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Definition of 'a regular'

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If you've got 'a regular' how regular are they? What's the frequency?

Does it vary according to people's sex drives?

If you're regularly having sex fortnightly but you like it daily is fortnightly regular enough?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I wanted regular fuck buddy it would be at least weekly.

Anything more, I’d feel like I’d win the lottery. Less? It’s not regular.

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By *esafinadOHolyNightMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I think if you're seeing a person on a continuing basis, regardless of how often, they are a regular.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Norm!

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By *esafinadOHolyNightMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Norm!"

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I think if you're seeing a person on a continuing basis, regardless of how often, they are a regular.

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agree. Just have a few and rotate

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else

They’d have to be pretty irregular for me to be interested… maybe.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"I think if you're seeing a person on a continuing basis, regardless of how often, they are a regular.

"

That

(And I'm not stalking you either )

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think if you're seeing a person on a continuing basis, regardless of how often, they are a regular.

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My take on it too.

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else


"I think if you're seeing a person on a continuing basis, regardless of how often, they are a regular.

My take on it too.

"

Yes, this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think if you're seeing a person on a continuing basis, regardless of how often, they are a regular.

"

You see them Twice a year? Is that someone you’d say is ‘A REGULAR?’ We’re talking swinging yes?

because I see my uncle (the deaf one) at Christmas regularly every year like clockwork.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think if you're seeing a person on a continuing basis, regardless of how often, they are a regular.

You see them Twice a year? Is that someone you’d say is ‘A REGULAR?’ We’re talking swinging yes?

because I see my uncle (the deaf one) at Christmas regularly every year like clockwork.

"

One would hope you don't fuck him...

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By *esafinadOHolyNightMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"I think if you're seeing a person on a continuing basis, regardless of how often, they are a regular.

You see them Twice a year? Is that someone you’d say is ‘A REGULAR?’ We’re talking swinging yes?

because I see my uncle (the deaf one) at Christmas regularly every year like clockwork.

"

I see it more like regular meaning familiar. Someone I've already been meeting and continue to meet.

If I was having sex with someone twice a year, while it might not feel like it was happening regularly that year, if I got it twice EVERY year then I would consider it to be regular.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say someone you're often at least a few times for the month

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"I think if you're seeing a person on a continuing basis, regardless of how often, they are a regular.

You see them Twice a year? Is that someone you’d say is ‘A REGULAR?’ We’re talking swinging yes?

because I see my uncle (the deaf one) at Christmas regularly every year like clockwork.

"

I have a friend who spends a week with a woman every year. Regularly as clockwork. They barely talk in between, but that week is for the two of them. It may not be often, but it is regular.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think if you're seeing a person on a continuing basis, regardless of how often, they are a regular.

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Quality not quantity.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"I think if you're seeing a person on a continuing basis, regardless of how often, they are a regular.

You see them Twice a year? Is that someone you’d say is ‘A REGULAR?’ We’re talking swinging yes?

because I see my uncle (the deaf one) at Christmas regularly every year like clockwork.

I have a friend who spends a week with a woman every year. Regularly as clockwork. They barely talk in between, but that week is for the two of them. It may not be often, but it is regular."

I think there is a difference between "a regular" and "regularly" though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think if you're seeing a person on a continuing basis, regardless of how often, they are a regular.

You see them Twice a year? Is that someone you’d say is ‘A REGULAR?’ We’re talking swinging yes?

because I see my uncle (the deaf one) at Christmas regularly every year like clockwork.

I see it more like regular meaning familiar. Someone I've already been meeting and continue to meet.

If I was having sex with someone twice a year, while it might not feel like it was happening regularly that year, if I got it twice EVERY year then I would consider it to be regular. "

Thanks.

That’s not what I’d think was a regular meet in fab. Thats might be just me? I dunno.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think if you're seeing a person on a continuing basis, regardless of how often, they are a regular.

You see them Twice a year? Is that someone you’d say is ‘A REGULAR?’ We’re talking swinging yes?

because I see my uncle (the deaf one) at Christmas regularly every year like clockwork.

I have a friend who spends a week with a woman every year. Regularly as clockwork. They barely talk in between, but that week is for the two of them. It may not be often, but it is regular.

I think there is a difference between "a regular" and "regularly" though."

That’s my point and why I’ve questioned it if I’m

Meeting someone regularly, it would be often.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"

I think there is a difference between "a regular" and "regularly" though.

That’s my point and why I’ve questioned it if I’m

Meeting someone regularly, it would be often. "

I concur. But "a regular" doesn't have to be often. I think, anyway.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

I see my fuck buddy once a month, sometimes twice. Alice sees hers once a week.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I think there is a difference between "a regular" and "regularly" though.

That’s my point and why I’ve questioned it if I’m

Meeting someone regularly, it would be often.

I concur. But "a regular" doesn't have to be often. I think, anyway."

Then they’re not ‘a regular’. (I hate labels.)

