FabSwingers.com forum: Who's looked at me..

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you have this on or off?

If off why? Is it so you can endlessly perve without coming across creepy or so you don't get an influx of messages

If on why? Is it so you can get someone's attention or let them know your endlessly perving

Miss S x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My settings dictate that I’m not the slightest bit bothered

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

To prevent messages.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

I’m a ninja so I have to go ninja… the restraining order said so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have it off because I'd rather not get blocked for viewing a profile 5 times in a minute due to immediately forgetting what I was looking at their profile for

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By *o_yeur_eyes_onlyMan
over a year ago

Londontown

The creepier the better

I have thought about this once or twice ...... I tend to click on some profiles multiple times (subconsciously) because I always find the people attractive, and then think "oh s**t, I've looked at this profile 100 times today, they're going to think I'm a perve". But it's a genuine attraction ......

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I look in stealth, like someone said above, I don't want a message if I look at a profile .

Also I forget who I've looked at, so don't wanna look creepy lol.

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By *eronicaExplorerWoman
over a year ago

London

"I have it off because I'd rather not get blocked for viewing a profile 5 times in a minute due to immediately forgetting what I was looking at their profile for*)"

Relief. I thought you were just ignoring me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I literally just found out about this feature and said I wouldn't use it.

But I am now.

Only reason is I don't think there's any positives to me showing up on someones profile.

So I just have a quick peek and leg it.

I'm trying to only interact with people that have shown me interest first now.

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By *oveToPlay.Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

We used to have ours on, but it caused a lot of messages to come through so we now prefer stealth mode

S xxx

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

"Do you have this on or off?

If off why? Is it so you can endlessly perve without coming across creepy or so you don't get an influx of messages

If on why? Is it so you can get someone's attention or let them know your endlessly perving

Miss S x "

Yeah I hide mine. Both because so I can repeat perv. But also sometimes I accidentally click a profile that I've already read and isn't suitable or I click their profile while messaging and I reckon it will look weird.

For clarity Op, I have definitely stealth perved your profile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ninja. Solely because I’ve had abuse just from looking at a profile.

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By *929Man
over a year ago

bedlington

I don’t hide mine as being male I assume can look at a lasses profile and within 5 mins that look will be buried by loads of other views so won’t ever notice

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By *hunkyBuggaMan
over a year ago

Devon

I don’t hide but now I think I should! I look at peoples profiles I like but don’t want to seem like a creep

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have it off because I'd rather not get blocked for viewing a profile 5 times in a minute due to immediately forgetting what I was looking at their profile for

Omg we do this all the time!

Brain like a goldfish

Miss S x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you have this on or off?

If off why? Is it so you can endlessly perve without coming across creepy or so you don't get an influx of messages

If on why? Is it so you can get someone's attention or let them know your endlessly perving

Miss S x

For clarity Op, I have definitely stealth perved your profile! "

The cheek

Miss S x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ninja. Solely because I’ve had abuse just from looking at a profile. "

This blows my mind.

Arseholes.

Miss S x

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I don't often look at profiles so i do tend to be visible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you have this on or off?

If off why? Is it so you can endlessly perve without coming across creepy or so you don't get an influx of messages

If on why? Is it so you can get someone's attention or let them know your endlessly perving

Miss S x

For clarity Op, I have definitely stealth perved your profile! "

That's another reason, clicking on a profile you've already seen that isn't suitable.

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London

I leave it on, I aint got nuffin to hide!

I do view forumites profiles a lot though, I forget who everyone is and like to know who I'm talking to. And obviously having a perv while I'm at it...

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

"Do you have this on or off?

If off why? Is it so you can endlessly perve without coming across creepy or so you don't get an influx of messages

If on why? Is it so you can get someone's attention or let them know your endlessly perving

Miss S x "

I mainly check the profiles of people in the forum, either to remind myself who I’m talking to (after name/picture changes) or to see if they are an occasional bellend or arrogant prick.

