FabSwingers.com forum: 1st time in a swingers club

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Any advice / tips for a single male

Is it better going alone or with someone?

What is the correct ettiquet.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Half a dozen viagra, wait half an hour, shag anything that moves

Sorry never been to one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Politeness and respect will see you through. If you get talking to a couple be sure to actually TALK to the man, he won't like you focussing on his missus and making him feel like a spare prick at a wedding, plus she'll be more inclined to fancy you if you get on with her fella.

And watch out for things floating in the Jacuzzi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As op have said be respectfull, dont jump in with both feet, ask if its ok to join in.

Relax and enjoy, can be daunting first time

Good luck and have fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go as a single, dont be distant and or insistant, maybe use the fact its your first time in club as a nice icebreaker/intro too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't go with any expectations to play, too many guys get pushy because they feel its their right to sex. Club membership is for entrance and use of facilities in the club, not for sex.

Be respectful and polite. If watching keep a reasonable distance, don't stand inches from a womans face with cock in hand.

Smile and be open and friendly. Don't stare intently at women you are interested in, they won't come and sit on your cock with the powers of telepathy. If talking to couples with a view to play, that means they play as a couple so both should be included in conversations. That doesn't mean its a bi play scenario, but if you want to play remember his body and cock are gonna get quite close to you, along with hers, so talk to him.

And that's it really. I feel in swinging clubs you have to be quite a chatty confident person. Its no good sitting huddled quietly in a corner, swinging is a very social activity, it isn't just about having sex.

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I think you may be spoilt for choice with the amount of clubs near you. I looked at the club reviews before choosing where I would go for my first visit.

I would recommend that you look at this as different clubs have very different price structures and can limit the nights single men can attend.

I would also recommend that you go alone for your first time. That way you can get a real feel for the place. Then next time maybe you can accompany me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best advice I can give as a single guy who has been clubbing for years is;

Sat in the social area and chat to people, you will be far more likely to get asked to join either a couple or lady if you have got to know them and there's a spark

Don't join the dings conga of single guys who follow any couple or lady around with their hands under their towel. Don't lurk outside of rooms knocking on the door or trying to get in

Chill have a laugh and if something happens its a bonus

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

All of the above.

Remember that many are regulars and know each other. Chat, be sociable and friendly , don't be push - keep it light.

And once you've started to make friends then it Will all begin. Don't ignore people cos you don't fancy them - friends are friends and who knows who they might be saying "he's alright " to. And if you don't want to play then a simple no thanks or maybe later Will suffice.

And steer clear of booze...

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