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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sent a first message and got a response or is it all just myth to keep your spirits up

#ClassConsciousness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never get a reply to my messages Steve. Reckon it's all a con.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I never get a reply to my messages Steve. Reckon it's all a con. "

You’re woke. Wanna join me revolution?

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

I was with you until the hashtag, Pickles. Then you lost me. Are you saying some people are too posh to post?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty, just much less often from couples or women

Other apps are available for them

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish


"I was with you until the hashtag, Pickles. Then you lost me. Are you saying some people are too posh to post?"

One gets one's butler to send and respond.

J

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was with you until the hashtag, Pickles. Then you lost me. Are you saying some people are too posh to post?"

?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, plenty of times.

I dunno what all the “I never get replies” fuss is about sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Plenty, just much less often from couples or women

Other apps are available for them "

A response from a woman?

I fear they might have replied to keep us docile. The time to strike is now.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Definitely a myth

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Definitely a myth"

If this about my shit replies that doesnt count

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Definitely a myth

If this about my shit replies that doesnt count "

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London


"The time to strike is now. "

I’m not going on strike. I’m still on holiday.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Yes many times, not necessarily to meet though, fuck off counts as a reply right?!

Mrs

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By *ayleePhoenixTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

It's rare that I will send the first message. Saying that, I have sent a message in response to a wink that grabs my attention, with mixed success. (Why wink if you will not follow it up???)

I am polite so will reply to most first messages, except "hi, how are you?" or similar (as made clear on my profile).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair, no response is a response. I’ve never been ignored if that’s the case

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Sure...

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

I must say I usually get a reply but then again I choose very carefully who to message and what to say. Also rarely do the first message.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I have! I feel special. To somebody on here I fact.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Yes. Quite often.

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

It’s a myth or we just ain’t good enough

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes many times, not necessarily to meet though, fuck off counts as a reply right?!

Mrs "

In that case I’ve had plenty of replies

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good playing everyone

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I've missed the game but yes; I have. I imagine/hope I'll continue to do so.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London


"I've missed the game but yes; I have. I imagine/hope I'll continue to do so. "

Here’s a question: Does it still count as a first message if you’ve been flirting on the forums before sending it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've missed the game but yes; I have. I imagine/hope I'll continue to do so. "

You’ve missed the game as in you miss the game and you’ll be returning?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've missed the game but yes; I have. I imagine/hope I'll continue to do so.

Here’s a question: Does it still count as a first message if you’ve been flirting on the forums before sending it?"

No

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Aye. But I very rarely send a message, and it's usually because of the forum I've sent it.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London


"No"

Thanks for clearing that up, but I was asking Meli.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, and got sex too.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I've missed the game but yes; I have. I imagine/hope I'll continue to do so.

Here’s a question: Does it still count as a first message if you’ve been flirting on the forums before sending it?"

I'd say yes. Perhaps because you're not going in cold it might not count... I'm feeling soft so I'll say yes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No

Thanks for clearing that up, but I was asking Meli."

Oh my bad. I was just clarifying for the post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have yes with very mixed results.

They usually come to nothing ha.

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By *aughty_natureMan
over a year ago

taunton

What is this urban legend you speak of.....

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London


"They usually come to nothing ha."

Sometimes it just takes a while.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What is this urban legend you speak of..... "

The possibility that the next message will be different is the dominant classes trying to fool us and keep us docile!!!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"What is this urban legend you speak of.....

The possibility that the next message will be different is the dominant classes trying to fool us and keep us docile!!! "

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xv8FBjo1Y8I

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What is this urban legend you speak of.....

The possibility that the next message will be different is the dominant classes trying to fool us and keep us docile!!!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xv8FBjo1Y8I"

Music for the soul

I’m gonna stick some Bob Marley on after this one and get in the mood

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By *unsexual MemelordWoman
over a year ago

Midlothian

Once, maybe twice!

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Yeah, buy normally it's a no

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I’ve only really sent messages in response to threads so usually I do yeah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do get replies and it's sometimes a yes.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke


"Sent a first message and got a response or is it all just myth to keep your spirits up

#ClassConsciousness"

Yep

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By *emidemiWoman
over a year ago

basingstoke

Yes, quite a lot. I’m not afraid to make the first move

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