FabSwingers.com forum: Just sex or making love

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So, two people getting chatting, they meet up and have sex. During the session theres lots of kissing, foreplay hugs, laughs and enjoyment. Is it just sex or did they make love?

If it was just sex then theres not much difference between it?

Thoughts?

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By *os_GoddessofdawnWoman
over a year ago

In the clouds

Just Sex

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I think that's between the two of them what they call it.

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By *adja_lazloCouple
over a year ago

Solihull

"So, two people getting chatting, they meet up and have sex. During the session theres lots of kissing, foreplay hugs, laughs and enjoyment. Is it just sex or did they make love?

If it was just sex then theres not much difference between it?

Thoughts?

sex

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By *olfandtazCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

There is a line between sex and making love, it's a deeper emotional connection rather than just fucking each other

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"So, two people getting chatting, they meet up and have sex. During the session theres lots of kissing, foreplay hugs, laughs and enjoyment. Is it just sex or did they make love?

If it was just sex then theres not much difference between it?

Thoughts?

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you fall in love easily

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They were just ‘doing it!

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By *educing_EmCouple
over a year ago

Tipperary

I say just sex, although it may be passionate unless there's strong feelings between the two it's not making love.

That's just my opinion though ,how they feel about it is up to them.

Em x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shagging

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"They were just ‘doing it!

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it? Whatsits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They were just ‘doing it!

it? Whatsits

Doing IT!! You know…it!

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Just sex

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"They were just ‘doing it!

it? Whatsits

Doing IT!! You know…it!

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ahhh yes i get it

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By *arlot o scaraWoman
over a year ago

Hell

I wish someone would make love to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They were just ‘doing it!

it? Whatsits

Doing IT!! You know…it!

ahhh yes i get it

There’s a difference between passionate sex and fucking.

Then there’s a whole different passion and sensual feelings involved to make love to someone.

Just sex? That’s just getting your rocks off or having g done sexy fun with someone you like, it can be anything .

It’s just how I see things.

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By *ark ElMan
over a year ago

London

In my opinion, making love is energetic. It’s deeper than the actions you take

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"They were just ‘doing it!

it? Whatsits

Doing IT!! You know…it!

ahhh yes i get it

There’s a difference between passionate sex and fucking.

Then there’s a whole different passion and sensual feelings involved to make love to someone.

Just sex? That’s just getting your rocks off or having g done sexy fun with someone you like, it can be anything .

It’s just how I see things. "
no i agree

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By *ubmissive Cuckold CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

The wife and her bull do both lol

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

Just sex in my opinion.

You “make love” when you’re “in love”, no?

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"I wish someone would make love to me

I would

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

The way I make love is not often sweet or the traditional idea of romantic.

I make love to the people I love. I fuck the people I fuck

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Some people like to call passionate or tender sex making love.

It's just words and I don't care either way, but if you say we're going to make love don't be banging me into the headboard with your thumb jammed up my arse, cos that's banging.

Choose your words carefully.

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By *omersetsmithyMan
over a year ago

Horfield

First time is Sex as the connection grows it can become making love

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By *actilenorfolkgentMan
over a year ago

Norwich

"First time is Sex as the connection grows it can become making love"

Agree with that, met a lady for sex a few years back, after couple of times she said it was making love for her, I had to agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wish someone would make love to me

I would make love to you, many others on here would be just sex but you are worthy of love x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only make love to one special person, with other people it's just sex.

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By *arlot o scaraWoman
over a year ago

Hell

"I wish someone would make love to me

I would

How could I pass up an offer like that

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

"The way I make love is not often sweet or the traditional idea of romantic.

I make love to the people I love. I fuck the people I fuck

Exactly this. Language can often be semantics. One might assume that making love is always a tender affair, but I think not always so.

To me, making love is a deep connection between two people in love. Fucking is anything else.

But, as with any other language, words lose their meaning over time and we use it to fit what suits us.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

It's not making love unless I actually love someone, otherwise it's all just sex as far as I'm concerned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just sex, no emotional involvement.

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else

No idea, I only do hate fucks.

