FabSwingers.com forum: Why do people lie?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Never understood why people lie on these sites… lie about their pictures or about themselves or even I’m only interested in you I’m not chatting to others…. Always makes me laugh …

Or is it just me that’s far too honest?

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Hi op

Because it's too easy to tell the truth

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By *ocialWatchingMan
over a year ago

Alnwick / Newcastle

Living in a fantasy land!

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By *oom_88Man
over a year ago

Grays

"Never understood why people lie on these sites… lie about their pictures or about themselves or even I’m only interested in you I’m not chatting to others…. Always makes me laugh …

Or is it just me that’s far too honest? "

I think some people think that lying will get then an easy lay by making the other hear or see what they want to hear or see, it end up backfiring when the person is discovered lying though. Personally I dont see the point, honesty is the key.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand it either.

It's like the fantasy some people play out is enough through textual interactions.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Surely better than the harder option of having to remember what you have said all the time?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Living in a fantasy land!"
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Me or them?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Never understood why people lie on these sites… lie about their pictures or about themselves or even I’m only interested in you I’m not chatting to others…. Always makes me laugh …

Or is it just me that’s far too honest?

Totally agree because they are always found out

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By *r-8-BBCMan
over a year ago

LONDON

"Never understood why people lie on these sites… lie about their pictures or about themselves or even I’m only interested in you I’m not chatting to others…. Always makes me laugh …

Or is it just me that’s far too honest? "

Because some people find it hard to accept the truth.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't understand it either.

It's like the fantasy some people play out is enough through textual interactions."

But even a text fantasy you have to remember what you have said

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Never understood why people lie on these sites… lie about their pictures or about themselves or even I’m only interested in you I’m not chatting to others…. Always makes me laugh …

Or is it just me that’s far too honest?

Because some people find it hard to accept the truth."

I rather be told a hurtful truth than an unhurtful lie

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By *ohntall123Man
over a year ago

Biggleswade

"Never understood why people lie on these sites… lie about their pictures or about themselves or even I’m only interested in you I’m not chatting to others…. Always makes me laugh …

Or is it just me that’s far too honest? "

Being honest is the only way , what’s the point because at some time if you want to meet it will come out .

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By *ocialWatchingMan
over a year ago

Alnwick / Newcastle

"Living in a fantasy land!l

Me or them?"

Them

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By *hunky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich

People lie everywhere, every time and get away with it.

1. To get what they want easier.

2. Because it makes their life easier sometimes, just to go with the crowd.

3. Some people likes to lie or doesn't know better.

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By *trkenitMan
over a year ago

Clovis

That's what humans do.

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By *entlemanrogueMan
over a year ago

Motherwell

Some people live by the Tell them what they want to hear. Mantra

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Because lies help you manipulate situations and you get what you want.

The mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dunno, put people will always lie. Some will always be truthful. Get used to it.

I try to encourage people to be upfront with me, I can deal with the truth, I can’t deal with a lie.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

Because people are bellends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get it either OP....Some using really dated photos which they look nothing like & lieing about their age by a long shot....Who are they fooling.... Seriously.... Cos when they meet how do they explain when they don't look 34 & look at least 52

It's just pathetic & so unfair to the people they chat too....It's major Cat-Fishing!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men fall in love with what they see, women fall in love with what they hear

Which is why women always wear makeup and men always lie

We all lie one way or another.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

I rarely wear make up !

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

I live by the "People show you what they want you to see". Deception, even to themselves, is high on most online sites

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

Have to admit... I'm a liar...I don't actually only have a bath once a month or smell of fried onions and cat piss...and I also don't have a horse that lives indoors in the winter...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

“You want answers?!”

“I want the truth!”

“YOU CAN’T HANDLE THE TRUTH!”.

(A Few Good Men)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People will be people which is frustrating. More annoying when people get rude or abusive just when you say you’re not interested. Also had my pics copied with a false profile. Does get frustrating x

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By *alleyDaveMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Never understood why people lie on these sites… lie about their pictures or about themselves or even I’m only interested in you I’m not chatting to others…. Always makes me laugh …

Or is it just me that’s far too honest?

Because some people find it hard to accept the truth.

I rather be told a hurtful truth than an unhurtful lie "

I'm as blunt as they come, call a spade a spade ,and I've found speaking your mind and being honest on here gets you nowhere .

