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By *r_reus OP   Man
over a year ago

Coventry

Is it realistic to think that this site may one day be updated with a more contemporary and modern approach to swinging, or will it ever be stuck in the past?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s still probably got more users than any other swinging site/ app. So until they fall behind it’s unlikely they’ll change. There are more modern sites/ apps available that are probably better but nowhere near as many people on them

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I think the approach to swinging has evolved with the user base.

As for the modernising the site? Probably a lot more effort than it's worth for the owners.

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Do you mean modernise the look and feel of the website, or something else? Make it look like the site that sounds like something you might use to start a fire you mean? I quite like the way it works now - there’s fun to be had and I’m used to it!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I don't think the site will come up to contemporary aesthetic standards unless there's external pressure or incentive for them to make the investment.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Don't want any of that swiping bollocks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This site is like Tinder. Without the sex.

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By *stwo2023Couple
over a year ago

Worcester


"Is it realistic to think that this site may one day be updated with a more contemporary and modern approach to swinging, or will it ever be stuck in the past?"

What sort of approach do you want it to have?

Evie

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By *stwo2023Couple
over a year ago

Worcester


"Don't want any of that swiping bollocks "

Oh, no thank you!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This site is like Tinder. Without the sex."

And unfortunately without the swiping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it realistic to think that this site may one day be updated with a more contemporary and modern approach to swinging, or will it ever be stuck in the past?"

What kind of ideas have you got?? There is a feedback section

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"This site is like Tinder. Without the sex.

And unfortunately without the swiping"

Depends on your kink.

Oh wait, that's wiping.

Never mind.

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By *r_reus OP   Man
over a year ago

Coventry


"Is it realistic to think that this site may one day be updated with a more contemporary and modern approach to swinging, or will it ever be stuck in the past?

What sort of approach do you want it to have?

Evie "

One which actively facilitates an active and energetic swinging scene beyond 'go to a club', and not simply be a low activity online chat forum.

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area


"Don't want any of that swiping bollocks

Oh, no thank you!! "

Here, here, it's a Swinging site not a Swiping site!

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By *stwo2023Couple
over a year ago

Worcester


"Is it realistic to think that this site may one day be updated with a more contemporary and modern approach to swinging, or will it ever be stuck in the past?

What sort of approach do you want it to have?

Evie

One which actively facilitates an active and energetic swinging scene beyond 'go to a club', and not simply be a low activity online chat forum."

I met loads of people outside of clubs when I was actively meeting. Perhaps it is t the sites fault that it doesn't work for some?

Evie

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Is it realistic to think that this site may one day be updated with a more contemporary and modern approach to swinging, or will it ever be stuck in the past?

What sort of approach do you want it to have?

Evie

One which actively facilitates an active and energetic swinging scene beyond 'go to a club', and not simply be a low activity online chat forum."

Plenty of people meet one on one here, or two on two, or group on one/ couple on group etc.

"Go to a club" is the advice given to those who can't get their first verification - because in theory, with your first verification, people might be more interested in meeting you one on one.

I haven't met a new person in a club since 2019, and even then most of my connections were one on one via the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This site is like Tinder. Without the sex.

And unfortunately without the swiping

Depends on your kink.

Oh wait, that's wiping.

Never mind."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't want any of that swiping bollocks

Oh, no thank you!!

Here, here, it's a Swinging site not a Swiping site!"

Swiping is a good way of filtering out unwanted messages. It’s also a way of ensuring there’s mutual attraction when messaging begins. All things that are important to swinging. It just saves time.

I understand why it’s not a swiping site because how would that work in terms of the forums but in terms of finding sexual partners it is probably the best way to go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't want any of that swiping bollocks

Oh, no thank you!!

Here, here, it's a Swinging site not a Swiping site!

Swiping is a good way of filtering out unwanted messages. It’s also a way of ensuring there’s mutual attraction when messaging begins. All things that are important to swinging. It just saves time.

I understand why it’s not a swiping site because how would that work in terms of the forums but in terms of finding sexual partners it is probably the best way to go. "

Maybe we need to rename the block button!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Don't want any of that swiping bollocks

Oh, no thank you!!

Here, here, it's a Swinging site not a Swiping site!

Swiping is a good way of filtering out unwanted messages. It’s also a way of ensuring there’s mutual attraction when messaging begins. All things that are important to swinging. It just saves time.

I understand why it’s not a swiping site because how would that work in terms of the forums but in terms of finding sexual partners it is probably the best way to go.

Maybe we need to rename the block button! "

Swipe yes, wipe (see kink post) no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't want any of that swiping bollocks

Oh, no thank you!!

Here, here, it's a Swinging site not a Swiping site!

Swiping is a good way of filtering out unwanted messages. It’s also a way of ensuring there’s mutual attraction when messaging begins. All things that are important to swinging. It just saves time.

I understand why it’s not a swiping site because how would that work in terms of the forums but in terms of finding sexual partners it is probably the best way to go.

Maybe we need to rename the block button!

Swipe yes, wipe (see kink post) no"

I don’t get it

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Don't want any of that swiping bollocks

Oh, no thank you!!

Here, here, it's a Swinging site not a Swiping site!

Swiping is a good way of filtering out unwanted messages. It’s also a way of ensuring there’s mutual attraction when messaging begins. All things that are important to swinging. It just saves time.

I understand why it’s not a swiping site because how would that work in terms of the forums but in terms of finding sexual partners it is probably the best way to go.

Maybe we need to rename the block button!

Swipe yes, wipe (see kink post) no

I don’t get it "

I'm not explaining that shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't want any of that swiping bollocks

Oh, no thank you!!

Here, here, it's a Swinging site not a Swiping site!

Swiping is a good way of filtering out unwanted messages. It’s also a way of ensuring there’s mutual attraction when messaging begins. All things that are important to swinging. It just saves time.

I understand why it’s not a swiping site because how would that work in terms of the forums but in terms of finding sexual partners it is probably the best way to go.

Maybe we need to rename the block button!

Swipe yes, wipe (see kink post) no

I don’t get it

I'm not explaining that shit "

Shit. Wipe. Nicely done

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I think its simple style can be fine. It would benefit from minor adjustments, which would be a much better use of investment than a redesign. If Advanced Searches let us search on more/all of the fields we've all input, it would be the most sensible way to add value, from stuff we've already got in our profiles.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales


"Is it realistic to think that this site may one day be updated with a more contemporary and modern approach to swinging, or will it ever be stuck in the past?"

It’ll be stuck in the past. And do you know why? Because when you look back in 5 years time you’ll reflect on Fab fondl. You will bemoan new fangled technology and realise you never had it so good on old “stuck in its ways” Fab.

So just take a deep breath and let it go.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

I spoke to lady who had looked into another app. While it looks 'modern', I'm told it's clunky, and keeps saying it's for 'elite' people. Sounds like a ballache to me

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