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By *or7 OP   Man
over a year ago

bath

Yes I know, some people struggle with spelling, I'm sorry if that's you.

However, there are several that get to me, the main one being 'loosing' instead of 'losing'

What ones really get to you?

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By *loydyMan
over a year ago

British

If you know wat they mean by it .why make it an issue none of us are perfect

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

I am sorry but just loost you

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By *stwo2023Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

Surely that's poor grammar or understanding of words rather than spelling? They spelt it correctly, just didn't use it in the right context.

Generally if I can get the gist of what they're trying to say I don't let it bother me too much. Much bigger things to worry about.

I have friends who often use wander instead of wonder and vice versa. Doesn't make them less of a person.

Evie

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

None on here.. because people's ability to spell doesn't affect their ability to have sex...and that's what I'm looking for on here..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Discreet not discrete. If you're going to use it, use the correct spelling.

It's perfectly ok to be annoyed by small things like this.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Not really worth loosing sleep over.

The mr

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By *eordieJeansCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

The only one that annoys me is defiantly instead of definitely. It’s a completely different word.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It can be endearing and, if I understand what someone has meant, then it's no issue.

I make a lot of mistakes, including due to lack of attention, when using my mobile

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley


"Surely that's poor grammar or understanding of words rather than spelling? They spelt it correctly, just didn't use it in the right context.

Generally if I can get the gist of what they're trying to say I don't let it bother me too much. Much bigger things to worry about.

I have friends who often use wander instead of wonder and vice versa. Doesn't make them less of a person.

Evie "

'Loosing' has never been a correct spelling.

It would be 'loosening'.

Third time lucky!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"If you know wat they mean by it .why make it an issue none of us are perfect "

Because words convey meaning and there is a difference of understanding between reading I want to lose my trousers and I want to loose my trousers.( even though I used bad grammar to make the point )

I'm with you on not mentioning it if the meaning is clear and unless someone is asking for clarity they shouldn't mention it in here at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I make mistakes just by typing too fast sometimes.

I don't find spelling mistakes annoy me.

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By *stwo2023Couple
over a year ago

Worcester


"Surely that's poor grammar or understanding of words rather than spelling? They spelt it correctly, just didn't use it in the right context.

Generally if I can get the gist of what they're trying to say I don't let it bother me too much. Much bigger things to worry about.

I have friends who often use wander instead of wonder and vice versa. Doesn't make them less of a person.

Evie

'Loosing' has never been a correct spelling.

It would be 'loosening'.

Third time lucky!"

Yes. I saw your first post but you deleted it before I could reply

I missed that word or skin read and replaced it with loose as is often done by many. Well spotted.

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley


"Surely that's poor grammar or understanding of words rather than spelling? They spelt it correctly, just didn't use it in the right context.

Generally if I can get the gist of what they're trying to say I don't let it bother me too much. Much bigger things to worry about.

I have friends who often use wander instead of wonder and vice versa. Doesn't make them less of a person.

Evie

'Loosing' has never been a correct spelling.

It would be 'loosening'.

Third time lucky!

Yes. I saw your first post but you deleted it before I could reply

I missed that word or skin read and replaced it with loose as is often done by many. Well spotted. "

Never mind. 'Skin' reading is still a useful skill on Fab!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

I do get a slight twitch when people ask "would you like to come to ares"

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley


"Surely that's poor grammar or understanding of words rather than spelling? They spelt it correctly, just didn't use it in the right context.

Generally if I can get the gist of what they're trying to say I don't let it bother me too much. Much bigger things to worry about.

I have friends who often use wander instead of wonder and vice versa. Doesn't make them less of a person.

Evie

'Loosing' has never been a correct spelling.

It would be 'loosening'.

Third time lucky!

Yes. I saw your first post but you deleted it before I could reply

I missed that word or skin read and replaced it with loose as is often done by many. Well spotted. "

Never mind. 'Skin' reading is still a useful skill on Fab!

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.

Dose instead of does.

Yous.

As a dyslexic, I may not always get it right but even so I find the above irritating.

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By *stwo2023Couple
over a year ago

Worcester


"Surely that's poor grammar or understanding of words rather than spelling? They spelt it correctly, just didn't use it in the right context.

