FabSwingers.com forum: I’m always the one asking

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Last thread because I need to go and eat.

Who asks to see who first? Is it always you asking? Are you always getting asked? Do you hate asking and never ask?

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I’m not afraid to ask if it’s someone I want to spend time with

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

I like to ask. And be asked

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

On Holibobs

It's about even tbf

I'm very clear that I meet weekends and it's just a case of merging diaries. On that note pickles, when is the next PPP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like to ask. And be asked

I’m Asking!

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By *olfandtazCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

We get asked all the time, we ask the ones who we are interested in

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

At the moment, we rarely ask just because logistics mean it's likely we're not going to be able to meet up easily. I might be able to meet on my own in certain circumstances, but access is the big issue and so again, it's very rare. Also my stupid health

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I like to ask. And be asked

Yeah but you’re special

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

The worst is when you send someone a picture and they don't look at their messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2:1 ratio. I’m only gonna ask for every 2 times she asks. Helps set the tone of the situation

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The worst is when you send someone a picture and they don't look at their messages"

Nudes?

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

I used to ask, when I was asking.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"The worst is when you send someone a picture and they don't look at their messages

Nudes?

lol no. face.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"2:1 ratio. I’m only gonna ask for every 2 times she asks. Helps set the tone of the situation "

Does this not require quite the roster? What if you are free but you’ve asked recently?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I used to ask, when I was asking."

Hey

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"I like to ask. And be asked

I’m Asking!

Are you dancing darling?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"2:1 ratio. I’m only gonna ask for every 2 times she asks. Helps set the tone of the situation

Does this not require quite the roster? What if you are free but you’ve asked recently? "

Come on dude, you know you gotta play the game. Sometimes that means taking one for the greater good

Or keep a decent roster going

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"I like to ask. And be asked

Yeah but you’re special"

I know….. they tell me at that at the support group

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

I’m usually the asker but that’s because I chase what I want. But sometimes it’s nice to be asked. Makes me feel…. desired.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"2:1 ratio. I’m only gonna ask for every 2 times she asks. Helps set the tone of the situation

Does this not require quite the roster? What if you are free but you’ve asked recently?

Come on dude, you know you gotta play the game. Sometimes that means taking one for the greater good

Or keep a decent roster going "

I’m currently squad building. But also I usually am the one that asks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I like to ask. And be asked

Yeah but you’re special

I know….. they tell me at that at the support group

you’re so silly

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

"I used to ask, when I was asking.

Hey

Hi Steve xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m usually the asker but that’s because I chase what I want. But sometimes it’s nice to be asked. Makes me feel…. desired."

It’s true. That feeling desired thing is underrated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"2:1 ratio. I’m only gonna ask for every 2 times she asks. Helps set the tone of the situation

Does this not require quite the roster? What if you are free but you’ve asked recently?

Come on dude, you know you gotta play the game. Sometimes that means taking one for the greater good

Or keep a decent roster going

I’m currently squad building. But also I usually am the one that asks"

Being too available is a mood killer

Play the game and the squad builds itself.

Stay toxic

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"I like to ask. And be asked

Yeah but you’re special

I know….. they tell me at that at the support group

you’re so silly"

I’m being serious….

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"2:1 ratio. I’m only gonna ask for every 2 times she asks. Helps set the tone of the situation

Does this not require quite the roster? What if you are free but you’ve asked recently?

Come on dude, you know you gotta play the game. Sometimes that means taking one for the greater good

Or keep a decent roster going

I’m currently squad building. But also I usually am the one that asks

Being too available is a mood killer

Play the game and the squad builds itself.

Stay toxic "
You’re like the devil on my shoulder

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"I’m usually the asker but that’s because I chase what I want. But sometimes it’s nice to be asked. Makes me feel…. desired."

Oooffttt

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

If I miss someone I usually make sure they know. If I want to arrange something I'll ask. I am asked more often by people who need to plan further ahead. Its nice to go both ways.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If I miss someone I usually make sure they know. If I want to arrange something I'll ask. I am asked more often by people who need to plan further ahead. It’s nice to go both ways."

I feel this. It’s rare people don’t ask to see me. There’s only like 2 people that never ask. But I don’t read into it.

But it’s nice you tell them. That’s so good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"2:1 ratio. I’m only gonna ask for every 2 times she asks. Helps set the tone of the situation

Does this not require quite the roster? What if you are free but you’ve asked recently?

