FabSwingers.com forum: Your conquests

By *elix Sighted OP Man
over a year ago

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Very roughly, what’s the split of your Fab sexual conquests:

1) Searched for and set up by you

2) As a result of being searched for and set up by them

3) Lounge chat / socials / clubs etc

I’d say I’m about 60/30/10, but that’s over the whole seven years. The ratio has tipped massively the other way in the last two.

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By *educing_EmCouple
over a year ago

Tipperary

I'd say 20/80.

Haven't had any from the last one.

Em x

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By *arlot o scaraWoman
over a year ago

Hell

Probably equal parts one and two

I’ve met several people who post in the forum but only one as a direct result of posting in the forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

0/0/0

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else

100 % 1.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

I’d say 10/20/70 so far but it will change to 20/10/70 this year as I think I need to be more proactive.

I still rely mostly on socials/forum, and less so clubs probably.

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else

"100 % 1.

(Maybe

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

I would say probably 60/40/0

I have been to an organised social. But I went home with my friends and ate McDonald’s in bed tipsy giggling about what a fun time we had

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

50/50/50

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

90% are clubs & socials.

We do speak to them usually prior too.

The others are a mix of who contacted who first

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

10 / 5 / 85

Lots and lots of clubs, but there is crossover, we can chat and arrange in advance but the club is then where we meet.

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By *elix Sighted OP Man
over a year ago

Cloud 8

"0/0/0

Free the fluff!!!!

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

30/10/60

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"0/0/0

Free the fluff!!!!

Plans are afoot!

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I don't tend to think of the people I've had sex with as conquests

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By *nn_JamesCouple
over a year ago

Berkshire/ South Bucks Borders

75 / 25 / 0

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By *elix Sighted OP Man
over a year ago

Cloud 8

"50/50/50

There’s always one difficult twat!!!

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By *elix Sighted OP Man
over a year ago

Cloud 8

"0/0/0

Free the fluff!!!!

Plans are afoot! "

How very niche!!

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

"I would say 10/20/70. I mostly go out to socials and clubs to try and just meet people and very rarely do the chase on here as it can get very tiring, very quickly so any sexual meets I have had, have pretty much been as a result of them messaging first."

Snap!

It does work well, doesn’t it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say 5/10/85. I mostly go out to socials and clubs to try and just meet people and very rarely do the chase on here as it can get very tiring, very quickly so any sexual meets I have had, have pretty much been as a result of them messaging first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *elix Sighted OP Man
over a year ago

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"I would say 5/10/85. I mostly go out to socials and clubs to try and just meet people and very rarely do the chase on here as it can get very tiring, very quickly so any sexual meets I have had, have pretty much been as a result of them messaging first."

Blimey Joe, that changed quickly! Have you been to a social in the last three minutes?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Snap!

It does work well, doesn’t it? "

Ooooops! I adjusted the ratios as compared to other, I underestimated how many socials I go to but the same rule applies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blimey Joe, that changed quickly! Have you been to a social in the last three minutes?!!

Haha I saw everyone else's ratios and underestimated how social I am compared to having private meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

0/70/30

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ratio has changed to what it used to be. I used to meet more from me messaging people but it seems much harder work these days.

I find clubs and socials are a lot easier way to meet people.

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By *hunky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich

0/0/0

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

90%

10%

I'm a lazy bitch.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

Snap!

It does work well, doesn’t it?

Ooooops! I adjusted the ratios as compared to other, I underestimated how many socials I go to but the same rule applies

I see! Still makes sense to me, and great it works for you too.

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames

Mainly initiated by me.

A couple of times i was approached.

And a couple of times I was approached when I popped up on someone’s “near me” list … quite brilliantly in one case it was a lady who I had approached, she said she wasn’t interested, and then she approached me when she realised I was nearby. I chose not to mention the previous rejection …

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Snap!

It does work well, doesn’t it?

Ooooops! I adjusted the ratios as compared to other, I underestimated how many socials I go to but the same rule applies

I see! Still makes sense to me, and great it works for you too."