Generally if I can get the gist of what they're trying to say I don't let it bother me too much. Much bigger things to worry about.

I have friends who often use wander instead of wonder and vice versa. Doesn't make them less of a person.

Evie

'Loosing' has never been a correct spelling.

It would be 'loosening'.

Third time lucky!

Yes. I saw your first post but you deleted it before I could reply

I missed that word or skin read and replaced it with loose as is often done by many. Well spotted.

Never mind. 'Skin' reading is still a useful skill on Fab!"

Oh bloody hell!!! Fat fingers

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

Maybe some of the errors are due to people being only half awake at 08.54!

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Yes I know, some people struggle with spelling, I'm sorry if that's you.

However, there are several that get to me, the main one being 'loosing' instead of 'losing'

What ones really get to you?"

Unfortunately, a profile littered with spelling and grammar errors makes people appear less intelligent. It also seems a bit lazy, there are loads of tools available to check the spelling and grammar in any text.

Some of the most irritating are things such at "wat" & "wen", which are amongst the first words that are taught at primary school.

Anita will instantly discount any profile that contains more than a couple of typos.

Cal

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Surely that's poor grammar or understanding of words rather than spelling? They spelt it correctly, just didn't use it in the right context.

Generally if I can get the gist of what they're trying to say I don't let it bother me too much. Much bigger things to worry about.

I have friends who often use wander instead of wonder and vice versa. Doesn't make them less of a person.

Evie

'Loosing' has never been a correct spelling.

It would be 'loosening'.

Third time lucky!"

Despite being a bit archaic, "loosing" IS actually a real word, it used to be used to mean releasing or setting free, it was often used in relation to "attack" such as "loosing the hounds", or "loosing a barrage of arrows".

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There

Their

They’re

All induce a little ick in me when people don’t know the difference..a tad trivial perhaps but that’s just me

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I really (really) try not to let it get to me.

Hyper correction (as in "loose" as a verb pointed out above) makes me laugh.

That being said - weary instead of wary. Weary means tired

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley


"

Despite being a bit archaic, "loosing" IS actually a real word, it used to be used to mean releasing or setting free, it was often used in relation to "attack" such as "loosing the hounds", or "loosing a barrage of arrows".

Cal"

You are right.

I should have realised that before loosing off a broadside!

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

Or, should I have said 'losing of', in keeping withe the Fab style sheet?

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I've bigger things to worry about than if someone makes a simple mistake.

Mrs

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"I really (really) try not to let it get to me.

Hyper correction (as in "loose" as a verb pointed out above) makes me laugh.

That being said - weary instead of wary. Weary means tired "

Sorry.... "hypercorrection" is my weakness

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite often there's a disconnect between my brain and hands when I'm tapping out a message

...as well as eyes come to think of. Previewing my posts doesn't always guarantee I'll spot my mistakes

But like others have said, I don't worry about it

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I really (really) try not to let it get to me.

Hyper correction (as in "loose" as a verb pointed out above) makes me laugh.

That being said - weary instead of wary. Weary means tired

Sorry.... "hypercorrection" is my weakness

Cal"

I meant like in the OP - "loose" isn't a verb... yes it is.

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

Fone... For god sake, there's no "F" in phone!

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames


"If you know wat they mean by it .why make it an issue none of us are perfect "

None of us IS perfect.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Click when you mean clique

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames

Depends what they are saying. If someone messages me saying they want to suck my cock I’m not going to get too upset about a typo or spelling error.

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By *unlovin72Man
over a year ago

BARNSLEY

I sometimes do post bad spelling as I have neuropathy iny hands/fingers and shake sometimes so typing is a problem and I make mistakes which I do notice but there is no edit feature to your messages to correct any misspellings I know it does get on peoples nerves but for some people cannot be helped and would like a little bit of thought about why before posting about bad spelling that's not having a go at anyone particular okay(except) the lady a month ago who wouldn't meet me due to it lol.

We can preview forum posts but not the Dm's

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames


"Click when you mean clique"

Nice!

“I could be happier” gets me too, when the person means the exact opposite.

