. I never expect a personal response from the OP, or anyone I quote, when I comment on a thread. I'm just adding my thoughts and may or may not check back later.

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

"All these forum sluts giving their replies around to anyone and everyone!

Do you have no respect for yourselves!?

Someone needs a bit of alone time

Nah.

That's him being funny."

Hilarious.

Surely its only funny if its taken that way- personally didn't find it funny.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"All these forum sluts giving their replies around to anyone and everyone!

Do you have no respect for yourselves!?

Someone needs a bit of alone time

Nah.

That's him being funny.

Hilarious.

Surely its only funny if its taken that way- personally didn't find it funny."

Have you not met Kai?

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

"All these forum sluts giving their replies around to anyone and everyone!

Do you have no respect for yourselves!?

Someone needs a bit of alone time

Nah.

That's him being funny.

Hilarious.

Surely its only funny if its taken that way- personally didn't find it funny.

Have you not met Kai?"

Irrelevant.

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By *hunky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich

"All these forum sluts giving their replies around to anyone and everyone!

Do you have no respect for yourselves!?

Someone needs a bit of alone time

Nah.

That's him being funny.

Hilarious.

Surely its only funny if its taken that way- personally didn't find it funny."

***

Honestly first I thought he is a dick.

(Still have my doubts

)

He's humour is sometimes weirder than mine, but he's in the clique with 1 leg.

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By *hunky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Thanks Kai!

Here, take it.

I pass the horns.

You wear them now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You can’t reply to everyone. As much as you intend to or want to. …..

It would be a full time job …

Well, maybe Fab has teamed up with Sydney University and he’s on their staff. Here to collect and reply to everyone for their benefit.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuckinell chill out

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By *hunky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich

"Fuckinell chill out

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FYI

The goats aren't dead.

Someone else's goats were eaten by the fox.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"All these forum sluts giving their replies around to anyone and everyone!

Do you have no respect for yourselves!?

Someone needs a bit of alone time

Nah.

That's him being funny.

Hilarious.

Surely its only funny if its taken that way- personally didn't find it funny.

Have you not met Kai?

Irrelevant."

Gosh.... Are u ok Hun?

I didn't mean met in real life... Just on the forums. It's very obviously a piss take. I thought you'd been here before?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fuckinell chill out

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FYI

The goats aren't dead.

Someone else's goats were eaten by the fox.

Oh ffs so we’re still goat hunting?

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

"You're over thinking for sure.

Evie"
.. this buddy you do what you want to do op

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By *hunky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich

"Fuckinell chill out

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FYI

The goats aren't dead.

Someone else's goats were eaten by the fox.

Oh ffs so we’re still goat hunting? "

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Yes, but I might need some support notifying some other people about the death of their goats.

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By *hunky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich

...baa....baa....baa

***Goats running through***

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