It definitely does, I have to travel further and probably make more of an effort but it's worth it as opposed to moaning about not getting any meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1) 0% - I don't search

2) 10% - set up mutually though

3) 90% - easier to chat in person socially

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

6/6/6

(But not 6/6/7 - that's the Neighbour of the Beast)

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By *elix Sighted OP Man
over a year ago

Cloud 8

"My ratio has changed to what it used to be. I used to meet more from me messaging people but it seems much harder work these days.

I find clubs and socials are a lot easier way to meet people."

Same here and that’s why I mentioned the change in the past couple of years. It used to be that it was 100% me chasing. Now I’m more social in the forums and at organised socials, I find good things come out of that.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

0/0/100

All via organised socials and clubs. Some of that was discovering real life chemistry with people we'd chatted to on here though.

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By *elix Sighted OP Man
over a year ago

Cloud 8

"1) 0% - I don't search

2) 10% - set up mutually though

3) 90% - easier to chat in person socially"

Especially as I hear you’re not *that* off putting in real life….

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

"I don't tend to think of the people I've had sex with as conquests "

Unless they've ended up in hospital in Hastings...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My ratio has changed to what it used to be. I used to meet more from me messaging people but it seems much harder work these days.

I find clubs and socials are a lot easier way to meet people.

It's just so much easier face to face isn't it.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

"0/0/100

All via organised socials and clubs. Some of that was discovering real life chemistry with people we'd chatted to on here though.

Oh, and that other time but I wasn't there for that one and I know B will be silent on that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100%

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"0%

100%

0%"

Ps I only message people to annoy them/take the piss. Not for a meet, I'd rather wank.

Hence the 0%!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1) 0%. Nobody replied to my messages.

2) 12.5% (I’ve had one meet)

3) 87.5%. All but one is from the forums. That one was my first ever meet and from the chatrooms before I discovered the forums.

(if my maths is correct but I’ve basically forgotten percentages and most of my GCSE)

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By *illan-KillashMan
over a year ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants

"Very roughly, what’s the split of your Fab sexual conquests:

1) Searched for and set up by you

2) As a result of being searched for and set up by them

3) Lounge chat / socials / clubs etc

I’d say I’m about 60/30/10, but that’s over the whole seven years. The ratio has tipped massively the other way in the last two."

BFZ.

Big.

Fat.

Zero.

*tears of sadness emoji......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"6/6/6

(But not 6/6/7 - that's the Neighbour of the Beast)"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"1) 0% - I don't search

2) 10% - set up mutually though

3) 90% - easier to chat in person socially

Especially as I hear you’re not *that* off putting in real life…."

Exactly what's wrong with online, people like to listen to others FAR too much!

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

Snap!

It does work well, doesn’t it?

Ooooops! I adjusted the ratios as compared to other, I underestimated how many socials I go to but the same rule applies

I see! Still makes sense to me, and great it works for you too.

It definitely does, I have to travel further and probably make more of an effort but it's worth it as opposed to moaning about not getting any meets"

I was about to add that.

I think this is a great thread to get people to understand that the usual advice given “go to clubs or organised socials” actually works.

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By *reeneggsandsamMan
over a year ago

Perpignan and cap

40/40/20 ish.

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By *urve_your_enthusiasmWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

10/(45/45)

I'd say the second two options merge.

The lucky few who have contacted me, have usually scoped me out through the lounge

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By *elix Sighted OP Man
over a year ago

Cloud 8

"1) 0%. Nobody replied to my messages.

2) 12.5% (I’ve had one meet)

3) 87.5%. All but one is from the forums. That one was my first ever meet and from the chatrooms before I discovered the forums.

(if my maths is correct but I’ve basically forgotten percentages and most of my GCSE)"

Well done Mr Pickle, you dunn addin up good.

Believe me I checked mine about eight times before posting otherwise I’d never have heard the end of it!!!

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By *elix Sighted OP Man
over a year ago

Cloud 8

Snap!

It does work well, doesn’t it?

Ooooops! I adjusted the ratios as compared to other, I underestimated how many socials I go to but the same rule applies

I see! Still makes sense to me, and great it works for you too.

