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By (user no longer on site) OP   
46 weeks ago

Good evening my Gorgeous Fab friends!

Does anyone have any tips for my people? Show more “risky” pics? More text, less text?

Any help would be lovely

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
46 weeks ago

Leeds

Sorry I have no idea who “ your people “ are, so I could never divulge such information.

The mr

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
46 weeks ago

About 3 feet away from the fence

Buy a Manchester City shirt & change your user name to 'JackGrealish10' & I'm sure your profile views will increase tenfold

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By *luebell888Woman
46 weeks ago

Glasgowish

Change your bio. I don't want to ask I want to be told what you are looking for.

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By *he ass man 666Man
46 weeks ago

paradise city

Spitting is a disgusting habit

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By *ris GrayMan
46 weeks ago

Dorchester

I think your profile is perfect knee deep in clunge certainly by next year

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

CNC, rough play and especially spit would put a lot of women off I think pal.

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago


"CNC, rough play and especially spit would put a lot of women off I think pal.

"

Not all women!

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago


"Spitting is a disgusting habit "

And lube is expensive,… what can you do?

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By *ennyleeeWoman
46 weeks ago

Southampton


"CNC, rough play and especially spit would put a lot of women off I think pal.

Not all women!"

Most !

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By *he ass man 666Man
46 weeks ago

paradise city

[Removed by poster at 27/12/23 06:49:30]

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By *he ass man 666Man
46 weeks ago

paradise city


"CNC, rough play and especially spit would put a lot of women off I think pal.

Not all women!"

And you’ve described some guys perfect woman on your bio lol

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago


"CNC, rough play and especially spit would put a lot of women off I think pal.

Not all women!

Most ! "

Says who?

Don't women bang on all the time about how guys should say what they actually want. He is.

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago


"CNC, rough play and especially spit would put a lot of women off I think pal.

Not all women!

And you’ve described some guys perfect woman on your bio lol "

Most men just want a female. The rest is insignificant!

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By *he ass man 666Man
46 weeks ago

paradise city


"CNC, rough play and especially spit would put a lot of women off I think pal.

Not all women!

And you’ve described some guys perfect woman on your bio lol

Most men just want a female. The rest is insignificant!

"

Very true most do

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago


"CNC, rough play and especially spit would put a lot of women off I think pal.

Not all women!

And you’ve described some guys perfect woman on your bio lol

Most men just want a female. The rest is insignificant!

"

Damn, she has seen through us chaps. Silence her now, before others catch on.

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago


"CNC, rough play and especially spit would put a lot of women off I think pal.

Not all women!

And you’ve described some guys perfect woman on your bio lol

Most men just want a female. The rest is insignificant!

"

A Female ‘human’ … thank you very much

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago


"CNC, rough play and especially spit would put a lot of women off I think pal.

Not all women!

And you’ve described some guys perfect woman on your bio lol

Most men just want a female. The rest is insignificant!

Very true most do "

Not all m….. oh you covered that!

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By *eliWoman
46 weeks ago

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My biggest tip Op?

Do your profile the way you want to do it. I know, you're asking for advice because you're not getting the attention you'd like. Look at your profile critically - would you be drawn to messaging yourself?

Whatever you do, don't sanitise it and become a boring identikit of a profile - it's so fucking boring. Let people see who you are. The forum views really don't count for more than 20% of the site, if that.

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By *ris GrayMan
46 weeks ago

Dorchester


"My biggest tip Op?

Do your profile the way you want to do it. I know, you're asking for advice because you're not getting the attention you'd like. Look at your profile critically - would you be drawn to messaging yourself?

Whatever you do, don't sanitise it and become a boring identikit of a profile - it's so fucking boring. Let people see who you are. The forum views really don't count for more than 20% of the site, if that. "

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago


"My biggest tip Op?

Do your profile the way you want to do it. I know, you're asking for advice because you're not getting the attention you'd like. Look at your profile critically - would you be drawn to messaging yourself?

Whatever you do, don't sanitise it and become a boring identikit of a profile - it's so fucking boring. Let people see who you are. The forum views really don't count for more than 20% of the site, if that. "

What she said.

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

20 percent?? it’s less than that much much less. About five people will give an honest helpful tip maybe, and it’s in their opinion.

The rest of the comments will take the piss. Sorry, op. It’s the way it is.

Do what Meli said, be yourself.

Add pictures. Write some text.

