FabSwingers.com forum: Age it seems makes many unattractive

By *TG3 OP Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

To the opposite sex and yet women for me get more attractive as they get older and more comfortable in their skin, thoughts?

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Thoughts on what?

Is this a smoke blowing for older women, or yet another debunk the age stereotype thread?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Some people like older. Some people like younger.

Just seek the compatible people and don't worry about those that aren't for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men are still desirable as they age. Don’t let this site fool you. There’s a whole world out there.

And actually I think it’s harder for women to feel desired as they age from the articles I’ve read on it.

People on fab are just looking for specific things and to fulfil specific fantasies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people like older. Some people like younger.

Just seek the compatible people and don't worry about those that aren't for you

Whilst I agree I do feel like it’s not that easy! People are generally seeking comparability and I think on here they feel as though who they are is not desired. When they are in a criteria then you have to factor in whether they’re actually attractive to that person, whether their personalities connect etc. it’s not as easy as just look for who is compatible for you. I think most people are doing that already, you know?

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By *ags73Man
over a year ago

glasgow-ish

Concious of this as I went up a year recently and I think many have up to 50 on preferences.

It is what it is, as I’m absolutely brilliant so, their loss. (He said through the tears)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some just get better with age....Look at Gary Lineker & David Beckham....they both just got hotter as they got older

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"To the opposite sex and yet women for me get more attractive as they get older and more comfortable in their skin, thoughts?

I have one…. I wouldn’t be criticising people for having age preferences if you have age preferences of your own in your profile

You know… respect, glass houses and all these

P.s don’t think about removing it now.. that would be a really weak move

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I think it's only an issue if you want to meet people considerably younger

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By *hloe_TTV/TS
over a year ago

Nottingham

"To the opposite sex and yet women for me get more attractive as they get older and more comfortable in their skin, thoughts?

I have one…. I wouldn’t be criticising people for having age preferences if you have age preferences of your own in your profile

You know… respect, glass houses and all these

P.s don’t think about removing it now.. that would be a really weak move "

Haha ops been busted lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age doesn’t do anything.

But i get what you mean op, some people I know look damn hotter than they did when they were younger. It’s strange, but true, or at least in my opinion.

And men too, not just women.

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By *cnugatugMan
over a year ago

Chatham

Another age related thread in 2024 already

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"Some people like older. Some people like younger.

Just seek the compatible people and don't worry about those that aren't for you

I think this site as a whole is fucking terrible for self esteem.

It's not easy by any means, for anyone who wants to make actual human connections especially.

I just meant that when it comes to age, people usually have preferences, some are more flexible than others, but everyone will have preferences.

I prefer slightly older than myself in general, maybe like 5-10 years. But I also find connections with people in their 20s and people in their 60s.

To be honest, I see a lot more preferences made for the silver fox men than I do for the cougars and older women groups.

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By *eordieJeansCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

It seems everyone has a problem with preferences as soon as they fall outside of them.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

It really depends if people look after themselves or not.

Years of drinking/smoking and other vices start to take their toll after a certain age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Another age related thread in 2024 already "

It’s true. I think I need to do a race thread to balance it out

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"Some just get better with age....Look at Gary Lineker & David Beckham....they both just got hotter as they got older

Gerard Butler too... He's way sexier now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Another age related thread in 2024 already "

And these damn birthday threads eh?? Every damn year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people like older. Some people like younger.

Just seek the compatible people and don't worry about those that aren't for you

I think this site as a whole is fucking terrible for self esteem.

It's not easy by any means, for anyone who wants to make actual human connections especially.

I just meant that when it comes to age, people usually have preferences, some are more flexible than others, but everyone will have preferences.

I prefer slightly older than myself in general, maybe like 5-10 years. But I also find connections with people in their 20s and people in their 60s.

To be honest, I see a lot more preferences made for the silver fox men than I do for the cougars and older women groups."

I hear you

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

"To the opposite sex and yet women for me get more attractive as they get older and more comfortable in their skin, thoughts?

Maybe your eyes just age with you

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

"To the opposite sex and yet women for me get more attractive as they get older and more comfortable in their skin, thoughts?

Maybe your eyes just age with you"

Taking my glasses off does give everyone a marvellous soft focus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To the opposite sex and yet women for me get more attractive as they get older and more comfortable in their skin, thoughts?

Maybe your eyes just age with you"

I wonder if I’ll still find women in their 40s and 50s attractive when I’m 60 something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only like older because of the attitude that I seem to find in older. It’s not the age itself

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Some just get better with age....Look at Gary Lineker & David Beckham....they both just got hotter as they got older

A 93 year old man in ‘coronation street’ who slept with 1000 women.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Some just get better with age....Look at Gary Lineker & David Beckham....they both just got hotter as they got older

Gerard Butler too... He's way sexier now"

Celebrities can't and shouldn't be a factor. They can afford all kinds of additionals and procedures that we simply can't in general. They are caked in all kinds of make up that you don't notice but it's there and it makes a difference. Rarely will a celeb (always exceptions) look like somebody we would look twice at in the street when they are in civilian mode - the times they do, they still have the advantage.

