FabSwingers.com forum: Ever fucked up so bad on a message

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That you totally wrecked your chances with a person of interest, with just a typo? One word missing and the whole context changed.

Fuck sake PW.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

No, I've never done that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Charge it to the game. These things happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sure. I can just fuck it up by sending a face pic.

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By *unlovin72Man
over a year ago

BARNSLEY

No but I got accused of pasting and copying a message so got a reply back that I looked interesting but because I had pasted they wouldn't meet(There loss)

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

I can see how missing the word not if you were trying to say "I'm not a Nazi" would be damaging.

But, in most other circumstances, would a quick clarification not right the wrong? Must be some typo!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can see how missing the word not if you were trying to say "I'm not a Nazi" would be damaging.

But, in most other circumstances, would a quick clarification not right the wrong? Must be some typo!"

It’s probably the example you gave

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By *asty tatsyMan
over a year ago

london

Surely the word couldn’t have been that bad, if it blows your chance from one small mistake in typo was they worth it

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

That wasn't to sound uncaring. But to say, I'm sure a follow up to tell him you'd made a typo would make things ok pretty quickly...?

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, autocorrect changing their name without me realising. She was not impressed

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By *lexm87Man
over a year ago

Various

Constantly

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

"I can see how missing the word not if you were trying to say "I'm not a Nazi" would be damaging.

But, in most other circumstances, would a quick clarification not right the wrong? Must be some typo!

It’s probably the example you gave "

Then there's no going back...Nazism is a deep red line for me. I'm tough like that.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
over a year ago

A den in the Glen

No but...

I once knew my work colleague was on a bit of a bluff for half a day, but was informed our big boss was going to be in his vicinity by sheer coincidence. I text my colleague with words to the effect of 'watch your back buddy, 'X' is going to be in your location'.

The problem was in my haste I actually sent the message to 'X'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can see how missing the word not if you were trying to say "I'm not a Nazi" would be damaging.

But, in most other circumstances, would a quick clarification not right the wrong? Must be some typo!

It’s probably the example you gave

Then there's no going back...Nazism is a deep red line for me. I'm tough like that."

This site has taught me that political views are no reason to not have sex with someone.

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By *aughtySexualArousalMan
over a year ago

SPALDING

Not just one word no, wrong text to the wrong person yes.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

If just a typo would wreck your chances, are they really worth the effort then OP?

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

"I can see how missing the word not if you were trying to say "I'm not a Nazi" would be damaging.

But, in most other circumstances, would a quick clarification not right the wrong? Must be some typo!

It’s probably the example you gave

Then there's no going back...Nazism is a deep red line for me. I'm tough like that.

This site has taught me that political views are no reason to not have sex with someone.

Fuck. I'm so narrow minded. New Year's Resolution noted.

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By *lexm87Man
over a year ago

Various

"I can see how missing the word not if you were trying to say "I'm not a Nazi" would be damaging.

But, in most other circumstances, would a quick clarification not right the wrong? Must be some typo!

It’s probably the example you gave

Then there's no going back...Nazism is a deep red line for me. I'm tough like that.

This site has taught me that political views are no reason to not have sex with someone.

Did you fuck a tory?

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"That you totally wrecked your chances with a person of interest, with just a typo? One word missing and the whole context changed.

Fuck sake PW."
ive sent the wrong text to the wrong person

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Face pic normally seals the rejection when I send one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can see how missing the word not if you were trying to say "I'm not a Nazi" would be damaging.

But, in most other circumstances, would a quick clarification not right the wrong? Must be some typo!

It’s probably the example you gave

Then there's no going back...Nazism is a deep red line for me. I'm tough like that.

This site has taught me that political views are no reason to not have sex with someone.

Did you fuck a tory? "

Fuck as in sex? No but Fab has taught me never to say never.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"I can see how missing the word not if you were trying to say "I'm not a Nazi" would be damaging.

But, in most other circumstances, would a quick clarification not right the wrong? Must be some typo!

It’s probably the example you gave

Then there's no going back...Nazism is a deep red line for me. I'm tough like that.

This site has taught me that political views are no reason to not have sex with someone.

Did you fuck a tory? "

Once. Felt dirty afterwards

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

I regularly send typos. Then I laugh at myself and correct it. No harm done

Mrs TMN x

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Oh fuck yeah.

