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"I absolutely love being in a collar, it's been a long time since I had mine on. It has such an effect on me and changes my demeanor in seconds. Its not something I let just anyone do either. God I miss that, why can't I find a decent guy for this side of me "Think you need to put a pic on your profile wearing it  | |||
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"I absolutely love being in a collar, it's been a long time since I had mine on. It has such an effect on me and changes my demeanor in seconds. Its not something I let just anyone do either. God I miss that, why can't I find a decent guy for this side of me
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"I absolutely love being in a collar, it's been a long time since I had mine on. It has such an effect on me and changes my demeanor in seconds. Its not something I let just anyone do either. God I miss that, why can't I find a decent guy for this side of me
Think you need to put a pic on your profile wearing it
Nope, attracts the wrong ones in the inbox that 'think' they know what that all involves and takes."Wannadoms? Dommabes? Buzz buzz. They are a plague. Collar pictures do draw them in. I don't recommend it | |||
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"I absolutely love being in a collar, it's been a long time since I had mine on. It has such an effect on me and changes my demeanor in seconds. Its not something I let just anyone do either. God I miss that, why can't I find a decent guy for this side of me
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Nope, attracts the wrong ones in the inbox that 'think' they know what that all involves and takes."Good point,dont blame you,bet you look amazing though x | |||
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"I absolutely love being in a collar, it's been a long time since I had mine on. It has such an effect on me and changes my demeanor in seconds. Its not something I let just anyone do either. God I miss that, why can't I find a decent guy for this side of me
Think you need to put a pic on your profile wearing it
Nope, attracts the wrong ones in the inbox that 'think' they know what that all involves and takes.
Wannadoms? Dommabes? Buzz buzz.
They are a plague. Collar pictures do draw them in. I don't recommend it "Is it worth the time and effort to "train" someone? | |||
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"I absolutely love being in a collar, it's been a long time since I had mine on. It has such an effect on me and changes my demeanor in seconds. Its not something I let just anyone do either. God I miss that, why can't I find a decent guy for this side of me
Think you need to put a pic on your profile wearing it
Nope, attracts the wrong ones in the inbox that 'think' they know what that all involves and takes.
Wannadoms? Dommabes? Buzz buzz.
They are a plague. Collar pictures do draw them in. I don't recommend it "Yep, you know exactly what I'm talking about. | |||
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"I absolutely love being in a collar, it's been a long time since I had mine on. It has such an effect on me and changes my demeanor in seconds. Its not something I let just anyone do either. God I miss that, why can't I find a decent guy for this side of me
Think you need to put a pic on your profile wearing it
Nope, attracts the wrong ones in the inbox that 'think' they know what that all involves and takes.
Wannadoms? Dommabes? Buzz buzz.
They are a plague. Collar pictures do draw them in. I don't recommend it "I must be doing something wrong, because most of the messages I receive assume I’m a Domme!  | |||
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"I absolutely love being in a collar, it's been a long time since I had mine on. It has such an effect on me and changes my demeanor in seconds. Its not something I let just anyone do either. God I miss that, why can't I find a decent guy for this side of me
Think you need to put a pic on your profile wearing it
Nope, attracts the wrong ones in the inbox that 'think' they know what that all involves and takes.
Wannadoms? Dommabes? Buzz buzz.
They are a plague. Collar pictures do draw them in. I don't recommend it
I must be doing something wrong, because most of the messages I receive assume I’m a Domme! "I've had that on a past profile...pose for a picture confidently with a collar on and they assume you're not submissive because of the confidence you show. | |||
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"I absolutely love being in a collar, it's been a long time since I had mine on. It has such an effect on me and changes my demeanor in seconds. Its not something I let just anyone do either. God I miss that, why can't I find a decent guy for this side of me
Think you need to put a pic on your profile wearing it
Nope, attracts the wrong ones in the inbox that 'think' they know what that all involves and takes.
Wannadoms? Dommabes? Buzz buzz.
They are a plague. Collar pictures do draw them in. I don't recommend it
Is it worth the time and effort to "train" someone? "After two experiences where I was willing to show someone what I liked I wouldn't entertain training someone ever again. It's really easy to get burnt doing that especially when it comes to aftercare. I learned very severely on that one last time. I wouldn't recommend it at all. Even when someone talks like they understand they can change their tune afterwards and be an utter dickhead. I would only go with someone experienced and naturally wired the way I need them to be. | |||
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"I absolutely love being in a collar, it's been a long time since I had mine on. It has such an effect on me and changes my demeanor in seconds. Its not something I let just anyone do either. God I miss that, why can't I find a decent guy for this side of me
Think you need to put a pic on your profile wearing it
Nope, attracts the wrong ones in the inbox that 'think' they know what that all involves and takes.
Wannadoms? Dommabes? Buzz buzz.
They are a plague. Collar pictures do draw them in. I don't recommend it
I must be doing something wrong, because most of the messages I receive assume I’m a Domme!
