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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I'm quite curious to see what these clubs are like.

Only thing is, I dont drive, I have a motorbike, and I don't really fancy rocking up in motorbike gear and saying to the fella at the desk "where can I stick my helmet mate"

So I'll wait till I get a car first.

I'd like to dress up, get my hair did etc

What as a noob can I expect from these clubs? Is it OK for a single fella to rock up and check out the action?

Are there certain nights I should go?

Whats the best club near Durham?

What should I expect?

Are beardy southerners welcome?

I'm not looking to turn up with any expectations, more just to see what they are like.

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By *arlot o scaraWoman
over a year ago

Hell

Clubs have lockers for personal effects

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Clubs have lockers for personal effects "

It's more me having helmet head, hair being an absolute mess, having to get out of motorbike gear, store it etc.

I'm hopefully doing my driving test within the next few months.

I'll be a big boy soon

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

Are you being inquisitive?

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Get a hotel nearby and a taxi and make a full night of it.

As to what to expect, as a first time visitor you're entitled to a free complimentary 3some with 2 supermodels whom they keep on retainer for these sorts of thing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are you being inquisitive? "

Always, I'm like a cat without the charm.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Get a hotel nearby and a taxi and make a full night of it.

As to what to expect, as a first time visitor you're entitled to a free complimentary 3some with 2 supermodels whom they keep on retainer for these sorts of thing "

Hotel isn't a bad shout actually, only thing is if I rock up and it's not a bit of me it's a waste of a hotel.

I should be driving soon, I don't mind waiting.

Ooooooh God, not more super models harassing me

I'm not a peice of meat, I have feelings to

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By *restonCouple555Couple
over a year ago

preston

Regards single men going it depends on the club and the night. Most clubs do a certain night where single men are welcome and others where it is couples only.

In other news, your profile is hilarious…. and by that I mean the pictures.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Regards single men going it depends on the club and the night. Most clubs do a certain night where single men are welcome and others where it is couples only.

In other news, your profile is hilarious…. and by that I mean the pictures. "

Why thank you (flicks hair) and your profile is a decent bit of eye candy... . And by that I mean the written part.

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By *enusandmarsCouple
over a year ago

Buryish


"So I'm quite curious to see what these clubs are like.

Only thing is, I dont drive, I have a motorbike, and I don't really fancy rocking up in motorbike gear and saying to the fella at the desk "where can I stick my helmet mate"

So I'll wait till I get a car first.

I'd like to dress up, get my hair did etc

What as a noob can I expect from these clubs? Is it OK for a single fella to rock up and check out the action?

Are there certain nights I should go?

Whats the best club near Durham?

What should I expect?

Are beardy southerners welcome?

I'm not looking to turn up with any expectations, more just to see what they are like.

"

Its totally fine for single guys to go to clubs. Most require you to become a member first though, usually sign up is done on your first visit and most will give you a little tour round as well to help you feel at ease and know where very thing is.

Most clubs have theme nights/events going on at different times through the year, where you need to put your name down on the guest list first, (check out the club evens section in the forum) so they can keep an eye on an even mix of couples, singles etc attending on those particular nights. Then there's certain nights where all are welcome to just turn up, and then theres some nights where, for example its couples only, so its always best to check out their website on each club, or the forum events as mentioned.

Some clubs are bring your own drinks, some have licenced bars. Some are dress down on entry, some are only dress down beyond the main social area and play rooms, again its best to find out this from the specific club you want to go to.

As for turning up on a bike, they all have lockers for people to use, though they aren't big lockers they can fit a bag with clothes in. You get given a towel too, so you can use the showers, hot tub, pool, whatever they have. So, you could solve the helmet hair by having a shower when you arrive? Another option could be booking a hotel close by to the club, though thats less spontaneous and adds further costs. Or, like you say, wait till you have your car.

Condoms are often available for free in all clubs.

We have visited four clubs so far, all within the North West, so I cant comment on whats close to you but in our experience so far all have been welcoming and fun nights. We would love to go to other clubs further afield and make a weekend of it - thats on our to do list for this year!

Hope this info helps and good luck in your adventures.

Xx

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I remember a Tgirl who regularly went out in Manchesters village and she’d arrive on a motorbike. Into the toilets and 30 minutes later Suzi Quattro appeared (a very good imitation anyway).

