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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all I have literally only ever cum once in my life from an actual blowjob. It's not for lack of trying though as I've tried a lot. Any tips please would be appreciated. Thanks x

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"Hi all I have literally only ever cum once in my life from an actual blowjob. It's not for lack of trying though as I've tried a lot. Any tips please would be appreciated. Thanks x"

She needs to go lower than the tip

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By *uckyman87Man
over a year ago

Ashford

I never have, id love to tho lol

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Hi all I have literally only ever cum once in my life from an actual blowjob. It's not for lack of trying though as I've tried a lot. Any tips please would be appreciated. Thanks x

She needs to go lower than the tip "

I was gonna say similar

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"Hi all I have literally only ever cum once in my life from an actual blowjob. It's not for lack of trying though as I've tried a lot. Any tips please would be appreciated. Thanks x

She needs to go lower than the tip

I was gonna say similar "

Beat ya

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

The person doing the blow job perhaps needs the tip(s) OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all I have literally only ever cum once in my life from an actual blowjob. It's not for lack of trying though as I've tried a lot. Any tips please would be appreciated. Thanks x"

I always thought it was a psychological thing with me. Don't get me wrong, it feels amazing, it feels intimate and I bloody love it. It's just finishing.

I've only had one person who could, and she went down on me for a fraction of the time others have.

The only thing that I felt was different is she just hit a spot that I'd never felt before.

All I'd suggest is if she can keep the same motion she has but you manoeuvre yourself into different positions to see what hits that spot for you.

Sorry that's all I have.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've had lower than the tip many a time. Been deep throated but find it hard to get their!

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Relax!!

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8


"Hi all I have literally only ever cum once in my life from an actual blowjob. It's not for lack of trying though as I've tried a lot. Any tips please would be appreciated. Thanks x"

The word trying sticks out for me.

The fact you already know you don’t usually cum from BJs and want to, means your brain is focused on “must cum!” Whereas you should perhaps instead find a way to uncouple those thoughts and enjoy it for what it is.

Have you found yourself closer with certain techniques over others?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It always feels good. I feel close with certain techniques.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Will keep this in mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all I have literally only ever cum once in my life from an actual blowjob. It's not for lack of trying though as I've tried a lot. Any tips please would be appreciated. Thanks x

The word trying sticks out for me.

The fact you already know you don’t usually cum from BJs and want to, means your brain is focused on “must cum!” Whereas you should perhaps instead find a way to uncouple those thoughts and enjoy it for what it is.

Have you found yourself closer with certain techniques over others?"

Actually that's a very good point!

You can get Into your own head trying to make it happen.

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By *eordieJeansCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Think of her sister.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all I have literally only ever cum once in my life from an actual blowjob. It's not for lack of trying though as I've tried a lot. Any tips please would be appreciated. Thanks x

The word trying sticks out for me.

The fact you already know you don’t usually cum from BJs and want to, means your brain is focused on “must cum!” Whereas you should perhaps instead find a way to uncouple those thoughts and enjoy it for what it is.

Have you found yourself closer with certain techniques over others?"

Spot on. Take the pressure off yourself. Go into it just to enjoy someone pleasuring you and that’s all. Not as an end goal of having to cum.

Men who say they have never cum from oral have shared some intriguing things with me before after they’ve cummed for the first time from oral with me.

They have felt it feels good, great even but then the sucker changes something and it’s like all the feel good feeling comes to an end and they have to start their pleasure all over again. I hate this when I’m receiving oral sex and I try to not change what I’m doing when they’ve voiced it feels great, don’t stop, etc.

They are so bloody worried about how long it’s been or they feel the sucker feels they have been sucking for bloody ages. I try to make sure they know I’m enjoying it throughly and practice breathing through my nose only to not have to be without their cock in my mouth as much as possible during it.

Only sucking doesn’t get them beyond the ‘this feels good’ stage. Using a combination of hands and sucking in unison changed that for them.

I’ve approached it as if doesn’t matter how long it takes as I’m there to worship their cock. I am express we can explore this together and discover what they like and want more of, so communicating is vital.

I’ve had moments where I’m certain my jaw will fall off if I keep going but I manage to keep going because their body language shows me they are enjoying it and allowing themselves to relax without giving the cumming bit too much thought. It also helps I love challenge.

Maybe identify what feels good and relax. Do more of both and perhaps you’ll reach an orgasm too.