The worst is when you've sent an innocent message which has been misunderstood.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You asked a woman if you could fuck her nan?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you say you like 3 sons?

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By *ake and BeckyCouple
over a year ago

Gravesend

I (Jake) do most of the messaging.... I let Becky do it once, and for reasons unknown she asked the couple what their backstory was.

I'd been getting on really well with them and they were smoking hot... One message from The Goofball and they ghosted us.

Lesson learned though. Whenever we're messaged by someone we're not keen on I let Becky have a go to scare them off.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

No. I'm very careful and always read back before pressing send

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

"Yeah, autocorrect changing their name without me realising. She was not impressed

I’ve done this!! My phone is usually to blame for autocarrot mistakes, but sometimes my brain is working way faster than my fingers and I miss out 1-2 words.

I don’t think it’s ever stopped me progressing chat with someone worthwhile. And one would have to question the sanity of turning down your offer of filth, OP, probably in the breath after moaning about “no bloody women ever want to meet…”

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Using the wrong name never goes down well. Lol.

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

"I (Jake) do most of the messaging.... I let Becky do it once, and for reasons unknown she asked the couple what their backstory was.

I'd been getting on really well with them and they were smoking hot... One message from The Goofball and they ghosted us.

Lesson learned though. Whenever we're messaged by someone we're not keen on I let Becky have a go to scare them off."

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By *lexm87Man
over a year ago

Various

"I can see how missing the word not if you were trying to say "I'm not a Nazi" would be damaging.

But, in most other circumstances, would a quick clarification not right the wrong? Must be some typo!

It’s probably the example you gave

Then there's no going back...Nazism is a deep red line for me. I'm tough like that.

This site has taught me that political views are no reason to not have sex with someone.

Did you fuck a tory?

Once. Felt dirty afterwards

Was it not like inserting your penis into an icy vortex of hate, selfishness and cruelty?

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By *r-8-BBCMan
over a year ago

LONDON

"That you totally wrecked your chances with a person of interest, with just a typo? One word missing and the whole context changed.

Fuck sake PW."

I have a couple of times but you learn from your mistakes and gain experience. We have all been there.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

No. If he felt like that and couldn't ask me. I chose incorrectly, so I'm better off without

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By *ddie1966Man
over a year ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.

Oh yes.

And I've lived to regret it

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Not that I can remember. But never say never

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

I think Felix may have just topped that by his thread resurrection

OP darling… don’t sweat it

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else

Every message is a new opportunity for me to scare someone off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think a typo has ever fucked it up for me on here, that I'm aware of anyway. Some people did just stop chatting though so maybe it was a reason, who knows.

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By *ulfilthmentMan
over a year ago

Just around the corner

I can neither confirm nor deny that I have made such a mistake.

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By *hunky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Yes.

"Right here, right now"

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I can’t imagine that the same rules apply to you, OP.

As for me? Yes. Apparently I’m always making gaffs and being misread via text message. The frustration is that people always want you to give them the benefit of kindness in reading but don’t give the same in return.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I can see how missing the word not if you were trying to say "I'm not a Nazi" would be damaging.

But, in most other circumstances, would a quick clarification not right the wrong? Must be some typo!"

It wasn't much different

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else

"I can see how missing the word not if you were trying to say "I'm not a Nazi" would be damaging.

But, in most other circumstances, would a quick clarification not right the wrong? Must be some typo!

It wasn't much different "

Runs to start a rumour about PW and fascism…

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I missed out the word never in a sentence, trust me it changed it drastically

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I can see how missing the word not if you were trying to say "I'm not a Nazi" would be damaging.

But, in most other circumstances, would a quick clarification not right the wrong? Must be some typo!

It wasn't much different

Runs to start a rumour about PW and fascism…

There's enough bloody rumours about me FFS.

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

Yeah not so much a typo as the wrong words at the wrong time in a time of extreme stress so was prone to overthinking and being a tool lesson learned never reply to a message instantly when either stressed upset or d*unk or all at once it will haunt you in the end

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else

"I can see how missing the word not if you were trying to say "I'm not a Nazi" would be damaging.

But, in most other circumstances, would a quick clarification not right the wrong? Must be some typo!

It wasn't much different

Runs to start a rumour about PW and fascism…

There's enough bloody rumours about me FFS. "

I have nothing better to do and I love sowing unhappiness in other people’s lives, though.