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By *melie LALWoman
over a year ago

Peterborough

Should of

Would of

Could of

*Shudder*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Should of

Would of

Could of

*Shudder*"

My pet hate

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I like good grammar and spelling

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Proffesional

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By *laymateteeMan
over a year ago

Southampton

I don't find them annoying because I know that English is not everyone's first language. Some people can spell well but have shit attitudes, a good personality is what I find more attractive than good spelling or grammar.

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames


"Should of

Would of

Could of

*Shudder*"

Was just about to post the same.

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By *oshua.LMan
over a year ago

slough

There, their, and they’re………

Can’t blame bad spelling. Probably a lazy mind (not bothering to actually THINK about what they are writing) so probably lazy in their (or is it there / they’re, lol, I’m confused!) attitude towards sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not so much spelling that annoys me but text speak.

Wuu2.

It's just screams laziness to me.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod

over a year ago

My Own Little World

Several, but my newest irk is Chester Drawers.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Several, but my newest irk is Chester Drawers."

Her chest was as wide as a chest of drawers

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By *UFSWoman
over a year ago

belfast


"I make mistakes just by typing too fast sometimes.

I don't find spelling mistakes annoy me. "

Quite (or did I mean quiet) ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Given how much of it goes on here, I’m always surprised when people spell masturbation wrong.

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By *rsPricklePantsWoman
over a year ago

Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk


"It's not so much spelling that annoys me but text speak.

Wuu2.

It's just screams laziness to me.

"

I'm with you on this also because I find it impossible to read, I'm Dyslexic, I request people who contact me not use text speak abbreviations, they don't like it when I point out I'm not going to reply to messages I can't understand or irritate me like heck - you not u

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"I don't find them annoying because I know that English is not everyone's first language. Some people can spell well but have shit attitudes, a good personality is what I find more attractive than good spelling or grammar. "

To be fair, people whose first language isn't English, often have better spelling because they "need" to put the effort into getting it right. Phrasing usually gives away when English isn't someone's first language, but that isn't a problem.

I also get slightly annoyed by people using "dyslexia" as an excuse for poor spelling and grammar. The mistakes that are indicative of dyslexia are completely different to using "there, their, and they're" incorrectly or writing "wat" instead of "what".

Cal

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley


"Given how much of it goes on here, I’m always surprised when people spell masturbation wrong. "

..and when people spell 'wrong' wrongly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Touché

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I don't find them annoying because I know that English is not everyone's first language. Some people can spell well but have shit attitudes, a good personality is what I find more attractive than good spelling or grammar.

To be fair, people whose first language isn't English, often have better spelling because they "need" to put the effort into getting it right. Phrasing usually gives away when English isn't someone's first language, but that isn't a problem.

I also get slightly annoyed by people using "dyslexia" as an excuse for poor spelling and grammar. The mistakes that are indicative of dyslexia are completely different to using "there, their, and they're" incorrectly or writing "wat" instead of "what".

Cal"

Yes, I often wonder if a lot of people using dyslexia are trying to hide behind a disability, and their laziness/ inability/ both actually make that disability (which they don't have) worse.

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By *oxy RedWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I've bigger things to worry about than if someone makes a simple mistake.

Mrs "

I concur! Everyone makes mistakes, even those on high horses.

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By *melie LALWoman
over a year ago

Peterborough


"I've bigger things to worry about than if someone makes a simple mistake.

Mrs

I concur! Everyone makes mistakes, even those on high horses. "

The thread is not about belittling bad spellers, it's about what errors irk you - which is a much better way of looking at it.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

If I get the gist of what's being said I'm cool x

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By *oxy RedWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I've bigger things to worry about than if someone makes a simple mistake.

Mrs

I concur! Everyone makes mistakes, even those on high horses.

The thread is not about belittling bad spellers, it's about what errors irk you - which is a much better way of looking at it."

I am looking at it from the way that someone who has poor grammar, poor spelling and a disability may feel. Respectfully, I feel this is a much better way of looking at it.

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By *udding RoseWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere out there


"If I get the gist of what's being said I'm cool x"

Same here!!

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By *lexm87Man
over a year ago

Various


"If you know wat they mean by it .why make it an issue none of us are perfect

None of us IS perfect. "

Perhaps a linguistic note of pedantry here, but 'are' flows better.

