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"More adventurous and it’s become less about me and more about giving pleasure than when I was younger " *** You feel more satisfied and successful when you give orgasm as well. Kind of good for the ego and proud of yourself a little bit. Right?  | |||
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"I’m ever dynamic and not static, and of course experience changes in what I like/dislike to some extent. It’s not polarising changes as in my love for giving oral is gone and replaced with a hate for giving oral, for example. " Everyone has at least slight changes in my opinion. | |||
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"I've found what I'm good at and what I like. That made it less fun as I won't put up with anything less. " *** Compromise or "Fight for your right to party"  | |||
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"Constantly evolving! I've a better idea of things I'll probably like and things I probably won't. I always enjoy finding out, though
Mrs TMN x"Everyone is playing with experimenting with something at some point. Some lucky and figures out the good and the meh. Some chickens out. Many stays on the bench and waiting to play. Some gave up and just perving on the forum. Some are too filthy to most...etc. | |||
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"Yes, it has. And it'll continue to do so I imagine, my sexuality is rather fluid (hello bisexuality), I'm discovering more of what I enjoy, more things I'd love to explore. I think a lot of it is connected to confidence; the happier I am with myself the more I want to continue exploring and enjoying sex. My libido is sadly increasing with my impending old age though (it's always been rather high) -in my forties I imagine I'm going to become something of a cougar. :D" *** Let's say you reach your limits one day. Ticked of everything you wanted. There might be some things aren't 100% a no for you, but didn't want to do for any reason. Will you experiment or just stick to the recipe for guaranteed orgasms? | |||
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"Found sex. Liked sex. Did more of the sex. When something else presented itself along the way I gave it a go if it appealed, and if it worked for me I did more of that too. I don't think my appetites have changed as such, I've learned a lot along the way, and the horn ebbs and flows within the circumstances of the time. But the base level has been pretty steady "*** I think you are kind of a free sexual spirit. Right time, right horn level. Why not type? | |||
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"I think you are kind of a free sexual spirit. Right time, right horn level. Why not type? " Pretty much. Don't fancy doing the thing? Don't do it. There's an opportunity to do something that looks or is already known to be fun? Do it | |||
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"My libido is sadly increasing with my impending old age though (it's always been rather high) -in my forties I imagine I'm going to become something of a cougar. :D *** Let's say you reach your limits one day. Ticked of everything you wanted. There might be some things aren't 100% a no for you, but didn't want to do for any reason. Will you experiment or just stick to the recipe for guaranteed orgasms? " But it's not really a case of having a ticklist of things I want to do if that makes sense? Meeting people, exploring dynamics, that's what makes me want to try things. It could be something I've done with another person before, the same person but with a different energy. I don't think there's ever a guaranteed orgasm recipe for me. So I'd just carry on doing whatever it is I'm doing now - it's not quite as binary as experiment or stick. Possibly with fewer people once I'm thirty or so years older. | |||
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"What once excited me now just bores me. And no, I don't just need the right man. " *** Find new exciting things with any man or woman you can have. Right person = Right time I had good times with someone I didn't want x years before. I fancied her before, but something didn't feel right. Years later it did and it was good. Regret I haven't done it in the first time. *** I have been with some women were extremely out of my league. Wanted them so bad. Then when I got them I felt lucky to be with them. Some was an absolute disappointment. Not much fun, except the looks. *** Not sure I got the message through. Talk a lot of shit today, and didn't even touch the Codeine yet. | |||
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"Slow to get going 20's rampant 30/40/50's, 60's variable. Kink wise more willing now to try different things" *** Getting wiser. Huh? | |||
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"My libido is sadly increasing with my impending old age though (it's always been rather high) -in my forties I imagine I'm going to become something of a cougar. :D *** Let's say you reach your limits one day. Ticked of everything you wanted. There might be some things aren't 100% a no for you, but didn't want to do for any reason. Will you experiment or just stick to the recipe for guaranteed orgasms? But it's not really a case of having a ticklist of things I want to do if that makes sense? Meeting people, exploring dynamics, that's what makes me want to try things. It could be something I've done with another person before, the same person but with a different energy. I don't think there's ever a guaranteed orgasm recipe for me. So I'd just carry on doing whatever it is I'm doing now - it's not quite as binary as experiment or stick. Possibly with fewer people once I'm thirty or so years older." *** So the dynamics and feel turns you on more than the sexual act? You can do some basic things with some and it's heaven. You can do your absolute favorite with some and it feels meh. Is that what you meant? | |||
