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"Put you keys in bowl or ashtray and see if they throw theirs in lol " Lol | |||
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"Haha, maybe we should devise a universal sign or code? Like a carnation in button hole or rolled up newspaper lol." I have a little Chameleon pinned on my coat that I got from Chams. Its on a pink branch, which means bi. The yellow branch means straight. Maybe someone will stop me and say 'hey, do you visit Chams?' Worth a try! | |||
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"This may seem silly and I fear I am opening myself to ridicule, but how would I spot a swinger, or how would I. identify myself as being aproachable and interested in that type of fun? ,x" Would you really be happy with people approaching you at the shops or in a bar ...i'm not having a dig just curious | |||
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"i think mentioning fabulous in conversation might be a way forward. if the person says something with fabulous back, well its a start . maybe a wink as well " "We had a Fabulous holiday", "we had a fabulous one as well". "Fancy a quick shag?" "You dirty disgusting pervert" "someone call the police, we got a right perv here" Not quite right some how is it | |||
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"i think mentioning fabulous in conversation might be a way forward. if the person says something with fabulous back, well its a start . maybe a wink as well "We had a Fabulous holiday", "we had a fabulous one as well". "Fancy a quick shag?" "You dirty disgusting pervert" "someone call the police, we got a right perv here" Not quite right some how is it " Lol ?????? | |||
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"Just tell them your a swinger and ask if they are ? Simple." We did this in a hotel next door to a well known club in West Brom. Got some funny looks, but had a very full table in the bar after about an hour. | |||
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"Just tell them your a swinger and ask if they are ? Simple." | |||
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"i think fancy a shag is a bit basic .dont think your going to pull like that " Beats the hell out of "do you take it up the arse ?" though | |||
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"how about does your wife take it up the arse" Now that will piss her off. You should always ask her personally, its only respectful to her isnt it. | |||
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"i think fancy a shag is a bit basic .dont think your going to pull like that Beats the hell out of "do you take it up the arse ?" though " Pmsl | |||
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"Got to think harder.... If someone said to me they'd had a FAB day - my mind wouldn't turn to swinging. I'd just think they hadn't got beyond groovy sixties slang .... Do the ....... 'My friend' thing..... e.g. My friend has joined a swinging site..... sounds fun .... i'm going to look at it later see if it's worth joining. " I like the friend idea | |||
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" .... how would I spot a swinger, or how would I identify myself as being aproachable and interested in that type of fun? " In regular pubs and clubs (and other social situations!), if I'm feeling frisky, I am just a lot flirtier than I used to be. I make more eye-contact, I initiate the conversation, tell slightly riskier jokes. If the other person is responding, I'll lean in and touch their leg or arm. And it's usually 'message received and understood' They probably think that I'm 'promiscuous' rather than thinking I'm a swinger, but does that bother me? Nah! | |||
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"Put you keys in bowl or ashtray and see if they throw theirs in lol " I did that, I'm still driving their old Volvo | |||
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"Put you keys in bowl or ashtray and see if they throw theirs in lol I did that, I'm still driving their old Volvo " You did well, we got a Chinese moped | |||
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"how about does your wife take it up the arse" " ok if you don't what about your wife" | |||
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"How about and F A B badge. If anyone without one asks you are a thunderbirds fan but anyone with one on would know the real reason behind it." I like this idea. Thunderbird 3(sum)... | |||
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"I wouldnt "advertise" myself in shops, so no problem about being approached but as for being approached in bars, the chance would be a fine thing. I will email fab and suggest a range of merchandising. I love the car sticker idea. If the volvo is rocking, please come a knockin' T-shirts with "What happens in Fab, stays in fab", Badges with "Looking for a Fab time"" Fab time! Would be good.... Printed big on your t-shirt..... Fab on the front and time on the back | |||
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"I've said to somebody who thought might be on here " how's you had a fab day ? " and just gauge there reaction" Seriously hoping I get asked that question next time I am in Stafford..... | |||
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"noones mentioned the swing pin yet? thought that was meant to be a universal sign, we've thought about getting our own tee's printed with "Fancy a FAB night?: on the front and username on the back lol. " I keep seeing this Noones.. Who is he??? I presume you mean "no one or no one's"? I know it is picky, but just thought I would point it out! The Swing Pin is at best a very expensive cheap piece of jewellery and at worst, a way of family and friends finding out what you do. Been around for a few years and was advertised on a pay site we are on. Never encountered one at any time, so I would guess they have plenty left. The pay site we are on does have a range of merchandise but although we have some, it only comes out when we are in Cap d’Agde. Perhaps a club visit too, but not usually. Our family does know what we do, but we wouldn’t want it to become common knowledge around our neighbourhood. The Swing Pin was “outted” in the News of the World at one point as were several other “identifiers”. Just remember, they are on sale to all and that includes those who want a juicy story to sell papers | |||
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"noones mentioned the swing pin yet? thought that was meant to be a universal sign, we've thought about getting our own tee's printed with "Fancy a FAB night?: on the front and username on the back lol. I keep seeing this Noones.. Who is he??? I presume you mean "no one or no one's"? I know it is picky, but just thought I would point it out! The Swing Pin is at best a very expensive cheap piece of jewellery and at worst, a way of family and friends finding out what you do. Been around for a few years and was advertised on a pay site we are on. Never encountered one at any time, so I would guess they have plenty left. The pay site we are on does have a range of merchandise but although we have some, it only comes out when we are in Cap d’Agde. Perhaps a club visit too, but not usually. Our family does know what we do, but we wouldn’t want it to become common knowledge around our neighbourhood. The Swing Pin was “outted” in the News of the World at one point as were several other “identifiers”. Just remember, they are on sale to all and that includes those who want a juicy story to sell papers " Yep it's being picky ( and the fact i use my phone doesnt help autocorrect can be a bitch if your not careful and so is big fingers and little keyboards) next your be saying ain't isnt a word lol. On another note any identifier risks becoming common knowledge, it just depends on how much you wish to let others know | |||
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"You can get a swingers car sticker off e bay Its made up of circles " i got one of those ... | |||
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"I'm not that confident alone in social situations. A million knockbacks have dented it." When you are friendly and others are not just remember - it's probably their problem. (There are a few disclaimers) | |||
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"Best bet is to hang around in swingers clubs. Problem with swingers is they look like everybody else!" | |||
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