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

I wanna know what you’re NOT into

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

You asked for reasons why... I just pointed out that some and many women would be put off by spit or CNC so you are immediately narrowing down your pool.

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago


"You asked for reasons why... I just pointed out that some and many women would be put off by spit or CNC so you are immediately narrowing down your pool.

"

But that’s who he likes, why would he want to meet those who don’t like it?

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago


"You asked for reasons why... I just pointed out that some and many women would be put off by spit or CNC so you are immediately narrowing down your pool.

"

Said like a true fab guy.

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By *ris GrayMan
46 weeks ago

Dorchester

The site is much bigger than the forums just be you, the women of the forums have been there done that and their answers are based on their experiences, some things are better not mentioned mind and discussing with your meet some of your desires would be the way forward

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago


"Good evening my Gorgeous Fab friends!

Does anyone have any tips for my people? Show more “risky” pics? More text, less text?

Any help would be lovely"

Looks great as it is. Have what you want on there. Like attracts like.

Good face pics. Good luck.

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By *midnight-Woman
46 weeks ago

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"CNC, rough play and especially spit would put a lot of women off I think pal.

Not all women!"

You forgot the hashtag #

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By *midnight-Woman
46 weeks ago

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"You asked for reasons why... I just pointed out that some and many women would be put off by spit or CNC so you are immediately narrowing down your pool.

"

Isn't that the point tho... He's looking for someone to paddle in HIS pool, dip their toe in HIS ocean... Not casting a net to catch every fish swimming past

If that's what he likes, let him list it.. And don't kink shame him

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago


"You asked for reasons why... I just pointed out that some and many women would be put off by spit or CNC so you are immediately narrowing down your pool.

Isn't that the point tho... He's looking for someone to paddle in HIS pool, dip their toe in HIS ocean... Not casting a net to catch every fish swimming past

If that's what he likes, let him list it.. And don't kink shame him"

Suggesting that you maybe don't list ALL of your kinks for everyone to see is not kink shaming.

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By *midnight-Woman
46 weeks ago

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"You asked for reasons why... I just pointed out that some and many women would be put off by spit or CNC so you are immediately narrowing down your pool.

Isn't that the point tho... He's looking for someone to paddle in HIS pool, dip their toe in HIS ocean... Not casting a net to catch every fish swimming past

If that's what he likes, let him list it.. And don't kink shame him

Suggesting that you maybe don't list ALL of your kinks for everyone to see is not kink shaming. "

I don't think that's all of them.. Just his starting /opening list

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By *midnight-Woman
46 weeks ago

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Personally I'd lose the phone number

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago


"You asked for reasons why... I just pointed out that some and many women would be put off by spit or CNC so you are immediately narrowing down your pool.

Isn't that the point tho... He's looking for someone to paddle in HIS pool, dip their toe in HIS ocean... Not casting a net to catch every fish swimming past

If that's what he likes, let him list it.. And don't kink shame him

Suggesting that you maybe don't list ALL of your kinks for everyone to see is not kink shaming. "

Maybe that’s his kink …. making lists.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
46 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Your blurb can be used to show your personality and give people a feel for the person they are to be meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago


"Personally I'd lose the phone number "

I assumed it's his nan's number.

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By *midnight-Woman
46 weeks ago

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"Personally I'd lose the phone number

I assumed it's his nan's number. "

I like the old skool wall of CDs.. Is it ironic?

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago


"Personally I'd lose the phone number

I assumed it's his nan's number.

I like the old skool wall of CDs.. Is it ironic? "

Don’t ya’ think?

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

Lose the pic of a woman with your snap code on her face (I don’t understand what you’re trying to achieve with that) and the photo where you are giving the finger. Both make you look immature.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
46 weeks ago

Leeds


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Whatever you do, don't sanitise it "

I suggest removing the urinal pic

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago


"Personally I'd lose the phone number

I assumed it's his nan's number.

I like the old skool wall of CDs.. Is it ironic? "

I thought they were books!

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By *midnight-Woman
46 weeks ago

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"Personally I'd lose the phone number

I assumed it's his nan's number.

I like the old skool wall of CDs.. Is it ironic?

I thought they were books! "

Oh are they! They look too uniform?? Maybe he's a gamer! Would be more fitting with his youff innit!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
46 weeks ago

Central

More physique shots, including chest etc would be great. Focus on what you offer to partners - sell yourself

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