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By *eli OP Woman
47 weeks ago

fantastic.

It could be a mood, a move; what really does it/works for you?

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By *aitonelMan
47 weeks ago

Travelling

Out

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Been too long to remember

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

When her fingers stop running through my hair and she begins to stroke my soul.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
47 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Um. It's something in the connection. That feedback loop is where the best sex lives

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

"Been too long to remember

How many offers are you now going to get for somebody to send you a reminder?

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

What’s sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

"Been too long to remember

How many offers are you now going to get for somebody to send you a reminder?

No one sends me nuffink!

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

How about average or mediocre sex?

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By *ongandharderMan
47 weeks ago

Rotherham

"fantastic.

It could be a mood, a move; what really does it/works for you? "

I love a woman taking control my arms pushed down maybe even a hand round neck

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

"Been too long to remember

How many offers are you now going to get for somebody to send you a reminder?

No one sends me nuffink!"

Well, they’re all stupid.

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By *attedCurvyLassWoman
47 weeks ago

CASTLEFORD

Anything to do with my neck.. touching, nibbles or biting

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
47 weeks ago

Manchester-ish

"Um. It's something in the connection. That feedback loop is where the best sex lives

Feedback loop! Yep, this.

Also adding that when we're in a certain part of our dynamic then it's also the aftercare for each other. Because it can be amazing in that moment but needs the cuddle puddle afterwards to keep it that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Time. Both being with someone regularly, and not rushing

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By *ruceyyMan
47 weeks ago

London

"fantastic.

It could be a mood, a move; what really does it/works for you? "

When it starts with a humble _eli blowjob

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

When our bodies and minds are tangled so much that it's hard to tell where one ends and the other begins.

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By *eordieJeansCouple
47 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

When she comes back from the shower and doesn’t have the comfy pyjamas on.

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By *ongandharderMan
47 weeks ago

Rotherham

Oh and stimulation of the mind prior to sex could interesting conversation

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
47 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"No one sends me nuffink!"

I’ll send you something Fluff. What would you like?

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By *educing_EmCouple
47 weeks ago

Tipperary

The mood,

The right person,

The feedback,

The intensity.

Em x

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By *ruceyyMan
47 weeks ago

London

"The mood,

The right person,

The feedback,

The intensity.

Em x"

Oh Ems booty pushing back on me and what I imagine are the hottest little Irish moans also sounds like a winner!

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By *ensuallover1000Man
47 weeks ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

From a personal perspective, whilst I may list a myriad of diverse factors that may serve to augment the intensity of sex for me, I would personally define really amazing sex as when I become absolutely ‘lost’ in the moment and the passion absolutely possesses me.

Intrinsically, it’s akin to a burning NEED to be touching/tasting/fucking a partner in this moment.

It’s really most deliriously delicious in fact

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
47 weeks ago

Somewhere else

When the cat scolds us for making too much noise.

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By *ris GrayMan
47 weeks ago

Dorchester

You just gel maybe feelings come into play

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By * and M lookingCouple
47 weeks ago

Worcester

Spontanaety.

Right person, right place, right time.

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By *ruceyyMan
47 weeks ago

London

"When the cat scolds us for making too much noise."

Oh that cat is gonna be meowing....

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By *ovetolick78Man
47 weeks ago

The Shire

Connection with the person always makes a massive difference.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

The connection between you.

Thats what turns it from good sex to fucking amazing, think about you all the time, turn me on like nothing I've ever experienced, i will do anything for you sex.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
47 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

When you're completely lost in the moment. You have no idea how much time has passed; you never want it to end; the rest of the world melts away and you're just there, together, wanting more and more of each other.

Mrs TMN x

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By *hrista BellendWoman
47 weeks ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

It's different with each person I meet for an adventure. I suppose not having the need to cum, for it to be fantastic helps

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By *ucka39Man
47 weeks ago

Newcastle

Boils down to the chemistry and connections and if I find her irresistible and she does me

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

"No one sends me nuffink!

I’ll send you something Fluff. What would you like?"

A duck

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
47 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"A duck

I sometimes wonder whether autocorrect is responsible for your entire collection.

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By *a LunaWoman
47 weeks ago

South Wales

"When her fingers stop running through my hair and she begins to stroke my soul.

Ah Woody. You romantic sod

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By *a LunaWoman
47 weeks ago

South Wales

When you can totally relax, have fun and not try. The sensuality, the lust, the longing is just there. You’re in tune with each other but you don’t take it so seriously. You enjoy each other. Their body is your playground.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

The connection, the feedback loop, where the passion shows up in the grip of each other and those deep kisses, utterly lost in pleasure, not wanting it to end. Anything at that point can add to it or just be amazingly delicious in the moment, it's not down to one particular sex act or move, though to be restrained physically in the height of it is a whole different level of intense I adore.

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
47 weeks ago

Somewhere else

"You just gel maybe feelings come into play

What are those?

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By *ris GrayMan
47 weeks ago

Dorchester

"You just gel maybe feelings come into play

What are those?

