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By *ruceyy OP   Man
46 weeks ago

London

Do you think men are more likely to compromise a certain kink of theirs to have sex than women will?

Aka - will you only have sex if your kinks can be utilized?

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By *affeine DuskMan
46 weeks ago

Caerphilly

I don't think its compromise.

If every one of my kinks were quelled on every sexual encounter/partner, I'd be fucking knackered pal.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
46 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I don't need any one person to fulfil all of my needs.

If I connect with someone, and I think we can have fun, I like to explore what is there.

There isn't a set checklist of things a potential partner must agree to adhere to before I'll give them a chance.

When I fancy someone without the relevant equipment I'm aware that I'm unlikely to get to indulge my throatfucking preference, but that doesn't make me any less interested in the fun that we could have together

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
46 weeks ago

Manchester-ish

I don't think so.

Certain kinks of mine require a huge amount of trust and connection. It's not compromise to leave those out of some encounters, it's common sense. I'll still very much enjoy the sex I have that doesn't include those kinks.

J

J

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By *midnight-Woman
46 weeks ago

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"Do you think men are more likely to compromise a certain kink of theirs to have sex than women will?

Aka - will you only have sex if your kinks can be utilized? "

I think men are most likely to compromise themselves full stop to get a shag??

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago


"Do you think men are more likely to compromise a certain kink of theirs to have sex than women will?

Aka - will you only have sex if your kinks can be utilized?

I think men are most likely to compromise themselves full stop to get a shag?? "

Are we talking haircuts or cormorants (genus Gulosus), or have I got on the wrong website again?

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By *heTattooedDomMan
46 weeks ago

Winnersh

None of my kinks are deal breakers. They are things that I enjoy and would be nice to find someone that also likes them, but if they aren’t into a particular kink that I am into, it’s not a problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago


"Do you think men are more likely to compromise a certain kink of theirs to have sex than women will?

Aka - will you only have sex if your kinks can be utilized?

I think men are most likely to compromise themselves full stop to get a shag?? "

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By *ruceyy OP   Man
46 weeks ago

London


"I don't think its compromise.

If every one of my kinks were quelled on every sexual encounter/partner, I'd be fucking knackered pal.

"

Yeah but you're a saucy bastard so

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
46 weeks ago

Leeds

I think many men would compromise anything to get their dick wet to be honest (not all men)

But kinks wise there something I'd only do with people I trusted, some I wouldn't do outside my relationship, so many I wouldn't do with others, if that was a deal breaker for them then so be it.

Mrs

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By *ruceyy OP   Man
46 weeks ago

London


"I think many men would compromise anything to get their dick wet to be honest (not all men)

But kinks wise there something I'd only do with people I trusted, some I wouldn't do outside my relationship, so many I wouldn't do with others, if that was a deal breaker for them then so be it.

Mrs "

Yeah but you won't even have sex with me!

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By *archelCouple
46 weeks ago

A field somewhere

Men will say or do anything to empty their balls.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

I don't consider one of my kinks going unfulfilled as a compromise. I'm not rimming you....so it works both ways.

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

They are 'just' kinks. If its a fetish I suppose the chat would be different?

T

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

I think men will say and do anything to get a fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago


"Men will say or do anything to empty their balls.

Mrs"

Stupid generalisation.

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By *aitonelMan
46 weeks ago

Liverpool


"I think men will say and do anything to get a fuck "

In general, this.

It's fairly obvious a large number of men will ignore/brush to the side/compromise/not care/sell their nan so long as they get the sex in any way, shape, or form. Within that number some will be varied degrees of how far they will go but it happens.

Some women will too, but it's certainly not to the extent or extreme of men.

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago


"I think men will say and do anything to get a fuck "

Actually no. I am very picky, which is why I have success away from fab, and none on here in @10 years....

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By *overexploreMan
46 weeks ago

Romsey area

If I have a special liking for carrot cake, coffee cake and walnut cake, that doesn't mean I'll only eat cake when those flavours are on offer... nor that I will choose one of those flavours when it's available.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
46 weeks ago

Leeds


"I think many men would compromise anything to get their dick wet to be honest (not all men)

But kinks wise there something I'd only do with people I trusted, some I wouldn't do outside my relationship, so many I wouldn't do with others, if that was a deal breaker for them then so be it.

Mrs

Yeah but you won't even have sex with me! "

Brucey bruce I won't have sex with any man (husband to be excluded) don't take it personally, I'm yet to find one that isn't a prick.

Actually no that's a lie there's a few single blokes on here that aren't pricks and possibly 2/3 out the couples but mfm isn't my thing, center of attention and all that isn't for me, I disappoint one man enough, disappointing two at the same time.... Na!

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago


"If I have a special liking for carrot cake, coffee cake and walnut cake, that doesn't mean I'll only eat cake when those flavours are on offer... nor that I will choose one of those flavours when it's available."

Cake outperforms any shag anyway

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By *affeine DuskMan
46 weeks ago

Caerphilly


"I don't think its compromise.

If every one of my kinks were quelled on every sexual encounter/partner, I'd be fucking knackered pal.

Yeah but you're a saucy bastard so "

Yeah I'm also Just A Man and I sent this message while my dick was in the letterbox, in compliance with the standard Lounge mentality.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
46 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

If I think someone is amazing and we’re into each other but she doesn’t want to a particular thing … then that’s not going to put me off. We’ll have tons of fun doing all the other things.