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By *londebiguyMan
over a year ago

Southport


"Hi all I have literally only ever cum once in my life from an actual blowjob. It's not for lack of trying though as I've tried a lot. Any tips please would be appreciated. Thanks x"

Many women believe they give great BJs but unfortunately they just do not compare to most men.

Only had two very good BJs from women in my life and plenty have talked themselves up to it.

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By *londebiguyMan
over a year ago

Southport


"Hi all I have literally only ever cum once in my life from an actual blowjob. It's not for lack of trying though as I've tried a lot. Any tips please would be appreciated. Thanks x

The word trying sticks out for me.

The fact you already know you don’t usually cum from BJs and want to, means your brain is focused on “must cum!” Whereas you should perhaps instead find a way to uncouple those thoughts and enjoy it for what it is.

Have you found yourself closer with certain techniques over others?

Spot on. Take the pressure off yourself. Go into it just to enjoy someone pleasuring you and that’s all. Not as an end goal of having to cum.

Men who say they have never cum from oral have shared some intriguing things with me before after they’ve cummed for the first time from oral with me.

They have felt it feels good, great even but then the sucker changes something and it’s like all the feel good feeling comes to an end and they have to start their pleasure all over again. I hate this when I’m receiving oral sex and I try to not change what I’m doing when they’ve voiced it feels great, don’t stop, etc.

They are so bloody worried about how long it’s been or they feel the sucker feels they have been sucking for bloody ages. I try to make sure they know I’m enjoying it throughly and practice breathing through my nose only to not have to be without their cock in my mouth as much as possible during it.

Only sucking doesn’t get them beyond the ‘this feels good’ stage. Using a combination of hands and sucking in unison changed that for them.

I’ve approached it as if doesn’t matter how long it takes as I’m there to worship their cock. I am express we can explore this together and discover what they like and want more of, so communicating is vital.

I’ve had moments where I’m certain my jaw will fall off if I keep going but I manage to keep going because their body language shows me they are enjoying it and allowing themselves to relax without giving the cumming bit too much thought. It also helps I love challenge.

Maybe identify what feels good and relax. Do more of both and perhaps you’ll reach an orgasm too.

"

All of these points definitely.

You've well thought this through.

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By *ustJ69Man
over a year ago

Warrington

Nothing beats seeing a woman swallow your load apart from anal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has nobody ever hummed the French national anthem whilst noshing you off

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By *irebrand 1263Man
over a year ago

near you

Love to see my load swallowed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most women are shit at blowjobs

All the best blowjobs I’ve had are from guys because not only do they know what a guy likes, they haven’t had smoke blown up their arse they whole life

Either find people that are better, or don’t be afraid to tell her how to do it better

Communication is key

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Think I might have cum once from a blow job.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does that work

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By *ananabrumMan
over a year ago

castle bromwich

There needs to be ne a lot of tougue action, particularly around the frenulum, enthusiasm from the person sucking is also a big part of it nothing worse than someone just opening their mouth and jerking their head backwards and forwards unethusiastically. Variation in stroking the shaft, add a little twist when stroking and it doesn't hurt to give the balls some attention

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Abstain for a few days. Maybe deep throat is needed?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank-you for this advice I will take it on board

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By *umalotagainMan
over a year ago

a town called malice

Can’t say I have ever had that as a problem

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

She only has a brother ?? ??

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By *ristolboy1005Man
over a year ago

bristol

I get that

Fine it difficult to cum from a hand job as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never cum from a blow job ….

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone


"I’ve never cum from a blow job …."

That's what quite a few men have said to me... But I reassure them I love cock and the pleasure is all mine and do indulge me enjoying their cocks ...

It's rare I don't then get my creamy reward with 10 minutes. It takes two to tango.

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

Communication. Tell the person doing it what you like and what works for you. You will both enjoy the experience a lot more that way. Nothing worse than going down on someone and not being sure if they are really enjoying what you do. So you try different techniques, and they still give you no inkling of what is working.

Also relax. Don't put pressure on yourself to cum. Just enjoy the experience.

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By *londebiguyMan
over a year ago

Southport


"Most women are shit at blowjobs

All the best blowjobs I’ve had are from guys because not only do they know what a guy likes, they haven’t had smoke blown up their arse they whole life

Either find people that are better, or don’t be afraid to tell her how to do it better

Communication is key "

I trued to word it a little more carefully.

But really, this!

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Get rid of the concept that cumming is necessary to enjoy a good blowjob.

If you're stuck in your head about it, it ain't gonna happen

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Get rid of the concept that cumming is necessary to enjoy a good blowjob.

