FabSwingers.com forum: When the mind is willing

By *aith Skynbyrd OP Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere else

But the flesh is weak.

Say the day comes and you’re just… tired.

But you’re on a promise.

Do you keep the promise or take a rain check?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rain check. Fuck that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give them a toy to play with and tell them to get on with it

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Take a rain check and be honest with why. We can't all be sex machines 24/7

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

The promise is about meeting up. Nothing to say it involves “the sex”.

Just be honest. Enjoy each others company. See what happens

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

I got the opposite issue

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"But the flesh is weak.

Say the day comes and you’re just… tired.

But you’re on a promise.

Do you keep the promise or take a rain check?"

Keep the promise probably. If they are worth it, I'll soon be awake and energetic

MrsAbz

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

"The promise is about meeting up. Nothing to say it involves “the sex”.

Just be honest. Enjoy each others company. See what happens

This

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"But the flesh is weak.

Say the day comes and you’re just… tired.

But you’re on a promise.

Do you keep the promise or take a rain check?"
sex is secondary put them off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd risk it..only feelings of illness would stop me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never had that, I can’t relate.

But, I’d change plans if they told me they weren’t feeling it. Offer to do something else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is always my problem.

My mind occasionally says yes.

My body always screams no.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

If the promise is sex, then I'd probably do it anyway and just tell them I'm not 100%. Slow lazy fucks are enjoyable, and a cuddly snooze after.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Always keep a promise.

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By *phialtesMan
over a year ago

Beyond the Wall

"But the flesh is weak.

Say the day comes and you’re just… tired.

But you’re on a promise.

Do you keep the promise or take a rain check?"

I don’t care if I’m on a promise, if I can’t meet it then I can’t meet it and how the other person reacts tells me all I need to know about them.

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By *aygallaMan
over a year ago

newton aycliffe

Never take a rain check!! What is wrong with you!! Grab it and don’t let go x

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Rain check always. I’m all or nothing.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I've taken the rain check and given the rain check. There is no point in half hearted sex.

The checks do have to be given with reassurance though... because I'm a needy and insecure bugger

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By *uri00620Woman
over a year ago

Croydon

This is why I only arranged meets on the day when I was doing them. Now body and mind scream no all the time, unless there's a very good reason otherwise!

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By *umagain58Man
over a year ago

London

Oh just depends on how feel at time. Can go either way when in dilemma

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