I don’t want my fellow loungers thinking I’m perving them, it’s just so I know who I’m yakking at.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have it off because I'd rather not get blocked for viewing a profile 5 times in a minute due to immediately forgetting what I was looking at their profile for

Omg we do this all the time!

Brain like a goldfish

Miss S x"

That memory retention thread is aging like milk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s off. And I only found that out not long ago

. Sorry if I’ve perved at anyone 345 times.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I have mine set to ninja mode to avoid the I saw you looking at me messages. I only use the who's looked at me to check for signs of a particular person I still have an active restraining order against.

If someone looked and didn't message, I obviously wasn't what they were looking to connect with, so there's no point reaching out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't often look at profiles so i do tend to be visible"

Looks at me all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Off as I've the memory of a gold fish.

It's good as it prevents unwanted attention too.

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By *heodore21Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

It doesn’t matter who looks at me ....the only think that matters is who will share the most important thing I have ...my time ...

I hope you all had a banging festive period

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By *ristolboy1005Man
over a year ago

bristol

Only just realised your could turn it off

Stalker mode...off lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Only just realised your could turn it off

Stalker mode...off lol"

You're welcome

Miss S x

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By *ristolboy1005Man
over a year ago

bristol

"Only just realised your could turn it off

Stalker mode...off lol

You're welcome

Miss S x"

My guardian angel

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

Always in ninja mode. I like to perve and I like to be horrified by some photos. And I like only me to know which is which.

Damn typo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It wasn't wonko

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

Off. My experience is the same as other women on here - stops the "saw you peeking did you see anything you like?" messages. Er no, that's why I didn't message or wink at you after looking

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By *pen2UMan
over a year ago

Telford

"Do you have this on or off?

If off why? Is it so you can endlessly perve without coming across creepy or so you don't get an influx of messages

If on why? Is it so you can get someone's attention or let them know your endlessly perving

Miss S x "

I have now and my god you're both fantastic! X

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"We used to have ours on, but it caused a lot of messages to come through so we now prefer stealth mode

S xxx"

^ This is my reason for being stealthy too. I’m not a ninja, I just identify as one on here.

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over a year ago

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By *lowhands7Man
over a year ago

South Leicestershire (willing to travel)

I have just learnt something, never knew that existed!!

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By *tacy.TWoman
over a year ago

luton

"We used to have ours on, but it caused a lot of messages to come through so we now prefer stealth mode

S xxx

^ This is my reason for being stealthy too. I’m not a ninja, I just identify as one on here.

My reason too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Always in ninja mode. I like to perve and I like to be horrified by some photos. And I like only me to know which is which.

Damn typo"

Omg yes this sums it up perfectly

Miss S x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you have this on or off?

If off why? Is it so you can endlessly perve without coming across creepy or so you don't get an influx of messages

If on why? Is it so you can get someone's attention or let them know your endlessly perving

Miss S x

I have now and my god you're both fantastic! X"

Thank you

Miss S x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have just learnt something, never knew that existed!! "

I'm surpised at this, your the second person to say this.

You're welcome

Miss S x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We used to have ours on, but it caused a lot of messages to come through so we now prefer stealth mode

S xxx

^ This is my reason for being stealthy too. I’m not a ninja, I just identify as one on here.

Who doesn't love a good

Miss S x

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

I'm in stealth mode because I got sick of people who thought that me simply looking at their profile meant I was interested.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"I have it off because I'd rather not get blocked for viewing a profile 5 times in a minute due to immediately forgetting what I was looking at their profile for

...I do snoop sometimes, it depends who I'm looking at lol

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

Thank goodness it’s off

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Have mine on

Like to see who’s been using my profile for wank material lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's on, because I like to read profiles and sometimes to fab their photos.I do not shy my curiosity to discover people.

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By *hatKlungeEnigmaMan
over a year ago

St Leonards

On.

An awful lot of reasons, but mostly it can help as a first "hello" if people see I've looked at them and they're mildly interested in me etc.

I don't really expect those who look at men to have it turned on - there are plenty of dicks on here who would hound them at the merest hint of interest, so it's very understandable not to have it on.