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By *iddle ManMan
over a year ago

Walsall

They use this site for fantasy and have no intention of actually doing any interaction.

The same reason most people lie, it benefits themselves more by doing it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Never understood why people lie on these sites… lie about their pictures or about themselves or even I’m only interested in you I’m not chatting to others…. Always makes me laugh …

Or is it just me that’s far too honest?

Being honest is the only way , what’s the point because at some time if you want to meet it will come out . "

I’m glad someone gets it x

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Because lies help you manipulate situations and you get what you want.

The mr "

Exactly that. Men and women lie on here - about their age because they want more attention and truly believe they look younger (they never, ever do). About their relationship status. Their sexual health attitudes. You learn to accept that. People lie in day to day life; why would here be any different?

Never ever believe anyone who tells you they're only talking to/interested in you on here btw. It's always utter bollocks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"People lie everywhere, every time and get away with it.

1. To get what they want easier.

2. Because it makes their life easier sometimes, just to go with the crowd.

3. Some people likes to lie or doesn't know better."

That is quite sad isn’t it x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That's what humans do. "

But shouldn’t we try to be better people and not?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some people live by the Tell them what they want to hear. Mantra"

Which is pretty rubbish don’t you agree?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Because lies help you manipulate situations and you get what you want.

The mr "

But do they?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I dunno, put people will always lie. Some will always be truthful. Get used to it.

I try to encourage people to be upfront with me, I can deal with the truth, I can’t deal with a lie.

I’m the same, you can tell me any truth and I will stand by you… a lie I will walk away ….

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Because people are bellends

Love it lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't get it either OP....Some using really dated photos which they look nothing like & lieing about their age by a long shot....Who are they fooling.... Seriously.... Cos when they meet how do they explain when they don't look 34 & look at least 52

It's just pathetic & so unfair to the people they chat too....It's major Cat-Fishing!!!!"

I totally agree with you. If you ever fancy chatting woman to woman please feel free to message me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lie all the time, I tell people I have a 14 inch penis

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Men fall in love with what they see, women fall in love with what they hear

Which is why women always wear makeup and men always lie

We all lie one way or another. "

Not sure I agree with you if I’m honest

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I rarely wear make up !

I wear very little myself

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By *xposedInTheMaleMan
over a year ago

Cap d'Agde

"Men and women lie on here - about their age because they want more attention and truly believe they look younger (they never, ever do). "

Some people lie about their age because "everyone else is doing it, and if I don't do it people will think I'm older than I am".

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I live by the "People show you what they want you to see". Deception, even to themselves, is high on most online sites"

Rather sad isn’t it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have to admit... I'm a liar...I don't actually only have a bath once a month or smell of fried onions and cat piss...and I also don't have a horse that lives indoors in the winter...

Oh dear lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"“You want answers?!”

“I want the truth!”

“YOU CAN’T HANDLE THE TRUTH!”.

(A Few Good Men)"

Good film and quote x

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By *r-8-BBCMan
over a year ago

LONDON

"Never understood why people lie on these sites… lie about their pictures or about themselves or even I’m only interested in you I’m not chatting to others…. Always makes me laugh …

Or is it just me that’s far too honest?

Because some people find it hard to accept the truth.

I rather be told a hurtful truth than an unhurtful lie "

Then he or she won't get what they're after.

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By *xposedInTheMaleMan
over a year ago

Cap d'Agde

"Or is it just me that’s far too honest? "

Well, unless that's a lie.

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By *loydyMan
over a year ago

British

"Never understood why people lie on these sites… lie about their pictures or about themselves or even I’m only interested in you I’m not chatting to others…. Always makes me laugh …

Or is it just me that’s far too honest? "
sadly that's why most of people are one these sites life's chancers happy new year pet

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"People will be people which is frustrating. More annoying when people get rude or abusive just when you say you’re not interested. Also had my pics copied with a false profile. Does get frustrating x"

Snap had the same abuse and had pictures copied as well . Even been accused of having a second singles profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Never understood why people lie on these sites… lie about their pictures or about themselves or even I’m only interested in you I’m not chatting to others…. Always makes me laugh …

Or is it just me that’s far too honest?

Because some people find it hard to accept the truth.

I rather be told a hurtful truth than an unhurtful lie

I'm as blunt as they come, call a spade a spade ,and I've found speaking your mind and being honest on here gets you nowhere ."