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"I think you are kind of a free sexual spirit. Right time, right horn level. Why not type? Pretty much. Don't fancy doing the thing? Don't do it. There's an opportunity to do something that looks or is already known to be fun? Do it "*** I 100% agree with your approach/free sexual spirit, but not everyone has the same circumstances. I know some things you can change, but some things are just luck. My point is, if someone isn't that lucky, then they need to compromise at some point. It might change everything or nothing at some point. Some people might think like you just 50+ or never at all. Well, technically I can think/want/like whatever I want, but need the tools to get them. Some I can develop, but some I can't. I'm kind of afraid at some point I'm going to be disappointed with things/people I really wanted when/if I get them. Not sure how it will effect me, if it happens. I have massive will power. If I really want something I try everything, unless it's involving something is really not me. *** Not the same, but probably coming through better. 1. You really want to buy/do something. Looks really cool, but don't have enough money. You get a second job, just to save money for that. Work your ass of for months. The day comes and you buy/do it. It is/was absolutely shit, but no refund. * 2. The end is the same, but you have loads of money, so you can buy/do many other things. *** Different experiences. Both have some good and bad, but the 1st one will affect you more. learn the most from the first one as well. Maybe even become a better human being, because of the first one. Many good things can come out of the first one, but still far-far away from what you wanted/fighted/suffered for. | |||
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"Different experiences. Both have some good and bad, but the 1st one will affect you more. learn the most from the first one as well. Maybe even become a better human being, because of the first one. Many good things can come out of the first one, but still far-far away from what you wanted/fighted/suffered for. " So, people less aesthetically blessed have more capacity for being better people? I spent a lot of my life thinking I was disgusting to look at. I may actually be attractive overall to a lot of people now, but that doesn't mean every sexual experience has been handed to me on a silver platter. | |||
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"It’s not my tastes that have changed, but I do find my sexual appetite is dependent on the object of my lust. Some men have a cock you just want to squat on and you have to be forcibly removed because you just can’t get enough of them sexually. " Keep a little goodie basket at arm reach from your bed. Stock it with protein bars, energy drinks, condoms, viagra, nicotine patches, heart medicines, painkillers and insulin. Nobody will "forcibly remove" you from their cock ever. | |||
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" But it's not really a case of having a ticklist of things I want to do if that makes sense? Meeting people, exploring dynamics, that's what makes me want to try things. It could be something I've done with another person before, the same person but with a different energy. I don't think there's ever a guaranteed orgasm recipe for me. So I'd just carry on doing whatever it is I'm doing now - it's not quite as binary as experiment or stick. Possibly with fewer people once I'm thirty or so years older. *** So the dynamics and feel turns you on more than the sexual act? You can do some basic things with some and it's heaven. You can do your absolute favorite with some and it feels meh. Is that what you meant? " Kind of. My absolute favourite things would never feel meh but... yes, for me, it's more about the dynamics, the feel, the other's responses that turns me on. Sexual acts can be really hot but how it is can vary so much from person to person. Let's take oral sex. I've posted a couple of times about my love for it - even that can have so many different variations. Some people I want to worship their cock/cunt, with others I want to be throatfucked until I'm cockdr*nk. Some people I can't get enough of giving them oral and I'd happily do so for hours, with others, whilst they might enjoy it they become impatient to fuck me. I think for me it's more about the experience rather than standalone sex acts. | |||
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"Different experiences. Both have some good and bad, but the 1st one will affect you more. learn the most from the first one as well. Maybe even become a better human being, because of the first one. Many good things can come out of the first one, but still far-far away from what you wanted/fighted/suffered for. So, people less aesthetically blessed have more capacity for being better people? I spent a lot of my life thinking I was disgusting to look at. I may actually be attractive overall to a lot of people now, but that doesn't mean every sexual experience has been handed to me on a silver platter." *** Luck isn't = good looks Good looks isn't = Luck Many other things can affect luck. Not all beautiful women are perfect/think they are perfect. Plus vice versa. Looks attracting some bad things too. I meant in general luck. | |||
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"I mean: Kinks escalated or you calmed down? " I’ve started to infrequently enjoy my kinks rather than them being just fantasies " More horny or less? " I’m horny all the time, I always have been. " Taste in porn changed? " Thanks to the Internet and I don’t think I even have a taste in porn, it’s whatever pops up first…haha. " Masturbate in a different way? " I have a cup, there’s only one way I masturbate. " More adventurous in sex or stick to your basics? " Life is an adventure, make of that what you will
" You do what you always liked? " I wish!! 