You just seem em often. *just my opinion

Regular sex for me would be weekly or more, or if would say I wasn’t having sex regularly. Does this make sense? It would feel more like now and then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I think there is a difference between "a regular" and "regularly" though.

That’s my point and why I’ve questioned it if I’m

Meeting someone regularly, it would be often.

I concur. But "a regular" doesn't have to be often. I think, anyway."

Then they’re not ‘a regular’. (I hate labels.)

You just seem em often. *just my opinion

Regular sex for me would be weekly or more, or if would say I wasn’t having sex regularly. Does this make sense? It would feel more like now and then.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"

I think there is a difference between "a regular" and "regularly" though.

That’s my point and why I’ve questioned it if I’m

Meeting someone regularly, it would be often.

I concur. But "a regular" doesn't have to be often. I think, anyway.

Then they’re not ‘a regular’. (I hate labels.)

You just seem em often. *just my opinion

Regular sex for me would be weekly or more, or if would say I wasn’t having sex regularly. Does this make sense? It would feel more like now and then.

"

You are making sense. I think maybe I have a weird viewpoint because of my different situation though.

I hate labels too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I think there is a difference between "a regular" and "regularly" though.

That’s my point and why I’ve questioned it if I’m

Meeting someone regularly, it would be often.

I concur. But "a regular" doesn't have to be often. I think, anyway.

Then they’re not ‘a regular’. (I hate labels.)

You just seem em often. *just my opinion

Regular sex for me would be weekly or more, or if would say I wasn’t having sex regularly. Does this make sense? It would feel more like now and then.

You are making sense. I think maybe I have a weird viewpoint because of my different situation though.

I hate labels too."

And to follow on .. (sorry, I’ll leave but I thought it was interesting with how everyone has different opinions of labels and what we all bc want and expect )

If I’m regularly seeing a woman every two or weeks, and she’s seeing 3,4,5,6 other guys in between and one of them inbetween is often in that mix, am I a realy a regular? Or just one of many?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I think there is a difference between "a regular" and "regularly" though.

That’s my point and why I’ve questioned it if I’m

Meeting someone regularly, it would be often.

I concur. But "a regular" doesn't have to be often. I think, anyway.

Then they’re not ‘a regular’. (I hate labels.)

You just seem em often. *just my opinion

Regular sex for me would be weekly or more, or if would say I wasn’t having sex regularly. Does this make sense? It would feel more like now and then.

You are making sense. I think maybe I have a weird viewpoint because of my different situation though.

I hate labels too.

And to follow on .. (sorry, I’ll leave but I thought it was interesting with how everyone has different opinions of labels and what we all bc want and expect )

If I’m regularly seeing a woman every two or weeks, and she’s seeing 3,4,5,6 other guys in between and one of them inbetween is often in that mix, am I a realy a regular? Or just one of many? "

One of many in the rota regularly.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"

I think there is a difference between "a regular" and "regularly" though.

That’s my point and why I’ve questioned it if I’m

Meeting someone regularly, it would be often.

I concur. But "a regular" doesn't have to be often. I think, anyway.

Then they’re not ‘a regular’. (I hate labels.)

You just seem em often. *just my opinion

Regular sex for me would be weekly or more, or if would say I wasn’t having sex regularly. Does this make sense? It would feel more like now and then.

You are making sense. I think maybe I have a weird viewpoint because of my different situation though.

I hate labels too.

And to follow on .. (sorry, I’ll leave but I thought it was interesting with how everyone has different opinions of labels and what we all bc want and expect )

If I’m regularly seeing a woman every two or weeks, and she’s seeing 3,4,5,6 other guys in between and one of them inbetween is often in that mix, am I a realy a regular? Or just one of many? "

I reckon you're a regular. She just has many regulars...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I think there is a difference between "a regular" and "regularly" though.

….

If I’m regularly seeing a woman every two or weeks, and she’s seeing 3,4,5,6 other guys in between and one of them inbetween is often in that mix, am I a realy a regular? Or just one of many?

One of many in the rota regularly. "
haha.

I need many regulars.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I'd never refer to someone as 'a regular'

But I might say I see someone on a regular basis. Which for me, would mean often as opposed to occasionally at the same time every year or whatever

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
over a year ago

Norwich

More than once?

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By *uildford_rugbyMan
over a year ago

guildford

I have a regular - it’s about once a fortnight, it would be more frequent than that has he has a high sex drive, but he doesn’t want his wife to get suspicious

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By *xfordjohnMan
over a year ago

Oxford


"If you've got 'a regular' how regular are they? What's the frequency?

Does it vary according to people's sex drives?

If you're regularly having sex fortnightly but you like it daily is fortnightly regular enough?"

I meet my 'regular' couple every two weeks which is enough for them but not enough for me, hence I meet occasionally with bi guys and I'm still looking for other couples or groups to meet. Also, whilst we do have great sex, their boundaries are more limited than mine, which is another reason why I'm still looking.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

My engagement on fab is based more on friendship than sex.

I meet someone every week or so depending on time and circumstance rather than sex drive.

I would never meet anyone just because I might be horny.

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