If you're stuck in your head about it, it ain't gonna happen "

This. Applies to the sex too.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Just enjoy yourself and think of a nice roast dinner, with Yorkshire puddings, mash, gravy and no pesky sprouts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get rid of the concept that cumming is necessary to enjoy a good blowjob.

If you're stuck in your head about it, it ain't gonna happen

This. Applies to the sex too. "

I’ve never cum from sex either….

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"Get rid of the concept that cumming is necessary to enjoy a good blowjob.

If you're stuck in your head about it, it ain't gonna happen

This. Applies to the sex too.

I’ve never cum from sex either…."

But.

But Woody.

I need the yummy cummies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get rid of the concept that cumming is necessary to enjoy a good blowjob.

If you're stuck in your head about it, it ain't gonna happen

This. Applies to the sex too.

I’ve never cum from sex either….

But.

But Woody.

I need the yummy cummies "

I can try….

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By *olly SwallowsTV/TS
over a year ago

Sexville

Let me nosh you off and you’ll be oozing man batter in no time

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

It’s rare but does happen. It’s much more than technique

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By *ihimbiherCouple
over a year ago

lightwater

Try getting her to finger your bum at the same time. Works for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never, ever!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let me nosh you off and you’ll be oozing man batter in no time "

Do you swal…… oh.

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By *olly SwallowsTV/TS
over a year ago

Sexville


"Let me nosh you off and you’ll be oozing man batter in no time

Do you swal…… oh. "

Haha well you know if the name fits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you got in head you not come you won't. It like thinking you might go soft start over thinking and you will.

I cannot explain how one ladies blow jobs makes you start to feel over stimulated almost ticklish

And other just great

I once met a lady fish site had meal out drink kiss good night couple days late near her house she said call in coffee made it clear she did not have sex till been lot of dates as leaving bit heavy kissing as I put my had on her door went down her knees sucked me had me coming in mins totaly unexpected. Another lady once spent all night telling me how good her oral was left me sore and not coming lol.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Up till recently, I had that issue, but my current partner has changed that.

A lot has to do with your mental state, all I can say is relax,don't think about cumming

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By *umalotagainMan
over a year ago

a town called malice


"Let me nosh you off and you’ll be oozing man batter in no time "

On my way x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most women are shit at blowjobs

All the best blowjobs I’ve had are from guys because not only do they know what a guy likes, they haven’t had smoke blown up their arse they whole life

Either find people that are better, or don’t be afraid to tell her how to do it better

Communication is key "

Curious to know what what the difference is / what girls need to do different!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most women are shit at blowjobs

All the best blowjobs I’ve had are from guys because not only do they know what a guy likes, they haven’t had smoke blown up their arse they whole life

Either find people that are better, or don’t be afraid to tell her how to do it better

Communication is key

Curious to know what what the difference is / what girls need to do different!"

Just be better. That’s all you need to know to be inspired.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most women are shit at blowjobs

All the best blowjobs I’ve had are from guys because not only do they know what a guy likes, they haven’t had smoke blown up their arse they whole life

Either find people that are better, or don’t be afraid to tell her how to do it better

Communication is key

Curious to know what what the difference is / what girls need to do different!"

To be honest, it’s not even women’s fault

It’s men’s, because most are so desperate for literally anything sexual they’ll say even the worst blowjob is the best they’d ever had

As a woman all you need to be is enthusiastic and willing to listen/communicate with your partner about what they like. If the guys can’t do the same it’s on them for getting sub par

Guys just seem to be better in my experience because they truly love doing it and kinda know what they themselves would like, which will get you 90% of the way there with 90% of guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most women are shit at blowjobs

All the best blowjobs I’ve had are from guys because not only do they know what a guy likes, they haven’t had smoke blown up their arse they whole life

Either find people that are better, or don’t be afraid to tell her how to do it better

Communication is key

Curious to know what what the difference is / what girls need to do different!

Just be better. That’s all you need to know to be inspired. "

Happy to report I’ve never personally had any complaints and have definitely made my lovers cum! But just curious - and never miss an opportunity for a tip!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most women are shit at blowjobs

All the best blowjobs I’ve had are from guys because not only do they know what a guy likes, they haven’t had smoke blown up their arse they whole life

Either find people that are better, or don’t be afraid to tell her how to do it better

Communication is key

Curious to know what what the difference is / what girls need to do different!

