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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's probably meant as a compliment but you hate been called?

Cute. That's mine. It gives me a weird tingly feeling, the creepy kind not the good kind.

And it also proves that men lie because of all the things I am, cute is not one of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty...I'm 53 for godsake Makes me shudder.

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

People call me CD, I take it as compliment because my legs really do look that good in heels.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Pretty...I'm 53 for godsake Makes me shudder."

Ooh yeah that's another creepy one.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"People call me CD, I take it as compliment because my legs really do look that good in heels.

"

They do CD, they do.

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

Cute irks me too.

I assume it's what a woman might say about a child or puppy rather than a hunk of manliness whose clothes she wants to rip off (I'm rarely that guy, but got to aim high...).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pretty...I'm 53 for godsake Makes me shudder."

What age is the official cut off for being pretty?

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

3rd Rock from the sun

Baby .. babe I don't mind so much but baby ..bleugh

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Baby .. babe I don't mind so much but baby ..bleugh"

Or bae! What the fuck even is that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Cute irks me too.

I assume it's what a woman might say about a child or puppy rather than a hunk of manliness whose clothes she wants to rip off (I'm rarely that guy, but got to aim high...)."

See, I'm guilty of calling guys it. Double standards and all!

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By *eordieJeansCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

You are cute. Like Gizmo from gremlins.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

3rd Rock from the sun


"Baby .. babe I don't mind so much but baby ..bleugh

Or bae! What the fuck even is that. "

Exactly!! Lol

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly


"Baby .. babe I don't mind so much but baby ..bleugh

Or bae! What the fuck even is that. "

An aerospace company.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pretty...I'm 53 for godsake Makes me shudder.

What age is the official cut off for being pretty? "

I'd say once you hit teenager...I'm long gone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Babe, baby, and Daddy make my skin crawl

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands


"That's probably meant as a compliment but you hate been called?

Cute. That's mine. It gives me a weird tingly feeling, the creepy kind not the good kind.

And it also proves that men lie because of all the things I am, cute is not one of them.

"

Just ignore them OP. Some people are just good at pushing people's buttons

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You are cute. Like Gizmo from gremlins."

This is why I don't meet guys after midnight.

Also, I'd be a disappointment after her.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That's probably meant as a compliment but you hate been called?

Cute. That's mine. It gives me a weird tingly feeling, the creepy kind not the good kind.

And it also proves that men lie because of all the things I am, cute is not one of them.

Just ignore them OP. Some people are just good at pushing people's buttons"

Some people are just annoying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mama - yeah its a caring nurturing figure/latin american term of endearment but i hate it.

Its cringy

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London


"Cute irks me too.

I assume it's what a woman might say about a child or puppy rather than a hunk of manliness whose clothes she wants to rip off (I'm rarely that guy, but got to aim high...).

See, I'm guilty of calling guys it. Double standards and all!"

Oh yes, I use it all the time too. Hoorah for hypocrisy!

Pains me, but I probably am more *cute* than *hot*. Such is life.

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands


"People call me CD, I take it as compliment because my legs really do look that good in heels.

"

Also short for seedy

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

3rd Rock from the sun


"Baby .. babe I don't mind so much but baby ..bleugh

Or bae! What the fuck even is that.

An aerospace company.

"

Oh very true .. British aerospace engineering if I recall correctly x

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.

I'm not posting it because someone, somewhere, will use it. And that will mildly irk me. I had to resist the temptation to call you a cutie pie OP, I don't think others will have the same level of self control.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Cute irks me too.

I assume it's what a woman might say about a child or puppy rather than a hunk of manliness whose clothes she wants to rip off (I'm rarely that guy, but got to aim high...).

See, I'm guilty of calling guys it. Double standards and all!

Oh yes, I use it all the time too. Hoorah for hypocrisy!

Pains me, but I probably am more *cute* than *hot*. Such is life.

"

I'd say 60 hot 40 cute.

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands


"That's probably meant as a compliment but you hate been called?

Cute. That's mine. It gives me a weird tingly feeling, the creepy kind not the good kind.

And it also proves that men lie because of all the things I am, cute is not one of them.

Just ignore them OP. Some people are just good at pushing people's buttons

Some people are just annoying"

I know, sweetheart. I know x

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By *eordieJeansCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"You are cute. Like Gizmo from gremlins.

This is why I don't meet guys after midnight.

Also, I'd be a disappointment after her.

"

Probably explains why you don’t like sunlight too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You are cute. Like Gizmo from gremlins.

This is why I don't meet guys after midnight.

Also, I'd be a disappointment after her.

Probably explains why you don’t like sunlight too."

And showering

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By *r99mr99Man
over a year ago

Ealing


"Baby .. babe I don't mind so much but baby ..bleugh

Or bae! What the fuck even is that. "

Lol @ what the fuck even is that.

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Adorable.

I am not adorable, I'm an actual grown up with a grown up job, responsibilities and such.

No idea why but it drives me nuts as it isn't meant badly when said

MrsAbz

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By *eordieJeansCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"You are cute. Like Gizmo from gremlins.