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lol hey they are when your arse gets spanked enough you get tingly feelings in your case anyways

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

"A duck

I sometimes wonder whether autocorrect is responsible for your entire collection.

Well it’s certainly not responsible for getting me any fucks

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
47 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"Well it’s certainly not responsible for getting me any fucks

I heard you have to give to receive.

So I always try to give a fuck.

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By *essaMayWoman
47 weeks ago

Fairytale Wood

"fantastic.

It could be a mood, a move; what really does it/works for you? "

For me when there is complete synergy, words become unspoken, distractions become muted or irrelevant, empathy and every thought, touch become one.

Unfortunately it is a rarity

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By *imply DeeWoman
47 weeks ago

Wherever

Connection.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
47 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

Definitely connection or is doesn’t work for me at all. I can’t do random

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By *orthern StarsCouple
47 weeks ago

Durham

That 'look'. The unsaid words but you both know what is being said between you.

Or in a club, the moment when you're totally in the zone and lost in orgasms with strangers.

Different scenarios for me so no straight answer I'm afraid.

Ruby

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By *ad NannaWoman
47 weeks ago

East London

When he isn't selfish, and I don't have to direct him, yet he does everything I need.

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By *oodmessMan
47 weeks ago

yumsville

Probably inhibition, when you can both do what you like, say what you like, act how you want and there be no thought of what just happened the next day. Sex can be either rudimentary, performative or lost in skin. I don't think the amount of time is necessarily a factor as some quick fucking can be pretty intense, longer stints you can obviously do more and get a little more into each other.

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
47 weeks ago

Somewhere else

"You just gel maybe feelings come into play

What are those?

lol hey they are when your arse gets spanked enough you get tingly feelings in your case anyways

I dare you to try it.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

"When her fingers stop running through my hair and she begins to stroke my soul.

Ah Woody. You romantic sod

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
47 weeks ago

Somewhere else

"When he isn't selfish, and I don't have to direct him, yet he does everything I need."

Does this exist?

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
47 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"Does this exist?

I think that depends on what you need.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

"Does this exist?

I think that depends on what you need."

I hope she lists it in her profile.

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By *avexxMan
47 weeks ago

cheshire

when a woman slowly kisses my neck,,

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
47 weeks ago

Somewhere else

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By *ucka39Man
47 weeks ago

Newcastle

"When he isn't selfish, and I don't have to direct him, yet he does everything I need.

Does this exist?

Daft as a brush

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By *accar305Man
47 weeks ago

Somerset/Oxford

…… a mind melt x

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By *2000ManMan
47 weeks ago

Worthing

To men, any sex is fantastic!

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Why did this remind me of the neighbours theme tune??

See this is what happens to me during sex... My brain doesn't switch off

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By *eli OP Woman
47 weeks ago

"Why did this remind me of the neighbours theme tune??

See this is what happens to me during sex... My brain doesn't switch off

I had to Google the theme tune... I get it now.

Never ever switches off?

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

"Why did this remind me of the neighbours theme tune??

See this is what happens to me during sex... My brain doesn't switch off

I had to Google the theme tune... I get it now.

Never ever switches off?"

Always on at the most inappropriate time

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By *xfordjohnMan
47 weeks ago

Oxford

"Um. It's something in the connection. That feedback loop is where the best sex lives

Yes, I think so too. Sometimes, even with people you've had sex with before, something just lifts the whole occasion to another level.

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By *inky ChefMan
47 weeks ago

Norwich

The person and mutual sexual interests.

Some kind of connection, but not necessary feelings or love.

Physical compatibility helps, but sometimes doesn't matter.

Right time, right person, pushing the right buttons.

Some attraction needed, but too much can ruin the atmosphere.

If one person thinks the other is out of their league, then they will place the other one's needs higher than theirs.

Both need to be on the same level more or less.

Does it make sense?

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

A real connection with the other person

I can honestly say I loved my last partner, and our connection was better then any other relationship

And because of that, our vanilla sex was better than everything else, because we really connected

Having loads of sex with people I barely knew or cared about was great in my 20s. But it soon gets boring

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By *ddie1966Man
47 weeks ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.

Sex is good ( well, mostly).

But sex become fantastic when passion is introduced. A connection is made and the ability to confide in each other what you really.... no, really, really want and can give each other.

That's when sex becomes amazing.

But again... that's just my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Sex is good with a good diy wank

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

I'd settle for good. Last time was mediocre. To take it to outstanding seems in the lack of the gods.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Eye contact when going slow - that can make a massive difference for me

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

When it's happened for me, the chemistry has been there before the sex, so the sex is kind of a bonus, the validation if you like.

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By *iHungMikeMan
47 weeks ago

Shaw

When it goes on for hours and blows your mind at the end

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By *eronicaExplorerWoman
47 weeks ago

London

I know sex is going to be fantastic if,

we feel nervous enough to confess we are nervous,

we feel attracted enough to enjoy the anticipation,

we feel desired enough to lose any inhibition,

and we relax our tongues enough to have a long-lasting first kiss.

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
47 weeks ago

Southampton

It's been a while lol

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

"fantastic.

