FabSwingers.com forum: Judgmental

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm frequently quite amused with how swingers (even theoretical ones) can be so judgemental about other people's sexual activities. Some people post about things they're interested in and after a few responses invariably there will be someone telling you they don't find that behaviour a turn on and can't understand why anyone else would either.

On the converse side of course if you all agreed with each other each post would die a death immediately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the forums would be pretty dull if everyone agreed with everyone else.

and everyone judges

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Swingers are human above all else and have different views, tolerances etc

I fail to understand why we must be more accepting of all sexual acts just because we swing. I might just like missionary with the lights off and no foreplay but like it with a lot of people hence being on here.

I agree perhaps sometime people could out their view across better and there is a lot of 'm way is the only way' posts.

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By *ributeboyMan
over a year ago

London

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By *ributeboyMan
over a year ago

London

"I'm frequently quite amused with how swingers (even theoretical ones) can be so judgemental about other people's sexual activities. Some people post about things they're interested in and after a few responses invariably there will be someone telling you they don't find that behaviour a turn on and can't understand why anyone else would either.

On the converse side of course if you all agreed with each other each post would die a death immediately

totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whats even more amusing are the ones where a thread like that is left in limbo for a while if posted by a guy. Along comes 4 or 5 ladies saying they love doing it, and hey presto, 40-50 guys then post saying they love it as well, lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fact that someone is a swinger doesn't mean they waive their right to an opinion

Opinions are like arseholes....everyone has then.

Human nature states that some will judge others will not give a shit.

When a community like this reaches a critical mass it will inevitably mimic humans as a whole all be it on a smaller scale

Allow people to judge it is thier right. The trick is not to give a single fuck...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the converse side of course if you all agreed with each other each post would die a death immediately

I don't understand how that is judemental..

To say I don't like that and don't understand those that do is an opinion.

To say I don't like that and think anyone that does is just nasty and dirty.. That's judgemental

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a real mix on here peoples views .. Thats what makes a forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whats even more amusing are the ones where a thread like that is left in limbo for a while if posted by a guy. Along comes 4 or 5 ladies saying they love doing it, and hey presto, 40-50 guys then post saying they love it as well, lol."

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