But surely it’s better to be yourself even if it gets you no where than to lie that you are done one else?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"They use this site for fantasy and have no intention of actually doing any interaction.

The same reason most people lie, it benefits themselves more by doing it. "

Still not a good reason in my book

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Because lies help you manipulate situations and you get what you want.

The mr

Never ever believe anyone who tells you they're only talking to/interested in you on here btw. It's always utter bollocks.

Such a shame isn’t it . If you ever fancy a woman to woman chat then feel free to message me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I lie all the time, I tell people I have a 14 inch penis"

Wishful thinking lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Men and women lie on here - about their age because they want more attention and truly believe they look younger (they never, ever do).

Some people lie about their age because "everyone else is doing it, and if I don't do it people will think I'm older than I am"."

Why bother it’s only a number

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Never understood why people lie on these sites… lie about their pictures or about themselves or even I’m only interested in you I’m not chatting to others…. Always makes me laugh …

Or is it just me that’s far too honest?

Because some people find it hard to accept the truth.

I rather be told a hurtful truth than an unhurtful lie

Then he or she won't get what they're after."

Maybe you’re right ….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I lie all the time, I tell people I have a 14 inch penis

Wishful thinking lol"

They always laugh though its an ice breaker

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Or is it just me that’s far too honest?

Well, unless that's a lie.

It’s not but I get what you’re saying

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Never understood why people lie on these sites… lie about their pictures or about themselves or even I’m only interested in you I’m not chatting to others…. Always makes me laugh …

Or is it just me that’s far too honest? sadly that's why most of people are one these sites life's chancers happy new year pet"

Happy new year to you as well

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I lie all the time, I tell people I have a 14 inch penis

Wishful thinking lol

They always laugh though its an ice breaker "

If it works and clearly it does why not lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They lie to get what they want.

It benefits them , I think it's a pretty selfish act myself.

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By *havennaturistsCouple
over a year ago

Banff

If we had a pound for every guy who says he's straight in profile, then back channel assures us he's really bi, we would not have had to turn to PPE procurement for easy money!

Dishonesty is such a turn off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never understood why people lie on these sites… lie about their pictures or about themselves or even I’m only interested in you I’m not chatting to others…. Always makes me laugh …

Or is it just me that’s far too honest?

Because some people find it hard to accept the truth.

I rather be told a hurtful truth than an unhurtful lie

I'm as blunt as they come, call a spade a spade ,and I've found speaking your mind and being honest on here gets you nowhere .

But surely it’s better to be yourself even if it gets you no where than to lie that you are done one else?"

I agree 100%.

People live in a fantasy world, many will never actually meet someone from here ( but like the idea) and reinvent themselves as what they’d like to be.

I couldn’t think of anything worse than finally meeting someone and their face drop because I didn’t look anything like I’d claimed or my pictures.

Then again, I lack filters…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A question I've thought of many times over the years I've been on here. There are many reasons of course but I always feel the two main ones are...

1) Fantasy - people get a kick out of being this "other" character (or characters even) they enjoy playing.

2) Competition - especially for solo men on here and many will be economic with the truth in a bid to gain (they hope) an advantage.

Hope that answers your question OP.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Because lies help you manipulate situations and you get what you want.

The mr

Never ever believe anyone who tells you they're only talking to/interested in you on here btw. It's always utter bollocks.

Such a shame isn’t it . If you ever fancy a woman to woman chat then feel free to message me "

Thank you OP, that's really lovely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I live by the "People show you what they want you to see". Deception, even to themselves, is high on most online sites"

Agree’d very much like people on f.b. Show off all the great bits and leave out the rest.

I’m very much a realist and take everything with a pinch of salt now adays. Especially if you don’t know them as a real person!

This site will always be full of liars,cheaters and pervs. Yes we’re ultimately all pervs to a degree and here for the same reasons but if your honest I feel the right people will turn up.

Takes time but the liars, cheats and pic collectors will be found out…

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By *essaMayWoman
over a year ago

Fairytale Wood

People lie about everything on sites like this and dating sites. They say what think will get them what they want because they feel there is less chance of being found out.

Sad truth is that even claiming to honest in most cases is more often a lie. People even tell lies to try and raise themselves above others if they think it will give them an advantage.

Many red flags but one for me is those claim "thats not me it is all the others"

In the end its all about imagery and something i know quite a bit about. We all put on the face we want people to see, most cases the one we think will get us what we want.

