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By *oey500 OP   Man
38 weeks ago

who knows

Come on then let’s hear your preferences

Would you rather play dominant or be submissive?

Share a recent story if you please

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By *ddie1966Man
38 weeks ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.

I'm going to sit on the fence and say switch.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
38 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I'd rather not play anything and let the dynamic develop naturally through whatever chemistry there is

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By *obilebottomMan
38 weeks ago

All over


"I'm going to sit on the fence and say switch."

For those of us in ignorant bliss, can you confirm it means what I think it means pls. Is it like sometimes one sometimes the other?

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

I don’t have a preference. I can only be sub

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By *rishVikingMan
38 weeks ago

Shankill


"I'd rather not play anything and let the dynamic develop naturally through whatever chemistry there is "

This is golden

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
38 weeks ago

Bradford


"I don’t have a preference. I can only be sub "

Always Dom there no other way for me .

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By *oey500 OP   Man
38 weeks ago

who knows

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By *oey500 OP   Man
38 weeks ago

who knows


"I'd rather not play anything and let the dynamic develop naturally through whatever chemistry there is "

Good reply, completely agree different situations require different roles

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By *ddie1966Man
38 weeks ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.


"I'm going to sit on the fence and say switch.

For those of us in ignorant bliss, can you confirm it means what I think it means pls. Is it like sometimes one sometimes the other? "

In one...

Let the dynamic play out whichever way its going to go.

It's more fun that way.

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By *phialtesMan
38 weeks ago

Beyond the Wall

Tonight Michael I’m going to be…….

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
38 weeks ago

Essex

I don’t “play” domme. I am or I’m not.

I can’t do “sub”

And the fence sitting just hurts my arse in the not pleasurable way

But a good quality vanilla is wholly acceptable.

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
38 weeks ago

London

Sub for the right person

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By *ecky and justCouple
38 weeks ago

Godalming


"Sub for the right person"

I think all of us can have a sub moment for the right person.

Even though we’re a D/s couple we can both switch. It’s all about the characters, personalities and dynamic of the meet

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

I'd consider myself masochist so deffo sub as I expect to receive rather than give and be used rather than use. I did try Domme once, but didn't feel comfortable at all..

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By *oey500 OP   Man
38 weeks ago

who knows


"Sub for the right person

I think all of us can have a sub moment for the right person.

Even though we’re a D/s couple we can both switch. It’s all about the characters, personalities and dynamic of the meet "

Most defiantly, was only a few nights I had a meet and played complete sub to a new meet, obeying everything asked, wanted to be abused at the time

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

I don't like to dominate it feels less awkward than submitting but it's too much effort.

submitting is just not for me.

And vanilla is quite boring.

There's no hope

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By *mf123Man
38 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

I like to be dominant in a bedroom it suits me well or it used to anyway i kind of stopped doing things like that

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
38 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

I like the guy I'm with to take the lead. If that makes me sub, then I suppose I'm sub.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
38 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"I'd consider myself masochist so deffo sub as I expect to receive rather than give and be used rather than use. I did try Domme once, but didn't feel comfortable at all.."

I used to think I had to be a sub to feed my masochist side.

Turns out to be completely untrue. I don't have to submit to anyone to get what I need

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

I don't play submissive. I just am.

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

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By *icentiousCouple
38 weeks ago

Up on them there hills

I adore looking past the surface structure of domestic thoughts and finding the right sensual, sexuality needs and then, we’ll use them for own adoration wants

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Im more sub than dom

But hard to find a dominant woman tbh

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By *oJo pornstarMan
38 weeks ago

Liverpool

Dom, how dominant depends on the lady.

An ex GF of mine, a very sub lady decided to switch it around one night, she tried the Dom role and myself as sub, it just didn't feel right and lasted no more than 5 mins before i turned on her. She ended up over my knee for a well deserved red roar spanking and gave her a hard night for her cheek.

She mentioned it again many times after that but I knew she had ulterior motives

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Neither.

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By *oey500 OP   Man
38 weeks ago

who knows


"Im more sub than dom

But hard to find a dominant woman tbh"

I’ve managed it a couple of times and my gosh what a experience!

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By *oubleswing2019Man
38 weeks ago

Colchester

Always Dom/Top. But never call me Master, because I feel that is a title that should never be demanded, only earned and given if deserved. And that comes from working with a Sub for a deliciously long time.

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago


"Im more sub than dom

But hard to find a dominant woman tbh

I’ve managed it a couple of times and my gosh what a experience!"

Lucky you haha

Its a needle in the haystack in my opinion

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By *oey500 OP   Man
38 weeks ago

who knows


"Im more sub than dom

But hard to find a dominant woman tbh

I’ve managed it a couple of times and my gosh what a experience!

Lucky you haha

Its a needle in the haystack in my opinion"

Yes very true, stay persistent is my advice

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
38 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"Im more sub than dom

But hard to find a dominant woman tbh

I’ve managed it a couple of times and my gosh what a experience!

Lucky you haha

Its a needle in the haystack in my opinion

Yes very true, stay persistent is my advice "

Persistent is not a preferred trait in my experience

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago


"Im more sub than dom

But hard to find a dominant woman tbh

I’ve managed it a couple of times and my gosh what a experience!

Lucky you haha

Its a needle in the haystack in my opinion

Yes very true, stay persistent is my advice

Persistent is not a preferred trait in my experience "

Well thats the thing some people prefer it somepeople dont

Its trying to read a person just from their bio

But obviously in the same sense trying to be selfish

If that makes sense ?

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By *i-mk-ladMan
38 weeks ago

milton keynes

I’m a dom top. Anyone wanna play on Snapchat ? HMU

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago


"I’m a dom top. Anyone wanna play on Snapchat ? HMU "

Mate, Dominants don't play on Snapchat

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By *heTattooedDomMan
38 weeks ago

Winnersh

I’m a Dominant. Work with a sub as to the exact type: soft through to sadistic. Don’t mind most titles, just not daddy.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
38 weeks ago

Portsmouth

If playing in that scenario, always Domme.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
38 weeks ago

Portsmouth


"I’m a dom top. Anyone wanna play on Snapchat ? HMU

Mate, Dominants don't play on Snapchat "

Ha ha innit

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