I've had that on a past profile...pose for a picture confidently with a collar on and they assume you're not submissive because of the confidence you show. "need to perfect the sad face they use in the papers when someone has had money taken from them | |||
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A discreet purpose one would be amazing- though I don’t think I can get away wearing one at work. 
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"I absolutely love being in a collar, it's been a long time since I had mine on. It has such an effect on me and changes my demeanor in seconds. Its not something I let just anyone do either. God I miss that, why can't I find a decent guy for this side of me "While there is a lot of symbolism it is more holistic than that, an anchor, a stimulus/response to a dynamic, well in my world. | |||
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"I love a collar on a woman or other x do you have a collar and what does it say? (If it says anything?)" I have several collars my partner makes me wear. | |||
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"Oh I love a collar I won't put pics of me in one though as it tends to attract dick heads. " true, I see a gag pic what kind of people do you get emailing about that? | |||
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"I love a collar on a woman or other x do you have a collar and what does it say? (If it says anything?)" There’s a woman in the village who’s always in a collar, but then she is the vicar | |||
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"I love a collar on a woman or other x do you have a collar and what does it say? (If it says anything?) There’s a woman in the village who’s always in a collar, but then she is the vicar "kinkiest ones going | |||
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"I can’t even cope with a scarf round my neck never mind a collar!" it's odd some people love it some can't stand it. I love the look | |||
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"I love a collar on a woman or other x do you have a collar and what does it say? (If it says anything?) There’s a woman in the village who’s always in a collar, but then she is the vicar kinkiest ones going "Submission to God, her Master! | |||
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"I'd like a man in one " I have plenty but never worn one as it would give off that I'm the sub | |||
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"I love a collar on a woman or other x do you have a collar and what does it say? (If it says anything?)" Fido | |||
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"I'd like a man in one " I think I’ve just found my first ever hard boundary…..the thought of that wow | |||
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"Ouizzi wears my collar, she looks quite gorgeous in it. That makes both of us happy." It’s a very pretty collar indeed | |||
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"I have quite a few from previous relationships. I have one currently that I like an awful lot. I did tell him not to get one as I won't be collared. It's beautiful though. Thin but a satisfying weight to it day collar. If they don't have the weight of expectation attached to them, I like them. "I find the collaring thing has ruined for some what really is just a sex tool and a sign of being sub. I wish they had a sort of wedding ring for owning and not use a collar. I love collars on subs and put them on them for sessions and love it if they have one, for me it's a tool to put a leash on and makes the sub easier to handle. Also fantastic to pull on when fucking doggy style x | |||
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"I have quite a few from previous relationships. I have one currently that I like an awful lot. I did tell him not to get one as I won't be collared. It's beautiful though. Thin but a satisfying weight to it day collar. If they don't have the weight of expectation attached to them, I like them. I find the collaring thing has ruined for some what really is just a sex tool and a sign of being sub. I wish they had a sort of wedding ring for owning and not use a collar. I love collars on subs and put them on them for sessions and love it if they have one, for me it's a tool to put a leash on and makes the sub easier to handle. Also fantastic to pull on when fucking doggy style x"There’s the ownership / owned symbol. People use collars for what it means to them , I’d never use as a sex toy and very rarely put a woman on a lead, I think twice in my life but love her in a pretty collar kneeling | |||
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"I have quite a few from previous relationships. I have one currently that I like an awful lot. I did tell him not to get one as I won't be collared. It's beautiful though. Thin but a satisfying weight to it day collar. If they don't have the weight of expectation attached to them, I like them. I find the collaring thing has ruined for some what really is just a sex tool and a sign of being sub. I wish they had a sort of wedding ring for owning and not use a collar. I love collars on subs and put them on them for sessions and love it if they have one, for me it's a tool to put a leash on and makes the sub easier to handle. Also fantastic to pull on when fucking doggy style x"Yes, I can understand what you mean. That doesn't mean I like secondhand collars (a person once tried to give me a used one, politely accepted it and then threw it away) but it does mean I don't want all the connotations of something that I find hot and kinky until I want it. If at all. Leashes are so deliciously hot! And underappreciated. | |||
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"I have quite a few from previous relationships. I have one currently that I like an awful lot. I did tell him not to get one as I won't be collared. It's beautiful though. Thin but a satisfying weight to it day collar. If they don't have the weight of expectation attached to them, I like them. I find the collaring thing has ruined for some what really is just a sex tool and a sign of being sub. I wish they had a sort of wedding ring for owning and not use a collar. I love collars on subs and put them on them for sessions and love it if they have one, for me it's a tool to put a leash on and makes the sub easier to handle. Also fantastic to pull on when fucking doggy style x
Yes, I can understand what you mean.