Language evolves, but 'text' speak, especially the superfluous 'lol' at the end of each sentence, has me reaching for the red pen.

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By *aturerossCouple
over a year ago

Ross on Wye

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"I don't find them annoying because I know that English is not everyone's first language. Some people can spell well but have shit attitudes, a good personality is what I find more attractive than good spelling or grammar.

To be fair, people whose first language isn't English, often have better spelling because they "need" to put the effort into getting it right. Phrasing usually gives away when English isn't someone's first language, but that isn't a problem.

I also get slightly annoyed by people using "dyslexia" as an excuse for poor spelling and grammar. The mistakes that are indicative of dyslexia are completely different to using "there, their, and they're" incorrectly or writing "wat" instead of "what".

Cal

Yes, I often wonder if a lot of people using dyslexia are trying to hide behind a disability, and their laziness/ inability/ both actually make that disability (which they don't have) worse. "

Ok, so you are saying people are stating they are dyslexic/disabled to excuse lazy behaviour? Would you say that about a physical disability too? Are they also just to lazy to be unable to do things correctly?

Or is it just the invisible ones people use as an excuse?

Mrs

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Depends what they are saying. If someone messages me saying they want to suck my cock I’m not going to get too upset about a typo or spelling error. "

What if they were terrible at spelling and really wanted to cuck your sock ?

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area


"I don't find them annoying because I know that English is not everyone's first language. Some people can spell well but have shit attitudes, a good personality is what I find more attractive than good spelling or grammar.

To be fair, people whose first language isn't English, often have better spelling because they "need" to put the effort into getting it right. Phrasing usually gives away when English isn't someone's first language, but that isn't a problem.

I also get slightly annoyed by people using "dyslexia" as an excuse for poor spelling and grammar. The mistakes that are indicative of dyslexia are completely different to using "there, their, and they're" incorrectly or writing "wat" instead of "what".

Cal

Yes, I often wonder if a lot of people using dyslexia are trying to hide behind a disability, and their laziness/ inability/ both actually make that disability (which they don't have) worse.

Ok, so you are saying people are stating they are dyslexic/disabled to excuse lazy behaviour? Would you say that about a physical disability too? Are they also just to lazy to be unable to do things correctly?

Or is it just the invisible ones people use as an excuse?

Mrs "

On average, a sentence that would take a non-dyslexic a minute to write would take me three minutes; if I wrote it in a minute, it would contain mistakes yet I've put in the same amount of effort as others would have - so not being lazy. Writing a correct sentence requires me to use 300% more effort than those that aren't dyslexic.

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By *mnipotent_BehemothMan
over a year ago

near Merry Hill shopping centre

Now I have to say, I’m happy for anyone to be a pedant but as a high functioning dyslexic I do have a few issues technology is a double edged sword, yea predictive text and auto correct are great things but where spelling are close it’s very hard for me to spot the error.

If someone does take deep objection so be it your not likely to be someone who I’d want to play with anyway, as long as you don’t call something a ‘train’ station or other Americanisation of English.

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By *weetsmellingtreatsWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

Ect instead of etc and draws instead of drawers grate on me.

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By *hloe_TTV/TS
over a year ago

Nottingham

I hate when i try to write something funny but ruin it with a typo. Always makes me cringe.

I find good grammar a turn on. X

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I hate when i try to write something funny but ruin it with a typo. Always makes me cringe.

I find good grammar a turn on. X "

Sexually ?

Do they sometimes split your infinitive ?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I couldn't be parsed.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Not to mention that I do like to keep my homophones straight .......

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I'm getting tense with the subject now.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

My excuse is fat fingers, I know what to type and roughly how to spell the words, sadly my fingers have other ideas.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Orthographists ..... all of you !

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"I don't find them annoying because I know that English is not everyone's first language. Some people can spell well but have shit attitudes, a good personality is what I find more attractive than good spelling or grammar.

To be fair, people whose first language isn't English, often have better spelling because they "need" to put the effort into getting it right. Phrasing usually gives away when English isn't someone's first language, but that isn't a problem.

I also get slightly annoyed by people using "dyslexia" as an excuse for poor spelling and grammar. The mistakes that are indicative of dyslexia are completely different to using "there, their, and they're" incorrectly or writing "wat" instead of "what".