It definitely does, I have to travel further and probably make more of an effort but it's worth it as opposed to moaning about not getting any meets

I was about to add that.

I think this is a great thread to get people to understand that the usual advice given “go to clubs or organised socials” actually works. "

It really does, doesn’t it. I think once you can be in front of someone in an informal setting where the ultimate goal (for right then) isn’t necessarily sex, people relax and be more themselves. We find it easier to assess whether they suit us or not and get to form a connection which would probably never be formed by text.

Then you can bang like animals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1) Searched for and set up by you - 40%

2) As a result of being searched for and set up by them 50%

3) Lounge chat / socials / clubs etc - 10% (to be)

Miss S x

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

Snap!

It does work well, doesn’t it?

Ooooops! I adjusted the ratios as compared to other, I underestimated how many socials I go to but the same rule applies

I see! Still makes sense to me, and great it works for you too.

It definitely does, I have to travel further and probably make more of an effort but it's worth it as opposed to moaning about not getting any meets

I was about to add that.

I think this is a great thread to get people to understand that the usual advice given “go to clubs or organised socials” actually works.

Then you can bang like animals

That’s indeed, very true.

And we do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 40/10/50 I’d say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"1) 0%. Nobody replied to my messages.

2) 12.5% (I’ve had one meet)

3) 87.5%. All but one is from the forums. That one was my first ever meet and from the chatrooms before I discovered the forums.

(if my maths is correct but I’ve basically forgotten percentages and most of my GCSE)

Well done Mr Pickle, you dunn addin up good.

Believe me I checked mine about eight times before posting otherwise I’d never have heard the end of it!!!"

I got a B

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

0/0/50

Mainly just here to say hi Felix

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10/90/0. Damn!

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"50/50/50

There’s always one difficult twat!!!

Yep… I pride myself on being good at it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

0/0/0 . I’ve never had a sexual conquest through fab.

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By *elix Sighted OP Man
over a year ago

Cloud 8

"0/0/50

Mainly just here to say hi Felix

Hello gorgeous lady!!! It’s been too long, I hope everything is good with you xx

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By *elix Sighted OP Man
over a year ago

Cloud 8

"0/0/50

Mainly just here to say hi Felix

Hello gorgeous lady!!! It’s been too long, I hope everything is good with you xx"

Ps your maths is shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

0/30/70

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By *asterBuilderMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

1) 50

2) 50

3) 0

On this profile at least

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By *eddfmyd11Man
over a year ago

Towcester

0/0/100

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"Very roughly, what’s the split of your Fab sexual conquests …"

I really don’t know, but the massive majority over the past couple of years have been from forum chat.

Even when women have contacted me out of the blue, it usually turns out to be because they’ve seen me around on the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Very roughly, what’s the split of your Fab sexual conquests:

1) Searched for and set up by you

2) As a result of being searched for and set up by them

3) Lounge chat / socials / clubs etc

I’d say I’m about 60/30/10, but that’s over the whole seven years. The ratio has tipped massively the other way in the last two."

0/0/0

So undefeated.. technically

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By *elix Sighted OP Man
over a year ago

Cloud 8

"Very roughly, what’s the split of your Fab sexual conquests:

1) Searched for and set up by you

2) As a result of being searched for and set up by them

3) Lounge chat / socials / clubs etc

I’d say I’m about 60/30/10, but that’s over the whole seven years. The ratio has tipped massively the other way in the last two.

0/0/0

So undefeated.. technically

Booooo!! The wins are so much sweeter after a few defeats. Go for it my son.

(I’m not your real dad).

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"Very roughly, what’s the split of your Fab sexual conquests …

I really don’t know, but the massive majority over the past couple of years have been from forum chat.

Even when women have contacted me out of the blue, it usually turns out to be because they’ve seen me around on the forums."

Laying on the couch… do you ever think you may spend too much time on the Fab Forum darling?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Very roughly, what’s the split of your Fab sexual conquests:

1) Searched for and set up by you

2) As a result of being searched for and set up by them

3) Lounge chat / socials / clubs etc

I’d say I’m about 60/30/10, but that’s over the whole seven years. The ratio has tipped massively the other way in the last two.

