FabSwingers.com forum: Pet hates

By *urve_your_enthusiasm OP Woman
45 weeks ago

Manchester

This is not meant to be a whiney thread but hopefully an opportunity to be honest and reflect.

I HATE when I get a message from a couple and they don't say who is talking to you. I assume it's the man but is it too difficult to sign?

What are your pet hates vis a vis messages?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
45 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

"Hey, let me know if you're interested."

That's your whole message? What the fuck am I supposed to be interested in?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
45 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

Can I ask you a question?

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By *offiaCoolWoman
45 weeks ago

Kidsgrove

To be fair, nearly every couple who mail me, never indicate who is mailing me. I end up having to ask who I am talking to.

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By *ouplewithKinks23Couple
45 weeks ago

Walsall

"Can I ask you a question?"

Despise this one (G)

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By *offiaCoolWoman
45 weeks ago

Kidsgrove

"To be fair, nearly every couple who mail me, never indicate who is mailing me. I end up having to ask who I am talking to."

Oops, read your post wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

""Hey, let me know if you're interested."

That's your whole message? What the fuck am I supposed to be interested in?

This is better when they add "check my profile" and the profile has 10 words.

I could not be less interested in this low effort nonsense

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By *phialtesMan
45 weeks ago

Beyond the Wall

The old cliche of being the most attractive person in the world…. right up until you say no

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By *ris GrayMan
45 weeks ago

Dorchester

Dishwashers hate them

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
45 weeks ago

Somewhere else

Nothing on this site is worth hating.

I do have a few pet peeves though.

… maybe

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By *ris GrayMan
45 weeks ago

Dorchester

"Dishwashers hate them

"
and i don't mean the human kind that some wealthy people have

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By *eordieJeansCouple
45 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

One line messages from hidden profiles. What am I meant to do with that?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
45 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

"Sorry, I'm new here."

You've got pictures from 2021 mate.

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By *ris GrayMan
45 weeks ago

Dorchester

"One line messages from hidden profiles. What am I meant to do with that?"
reply you just don't know who it is

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By *esafinadOHolyNightMan
45 weeks ago

Belfast

Asking for a face pic and not sending 1 back, or just not replying after. Always feels a bit shit when you've send your mug shot and that ends the conversation

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By *olfandtazCouple
45 weeks ago

Bristol

The repetitive ones of "hi"

The ones which show they haven't read our profile! It's not complicated

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
45 weeks ago

Somewhere else

"Dishwashers hate them

and i don't mean the human kind that some wealthy people have

Get back in the kitchen, Fred. the dishes aren’t done. The silver needs polished too.

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
45 weeks ago

Somewhere else

"Asking for a face pic and not sending 1 back, or just not replying after. Always feels a bit shit when you've send your mug shot and that ends the conversation "

UNLOS does that a lot I think.

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By *urve_your_enthusiasm OP Woman
45 weeks ago

Manchester

Yes! Completely agree with all of them.

All the "hi" as well. That's it???

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By *esafinadOHolyNightMan
45 weeks ago

Belfast

"Asking for a face pic and not sending 1 back, or just not replying after. Always feels a bit shit when you've send your mug shot and that ends the conversation

UNLOS does that a lot I think. "

Unlos sucks too

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

No hates

..irritations

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By *eordieJeansCouple
45 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

When their profile says they only meet gym fit or people in good shape… why are you messaging a pair of sloths?

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By *ris GrayMan
45 weeks ago

Dorchester

"Dishwashers hate them

and i don't mean the human kind that some wealthy people have

Get back in the kitchen, Fred. the dishes aren’t done. The silver needs polished too."
sorry boss, won't happen again boss

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By *addad99Man
45 weeks ago

Rotherham /newquay

O sorry thought this was about animals bloody cats

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

Winks!

Receive winks, wink back and then nothing

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By *avexxMan
45 weeks ago

cheshire

"Yes! Completely agree with all of them.

All the "hi" as well. That's it???"
,,, this

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

Fireworks for me.

Cats hate noise

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

"O sorry thought this was about animals bloody cats"

So did I

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
45 weeks ago

Newcastle

Mmmmm

Can I ask you a question?

You free tonight?

How much?

Dick pics

Anything resembling dirty talk

*Reads message. Deletes message. Immediately gets another message to ask why I’m not interested*

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

People who lick yoghurt lids. Monsters.

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By *eordieJeansCouple
45 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

[Removed by poster at 31/12/23 12:20:13]

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By *eordieJeansCouple
45 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"People who lick yoghurt lids. Monsters."

I used to work with someone who licked the condensation off the lid of his bait box. Animal.

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

"People who lick yoghurt lids. Monsters.

I used to work with someone who licked the condensation off the lid of his bait box. Animal.

Jesus Christ

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
45 weeks ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders

Descriptive messages, especially when it's of a war and peace proprietary telling you in depth and detail what they want to do you, or some kind of role play scenario both usually with some reference to violence.

It's grim that people think this shit is ok

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By *idnight RamblerMan
45 weeks ago

Pershore

Elastic Bands

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

"Hi"

*deletes unopened*

"Ouch

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By *amierebelMan
45 weeks ago

nae danger.

The messages from "couples" where the woman is either out with friends on holiday or unfortunately unwell, however his sexual desires to give blowjobs to straight men is there whilst she's unwell

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

Can I ask you a question.

Let me know if your interested.

Hey darling, sweetheart,love etc.

There are quite a few haha.

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By *ris GrayMan
45 weeks ago

Dorchester

Dont like dogs or cats sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

"This is not meant to be a whiney thread but hopefully an opportunity to be honest and reflect.

I HATE when I get a message from a couple and they don't say who is talking to you. I assume it's the man but is it too difficult to sign?

