FabSwingers.com forum: Longest spell without

By *litpleaser OP Man
38 weeks ago

Oldham

I've just realised that it's been almost 6 months since I last had sex... the longest time ever in my adult life...I really don't want to make it to 6 months... please please please help

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

My longest spell was when my partner was pregnant and couldn’t have sex

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By *agnar73Man
38 weeks ago

Glasgow

Had a two year drought before joining fab.

Six months isn’t that bad.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
38 weeks ago

Lincoln

I want to say it was about eighteen months or so

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

"I've just realised that it's been almost 600 months since I last had sex... the longest time ever in my adult life...I really don't want to make it to 601 months... please please please help

That's awful

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By *929Man
38 weeks ago

newcastle

Went a few years when younger it was at a point where a breakup still hurt all my mates had lasses so nobody to hang around/go out with regular and just spent time working, restoring a car and getting shitfaced d*unk every Friday and Saturday

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By *ookie46Woman
38 weeks ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Now on my longest drought of over 3 months since 2016

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Months, years. Can't say it bothers me really.

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By *eordieJeansCouple
38 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

A couple of years I think after a bad breakup. I had no interest in sex and just wanted to work on myself before getting involved with anyone else.

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By *xfordjohnMan
38 weeks ago

Oxford

"I've just realised that it's been almost 6 months since I last had sex... the longest time ever in my adult life...I really don't want to make it to 6 months... please please please help

Sorry to read that. Hope 2024 brings you better luck.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
38 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

About 8 years when I was married…

My hands had never been so busy

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By *affron40Woman
38 weeks ago

manchester

Must be knocking on for 2 years now.. not bothered really. Sometimes life makes the choice for us. Next year….

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By *litpleaser OP Man
38 weeks ago

Oldham

"Had a two year drought before joining fab.

Six months isn’t that bad."

It bloody is

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By *litpleaser OP Man
38 weeks ago

Oldham

"Now on my longest drought of over 3 months since 2016 "

Perhaps we could help each other

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By *alcon77Man
38 weeks ago

under the sun & the moon

I've had a 12 year spell.

You're all amateurs..

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By *affron40Woman
38 weeks ago

manchester

"I've had a 12 year spell.

You're all amateurs.."

hello you

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By *atisfactorMan
38 weeks ago

Letterkenny

It's been 2+ years. I almost forgot how actual sex feels like. Trying to change that now. Hope Santa will grant me someone with a similar situation.

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By *alcon77Man
38 weeks ago

under the sun & the moon

"I've had a 12 year spell.

You're all amateurs..

hello you "

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By *ddie1966Man
38 weeks ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.

I can't have sex.

It's in my contract you see.....

Professional Eunach..

Just like my Dad and my Grandad

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By *alcon77Man
38 weeks ago

under the sun & the moon

"It's been 2+ years. I almost forgot how actual sex feels like. Trying to change that now. Hope Santa will grant me someone with a similar situation. "

Yeah i know what you mean, it's like your virginity grows back almost.

Probably not the healthiest thing to do what i did, but at the same time it's not the end of the world..there were other things i was focused on.

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Oh the anxiety of no sex in months did that include 6 months of no wanks op.

I am like Vermouth.. Dry

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Still not available on a whim or filling that dry spell. Life prevented it covid helped it. Not phased

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
38 weeks ago

little house on the praire

Three + years and counting. I've given up sex through choice

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By *litpleaser OP Man
38 weeks ago

Oldham

"Three + years and counting. I've given up sex through choice"

Certainly not my choice

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By *inky ChefMan
38 weeks ago

Norwich

"I've just realised that it's been almost 6 months since I last had sex... the longest time ever in my adult life...I really don't want to make it to 6 months... please please please help

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It was 4 years in october.

I used to have 6 months max.

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Three/four years. Could have had sex two or three times during that period but turned it down. My problem is that women on Fab who are interested in me seem to want a more serious relationship, and so I won't have sex with them. It's a curse

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By *uby StarCouple
38 weeks ago

Durham

My longest has been 6 weeks, after childbirth. I honestly don't know how people go so long without having sex. I love it too much.

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By *iftyishMan
38 weeks ago

South Coast

8 years in May, honestly.

Happy Xmas to all

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By *inky ChefMan
38 weeks ago

Norwich

"My longest has been 6 weeks, after childbirth. I honestly don't know how people go so long without having sex. I love it too much."

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Men don't get it easy.

It's not a choice.

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By *zeroMan
38 weeks ago

Glasgow

18 montha. Lack of sex in a relationship and then after the split.

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

6 months? Amateur

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Couple of years, maybe more now. Not really counted.

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By *ittlelad69Man
38 weeks ago

clay cross

I’m on 8 months at the minute the wife has gone completely off sex

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By *ucka39Man
38 weeks ago

Newcastle

5 years my choice plus the pandemic

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By *heYorkshireGuyMan
38 weeks ago

Hull

Almost 4 years

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By *inky ChefMan
38 weeks ago

Norwich

"5 years my choice plus the pandemic "

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Pandemic and chef shortage took 2 years from me as well.

