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By *illy Idol OP   Man
over a year ago

Midlands

It's a new year, a new me. I've failed at dry January already, but I also promised myself I'd try to get better at the sexual stuff.

So my question to you all is...

What's your one sex tip for me?

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Practice makes perfect

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By *onderWomanWlvWoman
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Enthusiasm!

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By *riental_brit_studMan
over a year ago

London

Be dirty, be very dirty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a new year, a new me. I've failed at dry January already, but I also promised myself I'd try to get better at the sexual stuff.

So my question to you all is...

What's your one sex tip for me?"

Don't take your ego into the bedroom, take direction without getting offended, find out what your partner likes, create a relaxed atmosphere of no judgment and communicate.

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By *arlot o scaraWoman
over a year ago

Hell

Just lie there and don’t make any noise or open your eyes. People love it.

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By *enk15Man
over a year ago

Evesham


"It's a new year, a new me. I've failed at dry January already, but I also promised myself I'd try to get better at the sexual stuff.

So my question to you all is...

What's your one sex tip for me?"

Learn how to give a great sensual massage.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

Stick them with the pointy end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do it like they do on the discovery channel!

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By *oveToPlay.Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Eye contact and be vocal, it's amazing when a man tells you, you feel incredible as he's fucking you

S xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t change positions if it’s working!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't talk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make sure they are awake first.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke


"Don’t change positions if it’s working!"

This is a great tip Fluffy

I would add just learn what yours and their body responds to. And do more of that

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Be good out of it and don't be a simp or doormat.

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By *ommy2125Man
over a year ago

newport

Prioritise them, if you want to be better it isn't about you getting off its about the people/ person your with.

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

Much contradictory advice. Just be you, you should be enough

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By *illy Idol OP   Man
over a year ago

Midlands


"Practice makes perfect "

You offering yourself up to me?

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By *illy Idol OP   Man
over a year ago

Midlands


"Don't talk "

" "

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By *illy Idol OP   Man
over a year ago

Midlands


"Don’t change positions if it’s working!

This is a great tip Fluffy

I would add just learn what yours and their body responds to. And do more of that "

Great tips Ladies. I'm writing it down

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By *illy Idol OP   Man
over a year ago

Midlands


"Eye contact and be vocal, it's amazing when a man tells you, you feel incredible as he's fucking you

S xxx"

More eye contact

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke


"Don't talk "

How did I know you would put this

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania


"Don’t change positions if it’s working!"

Much to my embarrasment, this is something I perennially got wrong in my marriage - my poor long-suffering wife.

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

Pop knob in fanny.

Take it out again.

Pop it in again.

Literally rinse and repeat.

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By *illy Idol OP   Man
over a year ago

Midlands


"It's a new year, a new me. I've failed at dry January already, but I also promised myself I'd try to get better at the sexual stuff.

So my question to you all is...

What's your one sex tip for me?

Don't take your ego into the bedroom, take direction without getting offended, find out what your partner likes, create a relaxed atmosphere of no judgment and communicate."

I like this one

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By *illy Idol OP   Man
over a year ago

Midlands


"Pop knob in fanny.

Take it out again.

Pop it in again.

Literally rinse and repeat."

Do you mean like making the popping noise?

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I find it an odd concept that someone can be 'good ' at sex

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By *uddy laneMan
over a year ago

dudley


"It's a new year, a new me. I've failed at dry January already, but I also promised myself I'd try to get better at the sexual stuff.

So my question to you all is...

What's your one sex tip for me?"

Keep the lights off and pull out the stud from the wardrobe.

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By *educing_EmCouple
over a year ago

Tipperary

Read body language

Em x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don’t change positions if it’s working!

This is a great tip Fluffy

I would add just learn what yours and their body responds to. And do more of that "

Absolutely

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania


"I find it an odd concept that someone can be 'good ' at sex"

I know! It's like these people who think you can "wash" a car! I mean, wtaf?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a new year, a new me. I've failed at dry January already, but I also promised myself I'd try to get better at the sexual stuff.

So my question to you all is...

What's your one sex tip for me?

Don't take your ego into the bedroom, take direction without getting offended, find out what your partner likes, create a relaxed atmosphere of no judgment and communicate.

I like this one"

I wernt sure if the post was serious or not but I got all super serious with the response.

I think some fellas think what's worked for one partner will work for the rest and it can hurt their ego if the reception isn't what they hoped for.

Yeh the human body is relatively the same in regards to certain stimulus, but, psychology plays a major part sexually. And I think alot of guys don't realise/care for this aspect.

As long as your partner enjoys your company, feels relaxed and confident enough to tell you their needs and you pay attention and take direction then there isn't a reason for anybody out here to be having bad sexy time.