Maybe.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

They will be the only 2 people who will know that.

And yes… there is a massive difference

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By *ister_EMan
over a year ago

Hayling Island

Making love isn't the same as falling in love. For me lovemaking is another way of describing slow, sensual, intimate sex, where you take your time exploring your partner's body and mind for me lovemaking is about giving pleasure rather than using them and taking pleasure.

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

For me…unless you’re in a relationship together, it’s just sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just sex with strangers i make love to my husband nothing will change that.

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"So, two people getting chatting, they meet up and have sex. During the session theres lots of kissing, foreplay hugs, laughs and enjoyment. Is it just sex or did they make love?

If it was just sex then theres not much difference between it?

Thoughts?

Interesting question on our first meeting we went to bed for sex turn out it didn't happen we found instant love conection

we started making love and have been loved up ever since.we get round to the filth sex in time no doublt but happy making love at the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh no hundred per cent that was love making.

I don’t kiss any women on the mouth during sex unless I love them because I don’t know where their mouths have been.

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By *oquars19458Man
over a year ago

sheffield

"I wish someone would make love to me

Me too

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By *iHungMikeMan
over a year ago

Shaw

"I wish someone would make love to me

You look absolutely gorgeous making love to you would be amazing x

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"Oh no hundred per cent that was love making.

I don’t kiss any women on the mouth during sex unless I love them because I don’t know where their mouths have been.

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sadly Mr pickle I can't message you due to your filter haveing crossed swords in forums and messaged in the past not seen your face pic before . must say although I'm not into men your very handsome man want wish you all the best for 2024

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Making love is being exposed, mutual vulnerability, trust, a connection. I don’t think you need to be in love to make love but feelings and emotions need to be present. You have to care about more then just your orgasm. You’re typically focused on the slow, sensual sensations of every move. The way your two bodies communicate without words in a deeper way.

Whereas having sex with someone, although the vulnerability still plays a role, it is of a different kind. Namely, one may be afraid of the sexual intercourse not being good or losing the needed chemistry. Also, one may question if his/her sexual needs will be received well or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh no hundred per cent that was love making.

I don’t kiss any women on the mouth during sex unless I love them because I don’t know where their mouths have been.

sadly Mr pickle I can't message you due to your filter haveing crossed swords in forums and messaged in the past not seen your face pic before . must say although I'm not into men your very handsome man want wish you all the best for 2024"

Happy new year you lovely man!

I just messaged you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck

Shag

Make love is for relationships not a quick suck off or fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fuck

Shag

Make love is for relationships not a quick suck off or fuck "

I met this girl on Monday

(Long story short)

We were making love by Wednesday.

And on Thursday and Friday and Saturday.

And we chilled on Sunday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, two people getting chatting, they meet up and have sex. During the session theres lots of kissing, foreplay hugs, laughs and enjoyment. Is it just sex or did they make love?

If it was just sex then theres not much difference between it?

Thoughts?

Sex can be sensual and passionate without love being involved.

Much prefer that than a quick whambamthankyoumam/man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think two people can make love without being in love. When having sex, the objective is orgasms and it can be pretty functional. You can have sex with someone that you've just met, barely even spoken to, don't know the name of, and won't see again. Making love, the connection is just that bit deeper, you want an orgasm and to share a bit more of each other, from deep inside, so that the sex comes with some intimacy, no matter how small. You don't have to be in love with someone to do that though.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"Fuck

Shag

Make love is for relationships not a quick suck off or fuck

I met this girl on Monday

(Long story short)

We were making love by Wednesday.

And on Thursday and Friday and Saturday.

And we chilled on Sunday.

Have you changed your name to Craig?

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By *inacolada3Couple
over a year ago

kettering

Called fucking for fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Making love is being exposed, mutual vulnerability, trust, a connection. I don’t think you need to be in love to make love but feelings and emotions need to be present. You have to care about more then just your orgasm. You’re typically focused on the slow, sensual sensations of every move. The way your two bodies communicate without words in a deeper way.

This

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Loved what you've written here.pity I couldnt pm you in this regard .

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