GlowUp's comment is sadly true in that regard too.

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By *ornyvirginphxWoman
over a year ago

phoenix

Haha I never look at my views so I some of you probably have like 10 views from me

I can’t be bothered to care about what that says about me lol

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Off. Never ever will I turn it on.

I can just about get away with saying I glimpsed at a photo briefly. I don't need anything to show otherwise.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Off. It’s another good filter

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By *xfordjohnMan
over a year ago

Oxford

"Off. It’s another good filter"

Me too.

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else

"Do you have this on or off?

If off why? Is it so you can endlessly perve without coming across creepy or so you don't get an influx of messages

If on why? Is it so you can get someone's attention or let them know your endlessly perving

Miss S x "

I will take any privacy I can get on this site.

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By *hunky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich

I have it on probably a couple of months ago.

I hated the threads were asking about how many views you had today.

Women couples had 100 at least and posted it with a lot of happy emojis.

Most single guys had 0-30 and many sounded sad/depressed.

I was thinking what's the point for them to see I looked?

Nothing really.

I fab photos or send a message, if I want attention.

Also, my bio mentions it I'm in ninja mode.

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

I prefer stealth for perving reasons

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I prefer stealth for perving reasons"

Honest. I like it.

Nothing wrong with a bit of a perv!

Miss S x

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

There is a glitch in the matrix.

I've had this facility turned off for years just because I'm not meeting and I don't search profiles and I'm not trying to catch anyone's eye.

However on at least a dozen occasions I've looked at a profile I've never seen before and within a short space of time they have looked at me.

It's too much of a coincidence that they would all randomly look at me when I'm in ninja mode so they can obviously see that I've looked at them which defeats the whole purpose.

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By *neforutoMan
over a year ago

Fantasy land in the SW

Mine is set to on, I love a good perv and not shy about admitting it. Admittedly Im not a female or couple so the chances of me being contacted through perving is almost zero

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Do you have this on or off?

If off why? Is it so you can endlessly perve without coming across creepy or so you don't get an influx of messages

If on why? Is it so you can get someone's attention or let them know your endlessly perving

Miss S x "
mines on

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

I browse in stealth mode so I don't creep anyone out.

Conversely, I'd prefer to know when people look at me, because it lets me know being on here might not entirely be a waste of time.

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

tbh ive never really give it much thought,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single guy, I don't think it matters much that mine's off

Might turn it back on just to check

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As a single guy, I don't think it matters much that mine's off

Might turn it back on just to check

What about your couples profile?

Miss S x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a single guy, I don't think it matters much that mine's off

Might turn it back on just to check

What about your couples profile?

Miss S x"

That's off as well. Can't risk someone thinking we're creepy when both of us are opening the same profile multiple times within the same hour

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By *arkliverpoolMan
over a year ago

whiston / the lakes sometimes

Its on and endlessly perving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't care if people see me looking. That's all it will ever be

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

It's never occurred to me to turn it off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As a single guy, I don't think it matters much that mine's off

Might turn it back on just to check

What about your couples profile?

Miss S x

That's off as well. Can't risk someone thinking we're creepy when both of us are opening the same profile multiple times within the same hour

I thought so, same reason here

Miss S x

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

Mine is off, mostly so I can perv in peace.

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By *rRiosMan
over a year ago

dublin

"I have it off because I'd rather not get blocked for viewing a profile 5 times in a minute due to immediately forgetting what I was looking at their profile for

This and so much this. I’m like “I’m not a horny coomer, I’m just a forgetful fool!”

Maybe a little of the former but much more the later… hard thing to prove though

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I have it off, I look at random people off the forum and the blokes like to message if they notice you've looked, it's very annoying.

Plus I can perve in peace, I always find it odd when someone looks several times a day.

Mrs

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By *urvelover87Man
over a year ago

London

I have it on, as most times I look at profiles I also leave a fab or get in touch either with winks or message, so no point in going stealth for me.

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