To be honest, it’s not even women’s fault

It’s men’s, because most are so desperate for literally anything sexual they’ll say even the worst blowjob is the best they’d ever had

As a woman all you need to be is enthusiastic and willing to listen/communicate with your partner about what they like. If the guys can’t do the same it’s on them for getting sub par

Guys just seem to be better in my experience because they truly love doing it and kinda know what they themselves would like, which will get you 90% of the way there with 90% of guys "

Fair enough!! I think generally it’s about reacting to body language and communicating in sex isn’t it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most women are shit at blowjobs

All the best blowjobs I’ve had are from guys because not only do they know what a guy likes, they haven’t had smoke blown up their arse they whole life

Either find people that are better, or don’t be afraid to tell her how to do it better

Communication is key

Curious to know what what the difference is / what girls need to do different!

To be honest, it’s not even women’s fault

It’s men’s, because most are so desperate for literally anything sexual they’ll say even the worst blowjob is the best they’d ever had

As a woman all you need to be is enthusiastic and willing to listen/communicate with your partner about what they like. If the guys can’t do the same it’s on them for getting sub par

Guys just seem to be better in my experience because they truly love doing it and kinda know what they themselves would like, which will get you 90% of the way there with 90% of guys

Fair enough!! I think generally it’s about reacting to body language and communicating in sex isn’t it!"

Absolutely and that’s a 2 way street. If men and woman want to lie about how good a blowjob was or fake orgasms, no one’s gonna get what they want

Sadly it takes a level of maturity/confidence to openly communicate your needs and wants that many people are lacking

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Hi all I have literally only ever cum once in my life from an actual blowjob. It's not for lack of trying though as I've tried a lot. Any tips please would be appreciated. Thanks x"
get her sucking until you cum

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By *ennyleeeWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Get me to do it.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Get me to do it. "
lol he'll ask i bet

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By *ack69erMan
over a year ago

Beverley

Find a Woman who when giving you a blowjob doesn't stop to ask you if your going to take her shopping at the weekend etc.

If they do, your back to square one.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Don't wank for as long as possible before getting somebody who is really good at it to have a go with you.

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By *t0600Man
over a year ago

elvedon

I used to be like this but in recent years I now always cum from blowjobs

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By *inkyfun2013Couple
over a year ago

lewisham


"Hi all I have literally only ever cum once in my life from an actual blowjob. It's not for lack of trying though as I've tried a lot. Any tips please would be appreciated. Thanks x

The word trying sticks out for me.

The fact you already know you don’t usually cum from BJs and want to, means your brain is focused on “must cum!” Whereas you should perhaps instead find a way to uncouple those thoughts and enjoy it for what it is.

Have you found yourself closer with certain techniques over others?

Spot on. Take the pressure off yourself. Go into it just to enjoy someone pleasuring you and that’s all. Not as an end goal of having to cum.

Men who say they have never cum from oral have shared some intriguing things with me before after they’ve cummed for the first time from oral with me.

They have felt it feels good, great even but then the sucker changes something and it’s like all the feel good feeling comes to an end and they have to start their pleasure all over again. I hate this when I’m receiving oral sex and I try to not change what I’m doing when they’ve voiced it feels great, don’t stop, etc.

They are so bloody worried about how long it’s been or they feel the sucker feels they have been sucking for bloody ages. I try to make sure they know I’m enjoying it throughly and practice breathing through my nose only to not have to be without their cock in my mouth as much as possible during it.

Only sucking doesn’t get them beyond the ‘this feels good’ stage. Using a combination of hands and sucking in unison changed that for them.

I’ve approached it as if doesn’t matter how long it takes as I’m there to worship their cock. I am express we can explore this together and discover what they like and want more of, so communicating is vital.

I’ve had moments where I’m certain my jaw will fall off if I keep going but I manage to keep going because their body language shows me they are enjoying it and allowing themselves to relax without giving the cumming bit too much thought. It also helps I love challenge.

Maybe identify what feels good and relax. Do more of both and perhaps you’ll reach an orgasm too.

"

Your answer sounds fabulous in theory. But I won't believe it works until you come here and demonstrate it in practice.

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By *ammymacMan
over a year ago

darlington

I can only cum if the person performing oral on me enjoys doing it, wants me to cum and in these circumstances I ejaculate very quickly whereas my wife did try sucking me when we first got together but she doesn’t really enjoy it as she gags and doesn’t enjoy the texture of semen in her mouth, hence, I’ve never orgasmed when she sucks me without her masturbating me at the same time. As she doesn’t enjoy it I don’t ask.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Maybe the women who've blown you don't want to have you spunk up in their mouth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to have this exact issue now I cum too quick lol. Not sure what I've done differently

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By *aGaGagging for itCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"Communication. Tell the person doing it what you like and what works for you. You will both enjoy the experience a lot more that way. Nothing worse than going down on someone and not being sure if they are really enjoying what you do. So you try different techniques, and they still give you no inkling of what is working.

