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"No problem with people sending xxx amongst friends but not keen on it in a professional environment where it seems to have crept in. " I'm wary now of xxx having read Rose-tinted's comment but I do end messages to close friends with x or xx. Work messages - madness! | |||
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"A single x is nice. Shows restraint. A double xx is acceptable, now and then. The triple xxx feels excessive. More than three marks out a deranged mind."  Just outed myself then!
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"A single x is nice. Shows restraint. A double xx is acceptable, now and then. The triple xxx feels excessive. More than three marks out a deranged mind." 
Detailed boundaries. Good good. (Makes notes in case I ever message!!) | |||
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"Not a issue it's more like a comfort zone xox "What is that! Xox? That's a new worry now!  | |||
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"Any more than 3 = FAF? " 'm on a couple of dating sites and if the guy's profile contains ANY x, swipe left. Can't be doing with that. He might cry on me or something. | |||
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"What an incredibly low bar to set for complaining " How incredibly pedantic to come onto a thread just to complain about the topic... | |||
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"A single x is nice. Shows restraint. A double xx is acceptable, now and then. The triple xxx feels excessive. More than three marks out a deranged mind. Just outed myself then!
PS I personally don't send them btw... just single ones."I want to go back through all my WhatsApp's now to double check I'm not a massive hypocrite! | |||
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"A single x is nice. Shows restraint. A double xx is acceptable, now and then. The triple xxx feels excessive. More than three marks out a deranged mind. Just outed myself then!
PS I personally don't send them btw... just single ones.
I want to go back through all my WhatsApp's now to double check I'm not a massive hypocrite! " | |||
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"I concur wholeheartedly xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx" We've got a live one here!! | |||
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"Not a issue it's more like a comfort zone xox
What is that! Xox? That's a new worry now! "x or X it's optional | |||
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"I sometimes receive the following: ‘xox’ Forgive my vapidity, but what does the letter ‘O’ in there signify? "I think that means hugs and kisses | |||
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"I sometimes receive the following: ‘xox’ Forgive my vapidity, but what does the letter ‘O’ in there signify?
I think that means hugs and kisses "Ahhh  Thank you xxxxxxxxxx  | |||
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"No fucker gets xs from me unless they’re very important!" Ooh, do you mean youve sworn undying love to them? That kind of important? | |||
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"Where d’ya stand with XxXxXxXxXx’s ? JFC "Jizzy Fried Chicken? | |||
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"Where d’ya stand with XxXxXxXxXx’s ? JFC
Jizzy Fried Chicken?"Enjoy! Xx | |||
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"No fucker gets xs from me unless they’re very important! Ooh, do you mean youve sworn undying love to them? That kind of important?" Kinda, one of my besties and my neighbour both get 3 xs but I think that’s coz they started it | |||
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"Where d’ya stand with XxXxXxXxXx’s ? JFC
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"Where d’ya stand with XxXxXxXxXx’s ? JFC
Jizzy Fried Chicken?
Oi! "Fap fap fap | |||
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"No fucker gets xs from me unless they’re very important! Ooh, do you mean youve sworn undying love to them? That kind of important? Kinda, one of my besties and my neighbour both get 3 xs but I think that’s coz they started it "Aha! This brings us to an important question - do you always echo the number of xx? If someone sends you a message with TWO xx, do you feel under pressure to send two back? (I do. I fight it tho.) | |||
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"No fucker gets xs from me unless they’re very important! Ooh, do you mean youve sworn undying love to them? That kind of important? Kinda, one of my besties and my neighbour both get 3 xs but I think that’s coz they started it
Aha! This brings us to an important question - do you always echo the number of xx? If someone sends you a message with TWO xx, do you feel under pressure to send two back? (I do. I fight it tho.)"Haha I try not to but if they’re being stubborn I usually cave! | |||
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"I don't care too much. I assume that they MUST be fantastic snoggers? "Hmm. And XOX = fantastic kisser and hugger? It's another Fab trope! Nice, professional XOX. Ugh. | |||
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I utilise it more as an affectionate affirmation in the same way Meli mentioned above however.
I shall henceforth switch to another letter….
Eeeeeee….by gum! | |||
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A few is definitely fine but no need to be excessive | |||
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"I must confess that I am guilty of the liberal casting of ‘xxx’s’ in messages on occasion
I utilise it more as an affectionate affirmation in the same way Meli mentioned above however.
I shall henceforth switch to another letter….
Eeeeeee….by gum! "Noooo. Keep the kisses. They're like a palate cleanser for the eyes after reading our waffle. x | |||
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"I must confess that I am guilty of the liberal casting of ‘xxx’s’ in messages on occasion
I utilise it more as an affectionate affirmation in the same way Meli mentioned above however.
I shall henceforth switch to another letter….
Eeeeeee….by gum!