" Experimenting with something you were scared to do before, or wasn't a turn on before? " see my answer above
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" But it's not really a case of having a ticklist of things I want to do if that makes sense? Meeting people, exploring dynamics, that's what makes me want to try things. It could be something I've done with another person before, the same person but with a different energy. I don't think there's ever a guaranteed orgasm recipe for me. So I'd just carry on doing whatever it is I'm doing now - it's not quite as binary as experiment or stick. Possibly with fewer people once I'm thirty or so years older. *** So the dynamics and feel turns you on more than the sexual act? You can do some basic things with some and it's heaven. You can do your absolute favorite with some and it feels meh. Is that what you meant? Kind of. My absolute favourite things would never feel meh but... yes, for me, it's more about the dynamics, the feel, the other's responses that turns me on. Sexual acts can be really hot but how it is can vary so much from person to person. Let's take oral sex. I've posted a couple of times about my love for it - even that can have so many different variations. Some people I want to worship their cock/cunt, with others I want to be throatfucked until I'm cockdr*nk. Some people I can't get enough of giving them oral and I'd happily do so for hours, with others, whilst they might enjoy it they become impatient to fuck me. I think for me it's more about the experience rather than standalone sex acts." *** Really educating read and didn't turn me on at all. 
Impatience is not always what it seems.
I had (my last) ONS long time ago.
Had a really irregular, then no sex in the end of my marriage.
So obviously it had a mark on my performance(timing).
This woman was really nice, so I wanted something regular.
(turned out she just cheated on her BF with me)
I've done my part in the foreplay first.
Used all my (secret) magic tricks and I made her cum during oral.
It was her turn then.
She was doing all the right things (Not kissing the head too long, lick the balls, deep throat, not being too gentle...etc.)
I pulled out after 5 minutes and actually hit her in the eye with a really hard cock. I apologized and we went to the sex part, but she was holding her eye for a good 20 seconds before.
Wasn't cumming yet, but I wanted to make her cum again.
She knew I didn't have sex for 3 years at that time, so unlikely last for an hour.
It was:
10% impatience
30% ego boost (if she cums again)
70% wanted to satisfy her
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I lasted for another 20 minutes.
It's not much, but not bad after 3 years of nothing.
It would have been 15 minutes or less, if I wouldn't have pulled out during oral.
She came around 18 minutes again, but...
She gave me the look, when I let her know in the 15th minute, that I will cum in a few minutes.
"Cumming soon"
She said: "Already?"
She came 3 minutes later, so the warning was good.
I came 5 minutes later, so she had 2 orgasms in total.
Both happy, but I guess her boyfriend was better.
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"I mean: Kinks escalated or you calmed down? I’ve started to infrequently enjoy my kinks rather than them being just fantasies More horny or less? I’m horny all the time, I always have been. Taste in porn changed? Thanks to the Internet and I don’t think I even have a taste in porn, it’s whatever pops up first…haha. Masturbate in a different way? I have a cup, there’s only one way I masturbate. More adventurous in sex or stick to your basics? Life is an adventure, make of that what you will
You do what you always liked?
I wish!!
Experimenting with something you were scared to do before, or wasn't a turn on before?
see my answer above
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" But it's not really a case of having a ticklist of things I want to do if that makes sense? Meeting people, exploring dynamics, that's what makes me want to try things. It could be something I've done with another person before, the same person but with a different energy. I don't think there's ever a guaranteed orgasm recipe for me. So I'd just carry on doing whatever it is I'm doing now - it's not quite as binary as experiment or stick. Possibly with fewer people once I'm thirty or so years older. *** So the dynamics and feel turns you on more than the sexual act? You can do some basic things with some and it's heaven. You can do your absolute favorite with some and it feels meh. Is that what you meant? Kind of. My absolute favourite things would never feel meh but... yes, for me, it's more about the dynamics, the feel, the other's responses that turns me on. Sexual acts can be really hot but how it is can vary so much from person to person. Let's take oral sex. I've posted a couple of times about my love for it - even that can have so many different variations. Some people I want to worship their cock/cunt, with others I want to be throatfucked until I'm cockdr*nk. Some people I can't get enough of giving them oral and I'd happily do so for hours, with others, whilst they might enjoy it they become impatient to fuck me. I think for me it's more about the experience rather than standalone sex acts. *** Really educating read and didn't turn me on at all.