Also relax. Don't put pressure on yourself to cum. Just enjoy the experience.

"

This, and also don't focus on what's happening to you, focus in the sexiness of the person that you're with, what turns you on about them, let your mind wander into fantasy realm etc....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I still haven't found anyone yet that can't make me cum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have but don't care if I do or not it's something I don’t really enjoy to start with

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By *reeneggsandsamMan
over a year ago

Perpignan and cap

Train your cock, lossen your grip when you wank. Get used to different sensations on your cock.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

She does want to swallow my spunk tbh.

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By *outhern man.Man
over a year ago

Weymouth

I cum from a BJ but not straight away.

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By *kguy4444Man
over a year ago

Wales

I find the wife wanking my cock whilst the head is in her mouth works. She runs her tongue around and around and makes her mouth wet and warm.

She stops occasionally to Bob up and down then goes again. Doesn’t take me long before I shoot my load.

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By *ust want fun 888Man
over a year ago

nearby

I can come quite easily from a blowjob, my first ever time was sucking myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi all, not boasting but the two guys i meet up with have always cum from me given them a blowjob. And quiet quick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive ony had 1 guy not cum from a bj if it was only a bj a was giving not if that makes sense

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By *olyester123Couple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire


"Hi all I have literally only ever cum once in my life from an actual blowjob. It's not for lack of trying though as I've tried a lot. Any tips please would be appreciated. Thanks x"
if Karen gave you a blow job you would definitely cum I've never had anything like it

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By *ackdaw52Man
over a year ago

Chesterfield

When will women learn that we don't just orgasm on command! We are not performing seals!

We are not going to fake orgasms just to satisfy their egos!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try not to cum from a bj prefer cummin havin full sex

But once I was havin a mmf and the fella started blowing me I did all I could not to cum

Where as he was determined I would I couldn't hold any longer and exploded was so intense prob best bj ever had

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
over a year ago

Lingfield

Genuinely surprised as to how many men have never cum from a blowjob! If I know that's all that's on offer then I have no problem at all.

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By *igtasty121Man
over a year ago

Nowhere


"Has nobody ever hummed the French national anthem whilst noshing you off "

Now there’s a tip for the givers …

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

The key is, the wetter the better.

5 times the amount of spit an drool you think, sliding hands and lips like the juiciest mouth pussy, guaranteed to have the pop like a geyser every time.

Lots of dirty talk and eye contact too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When will women learn that we don't just orgasm on command! We are not performing seals!

We are not going to fake orgasms just to satisfy their egos!"

Haha.

I actually had an ex who could do exactly that. He could fuck all night and cum on command in an instant.

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe

I used to struggle until I learned how to relax. Meeting someone with no gag reflex definitely helped too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I try not to cum from a bj prefer cummin havin full sex

But once I was havin a mmf and the fella started blowing me I did all I could not to cum

Where as he was determined I would I couldn't hold any longer and exploded was so intense prob best bj ever had"

My suggestion to OP was going to be to flip his thinking and try NOT to cum and see if the reverse psychology works. When you let go of the pressure to cum it's a different headspace.

That, and communicating with his partner about what feels good so they can keep at it for long enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the same, I'm not a fan of them whatsoever, I don't care what the person does, deepthroat, eye contact, all the eagerness in the world or whatever else..I just accepted I didn't like them particularly and moved on in the end and avoided them and could happily never get one again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I try not to cum from a bj prefer cummin havin full sex

But once I was havin a mmf and the fella started blowing me I did all I could not to cum

Where as he was determined I would I couldn't hold any longer and exploded was so intense prob best bj ever had

My suggestion to OP was going to be to flip his thinking and try NOT to cum and see if the reverse psychology works. When you let go of the pressure to cum it's a different headspace.

That, and communicating with his partner about what feels good so they can keep at it for long enough."

I have literally only cum from a bj 3 times in my life due to ladies iv been with didn't want me to hence I didn't

So new experience someone wanting me to and bigger shock was a man and his wife wanted me to have to admit was a turn on

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I’ve hardly ever come from a BJ

I seem to find them too relaxing

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By *oiluvfunMan
50 weeks ago

Penrith


"Hi all I have literally only ever cum once in my life from an actual blowjob. It's not for lack of trying though as I've tried a lot. Any tips please would be appreciated. Thanks x

The word trying sticks out for me.