Noooo. Keep the kisses. They're like a palate cleanser for the eyes after reading our waffle.
x" A good point indeed; For my brand of inimitable…nay, interminable waffle the ‘xxx’s’ at the end serve as a blessed release from the preceding literary suffering | |||
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"I don't really mind it. I wouldn't use it in a work capacity. I do sometimes use it on the forums, it kind of softens what I'm saying or shows affection for another. In a similar way, I do use it on WhatsApp/Telegram. Not always. Most of the time one x but sometimes I even go so far as to send two. Shocking behaviour isn't it?" Totally shocking! (But at least you didn't make it to three!!) | |||
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"Damn. Never even considered this. I'm gonna start rationing my X's Next thing you know, people will be saying there's something about the way a man wears his hankerchief / pocket square !!! Damn, does 3 x exclamation marks mean something too. "Damn!!! I’m guilty of excessive exclamation mark employment also!!!! | |||
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"Damn. Never even considered this. I'm gonna start rationing my X's Next thing you know, people will be saying there's something about the way a man wears his hankerchief / pocket square !!! Damn, does 3 x exclamation marks mean something too. "Anything more than one exclamation mark is unnecessary and unforgettable. | |||
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"Damn. Never even considered this. I'm gonna start rationing my X's Next thing you know, people will be saying there's something about the way a man wears his hankerchief / pocket square !!! Damn, does 3 x exclamation marks mean something too.
Anything more than one exclamation mark is unnecessary and unforgettable."Unforgivable. Damn autocorrect! | |||
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"I only use 1 or 2 x’s. .. "Well are a whole other thread!  | |||
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"Damn. Never even considered this. I'm gonna start rationing my X's Next thing you know, people will be saying there's something about the way a man wears his hankerchief / pocket square !!! Damn, does 3 x exclamation marks mean something too.
Damn!!! I’m guilty of excessive exclamation mark employment also!!!! "You're a lost cause, aren't you pet | |||
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"Damn. Never even considered this. I'm gonna start rationing my X's Next thing you know, people will be saying there's something about the way a man wears his hankerchief / pocket square !!! Damn, does 3 x exclamation marks mean something too.
Anything more than one exclamation mark is unnecessary and unforgettable."Thats it Im dropping all punctuation from now on ! Damn Ive just done it again | |||
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"Damn. Never even considered this. I'm gonna start rationing my X's Next thing you know, people will be saying there's something about the way a man wears his hankerchief / pocket square !!! Damn, does 3 x exclamation marks mean something too.
Damn!!! I’m guilty of excessive exclamation mark employment also!!!!
You're a lost cause, aren't you pet "  | |||
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"Damn. Never even considered this. I'm gonna start rationing my X's Next thing you know, people will be saying there's something about the way a man wears his hankerchief / pocket square !!! Damn, does 3 x exclamation marks mean something too.
Anything more than one exclamation mark is unnecessary and unforgettable.
Thats it
Im dropping all punctuation from now on !
Damn
Ive just done it again"It was only one! | |||
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"It's a bit icky from complete strangers and puts me right off." I think on balance I do find it off putting from strangers. And using xxx in between words like this xxx is just strange. Xxx | |||
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"Damn. Never even considered this. I'm gonna start rationing my X's Next thing you know, people will be saying there's something about the way a man wears his hankerchief / pocket square !!! Damn, does 3 x exclamation marks mean something too.
Anything more than one exclamation mark is unnecessary and unforgettable.
Thats it
Im dropping all punctuation from now on !
Damn
Ive just done it again
It was only one! "Phew !!! Aaaaaaaargh!!!!!!!!!! | |||
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"It's a bit icky from complete strangers and puts me right off. I think on balance I do find it off putting from strangers. And using xxx in between words like this xxx is just strange. Xxx "It's the same as mmmmmmmmmm  | |||
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"I must confess that I am guilty of the liberal casting of ‘xxx’s’ in messages on occasion
I utilise it more as an affectionate affirmation in the same way Meli mentioned above however.
I shall henceforth switch to another letter….
Eeeeeee….by gum!
Noooo. Keep the kisses. They're like a palate cleanser for the eyes after reading our waffle.
x
A good point indeed; For my brand of inimitable…nay, interminable waffle the ‘xxx’s’ at the end serve as a blessed release from the preceding literary suffering " | |||
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"It's a bit icky from complete strangers and puts me right off. I think on balance I do find it off putting from strangers. And using xxx in between words like this xxx is just strange. Xxx
It's the same as mmmmmmmmmm
"Mmmmmm does genuinely turn my stomach. | |||
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"No fucker gets xs from me unless they’re very important! Ooh, do you mean youve sworn undying love to them? That kind of important? Kinda, one of my besties and my neighbour both get 3 xs but I think that’s coz they started it
Aha! This brings us to an important question - do you always echo the number of xx? If someone sends you a message with TWO xx, do you feel under pressure to send two back? (I do. I fight it tho.)"I’m not from here, so… yes if it’s from my bestie. No if it’s from anyone else. | |||
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"It's a bit icky from complete strangers and puts me right off. I think on balance I do find it off putting from strangers. And using xxx in between words like this xxx is just strange. Xxx
It's the same as mmmmmmmmmm
Mmmmmm does genuinely turn my stomach. "And now I have that Crash Test Dummies song in my head. Until the end of time. | |||
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"It's a bit icky from complete strangers and puts me right off. I think on balance I do find it off putting from strangers. And using xxx in between words like this xxx is just strange. Xxx
It's the same as mmmmmmmmmm
"Mmmmm= Instantly no | |||
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"No fucker gets xs from me unless they’re very important! Ooh, do you mean youve sworn undying love to them? That kind of important? Kinda, one of my besties and my neighbour both get 3 xs but I think that’s coz they started it
Aha! This brings us to an important question - do you always echo the number of xx? If someone sends you a message with TWO xx, do you feel under pressure to send two back? (I do. I fight it tho.)