Come on dude, you know you gotta play the game. Sometimes that means taking one for the greater good

Or keep a decent roster going

I’m currently squad building. But also I usually am the one that asks

Being too available is a mood killer

Play the game and the squad builds itself.

Stay toxic You’re like the devil on my shoulder

If you ever ask and they aren’t free, give it 5 and text them “hey I actually am free tonight now, come over” then delete it from WhatsApp

I don’t make the rules

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"If I miss someone I usually make sure they know. If I want to arrange something I'll ask. I am asked more often by people who need to plan further ahead. It’s nice to go both ways.

I feel this. It’s rare people don’t ask to see me. There’s only like 2 people that never ask. But I don’t read into it.

But it’s nice you tell them. That’s so good"

I try to make sure I express the nice things sometimes. I know I can come across as cold, but the people I care about deserve to know that I care

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"2:1 ratio. I’m only gonna ask for every 2 times she asks. Helps set the tone of the situation

Does this not require quite the roster? What if you are free but you’ve asked recently?

Come on dude, you know you gotta play the game. Sometimes that means taking one for the greater good

Or keep a decent roster going

I’m currently squad building. But also I usually am the one that asks

Being too available is a mood killer

Play the game and the squad builds itself.

Stay toxic You’re like the devil on my shoulder

If you ever ask and they aren’t free, give it 5 and text them “hey I actually am free tonight now, come over” then delete it from WhatsApp

I don’t make the rules "

LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL

nah this is elite game.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"2:1 ratio. I’m only gonna ask for every 2 times she asks. Helps set the tone of the situation

Does this not require quite the roster? What if you are free but you’ve asked recently?

Come on dude, you know you gotta play the game. Sometimes that means taking one for the greater good

Or keep a decent roster going

I’m currently squad building. But also I usually am the one that asks

Being too available is a mood killer

Play the game and the squad builds itself.

Stay toxic You’re like the devil on my shoulder

If you ever ask and they aren’t free, give it 5 and text them “hey I actually am free tonight now, come over” then delete it from WhatsApp

I don’t make the rules

LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL

nah this is elite game.

Fairs man. Respect

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"If I miss someone I usually make sure they know. If I want to arrange something I'll ask. I am asked more often by people who need to plan further ahead. It’s nice to go both ways.

I feel this. It’s rare people don’t ask to see me. There’s only like 2 people that never ask. But I don’t read into it.

But it’s nice you tell them. That’s so good

I try to make sure I express the nice things sometimes. I know I can come across as cold, but the people I care about deserve to know that I care

That is so perfect

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If I miss someone I usually make sure they know. If I want to arrange something I'll ask. I am asked more often by people who need to plan further ahead. It’s nice to go both ways.

I feel this. It’s rare people don’t ask to see me. There’s only like 2 people that never ask. But I don’t read into it.

But it’s nice you tell them. That’s so good

I try to make sure I express the nice things sometimes. I know I can come across as cold, but the people I care about deserve to know that I care

You don’t come across as cold at all. You come across as very very loving actually.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

I never ask.

I get asked regularly.

I say no.

They still ask.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"If I miss someone I usually make sure they know. If I want to arrange something I'll ask. I am asked more often by people who need to plan further ahead. It’s nice to go both ways.

I feel this. It’s rare people don’t ask to see me. There’s only like 2 people that never ask. But I don’t read into it.

But it’s nice you tell them. That’s so good

I try to make sure I express the nice things sometimes. I know I can come across as cold, but the people I care about deserve to know that I care

You don't come across as cold, lovely. And you have such a big heart

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

"I’m usually the asker but that’s because I chase what I want. But sometimes it’s nice to be asked. Makes me feel…. desired.

Oooffttt

Ooo that’s my first ooofftt of 2024!! Thanks sexy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like to ask. And be asked

I’m Asking!

Are you dancing darling?

It’s been a while. Let me get my dancing shoes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ask and I like to asked, it's nice both ways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know the feeling.

Tbh it sends a clear signal.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

No response is a response

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By *he ass man 666Man
over a year ago

paradise city

50/50 with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally depends on how much I fancy them, and I'll be quite forward when I want to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's about 50/50. I don't message first but I will ask to meet up if I feel there's something there.

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