The fact you already know you don’t usually cum from BJs and want to, means your brain is focused on “must cum!” Whereas you should perhaps instead find a way to uncouple those thoughts and enjoy it for what it is.

Have you found yourself closer with certain techniques over others?

Spot on. Take the pressure off yourself. Go into it just to enjoy someone pleasuring you and that’s all. Not as an end goal of having to cum.

Men who say they have never cum from oral have shared some intriguing things with me before after they’ve cummed for the first time from oral with me.

They have felt it feels good, great even but then the sucker changes something and it’s like all the feel good feeling comes to an end and they have to start their pleasure all over again. I hate this when I’m receiving oral sex and I try to not change what I’m doing when they’ve voiced it feels great, don’t stop, etc.

They are so bloody worried about how long it’s been or they feel the sucker feels they have been sucking for bloody ages. I try to make sure they know I’m enjoying it throughly and practice breathing through my nose only to not have to be without their cock in my mouth as much as possible during it.

Only sucking doesn’t get them beyond the ‘this feels good’ stage. Using a combination of hands and sucking in unison changed that for them.

I’ve approached it as if doesn’t matter how long it takes as I’m there to worship their cock. I am express we can explore this together and discover what they like and want more of, so communicating is vital.

I’ve had moments where I’m certain my jaw will fall off if I keep going but I manage to keep going because their body language shows me they are enjoying it and allowing themselves to relax without giving the cumming bit too much thought. It also helps I love challenge.

Maybe identify what feels good and relax. Do more of both and perhaps you’ll reach an orgasm too.

"

That’s a fantastic reply! Thank you for sharing this insight from a woman who actually wants to give a man pleasure this way xx

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By *oiluvfunMan
50 weeks ago

Penrith


"I'm the same, I'm not a fan of them whatsoever, I don't care what the person does, deepthroat, eye contact, all the eagerness in the world or whatever else..I just accepted I didn't like them particularly and moved on in the end and avoided them and could happily never get one again. "

I reached the ‘acceptance’ stage a good while ago too mate. I accepted that women only suck cock to get it hard for penetration, which is fine! Nothing wrong with that, as it means I’m getting sex after all

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By *ouples_EroticaXXXCouple
50 weeks ago

manchester


"Hi all I have literally only ever cum once in my life from an actual blowjob. It's not for lack of trying though as I've tried a lot. Any tips please would be appreciated. Thanks x"

Dogs like peanut butter

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By *irebrand 1263Man
50 weeks ago

near you

Love a good one

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
50 weeks ago

Reading

Some just dont. just enjoy what you do cum from.

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By *eethehotwifeCouple
50 weeks ago

North london


"I'm the same, I'm not a fan of them whatsoever, I don't care what the person does, deepthroat, eye contact, all the eagerness in the world or whatever else..I just accepted I didn't like them particularly and moved on in the end and avoided them and could happily never get one again.

I reached the ‘acceptance’ stage a good while ago too mate. I accepted that women only suck cock to get it hard for penetration, which is fine! Nothing wrong with that, as it means I’m getting sex after all "

That’s a lie…. Some of us suck cock because we enjoy it x

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By *he Black ExperienceMan
50 weeks ago

banbury


"Hi all I have literally only ever cum once in my life from an actual blowjob. It's not for lack of trying though as I've tried a lot. Any tips please would be appreciated. Thanks x

The word trying sticks out for me.

The fact you already know you don’t usually cum from BJs and want to, means your brain is focused on “must cum!” Whereas you should perhaps instead find a way to uncouple those thoughts and enjoy it for what it is.

Have you found yourself closer with certain techniques over others?

Spot on. Take the pressure off yourself. Go into it just to enjoy someone pleasuring you and that’s all. Not as an end goal of having to cum.

Men who say they have never cum from oral have shared some intriguing things with me before after they’ve cummed for the first time from oral with me.

They have felt it feels good, great even but then the sucker changes something and it’s like all the feel good feeling comes to an end and they have to start their pleasure all over again. I hate this when I’m receiving oral sex and I try to not change what I’m doing when they’ve voiced it feels great, don’t stop, etc.