Reading between the lines as they say, what is unsaid can be more revealing than what is said.

Goes with the territory - being on site like this i guess we hope we may get see through the facade, and occasionally the truth will reveal itself.

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By *or7Man
over a year ago

bath

"I lie all the time, I tell people I have a 14 inch penis"

I actually have one.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"Never understood why people lie on these sites… lie about their pictures or about themselves or even I’m only interested in you I’m not chatting to others…. Always makes me laugh …

Or is it just me that’s far too honest? "

No it’s not just you that is honest OP. I will never understand it either. I hate lies

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Two reasons

They think it's what you want to hear

They think it gives them a better chance

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

Because they are used to it. Old habits die hard

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By *uckyNineMan
over a year ago

prescot

It’s easy to for people to lie about who they are and what they want to be than work hard to actually be it

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Because they can

Because honesty isn't the goal:sex is

Because they are trying to meet with others

Because they think they can offer what someone wants

Who knows ? Franky I don't care. I'm more Caveat Emptor than leaving it all to the vendor.....

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By *arialoueWoman
over a year ago

bradford

I lie about some things that don't really matter

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I lie about some things that don't really matter "

Are you lying now?

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"Never understood why people lie on these sites… lie about their pictures or about themselves or even I’m only interested in you I’m not chatting to others…. Always makes me laugh …

Or is it just me that’s far too honest? "

Alice had a guy claiming to be 6'1. When he arrived he was about 5'4. Did he think she wouldn't realise?!

The irony is that if he had been up-front, she would not have cared less.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Never understood why people lie on these sites… lie about their pictures or about themselves or even I’m only interested in you I’m not chatting to others…. Always makes me laugh …

Or is it just me that’s far too honest?

Alice had a guy claiming to be 6'1. When he arrived he was about 5'4. Did he think she wouldn't realise?!

The irony is that if he had been up-front, she would not have cared less."

I met a bloke once who said he was 5' 6" and I thought ........ ewwwwww too short for me but sod it cos all else was fine....

When we saw each other for the first time he was smaller than me without my shoes on ...... my heart sank ...

Punch line is ..... He gave me the best orgasm i'd had in years..... don't think it's been beaten to be honest. He looked big enough after that.

( I never told him tho .....maybe I should have )

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

This is the only place where I consistently tell the truth.

No word of a lie!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Truth can be boring

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By *lam granWoman
over a year ago

falkirk

It's actually bothers mr more when people lie about others. The need to slate other folk or simply cause trouble is pathetic.

As fucked up as it is, lying about your own photos etc can be understood to an extent. Nobody likes to be rejected, feel unattractive or overlooked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish I knew.

The amount of sex that could be had if people didn't lie.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

I’m going to say I don’t necessarily tell the truth on here when it comes to:

my actual location

my kids/family circumstances

my work

my life outside Fab

my real name

Anything else I have no need to lie about.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"I’m going to say I don’t necessarily tell the truth on here when it comes to:

my actual location

my kids/family circumstances

my work

my life outside Fab

my real name

Anything else I have no need to lie about. "

These are lies, just protecting yourself from some of the more questionable folks on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never understood why people lie on these sites… lie about their pictures or about themselves or even I’m only interested in you I’m not chatting to others…. Always makes me laugh …

Or is it just me that’s far too honest? "

Not everyone on here wants to be who they are so they lie to be someone there not, much like yourself OP not showing your face, do you have something to hide?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never understood why people lie on these sites… lie about their pictures or about themselves or even I’m only interested in you I’m not chatting to others…. Always makes me laugh …

Or is it just me that’s far too honest?

Not everyone on here wants to be who they are so they lie to be someone there not, much like yourself OP not showing your face, do you have something to hide? "

Yes. Her face.

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
over a year ago

Lingfield

People lie on here because everyone is anonymous so it's easier and the chances are you aren't going to be found out. Unfortunately I've become so cynical that I take the view that everyone who I chat with is lying in some way or another and it's up to me to find out what bits are the truth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never understood why people lie on these sites… lie about their pictures or about themselves or even I’m only interested in you I’m not chatting to others…. Always makes me laugh …

Or is it just me that’s far too honest?

Not everyone on here wants to be who they are so they lie to be someone there not, much like yourself OP not showing your face, do you have something to hide?

Yes. Her face."

Question is why lol if you’re being honest then why hide? It’s just another form of a lie

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"Because lies help you manipulate situations and you get what you want.