Impatience is not always what it seems.
I had (my last) ONS long time ago.
Had a really irregular, then no sex in the end of my marriage.
So obviously it had a mark on my performance(timing).
This woman was really nice, so I wanted something regular.
(turned out she just cheated on her BF with me)
I've done my part in the foreplay first.
Used all my (secret) magic tricks and I made her cum during oral.
It was her turn then.
She was doing all the right things (Not kissing the head too long, lick the balls, deep throat, not being too gentle...etc.)
I pulled out after 5 minutes and actually hit her in the eye with a really hard cock. I apologized and we went to the sex part, but she was holding her eye for a good 20 seconds before.
Wasn't cumming yet, but I wanted to make her cum again.
She knew I didn't have sex for 3 years at that time, so unlikely last for an hour.
It was:
10% impatience
30% ego boost (if she cums again)
70% wanted to satisfy her
*
I lasted for another 20 minutes.
It's not much, but not bad after 3 years of nothing.
It would have been 15 minutes or less, if I wouldn't have pulled out during oral.
She came around 18 minutes again, but...
She gave me the look, when I let her know in the 15th minute, that I will cum in a few minutes.
"Cumming soon"
She said: "Already?"
She came 3 minutes later, so the warning was good.
I came 5 minutes later, so she had 2 orgasms in total.
Both happy, but I guess her boyfriend was better.
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"I …. " Experimenting with something you were scared to do before, or wasn't a turn on before? " Ermm...Candle in your bum the other day. I know you made most think you were just joking. " you’d think wax would help sliding in and out as well wouldn’t you? | |||
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" But it's not really a case of having a ticklist of things I want to do if that makes sense? Meeting people, exploring dynamics, that's what makes me want to try things. It could be something I've done with another person before, the same person but with a different energy. I don't think there's ever a guaranteed orgasm recipe for me. So I'd just carry on doing whatever it is I'm doing now - it's not quite as binary as experiment or stick. Possibly with fewer people once I'm thirty or so years older. *** So the dynamics and feel turns you on more than the sexual act? You can do some basic things with some and it's heaven. You can do your absolute favorite with some and it feels meh. Is that what you meant? Kind of. My absolute favourite things would never feel meh but... yes, for me, it's more about the dynamics, the feel, the other's responses that turns me on. Sexual acts can be really hot but how it is can vary so much from person to person. Let's take oral sex. I've posted a couple of times about my love for it - even that can have so many different variations. Some people I want to worship their cock/cunt, with others I want to be throatfucked until I'm cockdr*nk. Some people I can't get enough of giving them oral and I'd happily do so for hours, with others, whilst they might enjoy it they become impatient to fuck me. I think for me it's more about the experience rather than standalone sex acts. *** Really educating read and didn't turn me on at all.
Impatience is not always what it seems.
I had (my last) ONS long time ago.
Had a really irregular, then no sex in the end of my marriage.
So obviously it had a mark on my performance(timing).
This woman was really nice, so I wanted something regular.
(turned out she just cheated on her BF with me)
I've done my part in the foreplay first.
Used all my (secret) magic tricks and I made her cum during oral.
It was her turn then.
She was doing all the right things (Not kissing the head too long, lick the balls, deep throat, not being too gentle...etc.)
I pulled out after 5 minutes and actually hit her in the eye with a really hard cock. I apologized and we went to the sex part, but she was holding her eye for a good 20 seconds before.
Wasn't cumming yet, but I wanted to make her cum again.
She knew I didn't have sex for 3 years at that time, so unlikely last for an hour.
It was:
10% impatience
30% ego boost (if she cums again)
70% wanted to satisfy her
*
I lasted for another 20 minutes.
It's not much, but not bad after 3 years of nothing.
It would have been 15 minutes or less, if I wouldn't have pulled out during oral.
She came around 18 minutes again, but...
She gave me the look, when I let her know in the 15th minute, that I will cum in a few minutes.
"Cumming soon"
She said: "Already?"
She came 3 minutes later, so the warning was good.
I came 5 minutes later, so she had 2 orgasms in total.
Both happy, but I guess her boyfriend was better.
I don’t know whether to be impressed (or not) by your articulate timekeeping during sex.