They are so bloody worried about how long it’s been or they feel the sucker feels they have been sucking for bloody ages. I try to make sure they know I’m enjoying it throughly and practice breathing through my nose only to not have to be without their cock in my mouth as much as possible during it.

Only sucking doesn’t get them beyond the ‘this feels good’ stage. Using a combination of hands and sucking in unison changed that for them.

I’ve approached it as if doesn’t matter how long it takes as I’m there to worship their cock. I am express we can explore this together and discover what they like and want more of, so communicating is vital.

I’ve had moments where I’m certain my jaw will fall off if I keep going but I manage to keep going because their body language shows me they are enjoying it and allowing themselves to relax without giving the cumming bit too much thought. It also helps I love challenge.

Maybe identify what feels good and relax. Do more of both and perhaps you’ll reach an orgasm too.

"

You have nailed it!! I struggled with thisno one was ever able to make me cum. Because I was thinking shit like oh her jaw must ache by now. I communicated this she said don't worry I use my hands to give it a rest.

I think hand and mouth combo works for me. And she genuinely enjoys doing it. If she's enjoying doing it it makes the world of difference

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By *night in armourMan
50 weeks ago

stafford

Like to try two women giving me a bj now that would be hot

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By *ommy2125Man
50 weeks ago

newport

Never had this problem, sometimes it can take a while though, it's definitely a mental thing though, just be in the moment and if it ain't working tell him to do something you like.

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By *otlovefun42Couple
50 weeks ago

Costa Blanca Spain...


"Hi all I have literally only ever cum once in my life from an actual blowjob. It's not for lack of trying though as I've tried a lot. Any tips please would be appreciated. Thanks x"

As someone who receives and gives blow jobs, I know this problem.

If you are fucking someone then you control the rhythm and as you get close to cumming you can increase the speed if you want to cum, or slow down if you don't.

With a blow job it's the giver that is in control.

So, maybe you are almost there and the giver changes the rhythm or style and instead of pushing you past the edge it drops away.

I've found that keeping to one style and one rhythm, especially towards the end, works well.

Oh and don't try so hard, just relax and enjoy.

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By *heekyDemandCouple
50 weeks ago

Leicester


"Hi all I have literally only ever cum once in my life from an actual blowjob. It's not for lack of trying though as I've tried a lot. Any tips please would be appreciated. Thanks x

As someone who receives and gives blow jobs, I know this problem.

If you are fucking someone then you control the rhythm and as you get close to cumming you can increase the speed if you want to cum, or slow down if you don't.

With a blow job it's the giver that is in control.

So, maybe you are almost there and the giver changes the rhythm or style and instead of pushing you past the edge it drops away.

I've found that keeping to one style and one rhythm, especially towards the end, works well.

Oh and don't try so hard, just relax and enjoy."

This can actually help, if they are in control you by definition are not. It may help to resist them, if you cum they have made you, forced you, playing out your own CNC BJ fantasy.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
50 weeks ago

Lincoln

What you want to do, right, is grab their head and just properly fuck their face/ throat. You'll cum in no time And women love it... if they don't you might end up in A&E but you've got to be innit to winnit

LvM

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By *ools1964Man
50 weeks ago

Swadlincote

I've never sucked a guy & failed to make him cum, in fact I find most struggle to last more than 2 minutes.

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By *oiluvfunMan
50 weeks ago

Penrith


"I'm the same, I'm not a fan of them whatsoever, I don't care what the person does, deepthroat, eye contact, all the eagerness in the world or whatever else..I just accepted I didn't like them particularly and moved on in the end and avoided them and could happily never get one again.

I reached the ‘acceptance’ stage a good while ago too mate. I accepted that women only suck cock to get it hard for penetration, which is fine! Nothing wrong with that, as it means I’m getting sex after all

That’s a lie…. Some of us suck cock because we enjoy it x "

Unfortunately the ladies who are happy to perform a bj to completion are just too few and far between! I can honestly say, that 2017 was the last time I cum from a bj……

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By *rucking-HellMan
50 weeks ago

Northampton


"Think of her sister."

That's actually good advice.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
50 weeks ago

Central

Maybe visit somewhere where there are several gloryholes and suckers. They can each give you a taste of their skills, with you moving between them, as appropriate. With several sucking, you should be able to increase the potential to cumm

In sexual engagement, you can switch things up too, including the order that you sequence sex etc. have you had 2 suck you simultaneously?

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By *ickinNottsMan
50 weeks ago

Hucknall

I hadn't cum from a blowjob until last year. First time was with a woman after a long period of foreplay for both of us. Unfortunately it was with a condom, so I didn't get the opportunity to watch her swallow.