What are your pet hates vis a vis messages?"

If its a couple account, I always assume they have both read and approved the message.

I think you have issues iff you get angry about not knowing who typed in the text

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

I try not to moan. I just typed a few rants but I can’t be bothered and deleted them.

They’re the usual ones.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
45 weeks ago

Leeds

Men that get moany in the inbox after a no thanks, they ignored the rather large warning that said "stop think this couple isn't looking for men" as well as staying it on our profile then moan because well guess what we don't meet men

Moaning after their inability to read & wasting their own time is just annoying.

Mrs

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By *unsexual MemelordWoman
45 weeks ago

Midlothian

I get fed up with the hurried, less-than-basic messages from someone purely because they see you're online. They're often miles away, and clearly didn't bother reading a word of your profile in case you suddenly go offline.

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

I always get slightly annoyed when people call me princess/girl/gurl. Plus they don't understand the difference between a femboy, a trans person and a sissy most of the time which is growing rather tiresome.

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

The profiles with no pictures but state they wont reply to you unless you have or send a clear face pic.

Double standards !

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By *mf123Man
45 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

Hamsters god i hate hamsters

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By *imply DeeWoman
45 weeks ago

Wherever

What I can’t stand is the “Not your type then?” after I didn’t respond to the initial one.

Usually flowed shortly by “Your loss” and other things if I’m not bothered to block quickly enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

Guys who ask why? after i reply no thanks.

Guys who ask if I'm interested and their profile is hidden or have nothing on it.. how my meant to know??

Guys who send graphic messages of what they are going to do to me... yawn! Naw ur not lol

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

"what is it your looking for",

Clearly haven't read our profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

When the other person doesn’t make any effort and gives rubbish replies.

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By *lam granWoman
45 weeks ago

falkirk

When she shits on the carpet because he forgot to let her out the night before.

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

""what is it your looking for",

Clearly haven't read our profile.

This annoys me too or hows fab treating you?

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By *ouplewithKinks23Couple
45 weeks ago

Walsall

""what is it your looking for",

Clearly haven't read our profile.

This annoys me too or hows fab treating you?

Oh Jesus. We have a persistent soul who messages us at least monthly the same message that also contains the line "how's fab treating you?"

Does that work for folk? Is anyone really interested in the answer? Totally pointless!

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By *imply DeeWoman
45 weeks ago

Wherever

""what is it your looking for",

Clearly haven't read our profile.

This annoys me too or hows fab treating you?

And don’t forget “up to anything exciting?”

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By *illy IdolMan
45 weeks ago

Midlands

Women who send unsolicited tit pics.

It really annoys me. I shouldn't admit it on here, but it's the best way to annoy me

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By *obilebottomMan
45 weeks ago

All over

Nothing really. I am here to enjoy myself. I only get annoyed when people are nasty to anyone and occasionally if someone is full of themselves, but usually ignore that.

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By *imply DeeWoman
45 weeks ago

Wherever

"Women who send unsolicited tit pics.

It really annoys me. I shouldn't admit it on here, but it's the best way to annoy me"

Funny you’ve now mentioned that, it’s actually on my Fab bucket list for 2024.

“Stop sending unsolicited tit pictures. It annoys people.”

I do apologise in behalf of all these women.

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By *illy IdolMan
45 weeks ago

Midlands

"Women who send unsolicited tit pics.

It really annoys me. I shouldn't admit it on here, but it's the best way to annoy me

Funny you’ve now mentioned that, it’s actually on my Fab bucket list for 2024.

“Stop sending unsolicited tit pictures. It annoys people.”

I do apologise in behalf of all these women."

Keep it to the thread please, ladies. And fat men

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

"Nothing really. I am here to enjoy myself. I only get annoyed when people are nasty to anyone and occasionally if someone is full of themselves, but usually ignore that.

You obviously dont get 100s of the same messages with a dick pic attached..

A never used to get bothered but only so much a girl can take

And no im not up myself im just bored of the same messages day in day out

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

Not a fan of men completely not reading my profile and asking if they can suck my dick.

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

i don't like the messages that just say 'mmmmm'.

i find it so cringe

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By *obilebottomMan
45 weeks ago

All over

"Nothing really. I am here to enjoy myself. I only get annoyed when people are nasty to anyone and occasionally if someone is full of themselves, but usually ignore that.

You obviously dont get 100s of the same messages with a dick pic attached..

A never used to get bothered but only so much a girl can take

And no im not up myself im just bored of the same messages day in day out "

I definately appreciate that, would probably feel the same if unwanted items kept landing on my inbox

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

People who don't read my profile then get arsey.

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By *attedCurvyLassWoman
45 weeks ago

CASTLEFORD

When they message, and then message again because you haven't replied yet asking if you're shy.. major ick

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
29 weeks ago

Rochester, Kent

When I read all these contributions to the thread, and realise I’ve got nothing to be angsty about because I’m so boring.

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

'Babe'

First messages saying the following

'Hi'

'FAF?'

'Want to meet me later?'

'Where abouts are you?'

'Can I ask you a question?'

'Do you like anal?'

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By *iss.Bella.Woman
29 weeks ago

Wales

"do you have any more pictures?" From a couple this morning. Why? Can you not quite tell how fat I am in my current public pics?

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

Getting multiple msgs from the same person saying the same thing over and over again, if I didn’t reply to the first 29 msgs what makes them think I suddenly will now

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

Not hate, but mildly bemused by the messages to my single profile with no photos and text that says "don't message as I won't respond and will probably block". The number of men who claim to it's "the best, hottest and most mesmerising profile on fab right now and would I do sex?" is pretty funny.

Nell

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By *ris GrayMan
29 weeks ago

Dorchester

Chewing toe nails

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