I don’t know if it’s taken me two minutes or 90 minutes to cum or how long my partner has lasted. You seriously time this stuff? "Only when I see the clock. Otherwise I wing it. It sounds worse than it is, but it's for mutual benefit. First position mostly doggy, so nobody can see my quick look at the clock. Obviously my regular partners knew about it. Not doing that during make up sex, or quickie. Not doing it always either. Mostly when I feel I'm rusty or failed to make her cum last time. Some people think about other things to control timing. Time is enough for me, and it doesn't distract me. | |||
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" But it's not really a case of having a ticklist of things I want to do if that makes sense? Meeting people, exploring dynamics, that's what makes me want to try things. It could be something I've done with another person before, the same person but with a different energy. I don't think there's ever a guaranteed orgasm recipe for me. So I'd just carry on doing whatever it is I'm doing now - it's not quite as binary as experiment or stick. Possibly with fewer people once I'm thirty or so years older. *** So the dynamics and feel turns you on more than the sexual act? You can do some basic things with some and it's heaven. You can do your absolute favorite with some and it feels meh. Is that what you meant? Kind of. My absolute favourite things would never feel meh but... yes, for me, it's more about the dynamics, the feel, the other's responses that turns me on. Sexual acts can be really hot but how it is can vary so much from person to person. Let's take oral sex. I've posted a couple of times about my love for it - even that can have so many different variations. Some people I want to worship their cock/cunt, with others I want to be throatfucked until I'm cockdr*nk. Some people I can't get enough of giving them oral and I'd happily do so for hours, with others, whilst they might enjoy it they become impatient to fuck me. I think for me it's more about the experience rather than standalone sex acts. *** Really educating read and didn't turn me on at all.
Impatience is not always what it seems.
I had (my last) ONS long time ago.
Had a really irregular, then no sex in the end of my marriage.
So obviously it had a mark on my performance(timing).
This woman was really nice, so I wanted something regular.
(turned out she just cheated on her BF with me)
I've done my part in the foreplay first.
Used all my (secret) magic tricks and I made her cum during oral.
It was her turn then.
She was doing all the right things (Not kissing the head too long, lick the balls, deep throat, not being too gentle...etc.)
I pulled out after 5 minutes and actually hit her in the eye with a really hard cock. I apologized and we went to the sex part, but she was holding her eye for a good 20 seconds before.
Wasn't cumming yet, but I wanted to make her cum again.
She knew I didn't have sex for 3 years at that time, so unlikely last for an hour.
It was:
10% impatience
30% ego boost (if she cums again)
70% wanted to satisfy her
*
I lasted for another 20 minutes.
It's not much, but not bad after 3 years of nothing.
It would have been 15 minutes or less, if I wouldn't have pulled out during oral.
She came around 18 minutes again, but...
She gave me the look, when I let her know in the 15th minute, that I will cum in a few minutes.
"Cumming soon"
She said: "Already?"
She came 3 minutes later, so the warning was good.
I came 5 minutes later, so she had 2 orgasms in total.
Both happy, but I guess her boyfriend was better.
I don’t know whether to be impressed (or not) by your articulate timekeeping during sex.
I don’t know if it’s taken me two minutes or 90 minutes to cum or how long my partner has lasted. You seriously time this stuff?
Only when I see the clock.
Otherwise I wing it.
It sounds worse than it is, but it's for mutual benefit.
First position mostly doggy, so nobody can see my quick look at the clock.
Obviously my regular partners knew about it.
Not doing that during make up sex, or quickie.
Not doing it always either.
Mostly when I feel I'm rusty or failed to make her cum last time.
Some people think about other things to control timing.