Second time was with a guy, long period of watching porn together and then he knelt between my legs and sucked as I was watching porn. He swallowed, as did I when I returned the favour a few minutes later.

I am hoping that it will happen more often now I have broken my duck.

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

Never cum from a BJ or hj

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By *.L.0460.Woman
50 weeks ago

Bognor Regis

I think that as others have said, maybe you're too focused on the orgasm rather than enjoying the whole experience.

I never rush a bj. I take my time & concentrate on giving a sensual experience, taking note of exactly what motion of mouth & tongue is giving the most pleasure. It's not something to be rushed. Slow & sloppy, lots of eye contact & stroking his body with my free hand all builds the excitement until I feel his balls tighten...

Apparently, I'm rather good at it

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By *olfandtazCouple
50 weeks ago

Bristol

Taz can suck a golf ball through a hosepipe, deep throat like a pro and it's always wet... she can get me cumming every time

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago


"I think that as others have said, maybe you're too focused on the orgasm rather than enjoying the whole experience.

I never rush a bj. I take my time & concentrate on giving a sensual experience, taking note of exactly what motion of mouth & tongue is giving the most pleasure. It's not something to be rushed. Slow & sloppy, lots of eye contact & stroking his body with my free hand all builds the excitement until I feel his balls tighten...

Apparently, I'm rather good at it"
sounds great and most enjoyable aspect to receive a bj defo . As I don’t like when someone goes full on crazy hard at it . I’d imagine if you find the lady ( or man pending ) very sexy that will ramp up your mood and possibilities of coming . I love coming from a bj . Actually prefer it . The visual of the lady doing it

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

I’ve never cum from a blow job….

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By *heekyDemandCouple
50 weeks ago

Leicester


"I’ve never cum from a blow job…. "

We'll be in Manchester later this year, fancy us trying to loosen that particular jar lid?

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

Ex wife never made me cum, her friend and sister did

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By *hrough the looking gla55Couple
50 weeks ago

Epsom

I never had great experiences with BJ's I til I met Berry..the first time she did I cried after it was sooo good needless to say I'm a huge fan now and if all the BJ's I've received since she's still my number 1 by far

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By *orny PTMan
50 weeks ago

Peterborough

Women need lube, men need friction, too much saliva can take away the sensation.

Have you ever tried to have a scratch under water?

That's why it's difficult to stimulate those particular nerve endings.

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

She puts me to sleep every night with a blow job sucks the cum out of me haha

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

If it makes you feel any better, I once gave a bj for an hour and a half and he didn’t cum; I had a sore jaw for weeks lol

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By *mf123Man
50 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

Takes practice

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By *orny PTMan
50 weeks ago

Peterborough


"I never had great experiences with BJ's I til I met Berry..the first time she did I cried after it was sooo good needless to say I'm a huge fan now and if all the BJ's I've received since she's still my number 1 by far"

Well done Berry. You should arrange classes in a club.

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By *tylebender03Man
50 weeks ago

Manchester

Good times

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago


"Hi all I have literally only ever cum once in my life from an actual blowjob. It's not for lack of trying though as I've tried a lot. Any tips please would be appreciated. Thanks x"

Pretty sure I could get you cumming

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By *enrydarrenMan
50 weeks ago

Harrow Weald

Nothing sweeter than cumming in a mouth after a good BJ

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By *lym4realCouple
50 weeks ago

plymouth

Men need to keep downstair's trimmed amd so the female giving the blow job can go lower on the males shaft without hair getting in the way !! .....xxx

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By *oredRichMan
50 weeks ago

royston

It's rarely just a bj in my experience. It's usually alternated with stroking either balls or cock. But yes, I have cum often from the combination.

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By *talionladMan
50 weeks ago

surrey and east Yorkshire

Cant even remember the last time I had a good bj let alone cum from getting one

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By *KTim61Man
50 weeks ago

Tipton

Never cum getting ??? BJ as I've yet to experienced a Good BJ

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By *eatermanMan
50 weeks ago

Reading

I cum from blowjobs all the time, it's quite surprising how many men don't

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By *uckyman87Man
50 weeks ago

Ashford

Would love to cum from a bj

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By *KTim61Man
50 weeks ago

Tipton


" Men need to keep downstair's trimmed amd so the female giving the blow job can go lower on the males shaft without hair getting in the way !! .....xxx"

I have it well trimmed for a very long time, but not made any difference !!!

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