The mr "

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never understood why people lie on these sites… lie about their pictures or about themselves or even I’m only interested in you I’m not chatting to others…. Always makes me laugh …

Or is it just me that’s far too honest? "

Not giving too much info away incase the government are watching and listening… then they will know their secrets and use it against them to make them vote Conservative

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"Never understood why people lie on these sites… lie about their pictures or about themselves or even I’m only interested in you I’m not chatting to others…. Always makes me laugh …

Or is it just me that’s far too honest?

Not everyone on here wants to be who they are so they lie to be someone there not, much like yourself OP not showing your face, do you have something to hide?

Yes. Her face.

Question is why lol if you’re being honest then why hide? It’s just another form of a lie

Some people have employment that would be endangered by being on here

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Never understood why people lie on these sites… lie about their pictures or about themselves or even I’m only interested in you I’m not chatting to others…. Always makes me laugh …

Or is it just me that’s far too honest?

Not everyone on here wants to be who they are so they lie to be someone there not, much like yourself OP not showing your face, do you have something to hide?

Yes. Her face.

Question is why lol if you’re being honest then why hide? It’s just another form of a lie

You're not showing your whole body. Are you lying?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone lies. It's to what extent they lie that matters.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Never understood why people lie on these sites… lie about their pictures or about themselves or even I’m only interested in you I’m not chatting to others…. Always makes me laugh …

Or is it just me that’s far too honest?

Not everyone on here wants to be who they are so they lie to be someone there not, much like yourself OP not showing your face, do you have something to hide?

Yes. Her face.

Question is why lol if you’re being honest then why hide? It’s just another form of a lie

Is it fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's actually bothers mr more when people lie about others. The need to slate other folk or simply cause trouble is pathetic.

Fully agree

I've recently had that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never understood why people lie on these sites… lie about their pictures or about themselves or even I’m only interested in you I’m not chatting to others…. Always makes me laugh …

Or is it just me that’s far too honest?

Not everyone on here wants to be who they are so they lie to be someone there not, much like yourself OP not showing your face, do you have something to hide?

Yes. Her face.

Question is why lol if you’re being honest then why hide? It’s just another form of a lie

Is it fuck

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames

"Never understood why people lie on these sites… lie about their pictures or about themselves or even I’m only interested in you I’m not chatting to others…. Always makes me laugh …

Or is it just me that’s far too honest? "

People lie because they feel that the lie gives them a better chance of getting laid than the truth would.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's actually bothers mr more when people lie about others. The need to slate other folk or simply cause trouble is pathetic.

As fucked up as it is, lying about your own photos etc can be understood to an extent. Nobody likes to be rejected, feel unattractive or overlooked."

I recently had that

It was a oy to goad me into getting banned and didn't fall for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never understood why people lie on these sites… lie about their pictures or about themselves or even I’m only interested in you I’m not chatting to others…. Always makes me laugh …

Or is it just me that’s far too honest? "

Because they feel inferior and try to live their dreams through other people rather than loving themselves. Sad really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people wouldn't know the truth if it smacked them between the eyeballs, they still lie.

People also forget once messages get sent you are able to keep copies and no matter what they say afterwards, you can still see everything you got messaged originally.

Makes no logical sense then to deny it, but they still do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never understood why people lie on these sites… lie about their pictures or about themselves or even I’m only interested in you I’m not chatting to others…. Always makes me laugh …

Or is it just me that’s far too honest?

Not everyone on here wants to be who they are so they lie to be someone there not, much like yourself OP not showing your face, do you have something to hide?

Yes. Her face.

Question is why lol if you’re being honest then why hide? It’s just another form of a lie

You're not showing your whole body. Are you lying?"

My whole body? I think if you look at my picture you will see my body just that I’m wearing clothes

I have nothing to hide at all if someone wants to see me naked then I’ll happily show them, but a bit of class goes along way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never understood why people lie on these sites… lie about their pictures or about themselves or even I’m only interested in you I’m not chatting to others…. Always makes me laugh …

Or is it just me that’s far too honest?

Not everyone on here wants to be who they are so they lie to be someone there not, much like yourself OP not showing your face, do you have something to hide?

Yes. Her face.

Question is why lol if you’re being honest then why hide? It’s just another form of a lie

Is it fuck

Of course it is

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"Never understood why people lie on these sites… lie about their pictures or about themselves or even I’m only interested in you I’m not chatting to others…. Always makes me laugh …

Or is it just me that’s far too honest?