It's the celebrity goggles, that gives us the false appearance goals we put on ourselves and others.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"To the opposite sex and yet women for me get more attractive as they get older and more comfortable in their skin, thoughts?

Maybe your eyes just age with you

I wonder if I’ll still find women in their 40s and 50s attractive when I’m 60 something. "

No, you'll be after the ladies in their 80s then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To the opposite sex and yet women for me get more attractive as they get older and more comfortable in their skin, thoughts?

Maybe your eyes just age with you

I wonder if I’ll still find women in their 40s and 50s attractive when I’m 60 something.

No, you'll be after the ladies in their 80s then! "

That’s what I think too

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By *TG3 OP Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Some people like older. Some people like younger.

Just seek the compatible people and don't worry about those that aren't for you

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It wasn't about me i go after who I'm attracted to but although men it would appear get less attractive women it would seem get more attractive as they get older

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By *TG3 OP Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"To the opposite sex and yet women for me get more attractive as they get older and more comfortable in their skin, thoughts?

Maybe your eyes just age with you"
lol ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people like older. Some people like younger.

Just seek the compatible people and don't worry about those that aren't for you

It wasn't about me i go after who I'm attracted to but although men it would appear get less attractive women it would seem get more attractive as they get older

Isn’t it exactly the opposite?

Men age like wine women age like milk

The majority of relationships tend to have the man being older and typically, powerful men that have their pick of the litter will choose younger women 18-30ish

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

"To the opposite sex and yet women for me get more attractive as they get older and more comfortable in their skin, thoughts?

Maybe your eyes just age with you

I wonder if I’ll still find women in their 40s and 50s attractive when I’m 60 something. "

Quite possibly. But you'll be too old to do anything about it

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By *TG3 OP Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Some people like older. Some people like younger.

Just seek the compatible people and don't worry about those that aren't for you

It wasn't about me i go after who I'm attracted to but although men it would appear get less attractive women it would seem get more attractive as they get older

Isn’t it exactly the opposite?

Men age like wine women age like milk

The majority of relationships tend to have the man being older and typically, powerful men that have their pick of the litter will choose younger women 18-30ish "
thats about money more than age though don't you think

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

There's lots of hot older men & women.

Mrs

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

Like milk?

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By *TG3 OP Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"There's lots of hot older men & women.

Mrs "
youve got one i assume

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Well I've got my bus pass, but I still plod on!!

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"Some people like older. Some people like younger.

Just seek the compatible people and don't worry about those that aren't for you

It wasn't about me i go after who I'm attracted to but although men it would appear get less attractive women it would seem get more attractive as they get older

I think it depends on the person. I wouldn't have looked twice at me in my teens and twenties, same for some other people I've known. And there are people of all genders I thought were stunning at that age that just haven't aged well.

Silver fox is a well known thing. It's obviously not unheard of for men to get sexier with age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people like older. Some people like younger.

Just seek the compatible people and don't worry about those that aren't for you

It wasn't about me i go after who I'm attracted to but although men it would appear get less attractive women it would seem get more attractive as they get older

Isn’t it exactly the opposite?

Men age like wine women age like milk

The majority of relationships tend to have the man being older and typically, powerful men that have their pick of the litter will choose younger women 18-30ish thats about money more than age though don't you think

That wouldn’t really explain why the majority of relationships have the men being older

In my experience, many guys say they like older women. That just means they’ll fuck they and not tell their mates, while they try to fuck and date younger

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I think it depends entirely on the individual

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Some of the most successful long term heterosexual relationships we know about, have or had slightly younger men in the partnership.

My Grandparents

Him and me

Various friends

Things were different in the past, when women had less agency and being unmarried was potentially tantamount to being destitute.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people like older. Some people like younger.

Just seek the compatible people and don't worry about those that aren't for you

It wasn't about me i go after who I'm attracted to but although men it would appear get less attractive women it would seem get more attractive as they get older

Isn’t it exactly the opposite?

Men age like wine women age like milk

That wouldn’t really explain why the majority of relationships have the men being older

In my experience, many guys say they like older women. That just means they’ll fuck they and not tell their mates, while they try to fuck and date younger "

I heard or read someone say once that men get sexy and women get old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people like older. Some people like younger.

Just seek the compatible people and don't worry about those that aren't for you

It wasn't about me i go after who I'm attracted to but although men it would appear get less attractive women it would seem get more attractive as they get older

Isn’t it exactly the opposite?