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By *odevilWoman
38 weeks ago

exeter

W...I...T...H...O...U...T

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By *hagTonightMan
38 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

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By *hagTonightMan
38 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

I am on it now, the last time was 7 years ago

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By *inky ChefMan
38 weeks ago

Norwich

"I am on it now, the last time was 7 years ago

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I'm a fucking pussy whinging about my 4 years then.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
38 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

I tell people it's been 5 years, but it's more like 6.5

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By *inky ChefMan
38 weeks ago

Norwich

"I tell people it's been 5 years, but it's more like 6.5"

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Rounding down?

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

What's the time?

*checks time*

Two-thirty...

Yeah about 5 hours

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

"What's the time?

*checks time*

Two-thirty...

Yeah about 5 hours

Hol' up scratch that

My Wife has just presented herself to me

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By *ewjordanMan
38 weeks ago

harrow

Woman or make 3 weeks is long but same people

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By *ealitybitesMan
38 weeks ago

Belfast

10 years.

The entirety of my 40s.

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By *linton BaptisteMan
38 weeks ago

Didsbury

About 3 months. POF date and sounded great on phone but met her and add 5 stone. Still had some fun but age, movement and patience is waining. I even took a karma sutra book up but didn’t get passed page 3

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By *linton BaptisteMan
38 weeks ago

Didsbury

"What's the time?

*checks time*

Two-thirty...

Yeah about 5 hours

That’s dentist time

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Try ten years, thats where im at. I know its never gonna happen again sadly

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Nine years in spring 2024 for me. I think my sex life is completely over.

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By *linton BaptisteMan
38 weeks ago

Didsbury

Awareness my friend was 10 years. Shave them pubes, get another top saying something about you? Like “number 69” on back with TenYearsWithout as a name. I saw one man with a A board standing at around about saying he was single with mobile number on it. He was inundated with offers-try and fail rather than never try at all

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

"I've just realised that it's been almost 6 months since I last had sex... ."

Amateur numbers.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
38 weeks ago

Leeds

Oh no poor you 6 months, best grab my coat for a sympathy shag then, can't have that can we.

Mrs

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By *red333Man
38 weeks ago

Dorchester

When i was married i went without for many years now I'm not and have shagged my way to heaven

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By *esafinadOHolyNightMan
38 weeks ago

Belfast

My longest spell was 5 years. After about a year I stopped trying and it started to bother me less. When I realised that I was getting laid though, at the end of the 5 years, the thought made me so horny I almost came in my pants.

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

"Oh no poor you 6 months, best grab my coat for a sympathy shag then, can't have that can we.

Mrs "

I was 6.5 months. Just saying.

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By *red333Man
38 weeks ago

Dorchester

"My longest spell was 5 years. After about a year I stopped trying and it started to bother me less. When I realised that I was getting laid though, at the end of the 5 years, the thought made me so horny I almost came in my pants. "
you were incarcerated?

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By *alleyDaveMan
38 weeks ago

Sheffield

Three and half years for me .

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By *alleyDaveMan
38 weeks ago

Sheffield

Three and half years for me right now ,and counting .

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By *esafinadOHolyNightMan
38 weeks ago

Belfast

Haha no. I broke up with someone which kicked off the 5 year dry spell. I think because we had such a rocky relationship that any attempt to meet anyone after her was half assed and my heart wasn't in it. Eventually I got fed up even looking even and it was 5 years till I met someone else.

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By *igBlondeWoman
38 weeks ago

Jersey (sometimes Notts)

"I've just realised that it's been almost 6 months since I last had sex... the longest time ever in my adult life...I really don't want to make it to 6 months... please please please help

Been a year for me now.

No decent people to meet near where I live.

Hope y oh break your dry spell soon

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By *ildo_swagginsthe3rdWoman
38 weeks ago

Wales

Been about 18 months. I'm not really interested in sex unless there's a person I'm interested in...weird.

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By *inky ChefMan
38 weeks ago

Norwich

"Oh no poor you 6 months, best grab my coat for a sympathy shag then, can't have that can we.

Mrs "

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Nice Christmas photo.

Do not enter

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By *hagTonightMan
38 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

"I am on it now, the last time was 7 years ago

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I'm a fucking pussy whinging about my 4 years then.

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Yes lol, it gets easier as the time goes too.

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By *lleyCat1969Man
38 weeks ago

Folkestone

Sixteen years and three weeks. That's how old I was when I lost my virginity.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
38 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Recently, 2 weeks when I needed to sort my head out.

I think I went a whole month back in February because life was a bitch.

And I once did a full year of zero sexual contact including solo, but that was by choice.

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By *inky ChefMan
38 weeks ago

Norwich

"I am on it now, the last time was 7 years ago

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I'm a fucking pussy whinging about my 4 years then.

Yes lol, it gets easier as the time goes too."

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Within a year probably I will need a surgery to fix my left shoulder, so I don't think so.

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Two weeks currently and I feel it’s been ages.

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

2 years and counting

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

6 years when I was younger

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By *Devil77Man
38 weeks ago

West Midlands

When I was with my ex I went over 13 years!

Do I get a trophy lol?

Met an amazing woman on here since

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