FabSwingers.com forum: Pests

By *ilybeth OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Shoot him its the only way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep blocking and reporting I think is as much as you can do

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By *ilybeth OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Keep blocking and reporting I think is as much as you can do

Urgh I’ve done it so many times

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By *ent in BlackMan
over a year ago

Silsden

@admin can you help?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delete the first post OP. It's against site rules to name and shame.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Keep blocking and reporting I think is as much as you can do

Urgh I’ve done it so many times "

In theory the site should be able to block someone’s ip address but I don’t know if they ever do

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By *ilybeth OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Shoot him its the only way

That could solve many problems on here

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By *ilybeth OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Delete the first post OP. It's against site rules to name and shame."

But not against the rules to repeatedly harass someone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree to meet in London and don’t go

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By *olden PoleMan
over a year ago

London

Why’s he targeted you?

That’s quite a lot of effort to put in, even for the most deranged pest types.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Delete the first post OP. It's against site rules to name and shame.

But not against the rules to repeatedly harass someone? "

It actually is. But two wrongs and all that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block all newbies.

Account... Message filters.

Block all newbies.

Also maybe block non site supporters.

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By *ilybeth OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Why’s he targeted you?

That’s quite a lot of effort to put in, even for the most deranged pest types."

He’ll be harassing several women I suspect, I’m nothing special

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I've had similar issues with people, I'm not sure why they do it. The answer isn't going to change!

Just keep reporting and blocking. I also now don't allow new members to contact me, so I can usually block first if I see the same pics pop up on my feed!

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By *hrimper36Couple
over a year ago

Central France dept 36

"@admin can you help?"

Yep they will tell the op off for naming and shaming on here.

Just block each message and forget about them.

They seek attention like many on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Keep blocking and reporting I think is as much as you can do

Urgh I’ve done it so many times

In theory the site should be able to block someone’s ip address but I don’t know if they ever do "
they never do

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
over a year ago

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That is so annoying. I hope a site admin can help you. No one should feel repeatedly harassed

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"Why’s he targeted you?

That’s quite a lot of effort to put in, even for the most deranged pest types."

What does that matter?

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

Don't name and shame them for a start.

Take a break from the site for a few weeks. He / she will most likely get bored and move on. If you're worried worried and he is doing anything illegal. Get plod involved.

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

As hard as it is to believe now, he will probably get bored when he sees it’s not getting to you. Sounds like a childish reaction to being told no.

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By *oachman 9CoolMan
over a year ago

derby

"I’m at my wits end with a guy who keeps messaging me. I’ve told him no, I’ve reported him several times, I’ve blocked him several times. He must be setting up new accounts under the same or similar user name.

Currently under MrBradfordMan01, any suggestions as to how to get rid? "
I tried to answer privately but my age stopped that ... Well you have certainly tried to get rid.. my only solution is start a new profile under a totally new name, and start again and save what you can otherwise I can,t help you but fingers crossed..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why’s he targeted you?

That’s quite a lot of effort to put in, even for the most deranged pest types."

You’d be surprised! Theres one used to pop up in my inbox every week with a new profile until I blocked newbies

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By *olden PoleMan
over a year ago

London

"Why’s he targeted you?

That’s quite a lot of effort to put in, even for the most deranged pest types.

He’ll be harassing several women I suspect, I’m nothing special

Possibly yes….a real crow magnum type bastard it sounds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Delete the first post OP. It's against site rules to name and shame.

But not against the rules to repeatedly harass someone? "

I didn't want you to get a ban.

Screenshot his profile and face pics and contact your local police. Also contact Admin to let them know you've spoken to the police.

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By *olden PoleMan
over a year ago

London

"Why’s he targeted you?

That’s quite a lot of effort to put in, even for the most deranged pest types.

You’d be surprised! Theres one used to pop up in my inbox every week with a new profile until I blocked newbies

Weird people out there.

Special the ones who send you tests and riddles to solve.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why’s he targeted you?

That’s quite a lot of effort to put in, even for the most deranged pest types.

You’d be surprised! Theres one used to pop up in my inbox every week with a new profile until I blocked newbies

Weird people out there.

Special the ones who send you tests and riddles to solve."

At least they’re interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could you possibly just ignore him OP....pests usually tire after awhile if there's no response....like leaving his dms unread & not blocking.....

I rarely block tbh....cos they just come back with new profiles.... totally ignoring & boycotting usually works.... sometimes any kinda response is encouraging & that includes blocking....even if it's negative attention some pests still thrive on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Could you possibly just ignore him OP....pests usually tire after awhile if there's no response....like leaving his dms unread & not blocking.....

Good advice.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Why’s he targeted you?

That’s quite a lot of effort to put in, even for the most deranged pest types.

You’d be surprised! Theres one used to pop up in my inbox every week with a new profile until I blocked newbies

My bad!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't name and shame them for a start.

Take a break from the site for a few weeks. He / she will most likely get bored and move on. If you're worried worried and he is doing anything illegal. Get plod involved. "
why not name and shame pity we can't put pics up as well.it's about time site took more responsibility about this we probably can all name a profile that keeps coming on trying it.

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By *ilybeth OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Well he’s blocked me after I messaged and said I’m sick of blocking and reporting him. So hopefully he’s got the message! So annoying they can continue to behave like that. I’ve blocked many people, it’s just frustrating that he kept appearing again.

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By *oachman 9CoolMan
over a year ago

derby

Currently under MrBradfordMan01, any suggestions as to how to get rid? I tried to answer privately but my age stopped that ... Well you have certainly tried to get rid.. my only solution is start a new profile under a totally new name, and start again and save what you can otherwise I can,t help you but fingers crossed.. "
and yes good advice take a break from here.. that could work sounds like the best Idea.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"Don't name and shame them for a start.

Take a break from the site for a few weeks. He / she will most likely get bored and move on. If you're worried worried and he is doing anything illegal. Get plod involved. why not name and shame pity we can't put pics up as well.it's about time site took more responsibility about this we probably can all name a profile that keeps coming on trying it."

Because it's against site forum rules as explained above and results in a ban.

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By *anJenny 181Couple
over a year ago

Preston

Sadly some people will just not take no for an answer, we have had to block quite a few lucky they don't seem to come back on a new account.

Just remember that the site still has lots of genuine people who are totally ligit.

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By *oachman 9CoolMan
over a year ago

derby

"Well he’s blocked me after I messaged and said I’m sick of blocking and reporting him. So hopefully he’s got the message! So annoying they can continue to behave like that. I’ve blocked many people, it’s just frustrating that he kept appearing again. "
Yes trolls come in different shades of brown and some smell stronger than others

I hope he,s the last one you get for a while, happy new year to you...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Delete the first post OP. It's against site rules to name and shame.

But not against the rules to repeatedly harass someone? "

Message admin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Keep blocking and reporting I think is as much as you can do

Urgh I’ve done it so many times

In theory the site should be able to block someone’s ip address but I don’t know if they ever do "

Almost pointless these days. Takes 5 seconds to get past that

Sadly I think you gotta block newbies messaging anc just keep at it

What a loser

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why’s he targeted you?

That’s quite a lot of effort to put in, even for the most deranged pest types."

Opening a few different profiles and sending various messages from said profiles doesn't seem like a lot of effort for the weird stalkery odd ball type, in fact, it seems precisely par for the course. He hasn't crossed the county to go and live in her hedge in a ghilly suit and some nvg's yet, that would be a lot of effort.

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