0/0/0

So undefeated.. technically

Booooo!! The wins are so much sweeter after a few defeats. Go for it my son.

(I’m not your real dad)."

They need to read your reply to even start this game

I'm rarely reaching out to people anymore on here.

I just check in, chat some shit and do one.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"Laying on the couch… do you ever think you may spend too much time on the Fab Forum darling?

If I enjoy it, then it’s not too much.

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

"0/0/50

Mainly just here to say hi Felix

Hello gorgeous lady!!! It’s been too long, I hope everything is good with you xx

Ps your maths is shit

Nope - because I very often don't get anywhere

Very good but would be better with a lick

Hope you are well?x

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"Laying on the couch… do you ever think you may spend too much time on the Fab Forum darling?

If I enjoy it, then it’s not too much.

Correct answer

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"0/0/50

Mainly just here to say hi Felix

Hello gorgeous lady!!! It’s been too long, I hope everything is good with you xx

Ps your maths is shit

Nope - because I very often don't get anywhere

Very good but would be better with a lick

Hope you are well?x"

I can lick… just saying

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

Ooh interesting question. I would say 1/95/4

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By *dmundwilsonMan
over a year ago

Llandudno

"I don't tend to think of the people I've had sex with as conquests "

Agreed

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

"I don't tend to think of the people I've had sex with as conquests

Agreed"

I think the OP's tongue was in his cheek

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By *elix Sighted OP Man
over a year ago

Cloud 8

"Ooh interesting question. I would say 1/95/4"

That’s very specific HC!! But I’m not surprised to see you are sought after. You’re not bad looking for a 45 year old

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By *elix Sighted OP Man
over a year ago

Cloud 8

"0/0/50

Mainly just here to say hi Felix

Hello gorgeous lady!!! It’s been too long, I hope everything is good with you xx

Ps your maths is shit

Nope - because I very often don't get anywhere

Very good but would be better with a lick

Hope you are well?x"

I refuse to believe you rarely get anywhere!

I am good thanks but would love a good lickin. Even you up and do the other side. And maybe the middle….

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

"0/0/50

Mainly just here to say hi Felix

Hello gorgeous lady!!! It’s been too long, I hope everything is good with you xx

Ps your maths is shit

Nope - because I very often don't get anywhere

Very good but would be better with a lick

Hope you are well?x

I can lick… just saying

Do I only get one lick? If so you I get to choose the place

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

"0/0/50

Mainly just here to say hi Felix

Hello gorgeous lady!!! It’s been too long, I hope everything is good with you xx

Ps your maths is shit

Nope - because I very often don't get anywhere

Very good but would be better with a lick

Hope you are well?x

I refuse to believe you rarely get anywhere!

I am good thanks but would love a good lickin. Even you up and do the other side. And maybe the middle…."

Yes!! I feel very out of balance and it's been ruining me if I'm honest! You just jilted me after one

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"0/0/50

Mainly just here to say hi Felix

Hello gorgeous lady!!! It’s been too long, I hope everything is good with you xx

Ps your maths is shit

Nope - because I very often don't get anywhere

Very good but would be better with a lick

Hope you are well?x

I can lick… just saying

Do I only get one lick? If so you I get to choose the place

I would like to lick you all over darling… constantly

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Probably 20/10/70

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

"Ooh interesting question. I would say 1/95/4

That’s very specific HC!! But I’m not surprised to see you are sought after. You’re not bad looking for a 45 year old

45?! The Specsavers voucher is in the post!

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By *elix Sighted OP Man
over a year ago

Cloud 8

"Probably 20/10/70

The Northampton host extraordinaire!! Everyone wants a piece of the top man

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By *xfordjohnMan
over a year ago

Oxford

I think evenly split between 1 and 2, none from 3 as I haven't been to any.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

33.3/33.3/33.3333333333

Mrs

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

Dunno don't care tbh can't be arsed to think about it tbh lol

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