I’m not from here, so… yes if it’s from my bestie. No if it’s from anyone else. "You REBEL!  | |||
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"It's a bit icky from complete strangers and puts me right off. I think on balance I do find it off putting from strangers. And using xxx in between words like this xxx is just strange. Xxx
It's the same as mmmmmmmmmm
Mmmmm= Instantly no"I am pleased to report that I’m not guilty of this one at least  | |||
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"So I don't throw X's around like sweets but do like to use them and never really thought about it other than when they use xx. Then I think "Should double X it? Does it mean I don't like them as much if I don't? I'm not a double X guy! What if they think I'm only doing it because they are? Maybe I should just use one X and be consistent..." But other than that, I don't really think about it." x(xx) | |||
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"So I don't throw X's around like sweets but do like to use them and never really thought about it other than when they use xx. Then I think "Should double X it? Does it mean I don't like them as much if I don't? I'm not a double X guy! What if they think I'm only doing it because they are? Maybe I should just use one X and be consistent..." But other than that, I don't really think about it." Really glad you're so relaxed about it | |||
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"It's a bit icky from complete strangers and puts me right off. I think on balance I do find it off putting from strangers. And using xxx in between words like this xxx is just strange. Xxx
It's the same as mmmmmmmmmm
Mmmmm= Instantly no
I am pleased to report that I’m not guilty of this one at least "Hurrah! | |||
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"Damn. Never even considered this. I'm gonna start rationing my X's Next thing you know, people will be saying there's something about the way a man wears his hankerchief / pocket square !!! Damn, does 3 x exclamation marks mean something too.
Anything more than one exclamation mark is unnecessary and unforgettable.
Thats it
Im dropping all punctuation from now on !
Damn
Ive just done it again
It was only one!
Phew !!!
Aaaaaaaargh!!!!!!!!!! "You were doing so well (shakes head sadly) | |||
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"No fucker gets xs from me unless they’re very important! Ooh, do you mean youve sworn undying love to them? That kind of important? Kinda, one of my besties and my neighbour both get 3 xs but I think that’s coz they started it
Aha! This brings us to an important question - do you always echo the number of xx? If someone sends you a message with TWO xx, do you feel under pressure to send two back? (I do. I fight it tho.)
I’m not from here, so… yes if it’s from my bestie. No if it’s from anyone else.
You REBEL! "Ikr? I hope to be remembered for this and nothing else. | |||
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"Conventionally, kisses were always symbolised by capital Xs. Nothing appears more mean spirited tha a single lower case x. I have noticed that more often than not it is men on here who use the lower case x. I suspect it is because they don't quite have the courage to go for the full X but by not doing so, they appear half hearted." Not everyone knows that men are being half hearted icky wusses. Lucky that. | |||
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"No fucker gets xs from me unless they’re very important! Ooh, do you mean youve sworn undying love to them? That kind of important? Kinda, one of my besties and my neighbour both get 3 xs but I think that’s coz they started it
Aha! This brings us to an important question - do you always echo the number of xx? If someone sends you a message with TWO xx, do you feel under pressure to send two back? (I do. I fight it tho.)
I’m not from here, so… yes if it’s from my bestie. No if it’s from anyone else.
You REBEL!
Ikr? I hope to be remembered for this and nothing else. "Not for all the sexy chat and naked photos? | |||
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"No fucker gets xs from me unless they’re very important! Ooh, do you mean youve sworn undying love to them? That kind of important? Kinda, one of my besties and my neighbour both get 3 xs but I think that’s coz they started it
Aha! This brings us to an important question - do you always echo the number of xx? If someone sends you a message with TWO xx, do you feel under pressure to send two back? (I do. I fight it tho.)
I’m not from here, so… yes if it’s from my bestie. No if it’s from anyone else.
You REBEL!
Ikr? I hope to be remembered for this and nothing else. "You're definitely memorable! | |||
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"So I don't throw X's around like sweets but do like to use them and never really thought about it other than when they use xx. Then I think "Should double X it? Does it mean I don't like them as much if I don't? I'm not a double X guy! What if they think I'm only doing it because they are? Maybe I should just use one X and be consistent..." But other than that, I don't really think about it. x(xx) "Are you trying to raise my anxiety? x... xx... No, x  | |||
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