That doesn't mean I like secondhand collars (a person once tried to give me a used one, politely accepted it and then threw it away) but it does mean I don't want all the connotations of something that I find hot and kinky until I want it. If at all. Leashes are so deliciously hot! And underappreciated."indeed x I would happily buy a sub one a new one for the use in sessions and for leashed hard sex | |||
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"I have quite a few from previous relationships. I have one currently that I like an awful lot. I did tell him not to get one as I won't be collared. It's beautiful though. Thin but a satisfying weight to it day collar. If they don't have the weight of expectation attached to them, I like them. I find the collaring thing has ruined for some what really is just a sex tool and a sign of being sub. I wish they had a sort of wedding ring for owning and not use a collar. I love collars on subs and put them on them for sessions and love it if they have one, for me it's a tool to put a leash on and makes the sub easier to handle. Also fantastic to pull on when fucking doggy style x"I think there’s a lot of misconceptions about collars. Collars are a fun play toy. People like to put them on for sex/scenes because they look cute and because they can be fun for manhandling a guy or dragging him around on a lead. They’re also obviously big in the pet play community. There’s also the term “collaring” which is a term in the Ownership kink scene, in a master/sl*ve relationship. Very rare though, and often not a “collar” at all. I have collared with a bracelet and I’ve collared with a cock ring. Both were handmade, engraved, and beautiful. Some people were collars to signify being a sub, but in my experience most people don’t. I know a dominant woman who wears a collar to clubs because it’s cute and she likes it. I have a load of collars I get guys to wear. They’re not “second hand”, they are just kept for playtime. They are all different and serve different purposes. | |||
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" Wish I had a collar given to me by a really kinky dominant cpl or Hung Master. And it could say "Sissy Whore", "Sissy Fuckhole" or "Daddy's Bitch"." I’m sure there’s plenty of guys here who would love that (not me). I prefer pets with cuter names like puppy, kitten or baby fucktoy | |||
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"I have quite a few from previous relationships. I have one currently that I like an awful lot. I did tell him not to get one as I won't be collared. It's beautiful though. Thin but a satisfying weight to it day collar. If they don't have the weight of expectation attached to them, I like them. I find the collaring thing has ruined for some what really is just a sex tool and a sign of being sub. I wish they had a sort of wedding ring for owning and not use a collar. I love collars on subs and put them on them for sessions and love it if they have one, for me it's a tool to put a leash on and makes the sub easier to handle. Also fantastic to pull on when fucking doggy style x
I think there’s a lot of misconceptions about collars.
Collars are a fun play toy. People like to put them on for sex/scenes because they look cute and because they can be fun for manhandling a guy or dragging him around on a lead. They’re also obviously big in the pet play community.
There’s also the term “collaring” which is a term in the Ownership kink scene, in a master/sl*ve relationship. Very rare though, and often not a “collar” at all. I have collared with a bracelet and I’ve collared with a cock ring. Both were handmade, engraved, and beautiful.
Some people were collars to signify being a sub, but in my experience most people don’t. I know a dominant woman who wears a collar to clubs because it’s cute and she likes it.
I have a load of collars I get guys to wear. They’re not “second hand”, they are just kept for playtime. They are all different and serve different purposes."There are some beautiful mostly silver jewelry collars with symbol or concept only in form of bracelet, necklace and also bondage ring. I love this stuff, it’s quite rare. I design bondage rings in 14ct, it’s the most beautiful wedding gift | |||
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"I have quite a few from previous relationships. I have one currently that I like an awful lot. I did tell him not to get one as I won't be collared. It's beautiful though. Thin but a satisfying weight to it day collar. If they don't have the weight of expectation attached to them, I like them. I find the collaring thing has ruined for some what really is just a sex tool and a sign of being sub. I wish they had a sort of wedding ring for owning and not use a collar. I love collars on subs and put them on them for sessions and love it if they have one, for me it's a tool to put a leash on and makes the sub easier to handle. Also fantastic to pull on when fucking doggy style x
I think there’s a lot of misconceptions about collars.
Collars are a fun play toy. People like to put them on for sex/scenes because they look cute and because they can be fun for manhandling a guy or dragging him around on a lead. They’re also obviously big in the pet play community.
There’s also the term “collaring” which is a term in the Ownership kink scene, in a master/sl*ve relationship. Very rare though, and often not a “collar” at all. I have collared with a bracelet and I’ve collared with a cock ring. Both were handmade, engraved, and beautiful.
Some people were collars to signify being a sub, but in my experience most people don’t. I know a dominant woman who wears a collar to clubs because it’s cute and she likes it.
I have a load of collars I get guys to wear. They’re not “second hand”, they are just kept for playtime. They are all different and serve different purposes."I'm quite aware of the term collaring, and the reason he gave it to me. I also know the myriad of ways a person can be collared - as in what with. I used the term secondhand. In my eyes, it is. I don't want to wear something another has during sex. I also don't particularly like sex toys that have been used on others used on me. That's where clear communication comes in. And compatibility. There's no right or wrong way of approaching it, it depends on your dynamic. What you're comfortable with, together. What it signifies to you. And if relevant, the other. | |||
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