But then, I guess it’s easy for me to say that because I don’t have any particular kinks or fetishes.

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By *ruceyy OP   Man
46 weeks ago

London


"Men will say or do anything to empty their balls.

Mrs"

I like tinsel. Best part of Christmas if you ask me. And now it's a while away there's no chance of it coming early

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By *ruceyy OP   Man
46 weeks ago

London


"I think many men would compromise anything to get their dick wet to be honest (not all men)

But kinks wise there something I'd only do with people I trusted, some I wouldn't do outside my relationship, so many I wouldn't do with others, if that was a deal breaker for them then so be it.

Mrs

Yeah but you won't even have sex with me!

Brucey bruce I won't have sex with any man (husband to be excluded) don't take it personally, I'm yet to find one that isn't a prick.

Actually no that's a lie there's a few single blokes on here that aren't pricks and possibly 2/3 out the couples but mfm isn't my thing, center of attention and all that isn't for me, I disappoint one man enough, disappointing two at the same time.... Na!

Mrs "

Look I won't be offended once you ride me like a tiger. Until then I can't control my feelings ok?

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By *oo..Woman
46 weeks ago

Boo's World

A high number of men would do most things put to them if they thought it gave them a higher chance of getting their cock wet, let's be honest here!

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
46 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"If I think someone is amazing and we’re into each other but she doesn’t want to a particular thing … then that’s not going to put me off. We’ll have tons of fun doing all the other things.

But then, I guess it’s easy for me to say that because I don’t have any particular kinks or fetishes."

As somebody with many kinks and fetishes, it still holds true, don't worry

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago


"A high number of men would do most things put to them if they thought it gave them a higher chance of getting their cock wet, let's be honest here! "

Yes, and by that sound logic, women drop their standards of sex and male expectations, because why else would they be on fab? Because deep down they aren't happy. Let's be honest here. We are all compromising.

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
46 weeks ago

Somewhere else


"Do you think men are more likely to compromise a certain kink of theirs to have sex than women will?

Aka - will you only have sex if your kinks can be utilized?

I think men are most likely to compromise themselves full stop to get a shag?? "

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
46 weeks ago

Reading

Good vanilla sex can be great.

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
46 weeks ago

Somewhere else


"Do you think men are more likely to compromise a certain kink of theirs to have sex than women will?

Aka - will you only have sex if your kinks can be utilized?

I think men are most likely to compromise themselves full stop to get a shag??

Are we talking haircuts or cormorants (genus Gulosus), or have I got on the wrong website again?"

David Attenborough called…

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
46 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"A high number of men would do most things put to them if they thought it gave them a higher chance of getting their cock wet, let's be honest here!

Yes, and by that sound logic, women drop their standards of sex and male expectations, because why else would they be on fab? Because deep down they aren't happy. Let's be honest here. We are all compromising. "

I wouldn't say everyone is compromising.

But it's clearly evidenced from my inbox that many men will compromise to get laid. The OP isn't wrong.

Not saying that all men do. Not saying that all women don't

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By *oo..Woman
46 weeks ago

Boo's World


"A high number of men would do most things put to them if they thought it gave them a higher chance of getting their cock wet, let's be honest here!

Yes, and by that sound logic, women drop their standards of sex and male expectations, because why else would they be on fab? Because deep down they aren't happy. Let's be honest here. We are all compromising. "

A lot of women and men aren't always on here for sex, some enjoy the social side of it and don't need the sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

I don't have any kinks

I don’t have sex either

Maybe that's my problem

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
46 weeks ago

Somewhere else

Why did the scarecrow win an award? Because he was outstanding in his field!

*looks around*

Whoops wrong thread.

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
46 weeks ago

Somewhere else

[Sex Removed by poster at 28/12/23 17:13:21

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By *rHotNottsMan
46 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Men on here that are desperate for sex or men in general?

I think a lot of people do things for their partner, with varying levels of uncomfortableness, It’s a mix of open mindedness and giving, it’s not a compromise

That’s more normal to me than people that have very fixed boundaries

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
46 weeks ago

Leeds


"I think many men would compromise anything to get their dick wet to be honest (not all men)

But kinks wise there something I'd only do with people I trusted, some I wouldn't do outside my relationship, so many I wouldn't do with others, if that was a deal breaker for them then so be it.

Mrs

Yeah but you won't even have sex with me!

Brucey bruce I won't have sex with any man (husband to be excluded) don't take it personally, I'm yet to find one that isn't a prick.

Actually no that's a lie there's a few single blokes on here that aren't pricks and possibly 2/3 out the couples but mfm isn't my thing, center of attention and all that isn't for me, I disappoint one man enough, disappointing two at the same time.... Na!

Mrs

Look I won't be offended once you ride me like a tiger. Until then I can't control my feelings ok? "

Ok, I guess you'll have to not control your feelings plus I think I'd struggle to ride you like a tiger, have you seen a tiger ride.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

In my experience here and elsewhere, men are more likely to compromise. I only want kinky sex, but certainly don't expect all the boxes to be ticked.

A "Dom" contacted me last week and his first question was "are you collared". His profile also indicated he wanted to collar his submissive. I have no interest in that kind of dynamic and said so. He then did a 360 "I'd be fine with that". To which I said, no thanks I don't trust men who do what you've just done.

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