Cal

Yes, I often wonder if a lot of people using dyslexia are trying to hide behind a disability, and their laziness/ inability/ both actually make that disability (which they don't have) worse.

Ok, so you are saying people are stating they are dyslexic/disabled to excuse lazy behaviour? Would you say that about a physical disability too? Are they also just to lazy to be unable to do things correctly?

Or is it just the invisible ones people use as an excuse?

Mrs

On average, a sentence that would take a non-dyslexic a minute to write would take me three minutes; if I wrote it in a minute, it would contain mistakes yet I've put in the same amount of effort as others would have - so not being lazy. Writing a correct sentence requires me to use 300% more effort than those that aren't dyslexic."

And I'm totally with you, hence questioning the comment of the one I replied to.

I don't perceive you as lazy in the slightest I have a good understanding of this area.

Mrs

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

Bring back hanging!!!.

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By *ommodoCouple
over a year ago

OX16

Two dyslexic,s in a car one says to the other can you smell petrol the other says Icant smell my name

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

I make lots of typing mistakes on here. How could you clearly and consistently differentiate between that, the fact that somene may have dyslexia, english is not their first language (though often they use it better than the natives), are not as educated as yourselves or whatever else. I would never in a million years feel i should question anyone on that or make unfounded assumptions. If I need clarification, I will politely ask. This thread and a few others would have made me run a mile from this site in the past but thankfully I am a bit more hard skinned these days. Really

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By *hloe_TTV/TS
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Orthographists ..... all of you !"

Think your humour is too high brow for these forums babe lol x

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

People that feel the need to sarcastically or patronisingly correct the spelling, punctuation and grammar of others is a real pet peeve of mine

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over


"I make lots of typing mistakes on here. How could you clearly and consistently differentiate between that, the fact that somene may have dyslexia, english is not their first language (though often they use it better than the natives), are not as educated as yourselves or whatever else. I would never in a million years feel i should question anyone on that or make unfounded assumptions. If I need clarification, I will politely ask. This thread and a few others would have made me run a mile from this site in the past but thankfully I am a bit more hard skinned these days. Really "

Btw I just noticed I must watch my capitalisation and a few other things.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

It doesn't matter.

Do I get the occasional twitch when one of my favourite people uses the wrong version of your? Sure. Does it make him any less amazing as a person or actually affect the communication? No

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By *or7 OP   Man
over a year ago

bath


"Should of

Would of

Could of

*Shudder*"

Actually, that's right up there with loosing for me.

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By *or7 OP   Man
over a year ago

bath


"I've bigger things to worry about than if someone makes a simple mistake.

Mrs

I concur! Everyone makes mistakes, even those on high horses.

The thread is not about belittling bad spellers, it's about what errors irk you - which is a much better way of looking at it."

Thank you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What ones or which ones?

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By *esthetic21Man
over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol

Role instead of roll

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"I don't find them annoying because I know that English is not everyone's first language. Some people can spell well but have shit attitudes, a good personality is what I find more attractive than good spelling or grammar.

To be fair, people whose first language isn't English, often have better spelling because they "need" to put the effort into getting it right. Phrasing usually gives away when English isn't someone's first language, but that isn't a problem.

I also get slightly annoyed by people using "dyslexia" as an excuse for poor spelling and grammar. The mistakes that are indicative of dyslexia are completely different to using "there, their, and they're" incorrectly or writing "wat" instead of "what".

Cal

Yes, I often wonder if a lot of people using dyslexia are trying to hide behind a disability, and their laziness/ inability/ both actually make that disability (which they don't have) worse.

Ok, so you are saying people are stating they are dyslexic/disabled to excuse lazy behaviour? Would you say that about a physical disability too? Are they also just to lazy to be unable to do things correctly?

Or is it just the invisible ones people use as an excuse?

Mrs

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On average, a sentence that would take a non-dyslexic a minute to write would take me three minutes; if I wrote it in a minute, it would contain mistakes yet I've put in the same amount of effort as others would have - so not being lazy. Writing a correct sentence requires me to use 300% more effort than those that aren't dyslexic."

I totally agree, the question is over people who don't actually have dyslexia "claiming" that dyslexia is the reason for their poor spelling.

