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Im now too old for some people

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Father time doesn't come itself, how did you guys find it when you started being too old for people's age ranges?

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By *eordieJeansCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I’ll let you know when that time comes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is what it is

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ll let you know when that time comes."

Im sure people will always make exception for a hot couple like you guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Set up multiple profiles ensuring you cover all age ranges/preferences/locations… that should work….

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It is what it is "

It is, ill stick my pipe and slippers on, or wait until someone calls me a dilf lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is what it is

It is, ill stick my pipe and slippers on, or wait until someone calls me a dilf lol"

You know what tho, we’re none of us gonna be right for everyone for various reasons so don’t worry about it

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

Everyone is too old for someone, I am sure. But then there are all the others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah well

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

Bugger all I can do about it, I try to go to more clubs but even that is difficult to get entry as a single fella - it is what it is.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Just do what others do and slide your age down a bit OP. You'll soon be back to your glory days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fabs seems better suited for older men anyways. At 38 your most starting to reach that

As for me, seems since hitting my 30s younger women are even more interested. A lot of 18-21 year olds have a thing for older guys and I’m not complaining

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth


"Just do what others do and slide your age down a bit OP. You'll soon be back to your glory days. "

Feels deceitful to me, folks are always complaining about a lack of honesty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found out I was too old as soon as I joined fab...

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke


"Father time doesn't come itself, how did you guys find it when you started being too old for people's age ranges? "

The slow slippery slope of time….

Don’t worry about it OP. You are a mere young’un still

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

gosh .....people feeling judged by ageists on their age

I wonder what that feels like?

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

You’re only 38!

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
over a year ago

There and Here


"Father time doesn't come itself, how did you guys find it when you started being too old for people's age ranges? "

Focus on those who you're now old enough for?

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

Im too young for the ones I’m chasing

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Some people are too young for us but that's ok.

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By *stwo2023Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

You're only 38

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Father time doesn't come itself, how did you guys find it when you started being too old for people's age ranges?

Focus on those who you're now old enough for?"

Yes it does take me into a new bracket, older equals more mature and better at sex

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Just do what others do and slide your age down a bit OP. You'll soon be back to your glory days.

Feels deceitful to me, folks are always complaining about a lack of honesty "

Oh come on, be a bit more reasonable. There are little white lies and then there are wicked deceits.

It's how you look and move and interact that matters not the exact date on your birth certificate.

What difference does it make to someone who likes the look of you and says yes to nsa sex ? A one off even?

Do what you think will open the door and then just be you after that

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"You're only 38 "

What ? He's 30 bloody 8 ?

Let me check

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I checked. You must have meant someone else

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke


"

older equals more mature and better at sex "

Not necessarily…

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By *stwo2023Couple
over a year ago

Worcester


"I checked. You must have meant someone else "

I definitely wrote 38 granny!! Off to Specsavers for you I think

Evie

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I checked. You must have meant someone else

I definitely wrote 38 granny!! Off to Specsavers for you I think

Evie "

No! I know! I thought you meant the O.P.

You didn't .....

I wondered where you'd got to .... and there you are

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Just shoot me. I rechecked and he is 38.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I go and sit in the corner and cry because the world hates me and I’m unable to be an adult and forget about it.

The mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm too young for some and too old for others. It's their choice I'm not what they're looking for. It's all good, I'll just focus on the people that are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's why I only go for people with bus passes

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke


"I go and sit in the corner and cry because the world hates me and I’m unable to be an adult and forget about it.

The mr "

This is standard for you… nothing to do with your age

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"I go and sit in the corner and cry because the world hates me and I’m unable to be an adult and forget about it.

The mr

This is standard for you… nothing to do with your age "

Very true, I cry a lot, think the mrs is about 3 more episodes away from getting me sectioned.

The mr

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

You're only 38 ffs

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke


"I go and sit in the corner and cry because the world hates me and I’m unable to be an adult and forget about it.

The mr

This is standard for you… nothing to do with your age

Very true, I cry a lot, think the mrs is about 3 more episodes away from getting me sectioned.

The mr "

Bless her heart. She needs a medal

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We didn't join until we were in our fifties, we've always been too old for most . We don't know any different. Recently though we've become 'suitable only as exhibits in a swingers museum'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So when your younger the cougars want you, when your just hitting 40 your the max age for girls in the 20’s…. But when you reach 40 plus your in no (wo)man’s land!!

Hard place to be !! Ha ha haaa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Father time doesn't come itself, how did you guys find it when you started being too old for people's age ranges? "

Oh aye.. your an old gadgie now

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

You're only 38? We'll all be out of someone's age range eventually. Just look for those who want to meet people your age.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I go and sit in the corner and cry because the world hates me and I’m unable to be an adult and forget about it.