So clearly I must.

Maturity and reasonable behaviour is too hard.

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By *imisugarWoman
over a year ago

Rugby

I've fucked up by replying to something I should have ignored. The following abuse was slightly amusing as wasn't even true but hey ho.

Have to remember everyone can handle a no thank you and it's rude not to reply "apparently"

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else

"I've fucked up by replying to something I should have ignored. The following abuse was slightly amusing as wasn't even true but hey ho.

Have to remember everyone can handle a no thank you and it's rude not to reply "apparently" "

This is why instead of a polite no thank you I say “your mum”

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"I've fucked up by replying to something I should have ignored. The following abuse was slightly amusing as wasn't even true but hey ho.

Have to remember everyone can handle a no thank you and it's rude not to reply "apparently"

This is why instead of a polite no thank you I say “your mum”"
whats your mum got to do with it?

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"That you totally wrecked your chances with a person of interest, with just a typo? One word missing and the whole context changed.

Fuck sake PW."

No but I have monumentally fucked up.a meet...

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"I can see how missing the word not if you were trying to say "I'm not a Nazi" would be damaging.

But, in most other circumstances, would a quick clarification not right the wrong? Must be some typo!

It’s probably the example you gave

Then there's no going back...Nazism is a deep red line for me. I'm tough like that.

This site has taught me that political views are no reason to not have sex with someone.

Did you fuck a tory?

Once. Felt dirty afterwards

Was it not like inserting your penis into an icy vortex of hate, selfishness and cruelty? "

Pretty much.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That you totally wrecked your chances with a person of interest, with just a typo? One word missing and the whole context changed.

Fuck sake PW.

No but I have monumentally fucked up.a meet...

I'm not sure why, but that's a story I want to hear.

I had someone fuck up a social with me on so many counts I ran out of fingers and toes. That was an epic fail.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"That you totally wrecked your chances with a person of interest, with just a typo? One word missing and the whole context changed.

Fuck sake PW.

No but I have monumentally fucked up.a meet...

I'm not sure why, but that's a story I want to hear.

I had someone fuck up a social with me on so many counts I ran out of fingers and toes. That was an epic fail."

To clarify this was a social meet... one I shall chalk up to experience...

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

"I've fucked up by replying to something I should have ignored. The following abuse was slightly amusing as wasn't even true but hey ho.

Have to remember everyone can handle a no thank you and it's rude not to reply "apparently"

This is why instead of a polite no thank you I say “your mum”whats your mum got to do with it?

Hang on, I’ll ask her

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"I missed out the word never in a sentence, trust me it changed it drastically

I would eat all the cake....

I would peg a guy

I would get on my knees and suck you dry

Yeah, the never might come in useful in one of those sentences.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I think I might have told you about the guy who's auto correct changed a word from chilled to ch@ked... That was the end for him

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By *lueseasWoman
over a year ago

Leamington Spa

"That you totally wrecked your chances with a person of interest, with just a typo? One word missing and the whole context changed.

Fuck sake PW."

Wow, can a single typo cause this much damage??? That was very unlucky, OP. I am sorry. Is there no chance to explain it was just a typo and thus a misunderstanding?

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
over a year ago

Maidstone

I've never messaged anyone who would get that arsey over a typo and we couldn't have a laugh over it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I missed out the word never in a sentence, trust me it changed it drastically

I would eat all the cake....

I would peg a guy

I would get on my knees and suck you dry

Yeah, the never might come in useful in one of those sentences.

And many more

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Luckily he saw the funny side once I explained myself.

But Jesus I need to check and double check and triple check.

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By *lueseasWoman
over a year ago

Leamington Spa

"Luckily he saw the funny side once I explained myself.

But Jesus I need to check and double check and triple check."

Glad to hear it!

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By *imisugarWoman
over a year ago

Rugby

"I've fucked up by replying to something I should have ignored. The following abuse was slightly amusing as wasn't even true but hey ho.

Have to remember everyone can handle a no thank you and it's rude not to reply "apparently"

This is why instead of a polite no thank you I say “your mum”"

That made me smile, thank you.

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By *lways BeardedMan
over a year ago

Wetherby

I can fuck it up just by having the audacity to send a message in the first place...

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By *ulfilthmentMan
over a year ago

Just around the corner

"This is why instead of a polite no thank you I say “your mum”"

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