Your response actually demonstrated that being dyslexic is a long way from being illiterate.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I don't find them annoying because I know that English is not everyone's first language. Some people can spell well but have shit attitudes, a good personality is what I find more attractive than good spelling or grammar.

To be fair, people whose first language isn't English, often have better spelling because they "need" to put the effort into getting it right. Phrasing usually gives away when English isn't someone's first language, but that isn't a problem.

I also get slightly annoyed by people using "dyslexia" as an excuse for poor spelling and grammar. The mistakes that are indicative of dyslexia are completely different to using "there, their, and they're" incorrectly or writing "wat" instead of "what".

Cal

Yes, I often wonder if a lot of people using dyslexia are trying to hide behind a disability, and their laziness/ inability/ both actually make that disability (which they don't have) worse.

Ok, so you are saying people are stating they are dyslexic/disabled to excuse lazy behaviour? Would you say that about a physical disability too? Are they also just to lazy to be unable to do things correctly?

Or is it just the invisible ones people use as an excuse?

Mrs "

I'm making no specific claims about specific people.

I'm saying that there are tell-tale signs of dyslexia that don't always show up in instances of poor spelling, and that people who don't have dyslexia use it as a way to excuse their laziness.

I'm not shitting on people with a learning difference, I'm shitting on people who hide behind people with a learning difference to excuse their inadequacy. And I'm saying "I believe this is a phenomenon" not "you, SmellsLikeElderberries*, are lying when you say you have dyslexia".

* when wanting to discuss a person as a specific but not point anyone out, go to Monty Python

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe if we all jsut take a minature too prof red hour massages we mite b cable 2 correct the hammer mistakes b4 peeps our aware and make a point fo it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But smoetmies we r in scuh a rush to get taht mssaege snet taht we dont raelsie wot we have tpyed

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By *hunky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich


"Yes I know, some people struggle with spelling, I'm sorry if that's you.

However, there are several that get to me, the main one being 'loosing' instead of 'losing'

What ones really get to you?"

***

It happens qiete often on the phone, hardly on PC. It won't be even highlighted, because both are correct spelling, but in the wrong sentence. Easy to miss it.

People with loose morals won't lose any sleep over it.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Yes I know, some people struggle with spelling, I'm sorry if that's you.

However, there are several that get to me, the main one being 'loosing' instead of 'losing'

What ones really get to you?"

Don’t forget that auto carrot has a lot to answer for

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By *hunky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich


"Yes I know, some people struggle with spelling, I'm sorry if that's you.

However, there are several that get to me, the main one being 'loosing' instead of 'losing'

What ones really get to you?

Don’t forget that auto carrot has a lot to answer for "

***

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By *eronikapaulCouple
over a year ago

Reading

We are very much in favour of poor spelling. How else would you decide witch people to meet?

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames


"Given how much of it goes on here, I’m always surprised when people spell masturbation wrong. "

Wankers

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames


"If you know wat they mean by it .why make it an issue none of us are perfect

None of us IS perfect.

Perhaps a linguistic note of pedantry here, but 'are' flows better.

Language evolves, but 'text' speak, especially the superfluous 'lol' at the end of each sentence, has me reaching for the red pen. "

“Are” seems more natural, but “is” is grammatically correct.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

I hote peer speelings.

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames


"Ect instead of etc and draws instead of drawers grate on me.

"

And etcetera pronounced as eksetera.

… and espresso pronounced as espresso.

Not to mention ask being pronounced as axe.

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By *ndycoinsMan
over a year ago

Whaley Bridge,Nr Buxton,


"Ect instead of etc and draws instead of drawers grate on me.

And etcetera pronounced as eksetera.

… and espresso pronounced as espresso.

Not to mention ask being pronounced as axe."

Train station instead of Railway station is infant talk.Trains are there very briefly,the Railway is permanent.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Ect instead of etc and draws instead of drawers grate on me.

And etcetera pronounced as eksetera.

… and espresso pronounced as espresso.

Not to mention ask being pronounced as axe.

Train station instead of Railway station is infant talk.Trains are there very briefly,the Railway is permanent."

I don’t think I’ve ever called it a railway station.