Not everyone on here wants to be who they are so they lie to be someone there not, much like yourself OP not showing your face, do you have something to hide?

Yes. Her face.

Question is why lol if you’re being honest then why hide? It’s just another form of a lie

Is it fuck

Hides face for privacy now constitutes as lying

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol I love to wide you lot up it’s to easy

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"lol I love to wide you lot up it’s to easy "

Ah the old 'its only banter ' get out clause

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"lol I love to wide you lot up it’s to easy

Ah the old 'its only banter ' get out clause

I bet it's getting all the ladies excited to meet him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lol I love to wide you lot up it’s to easy

Ah the old 'its only banter ' get out clause

"
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I was thinking 'wide you' must mean he thinks he has a girthy cock. Me and my vulgar mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lol I love to wide you lot up it’s to easy

Ah the old 'its only banter ' get out clause

I was thinking 'wide you' must mean he thinks he has a girthy cock. Me and my vulgar mind

If only that was the case

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"lol I love to wide you lot up it’s to easy

Ah the old 'its only banter ' get out clause

I was thinking 'wide you' must mean he thinks he has a girthy cock. Me and my vulgar mind

I thought he was offering Christmas left overs.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it lying or marketing yourself ?

Same reason politicians lie to the voters. People lie on their CV and in job interviews.

They learn being truthful leads to less success. Same on here I guess, the truth will put them down the pecking order, particularly men. Woman can afford to be less imaginative..

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By *leasinglipznhipsWoman
over a year ago

What I’m struggling to understand is why people would lie about experiencing you and think that they can get away with it.

Grinds my gears lol

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

My dad used to say some people can't lie straight in bed & it's true.

On here it's obviously to get something they wouldn't get if they were honest.

If someone on here bends the truth with me, they become someone I'd never meet or trust automatically.

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else

People lie? On the internet?

My hopes are dashed forever.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

It's laughable at times especially when they claim I'm the only one they are talking to because they don't trust anyone else on fab.

Strangely though they also have the inside scoop on everything going on here and know everyone else's business.

Not quite sure how that works.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's laughable at times especially when they claim I'm the only one they are talking to because they don't trust anyone else on fab.

Strangely though they also have the inside scoop on everything going on here and know everyone else's business.

Not quite sure how that works."

They have discovered the fab cheat code..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do people lie. Because they’re going through a selfish stage, and that lie will only benefit them nobody else.

I keep those lies as far from me as possible, they can sort that shit out themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The usual view is that people lie to get something they want. I disagree. I think when people lie it’s to distance themselves from something difficult for themselves. It’s a disassociation with an uncomfortable fact.

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By *affy72Woman
over a year ago

Herefordshire

"The usual view is that people lie to get something they want. I disagree. I think when people lie it’s to distance themselves from something difficult for themselves. It’s a disassociation with an uncomfortable fact. "

That's an interesting point of view. You could well be onto something there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe. In some circumstances that would fit.

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By *etMaxMan
over a year ago

Leighton Buzzard

I agree with most of the posts here. People seem to have unrealistic expectations and get very disappointed when they don’t find what they are looking for. This may lead to the lies and untruths. It’s a bit sad that we can’t even try be real with people that share your lifestyle choices.

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By *ougarsilkWoman
over a year ago

Pleasure heaven

"Never understood why people lie on these sites… lie about their pictures or about themselves or even I’m only interested in you I’m not chatting to others…. Always makes me laugh …

Or is it just me that’s far too honest? "

1. It's learnt behaviour and probably stems from childhood. Lying then becomes the norm as they grow up knowing that truthfulness doesn't always get them what they wanted so they become experts at telling people what they think they want to hear

2. To some degree we all have an online persona to reflect and at times some people embellish or are economical with the truth a bit to maintain that.

3. Some people's moral compass is 100% honesty

4. If there online and not chatting to you chances are they may be chatting to others

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By *ddie_14051991Man
over a year ago

Dunoon

I believe in honesty, if I lied I would be lying to myself and I'd be fake , but unfortunately alot of guys will lie to get a head this tactic sadly does work and unfortunately it puts a negative light on real guys on here , the problem with lieing is you'll eventually get figured out so logically there's no actual point in lieing to begin with , just complicates things.

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