Men age like wine women age like milk

That wouldn’t really explain why the majority of relationships have the men being older

In my experience, many guys say they like older women. That just means they’ll fuck they and not tell their mates, while they try to fuck and date younger

I heard or read someone say once that men get sexy and women get old"

I think that’s nicer then me calling them gone off milk so I think I’ll adapt that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people like older. Some people like younger.

Just seek the compatible people and don't worry about those that aren't for you

It wasn't about me i go after who I'm attracted to but although men it would appear get less attractive women it would seem get more attractive as they get older

Isn’t it exactly the opposite?

Men age like wine women age like milk

That wouldn’t really explain why the majority of relationships have the men being older

In my experience, many guys say they like older women. That just means they’ll fuck they and not tell their mates, while they try to fuck and date younger

I heard or read someone say once that men get sexy and women get old

I think that’s nicer then me calling them gone off milk so I think I’ll adapt that "

You know who hasn’t aged like milk? Beyoncé

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people like older. Some people like younger.

Just seek the compatible people and don't worry about those that aren't for you

It wasn't about me i go after who I'm attracted to but although men it would appear get less attractive women it would seem get more attractive as they get older

Isn’t it exactly the opposite?

Men age like wine women age like milk

That wouldn’t really explain why the majority of relationships have the men being older

In my experience, many guys say they like older women. That just means they’ll fuck they and not tell their mates, while they try to fuck and date younger

I heard or read someone say once that men get sexy and women get old

I think that’s nicer then me calling them gone off milk so I think I’ll adapt that

You know who hasn’t aged like milk? Beyoncé

She’s a solid gold top jersey but sadly, the use by date gets us all eventually

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By *uck-RogersMan
over a year ago

Oakhill

Here I am 69 years old. I can no longer drag my ass along the carper like a dog with worms.

And would you believe it ! While I was posting this. The postman. Yes he was a man. He put a flyer through the letter box, that was inviting me to an open day at a local care home

Don't all you younguns worry about it. As you are all gonna smell like pissy knickers one day

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

"Some just get better with age....Look at Gary Lineker & David Beckham....they both just got hotter as they got older

Of course messages from the former at 63 would fall outside of preferences for most women and so could not be sent and soon at 48 for the latter .

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Respect that people have preferences for a reason. Just focus on those who may be mutually compatible

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I like older men. They’re easier to tire out in bed

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Women are only attractive when they get older if they don't look 'old' and can still do sex.

A 76 year old with a tight perm and crimplene trousers who only wants to play bingo is if no value to a young man unless she's his nan and bakes him cakes.

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By *TG3 OP Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"I like older men. They’re easier to tire out in bed

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lol

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"There's lots of hot older men & women.

Mrs youve got one i assume

What like stored in the cupboard for emergency use? No.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women are only attractive when they get older if they don't look 'old' and can still do sex.

A 76 year old with a tight perm and crimplene trousers who only wants to play bingo is if no value to a young man unless she's his nan and bakes him cakes. "

I think you look lovely as you are

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Women are only attractive when they get older if they don't look 'old' and can still do sex.

A 76 year old with a tight perm and crimplene trousers who only wants to play bingo is if no value to a young man unless she's his nan and bakes him cakes.

I think you look lovely as you are

Thank you Mr SP.

I reckon I should ditch the tight perm though

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Women are only attractive when they get older if they don't look 'old' and can still do sex.

A 76 year old with a tight perm and crimplene trousers who only wants to play bingo is if no value to a young man unless she's his nan and bakes him cakes.

I think you look lovely as you are

Thank you Mr SP.

I reckon I should ditch the tight perm though

You have lovely hair, Mrs NC!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women are only attractive when they get older if they don't look 'old' and can still do sex.

A 76 year old with a tight perm and crimplene trousers who only wants to play bingo is if no value to a young man unless she's his nan and bakes him cakes.

I think you look lovely as you are

Thank you Mr SP.

I reckon I should ditch the tight perm though

You have lovely hair, Mrs NC!"

Agreed. And those trousers

oh my

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Women are only attractive when they get older if they don't look 'old' and can still do sex.

A 76 year old with a tight perm and crimplene trousers who only wants to play bingo is if no value to a young man unless she's his nan and bakes him cakes.

I think you look lovely as you are

Thank you Mr SP.

I reckon I should ditch the tight perm though

You have lovely hair, Mrs NC!"

Thank you

. I haven't really got a tight perm

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Women are only attractive when they get older if they don't look 'old' and can still do sex.

A 76 year old with a tight perm and crimplene trousers who only wants to play bingo is if no value to a young man unless she's his nan and bakes him cakes.

I think you look lovely as you are

Thank you Mr SP.

I reckon I should ditch the tight perm though

You have lovely hair, Mrs NC!

Agreed. And those trousers

oh my"

They fit over the tena lady

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