It could be a mood, a move; what really does it/works for you? "

When he gets the cuffs out x

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By *mf123Man
47 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

Emotion but that ship sailed

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By *phialtesMan
47 weeks ago

Beyond the Wall

"fantastic.

It could be a mood, a move; what really does it/works for you? "

When she lightly strokes the back of my neck with a single finger

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By *ucka39Man
47 weeks ago

Newcastle

When she has control to do her thing ride the socks off it until she can no longer continue then take over and take her beyond infinity

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
47 weeks ago

Southampton

"Emotion but that ship sailed "

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By *mf123Man
47 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

Sorry _eli i broke another _elithread with my honesty ffs

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By *heFabtasticsCouple
47 weeks ago

brentwood

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By *viatrixWoman
47 weeks ago

Redhill

*cough*

Feelings.

*cough* *cough*

*runs away*

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By *rishVikingMan
47 weeks ago

Shankill

"*cough*

Feelings.

*cough* *cough*

*runs away*

She said the f word ruuuunnn

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By *heFabtasticsCouple
47 weeks ago

brentwood

When the shrooms kick in and you both get entangled as one mind body and soul taking you to heights never been touched before

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
47 weeks ago

Essex

It’s a perfect storm.

A partner who you trust to take you on that journey. And neither of you know.

Physically are you well, comfortable. Not hungry, just eaten….( It’s a thing for me)

And then it’s a touch, a kiss, a nibble, a scratch, hair pull….. an indefinable thing.

There’s a moment where you intake of breath, twitch, clench, shiver and grin from ear to ear

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By *eronicaExplorerWoman
47 weeks ago

London

"*cough*

Feelings.

*cough* *cough*

*runs away*

Love you

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By *viatrixWoman
47 weeks ago

Redhill

"*cough*

Feelings.

*cough* *cough*

*runs away*

Love you

Love you too

be back soon!

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By *viatrixWoman
47 weeks ago

Redhill

"*cough*

Feelings.

*cough* *cough*

*runs away*

She said the f word ruuuunnn"

I know … the “f” grenade haha

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By *eronicaExplorerWoman
47 weeks ago

London

"*cough*

Feelings.

*cough* *cough*

*runs away*

Love you

Love you too

be back soon!

February is waiting for us!

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
47 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

You two are the cutest.

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By *ruceyyMan
47 weeks ago

London

Is there a threesome opportunity here? If so, in

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

For me, when there's that insane mutual lust, you are both ripping eachothers clothes off in a rush, you're trying to go down on her while she pushes you to the bed because she wants to taste you.

You just manovure eachothers bodies around and she does everything to try and stop you slipping out when she changes position, like she wants you in her at all times, because that's where you belong.

It's not just the sex for me, it's that strong lusty connection, her telling you how much she needs you inside her when you can't be together.

It's the whole psychology.

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By *emidemiWoman
47 weeks ago

basingstoke

For me it’s that moment when you can stop and have a giggle at something. Maybe you both go in the same direction for a kiss and bump noses, or you notice your lipstick has somehow smudged up to their forehead (

You have a quick little laugh at it, move on and get back to it. It just shows that you’re comfortable together, and that’s the best part.

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By *eronicaExplorerWoman
47 weeks ago

London

"You two are the cutest.

Perhaps my first 3some? Just saying

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By *ruceyyMan
47 weeks ago

London

"You two are the cutest.

Perhaps my first 3some? Just saying "

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By *eli OP Woman
47 weeks ago

"Sorry _eli i broke another _elithread with my honesty ffs "

I don't think you did, don't worry. Emotion is great for intensifying sex, I don't think that ship has necessarily sailed for you. You can find it rather unexpectedly. I hope you do.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

"fantastic.

It could be a mood, a move; what really does it/works for you? "

Definitely mood but when both had drink not d*unk and inhibitions on the floor some wild stuff can be amazing to point exhaustion

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By *ickyKlungespeareMan
47 weeks ago

St Leonards

Well, it used to be a powerful mental image of page 63 of the London A-Z (colour version only. Doesn't work in black and white).

The enlarged central London zones, in particular Farringdon Road heading north-west in a slightly heavy, bendy cock manner to a fountainous cum explosion (all involved parties) at the top left corner, around King's Cross.

Never understood why. It was just good.

Failing that, the bits in this vid where they get all golden-galactico life creating smiley-happy orgasmo-lords.

Touch, and kissing of necks too.

That works uber-yum.

Never farts.

You're welcome xx

https://youtu.be/lrKZNqIR2U0?si=0N838MOfZEl-iRdL

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By *ake_or_deathMan
47 weeks ago

Manchester

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By *essiCouple
47 weeks ago

suffolk

"Anything to do with my neck.. touching, nibbles or biting

This..and toes

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By *ake_or_deathMan
47 weeks ago

Manchester

"When you can totally relax, have fun and not try. The sensuality, the lust, the longing is just there. You’re in tune with each other but you don’t take it so seriously. You enjoy each other. Their body is your playground."

Exactly this - couldn't put it better.

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