Time is enough for me, and it doesn't distract me."Ahh you’re a ninja then and not taking away from the experience or making her feel like you’re click watching. They would be odd. Thanks for explaining. Makes sense now. | |||
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"I mean: Kinks escalated or you calmed down? More horny or less? Taste in porn changed? Masturbate in a different way? More adventurous in sex or stick to your basics? You do what you always liked? Experimenting with something you were scared to do before, or wasn't a turn on before? " Definitely kinkier and more adventurous .. And despite in my 20s thinking I knew it all... I didn't.. Sex is so much better in 50s... Getting better and better every time | |||
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"I mean: Kinks escalated or you calmed down? My kinks have grown, but Im excited to know if just scratched the surface and what to experience more. More horny or less? -It's been changeable. These past few months have been a fucker as my body has been all over the place. But I was feeling really really really horny last night, so I think my body is getting back to normal that way too :D Taste in porn changed? - not really still like the amateur stuff the rest seems even more fake. Masturbate in a different way? - nope, I found what I love, I change it up a bit now and again to try how much I like something but I know what makes my body sing, so I don't often stray far. More adventurous in sex or stick to your basics? -it depends, if you excite me and we feed of each other, it's adventurous. If not (although it still maybe great), bog standard sex it is. You do what you always liked? --I'm up for experimenting, definitely. " *** You took it like a survey. Appreciate the honesty. | |||
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"I mean: Kinks escalated or you calmed down? More horny or less? Taste in porn changed? Masturbate in a different way? More adventurous in sex or stick to your basics? You do what you always liked? Experimenting with something you were scared to do before, or wasn't a turn on before? " Mmmmm, interesting. I'm not really doing anything I hadn't done 30-odd years ago but with different people but I'm getting more non-vanilla sex now as being bi has become more mainstream, and there are more couples looking for mmfs as opposed to straight swap, so it's the scene that's changed more than me. I am not as interested in porn Everything else pretty much the same but predictably my performance is more variable with age and I use Viagra post-prostate cancer. | |||
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"I did too much sexually weird shit in my mid/late 30's and now I feel like I've about fulfilled my bucket list. I really can't be bothered chasing the tiny percent of people willing to go into the extremes needed for me to be interested so I'm happy just not to have sex again now. I've completed it, or the parts I wanted to anyway and there's things in life I'd far rather be doing " Yeah this. | |||
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"...how it is can vary so much from person to person. Let's take oral sex. I've posted a couple of times about my love for it - even that can have so many different variations. Some people I want to worship their cock/cunt, with others I want to be throatfucked until I'm cockdr*nk. Some people I can't get enough of giving them oral and I'd happily do so for hours, with others, whilst they might enjoy it they become impatient to fuck me. I think for me it's more about the experience rather than standalone sex acts. *** Really educating read and didn't turn me on at all. "Ha, I wasn't trying to. I just waffled, apologies. "Impatience is not always what it seems. I had (my last) ONS long time ago. Had a really irregular, then no sex in the end of my marriage. So obviously it had a mark on my performance(timing)... unlikely last for an know in the 15th minute, that I will cum in a few minutes. "Cumming soon"" How do you know the timings so well? | |||
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"...how it is can vary so much from person to person. Let's take oral sex. I've posted a couple of times about my love for it - even that can have so many different variations. Some people I want to worship their cock/cunt, with others I want to be throatfucked until I'm cockdr*nk. Some people I can't get enough of giving them oral and I'd happily do so for hours, with others, whilst they might enjoy it they become impatient to fuck me. I think for me it's more about the experience rather than standalone sex acts. *** Really educating read and didn't turn me on at all.
Ha, I wasn't trying to. I just waffled, apologies.
Impatience is not always what it seems.
I had (my last) ONS long time ago.
Had a really irregular, then no sex in the end of my marriage.
So obviously it had a mark on my performance(timing)... unlikely last for an know in the 15th minute, that I will cum in a few minutes.
"Cumming soon"
How do you know the timings so well? "*** I feel it and know myself. Unless I get surprised with something unexpected. | |||
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"I …. " Experimenting with something you were scared to do before, or wasn't a turn on before? " Ermm...Candle in your bum the other day. I know you made most think you were just joking.
you’d think wax would help sliding in and out as well wouldn’t you? "I get wax on my delicate parts every 4 weeks. I can assure you it in no way works as a lube. MrsAbz | |||
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"I …. " Experimenting with something you were scared to do before, or wasn't a turn on before? " Ermm...Candle in your bum the other day. I know you made most think you were just joking.
you’d think wax would help sliding in and out as well wouldn’t you?
I get wax on my delicate parts every 4 weeks. I can assure you it in no way works as a lube.
MrsAbz "*** How painful is it? Bear in mind I have moving and shape changing parts. | |||
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"I …. " Experimenting with something you were scared to do before, or wasn't a turn on before? " Ermm...Candle in your bum the other day. I know you made most think you were just joking.
you’d think wax would help sliding in and out as well wouldn’t you?
I get wax on my delicate parts every 4 weeks. I can assure you it in no way works as a lube.
MrsAbz
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How painful is it?
Bear in mind I have moving and shape changing parts.