So Op if a guy in a dress can do it, admittedly the helmet hair was hidden under a wig, so can you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So I'm quite curious to see what these clubs are like.

Only thing is, I dont drive, I have a motorbike, and I don't really fancy rocking up in motorbike gear and saying to the fella at the desk "where can I stick my helmet mate"

So I'll wait till I get a car first.

I'd like to dress up, get my hair did etc

What as a noob can I expect from these clubs? Is it OK for a single fella to rock up and check out the action?

Are there certain nights I should go?

Whats the best club near Durham?

What should I expect?

Are beardy southerners welcome?

I'm not looking to turn up with any expectations, more just to see what they are like.

Its totally fine for single guys to go to clubs. Most require you to become a member first though, usually sign up is done on your first visit and most will give you a little tour round as well to help you feel at ease and know where very thing is.

Most clubs have theme nights/events going on at different times through the year, where you need to put your name down on the guest list first, (check out the club evens section in the forum) so they can keep an eye on an even mix of couples, singles etc attending on those particular nights. Then there's certain nights where all are welcome to just turn up, and then theres some nights where, for example its couples only, so its always best to check out their website on each club, or the forum events as mentioned.

Some clubs are bring your own drinks, some have licenced bars. Some are dress down on entry, some are only dress down beyond the main social area and play rooms, again its best to find out this from the specific club you want to go to.

As for turning up on a bike, they all have lockers for people to use, though they aren't big lockers they can fit a bag with clothes in. You get given a towel too, so you can use the showers, hot tub, pool, whatever they have. So, you could solve the helmet hair by having a shower when you arrive? Another option could be booking a hotel close by to the club, though thats less spontaneous and adds further costs. Or, like you say, wait till you have your car.

Condoms are often available for free in all clubs.

We have visited four clubs so far, all within the North West, so I cant comment on whats close to you but in our experience so far all have been welcoming and fun nights. We would love to go to other clubs further afield and make a weekend of it - thats on our to do list for this year!

Hope this info helps and good luck in your adventures.

Xx"

Thanks alot for all this info, as somebody that has no idea you've given me an idea of what to expect.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I remember a Tgirl who regularly went out in Manchesters village and she’d arrive on a motorbike. Into the toilets and 30 minutes later Suzi Quattro appeared (a very good imitation anyway).

So Op if a guy in a dress can do it, admittedly the helmet hair was hidden under a wig, so can you. "

Is her wig up for grabs? That might solve that issue

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By *eordieJeansCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Club F is in Stanley. We’ve never been so can’t comment on what to expect there but it’ll more than likely be the same advice for any club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Club F in Stanley also have overnight rooms. Plenty space to store your stuff

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Some women get dressed/ touch up in the dressing rooms. I'm sure you could do similar if you wanted to.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

You can always shower on arrival at the club to sort your hair maybe? Or as others have said simply grab a hotel

I host very large parties at Pandora in Leeds and if you arrive early you can request a large locker for your gear as although most clubs do have lockers not all would be big enough to pop your lid in - although the large ones at Pandora are virtually big enough to sleep in!

Its a bring your own booze bar for if you do get a hotel otherwise soft drinks are very reasonably priced there.

Ask for a tour on arrival and you'll be shown around and a good host will try and get you chatting to a few folks so you aren't sat like a billy no mates lol

Dates for my upcoming parties are on my profile, just give me a shout for any more info on those or to be added to a guestlist

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By *arlot o scaraWoman
over a year ago

Hell


"Clubs have lockers for personal effects

It's more me having helmet head, hair being an absolute mess, having to get out of motorbike gear, store it etc.

I'm hopefully doing my driving test within the next few months.

I'll be a big boy soon "

They also have showers

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By *anJenny 181Couple
over a year ago

Preston

Me & the Mrs have just broken our club vaginity with 3 visits so far.

Each club seems be be slightly different some have clicks we are told but not seen that ourselves.

It's really good that you are going with no expectation and that's the best way to start.

It can be expensive as a single male so look for clubs with an offer on, you need to check out each club.

We are lucky our local clubs have, pool, sauna and hot tub so we go early and make the most of the wet areas to get our moneys worth.

We are lucky we can play together but it can end up us getting a crowd.

Lockers, Towels, bring your own booze or some have a licenced bar

For me just walk up to people tell them it's your first time & get to know a few people.

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