I must be an infant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can cope with the spelling mistakes, it happens, it is the ‘text talk’ or whatever it is called that I dislike.

I am 52 and far too old to understand what most of it means.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

There, their and they're

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By *ildo_swagginsthe3rdWoman
over a year ago

Wales


"If you know wat they mean by it .why make it an issue none of us are perfect

None of us IS perfect.

Perhaps a linguistic note of pedantry here, but 'are' flows better.

Language evolves, but 'text' speak, especially the superfluous 'lol' at the end of each sentence, has me reaching for the red pen. "

Lol

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley


"Ect instead of etc and draws instead of drawers grate on me.

"

'Draws'... You've been on the air fryers thread, then?

Or maybe you know a draughtsman or cartoonist from Chester?

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By *DW1983Man
over a year ago

Blackpool, Aberdeen, Leeds, Sheffield

I think it depends on context. If it's obviously a typo on somewhere like the forum here, it's usually not a big deal - although that doesn't mean it's not important to try. Using the wrong word can cause confusion or completely alter the meaning. Asking what someone is implying or what they're inferring completely turns the meaning around for example, and the two are often confused.

On the other hand, I deal with words and language on a daily basis in a professional capacity, and often see some terrible examples of things which are badly written or punctuated which really *should* be right. Lots of examples have already been mentioned above, but another pet hate is "onboard" which is almost always wrong. Nearly every bus or train I've been on recently has welcomed me "onboard". It's either "aboard" or "on board". Yes, it's a small point but it reflects badly when a transport company can't get basic transport terms right.

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By *ondgirl 1000Woman
over a year ago

crowthorne


"Ect instead of etc and draws instead of drawers grate on me.

"

Even worse is Chester draws instead of chest of drawers

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Using too instead of to & vice versa.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Life's to short to worry about spelling mistakes. I only worry when I can't understand it like text speak

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow


"Yes I know, some people struggle with spelling, I'm sorry if that's you.

However, there are several that get to me, the main one being 'loosing' instead of 'losing'

What ones really get to you?"

How do you feel about inappropriate use of commas and run on sentences OP?

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By *ddie1966Man
over a year ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.

Going back to Loosing.

It's a term used in archery.

The old adage is you fire a gun but you shoot an arrow.

However. You actually loose an arrow and the collective term is loosing.

But I know exactly what people mean here.

Predictive text has a lot to answer for.

Or as I refer to it as contradictive text.

If its a conversation where you're trying to get your leg over, I suppose it could be referred to as contraceptive text.

And, I gladly hold up my hand, I'm as guilty as the rest.

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

i'll take a few spolling mistakes over a giant run on sentence with little to no punctuation or capitalisation it's really difficult to read, and sometimes the commas just make no sense cant handle it at all and will defiantly pass those profiles by

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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst


"We are very much in favour of poor spelling. How else would you decide witch people to meet?"

Witches can be very sexy

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

I'm with you up to a point, OP.

Obvious typo's don't bother me or when I think it's clear a person has dyslexia, but two/too/to or where/were/wear/ware really do bug me.

And it's all well and good for those above saying you don't need to be able to spell to fuck, but if you - like me - don't want to engage with folk who can't spell, that's perfectly okay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The other day op I was typing, d*unk bucks fizz, Lots of typos mind hic hic

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

For those that only meet in clubs do you do a spelling test first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wat.. What

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For those that only meet in clubs do you do a spelling test first"

Good question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who cares. This is not skool. I am not here to correct anything except rude messages in my inbox.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
over a year ago

A den in the Glen

Some people use the words in the wrong contest. It's not a crime.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"Some people use the words in the wrong contest. It's not a crime."

No it's certainly not.

But it IS acceptable for folk to be wound up about.

Live & let live and all that

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"Yes I know, some people struggle with spelling, I'm sorry if that's you.