"It is bearable but not what I class as a fun time. I have been known to utter the odd yelp and swear word. The hotness of the wax going on is actually quite a nice sensation. Its more the ripping off after that leads to the ow factor MrsAbz | |||
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"I …. " Experimenting with something you were scared to do before, or wasn't a turn on before? " Ermm...Candle in your bum the other day. I know you made most think you were just joking.
you’d think wax would help sliding in and out as well wouldn’t you?
I get wax on my delicate parts every 4 weeks. I can assure you it in no way works as a lube.
MrsAbz
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How painful is it?
Bear in mind I have moving and shape changing parts.
It is bearable but not what I class as a fun time. I have been known to utter the odd yelp and swear word.
The hotness of the wax going on is actually quite a nice sensation. Its more the ripping off after that leads to the ow factor
MrsAbz "*** Cock can handle a lot. My sack I'm worried about. ***None existing really scared emoji*** (Using cream now, but it's not the best and doesn't last) | |||
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"I …. " Experimenting with something you were scared to do before, or wasn't a turn on before? " Ermm...Candle in your bum the other day. I know you made most think you were just joking.
you’d think wax would help sliding in and out as well wouldn’t you?
I get wax on my delicate parts every 4 weeks. I can assure you it in no way works as a lube.
MrsAbz
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How painful is it?
Bear in mind I have moving and shape changing parts.
It is bearable but not what I class as a fun time. I have been known to utter the odd yelp and swear word.
The hotness of the wax going on is actually quite a nice sensation. Its more the ripping off after that leads to the ow factor
MrsAbz
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Cock can handle a lot.
My sack I'm worried about.
***None existing really scared emoji***
(Using cream now, but it's not the best and doesn't last)"Oh no! Cream is terrible and far too much risk of burn. I can imagine wax could be painful with the stretchy skin though but it lasts better MrsAbz | |||
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"I …. " Experimenting with something you were scared to do before, or wasn't a turn on before? " Ermm...Candle in your bum the other day. I know you made most think you were just joking.
you’d think wax would help sliding in and out as well wouldn’t you?
I get wax on my delicate parts every 4 weeks. I can assure you it in no way works as a lube.
MrsAbz
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How painful is it?
Bear in mind I have moving and shape changing parts.
It is bearable but not what I class as a fun time. I have been known to utter the odd yelp and swear word.
The hotness of the wax going on is actually quite a nice sensation. Its more the ripping off after that leads to the ow factor
MrsAbz
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Cock can handle a lot.
My sack I'm worried about.
***None existing really scared emoji***
(Using cream now, but it's not the best and doesn't last)
Oh no! Cream is terrible and far too much risk of burn.
I can imagine wax could be painful with the stretchy skin though but it lasts better
MrsAbz "*** Not sure it's worth it, if it will hurt when someone licks it. Scream with every thrust when it slaps against the thighs. | |||
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"I …. " Experimenting with something you were scared to do before, or wasn't a turn on before? " Ermm...Candle in your bum the other day. I know you made most think you were just joking.
you’d think wax would help sliding in and out as well wouldn’t you?
I get wax on my delicate parts every 4 weeks. I can assure you it in no way works as a lube.
MrsAbz
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How painful is it?
Bear in mind I have moving and shape changing parts.
It is bearable but not what I class as a fun time. I have been known to utter the odd yelp and swear word.
The hotness of the wax going on is actually quite a nice sensation. Its more the ripping off after that leads to the ow factor
MrsAbz
***
Cock can handle a lot.
My sack I'm worried about.
***None existing really scared emoji***
(Using cream now, but it's not the best and doesn't last)
Oh no! Cream is terrible and far too much risk of burn.
I can imagine wax could be painful with the stretchy skin though but it lasts better
MrsAbz
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Not sure it's worth it, if it will hurt when someone licks it.
Scream with every thrust when it slaps against the thighs.
"Nah its fine after. They rub soothing cream on. At least mine does
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"I …. " Experimenting with something you were scared to do before, or wasn't a turn on before? " Ermm...Candle in your bum the other day. I know you made most think you were just joking.
you’d think wax would help sliding in and out as well wouldn’t you?
I get wax on my delicate parts every 4 weeks. I can assure you it in no way works as a lube.
MrsAbz
***
How painful is it?
Bear in mind I have moving and shape changing parts.
It is bearable but not what I class as a fun time. I have been known to utter the odd yelp and swear word.
The hotness of the wax going on is actually quite a nice sensation. Its more the ripping off after that leads to the ow factor
MrsAbz
***
Cock can handle a lot.
My sack I'm worried about.