Imo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Read body language

Em x"

And this! Listen to their breathing, moans, pay attention to the signals.

My thing is always "don't fake anything with me, let me learn what you like"

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By *illy Idol OP   Man
over a year ago

Midlands


"Read body language

Em x

And this! Listen to their breathing, moans, pay attention to the signals.

My thing is always "don't fake anything with me, let me learn what you like""

So grab the inhaler if they're moaning about their asthma. Got it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Read body language

Em x

And this! Listen to their breathing, moans, pay attention to the signals.

My thing is always "don't fake anything with me, let me learn what you like"

So grab the inhaler if they're moaning about their asthma. Got it "

Na, just tell them to shh because you can't hear the footy.

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By *illy Idol OP   Man
over a year ago

Midlands


"It's a new year, a new me. I've failed at dry January already, but I also promised myself I'd try to get better at the sexual stuff.

So my question to you all is...

What's your one sex tip for me?

Don't take your ego into the bedroom, take direction without getting offended, find out what your partner likes, create a relaxed atmosphere of no judgment and communicate.

I like this one

I wernt sure if the post was serious or not but I got all super serious with the response.

I think some fellas think what's worked for one partner will work for the rest and it can hurt their ego if the reception isn't what they hoped for.

Yeh the human body is relatively the same in regards to certain stimulus, but, psychology plays a major part sexually. And I think alot of guys don't realise/care for this aspect.

As long as your partner enjoys your company, feels relaxed and confident enough to tell you their needs and you pay attention and take direction then there isn't a reason for anybody out here to be having bad sexy time.

Imo."

It's a very good point. I think good communication is huge. My best experiences have usually come from people who aren't afraid to say what they do and don't like.

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By *illy Idol OP   Man
over a year ago

Midlands


"Read body language

Em x

And this! Listen to their breathing, moans, pay attention to the signals.

My thing is always "don't fake anything with me, let me learn what you like"

So grab the inhaler if they're moaning about their asthma. Got it

Na, just tell them to shh because you can't hear the footy."

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Get good at reading body language.

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By *educing_EmCouple
over a year ago

Tipperary


"Read body language

Em x

And this! Listen to their breathing, moans, pay attention to the signals.

My thing is always "don't fake anything with me, let me learn what you like""

I prefer to show them with actions unless words are necessary as some don't like to be told it isn't working for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get good at reading body language."

Or books?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't talk

How did I know you would put this "

Coz you know I'm still looking for cock with no taking.

Also....about the no talking. Should I ask what you said? I got the hello.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Don't focus on orgasms.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

Take a sleeping tablet then you'll sleep like a champion

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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago

Wirral

Use your imagination and be creative. Don't be afraid to try new things.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.

Don't be too enthusiastic, don't make too much effort.

People always work harder to impress you if they think you're not that fussed. Plus they'll definitely want to meet you again if you don't show all your party tricks at once.

Tl;dr? Only put in 40% effort.

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By *illy Idol OP   Man
over a year ago

Midlands


"Read body language

Em x

And this! Listen to their breathing, moans, pay attention to the signals.

My thing is always "don't fake anything with me, let me learn what you like"

I prefer to show them with actions unless words are necessary as some don't like to be told it isn't working for you"

Teach me, teach me

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By *illy Idol OP   Man
over a year ago

Midlands


"Take a sleeping tablet then you'll sleep like a champion "

Someone above mentioned lying still with your eyes shut. This could help a lot

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By *illy Idol OP   Man
over a year ago

Midlands


"Don't be too enthusiastic, don't make too much effort.

People always work harder to impress you if they think you're not that fussed. Plus they'll definitely want to meet you again if you don't show all your party tricks at once.

Tl;dr? Only put in 40% effort."

Maybe I'll message you, maybe I won't

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Practice makes perfect

You offering yourself up to me? "

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Read body language

Em x

And this! Listen to their breathing, moans, pay attention to the signals.

My thing is always "don't fake anything with me, let me learn what you like"

I prefer to show them with actions unless words are necessary as some don't like to be told it isn't working for you"

This is why I mentioned leaving the ego at the door.

You can be confident in the bedroom but still be able to listen to what your partner likes.

Imo.

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London


"It's a new year, a new me. I've failed at dry January already, but I also promised myself I'd try to get better at the sexual stuff.

So my question to you all is...

What's your one sex tip for me?"

Be bi and experience sex both ways, then you know what is nice for the other person to do in either position.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"Take a sleeping tablet then you'll sleep like a champion

Someone above mentioned lying still with your eyes shut. This could help a lot"

That'll certainly help

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