However, there are several that get to me, the main one being 'loosing' instead of 'losing'

What ones really get to you?"

all of them I'm dislexic .I find it really funny when you people can spell get bother over it.loads of words are ridicule when when have drop letter from a word doesn't make any sence but you lot go along with it.who fuck made these stupid rules up .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i'll take a few spolling mistakes over a giant run on sentence with little to no punctuation or capitalisation it's really difficult to read, and sometimes the commas just make no sense cant handle it at all and will defiantly pass those profiles by"

really cant think wot u mean by a giant run on sentence nothing wrong with long sentences is there

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"i'll take a few spolling mistakes over a giant run on sentence with little to no punctuation or capitalisation it's really difficult to read, and sometimes the commas just make no sense cant handle it at all and will defiantly pass those profiles by"

Well do all those things no idea where to put a coma or all that other puntuation shit.sorry .

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By *sacambsMan
over a year ago

Huntingdon


"Yes I know, some people struggle with spelling, I'm sorry if that's you.

However, there are several that get to me, the main one being 'loosing' instead of 'losing'

What ones really get to you?"

Of and off

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By *sacambsMan
over a year ago

Huntingdon

Bought and brought

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By *sacambsMan
over a year ago

Huntingdon

To and too

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By *sacambsMan
over a year ago

Huntingdon

There, their and they're

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames


"If you know wat they mean by it .why make it an issue none of us are perfect

None of us IS perfect.

Perhaps a linguistic note of pedantry here, but 'are' flows better.

Language evolves, but 'text' speak, especially the superfluous 'lol' at the end of each sentence, has me reaching for the red pen.

Lol"

ROFL!

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames


"Ect instead of etc and draws instead of drawers grate on me.

Even worse is Chester draws instead of chest of drawers"

Top draw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perfik no smelling pistakes ...

Predictive text and English correction as actually helped me.

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By *otuseater11Man
over a year ago

kilwinning

If you know what it means .I can't see the problem at all.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

None despite being a former teacher. I typo all the time so who am i to judge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the things you see when your mind reads it perfect even if way off being spelt correctly.

Not one is in the 1% club but i do like those kind of challenges.

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By *entlemanrogueMan
over a year ago

Motherwell

Brought instead of bought

Draw instead of drawer

They are both minor annoyance's, however you did ask.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Writing or saying "pacific" when it should be "specific"

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

'A criteria' and 'A phenomena'.

If people want to be smart and use Latin words, please learn the difference between the plural and singular forms.

To save them from bothering to get an education of their own, the correct singular nouns are a criterion and a phenomenon.

The misuse is becoming so widespread that, once again, language might need to evolve in order to cater for sloppy users.

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By *uri00620Woman
over a year ago

Croydon

Turnt. As in 'I turnt and said....'

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London


"Brought instead of bought

Draw instead of drawer

They are both minor annoyance's, however you did ask."

Don't get me started on the grocer's apostrophe...

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley


"Turnt. As in 'I turnt and said....'"

When pupils used to recount "So she turns round and goes (meaning said)..." I used to pirouette through 360 degrees and say "Do you mean,like that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to worry about what people are saying rather than how they spell it or if they use imperfect grammar.

Perfect grammar and good communication being only acceptable if it's formal English is a concept rooted in classism and racism. Plenty of info on that on the interwebs if you want to look into it more.

Personally, I simply have much bigger concerns worthy of my energy. I don't have time to stress about things that make no difference to my life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spelling doesn't bother me as im dyslexic but I understand most I not sure if spelt write or not

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By *anzer FernandoMan
over a year ago

Over the seas and far away

Like so much on Planet Fab I think this is a matter of personal preference and attraction. My work involves writing, I read a lot, and good expression is important to me. I've found over the years that I click better with those who similarly value it. Even if the main game is wild, hot sex - you need to stop for a break, and a chat, occasionally. But this is just my preference.

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By *uri00620Woman
over a year ago

Croydon


"Turnt. As in 'I turnt and said....'

When pupils used to recount "So she turns round and goes (meaning said)..." I used to pirouette through 360 degrees and say "Do you mean,like that?"

Yes, like that. I've seen adults write it like that too "I turnt around and I saw..." I've had discussions about how it isn't a word. Teenagers esp like to tell me I'm wrong!

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames


"Turnt. As in 'I turnt and said....'

When pupils used to recount "So she turns round and goes (meaning said)..." I used to pirouette through 360 degrees and say "Do you mean,like that?"

And how about “and I was like …” instead of “I said”.

Eg. “And I was like “no way”, and she was like “whatever””

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