***None existing really scared emoji***
(Using cream now, but it's not the best and doesn't last)
Oh no! Cream is terrible and far too much risk of burn.
I can imagine wax could be painful with the stretchy skin though but it lasts better
MrsAbz
***
Not sure it's worth it, if it will hurt when someone licks it.
Scream with every thrust when it slaps against the thighs.
Nah its fine after. They rub soothing cream on.
At least mine does
MrsAbz "I'll order it and try it. Probably will make a selfie when I pull it off from the sack. If it will hurt too much, then you will remind me of painful memories all the time. | |||
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"I …. " Experimenting with something you were scared to do before, or wasn't a turn on before? " Ermm...Candle in your bum the other day. I know you made most think you were just joking.
you’d think wax would help sliding in and out as well wouldn’t you?
I get wax on my delicate parts every 4 weeks. I can assure you it in no way works as a lube.
MrsAbz
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How painful is it?
Bear in mind I have moving and shape changing parts.
It is bearable but not what I class as a fun time. I have been known to utter the odd yelp and swear word.
The hotness of the wax going on is actually quite a nice sensation. Its more the ripping off after that leads to the ow factor
MrsAbz
***
Cock can handle a lot.
My sack I'm worried about.
***None existing really scared emoji***
(Using cream now, but it's not the best and doesn't last)
Oh no! Cream is terrible and far too much risk of burn.
I can imagine wax could be painful with the stretchy skin though but it lasts better
MrsAbz
***
Not sure it's worth it, if it will hurt when someone licks it.
Scream with every thrust when it slaps against the thighs.
Nah its fine after. They rub soothing cream on.
At least mine does
MrsAbz
I'll order it and try it.
Probably will make a selfie when I pull it off from the sack.
If it will hurt too much, then you will remind me of painful memories all the time.
"Please do a selfie, it would make me giggle so much! You'll remind me of amusing chatter so its a fair swap 
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" Please do a selfie, it would make me giggle so much! You'll remind me of amusing chatter so its a fair swap
MrsAbz "*** What are you trying to say? Am I not amusing enough for you now? My pain would cause pleasure for you? | |||
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" Please do a selfie, it would make me giggle so much! You'll remind me of amusing chatter so its a fair swap
MrsAbz
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What are you trying to say?
Am I not amusing enough for you now?
My pain would cause pleasure for you?
"With a little pain comes pleasure, sometimes
You might enjoy it
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" Please do a selfie, it would make me giggle so much! You'll remind me of amusing chatter so its a fair swap
MrsAbz
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What are you trying to say?
Am I not amusing enough for you now?
My pain would cause pleasure for you?
With a little pain comes pleasure, sometimes
You might enjoy it
MrsAbz "*** This might be a new kink. Pull of a few strips during wank. Maybe the only way I will pleasure myself from now on. | |||
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"Way way more adventurous! Till I came here I had only had 2 men from my first till I was 60! Quite boring! literally 1 till I was 35 and the other till I was 48 x"*** Big change and adventure for you then. | |||
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"i fed my kinks so they got bigger and stronger " *** How big they can grow? Are you going to draw a line somewhere? | |||
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"Probably less libido. Wifey seems even less interested than ever and I'm really loosing enthusiasm in trying to get her enthusiastic. I honestly don't think she would care less if I found a couple on here to play with but no luck and to be honest I don't have the time or inclination to message loads of random people in the vague hope of getting a reply. Hey-ho...." . Good luck! | |||
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"I am in full experimental mode. My sex life has never been better." *** Happy for you | |||
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"I've cut back loads used to be wild long before fab and in between. priorities took over Porn doesn't interest me unless I'm in it "*** Did you shave your mustache off Ron? | |||
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"My sexual interests and preferences have changed so much since my adolescence. They say knowledge is power and the internet has given us all a chance to investigate new things and satisfy curiosities that we're never there before. I'm definitely watching more varied porn than I did when I was younger but again I think that has been because of easier access to it which has also fuelled eagerness to enquire and be educated. Tom " *** Yes, internet gave access to more knowledge and filth. | |||
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"I've cut back loads used to be wild long before fab and in between. priorities took over Porn doesn't interest me unless I'm in it
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Did you shave your mustache off Ron?
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"I've cut back loads used to be wild long before fab and in between. priorities took over Porn doesn't interest me unless I'm in it
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Did you shave your mustache off Ron?
I blame him for actually making me this way "*** Can you do a Ron Jeremy cuming face too? | |||
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