The mr "

Do you want to lie on my sofa and talk about it Mr. ?

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over


"We didn't join until we were in our fifties, we've always been too old for most . We don't know any different. Recently though we've become 'suitable only as exhibits in a swingers museum' "

Madame NCs

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I go and sit in the corner and cry because the world hates me and I’m unable to be an adult and forget about it.

The mr

Do you want to lie on my sofa and talk about it Mr. ? "

I mean you never mention it as a rule

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"We didn't join until we were in our fifties, we've always been too old for most . We don't know any different. Recently though we've become 'suitable only as exhibits in a swingers museum'

Madame NCs "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m too young for most people on here.

They’re old enough to be my mum most of them.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I’m too young for most people on here.

They’re old enough to be my mum most of them. "

We're actually old enough to be your grandparents.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Single man, over 50 here. Cry me a river. Make of it what you can, as there's bugger all you can do about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cry every day knowing that some people don't want to fuck me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Father time doesn't come itself, how did you guys find it when you started being too old for people's age ranges? "

Feeling your pain… growing old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're only 38 ffs "

Too old.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"I cry every day knowing that some people don't want to fuck me. "

And then there's those that do

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
over a year ago

Lingfield

I'm finding that I'm out of the age range for so many people now. It's a bit depressing but I just have to take the attitude that it's their loss not mine!

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"I go and sit in the corner and cry because the world hates me and I’m unable to be an adult and forget about it.

The mr

Do you want to lie on my sofa and talk about it Mr. ?

I mean you never mention it as a rule "

Throw in some coffee and biscuits in and you’ve got a deal.

But I feel after a conversation you may need to sit on someone’s sofa and talk about it.

The mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s times I think I’m too old and past it for sexy sex and all this stuff

But then I remember when a young woman reminded me after I told her I thought I might have been too old for her. She told me I was a ‘Dilf’, as she preceded to ride me,….

Op, you’re as young as you are or as old as you feel. It’s up to you how you look at it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m too young for most people on here.

They’re old enough to be my mum most of them.

We're actually old enough to be your grandparents. "

Can I be like your little surrogate grandson. I just want to be loved

(I’m kidding)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I cry every day knowing that some people don't want to fuck me. "
and the ones that do haven’t seen you yet

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I’m too young for most people on here.

They’re old enough to be my mum most of them.

We're actually old enough to be your grandparents.

Can I be like your little surrogate grandson. I just want to be loved

(I’m kidding) "

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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago

Reading

When you get to my age . I have been to old for most for years. My motto is never give up as still capable to have sex. People do say there is someone for everyone out there . I agree with that , but with age just gets more difficult ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as said, it is what it is!

I’m not for everyone and likewise not everyone is for me

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By *ayd100Man
over a year ago

clitheroe

Wife thinks I'm too old

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By *BWLOVER1965Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

As someone else said it is what it is

Cant stop the ticking clock of life

Age filters are good really mine are 60-99 now

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By *cnugatugMan
over a year ago

Chatham

Some will be put off by age others won't it's a preference everyone has at the end of the day it's up to the individual if I'm too old for one person that just means im not for them I drink it up and just move on I don't give any hate towards others just accept it and carry on trying it took me a good 4 or 5 months before I got my first meet and I got rejected alot before then still get knocked back now but hakuna matata

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By *xfordjohnMan
over a year ago

Oxford


"as said, it is what it is!

I’m not for everyone and likewise not everyone is for me"

Quite! Anyway, there seem to be plenty of older people on here to meet, and also plenty of younger people who want to meet older men - don't know why but I'm not complaining about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's always someone out there for someone.

Not like your ancient

Miss S x

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I'm to old for most people now x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm to old for most people now x"

But not me

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"I'm to old for most people now x

But not me "

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too old, your only 38.. for us ,well,me fem, your actually a little too young. Everyone has different likes x

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By *entlemanrogueMan
over a year ago

Motherwell

Back when i first joined it seemed like the majority of women that appealed to me, where looking for men over 44/45 now i dont see many with that preference.

However i really don't mind too much.

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By *heLongTongueMan
over a year ago

Boston


"Father time doesn't come itself, how did you guys find it when you started being too old for people's age ranges? "

I wouldn’t overthink it. Many peoples age ranges aren’t really set with a purpose in mind, just kind of a vague idea of what/who they like.

Personally, I’d rather go on personality than age. An age is no guarantee of a bedroom connection

whereas a personality that gels with yours is more likely to have sparks.

The bit that amuses me most is one day somebody will entertain you based on your age, but the next day you’re persona non grata as you’re too old for them.

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By *cnugatugMan
over a year ago

Chatham


"I'm to old for most people now x"
I beg to differ because you look incredible and definitely not too old for me I'd meet you in a heartbeat

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

You can't change what people want or lie. So accept things and move on

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