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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Your thoughts and the Arkam scale

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By *eordieJeansCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

You’re probably not allowed to talk about it on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You’re probably not allowed to talk about it on here."

Kink to far then for fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd suggest a kink site is the better place to get the discussion you want

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By *eordieJeansCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"You’re probably not allowed to talk about it on here.

Kink to far then for fab "

I could be wrong but other similar sort of stuff is banned on the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your thoughts and the Arkam scale"

I’m Batman

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Fab does not approve.

I've had photos removed for the most minor marks still being visible on my arse because it's too 'extreme' for fab.

There are plenty of kink based sites you can talk about these things on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You’re probably not allowed to talk about it on here.

Kink to far then for fab "

Impact is, yep

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Your thoughts and the Arkam scale

I’m Batman "

I’ve no idea so I googled it and all

I got was Batman stuff!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your thoughts and the Arkam scale

I’m Batman

I’ve no idea so I googled it and all

I got was Batman stuff!"

Arkam pain scale

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You’re probably not allowed to talk about it on here.

Kink to far then for fab

Impact is, yep"

The Mods will Delete i,m sure ...

Apologies all

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I like long range implements and when they beg and cry

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Your thoughts and the Arkam scale

I’m Batman

I’ve no idea so I googled it and all

I got was Batman stuff!

Arkam pain scale "

Ah I see.

My thoughts are is there a zero? That would be me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your thoughts and the Arkam scale

I’m Batman

I’ve no idea so I googled it and all

I got was Batman stuff!

Arkam pain scale

Ah I see.

My thoughts are is there a zero? That would be me. "

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By *ister_EMan
over a year ago

Hayling Island

There is a particular fettish lifestyle networking site that those of us who have a predilection for the 'dark arts' gravitate towards... Hopefully we'll see you all there sometime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We could attempt to talk about the topic in code.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your thoughts and the Arkam scale

I’m Batman

I’ve no idea so I googled it and all

I got was Batman stuff!"

I love Batman stuff.

*geek.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We could attempt to talk about the topic in code. "

Paddle or not to paddle the ducks said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We could attempt to talk about the topic in code. "

Slap dash dash slap slap dash slap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your thoughts and the Arkam scale

I’m Batman

I’ve no idea so I googled it and all

I got was Batman stuff!

Arkam pain scale

Ah I see.

My thoughts are is there a zero? That would be me. "

Now you’re talking binary

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By *ohnny3333Man
over a year ago

fleetwood

Happy for pm on this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We could attempt to talk about the topic in code.

Paddle or not to paddle the ducks said "

Belt up, ducks, it's going to be a long night!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Happy for pm on this"

Pm??? They are DMs in here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We could attempt to talk about the topic in code.

Paddle or not to paddle the ducks said

Belt up, ducks, it's going to be a long night!"

Weren't allowed be naughty school for slipper

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By *eordieJeansCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"Happy for pm on this"

What’s Sunak done now?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Happy for pm on this

What’s Sunak done now?"

Role play as prime minister

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Happy for pm on this"

PMs/DMs may get you banned too for certain topic discussions

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

My experience of the last 7 years of BDSM discussions and Fab rules is the following.

The rules are opaque and are not clear, and are interpreted differently by different moderators. There is no rule that you shall not discuss X, Y, or Z.in regard to BDSM. It is left for people to assume that Fab is relying on the "illegal subjects" rule. However BDSM, and impact are not illegal. Causing actual bodily harm is an offence, and certain acts have been banned if shown in visual form. Impact does not have to lead physical harm but Fab tends to assume that it does and bans most depictions on photos or words.

This is my explanation, there may be others.

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By *J_OuizziCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

It's such a shame that we can't discuss this subject because there are more than a few of us with a keen interest - we definitely enjoy this when it's informed & consensual.

We are more than happy to discuss it in person if we bump into fellow devotees at a club.

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By *epravedGentMan
over a year ago

London

I’ll give it a crack anyway and see how FB reacts, so…

From my experience, the scale seems fairly accurate in broad terms, although I would argue that the OTK position (which appears preferable ok the scale to a bent over position) should be higher up the list on the basis that it is slightly awkward to maintain given factors of instability and general movements made by the Domme…

Aside from that, the implement scale is fairly spot on although I’d say the most severe canings I’ve given or received have always seemed to hurt significantly more than the tawse… Perhaps I just haven’t experienced a tawsing from someone who can administer it with the efficacy required to experience its full potential…

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