This is why I don't meet guys after midnight.

Also, I'd be a disappointment after her.

Probably explains why you don’t like sunlight too.

And showering"

Or Hulk Hogan?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Adorable.

I am not adorable, I'm an actual grown up with a grown up job, responsibilities and such.

No idea why but it drives me nuts as it isn't meant badly when said

MrsAbz "

See this one hits home, I like it and hate it as only one guy has ever called me this.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Nice

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

I’ve learned that I’m okay with most words. Even the ones I really hate being called … I’m okay with being called them by the right person. Turns out things depend on context.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ve learned that I’m okay with most words. Even the ones I really hate being called … I’m okay with being called them by the right person. Turns out things depend on context."

Which ones do you hate? Just out of interest.

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden

Sweet

Generally in the sentence "you're very sweet but I don't want to shag/meet/talk to you any more"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to try to judge people on intentions, not my own weird little hang ups that only exist in my head that no one else knows about

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You are cute. Like Gizmo from gremlins.

This is why I don't meet guys after midnight.

Also, I'd be a disappointment after her.

Probably explains why you don’t like sunlight too.

And showering

Or Hulk Hogan?"

Hulk Hogan was in gremlins?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I tend to try to judge people on intentions, not my own weird little hang ups that only exist in my head that no one else knows about "

Ok Hun.

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else


"Mama - yeah its a caring nurturing figure/latin american term of endearment but i hate it.

Its cringy "

Chica is another one I’ve heard like this.

Doesn’t bother me though. I think it’s endearing.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Hunk

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By *eordieJeansCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"You are cute. Like Gizmo from gremlins.

This is why I don't meet guys after midnight.

Also, I'd be a disappointment after her.

Probably explains why you don’t like sunlight too.

And showering

Or Hulk Hogan?

Hulk Hogan was in gremlins?"

The second one.

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By *odevilWoman
over a year ago

exeter

I hate all forms of pet names:

Babe, baby, sweet/heart, hun, love blah blah blah blah blah.

Just. No.

Or like; "hey gorgeous"

"Hi sexy"

Ew. Absolutely not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lamby

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By *hrimper36Couple
over a year ago

Central France dept 36

Eve hates when I type “silly sausage “ in a message because it translates as “stupid sausage “ but to be fair.

T

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London


"Which ones do you hate? Just out of interest. "

I’m not falling for that.

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By *ags73Man
over a year ago

glasgow-ish

A few years ago a middle aged woman serving in a branch of boots used to call me things like ‘sweetheart’ ‘gorgeous’ ‘cutie’ when buying meal deal lunches.

I always thought she was taking the piss, so i’d giggle at some of them but usually leave a bit confused.

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

Really not fond of the pet names either. Oh and asking if I'm 'naughty'. FFS, I'm a 50 year old woman, not a kid

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

Really not fond of the pet names either. Oh and asking if I'm 'naughty'. FFS, I'm a 50 year old woman, not a kid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More than once I have been called a 'beautiful man', which makes me feel a little weirded out, but at least it has been by women......well, except that one time..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Really not fond of the pet names either. Oh and asking if I'm 'naughty'. FFS, I'm a 50 year old woman, not a kid

"

How about nawty? That's a leg parter right there.

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By *odevilWoman
over a year ago

exeter


"

How about nawty? That's a leg parter right there. "

Automatic block

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden


"Lamby

"

Would "lamby pamby" be better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dramatic words like sensational, goddess, queen.. calm down Mr lover lover.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm with the OP I hate being called cute. A baby is cute. A puppy is cute. No woman wants to rip the clothes off a man they think is cute!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lamby

Would "lamby pamby" be better "

I'd still vomit

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London


"I'm with the OP I hate being called cute. A baby is cute. A puppy is cute. No woman wants to rip the clothes off a man they think is cute! "

See above, Joe. I hear you.

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden

I can understand that

My partner started calling me that. I quickly put a stop to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm with the OP I hate being called cute. A baby is cute. A puppy is cute. No woman wants to rip the clothes off a man they think is cute!

See above, Joe. I hear you."

Holy shit, practically word for word I hear you though!

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

3rd Rock from the sun


"I'm with the OP I hate being called cute. A baby is cute. A puppy is cute. No woman wants to rip the clothes off a man they think is cute! "

Oh I.dont know about that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Baby

Bae

Babe

Sweetheart

Sweetie

Cutie

Sexy

Gorgeous

I had a cleaner who would sweetheart me every single time she’d chat to me if I was there when she was over cleaning. I never knew if she was taking the piss or being genuine. It irked me and every time anyone calls me sweetheart since I instantly have imagines of her with gloves and cleaning brushes rushing through my mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really. Though my most recent ex used to call me mate when she was pissed and in a ratty mood. She'd put this really nasty sounding tone to the word, used to really get under my skin

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"Really not fond of the pet names either. Oh and asking if I'm 'naughty'. FFS, I'm a 50 year old woman, not a kid"

Completely agree! I just don't get the logic - what's naughty about two consenting adults acting like adults?

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