FabSwingers.com forum: Hidden verifications

By *hole Nuts n Chill OP Couple
48 weeks ago

Basingstoke

Since we are new here and to the world of swinging , we were wondering why some hide their verifications?

Well you can still see the verification count, so it’s not like one can hide there body count, then what is it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

I think it’s classless to have a wall of your sex live on public domain, so I’d always keep mine hidden

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By *uri00620Woman
48 weeks ago

Croydon

"Since we are new here and to the world of swinging , we were wondering why some hide their verifications?

Well you can still see the verification count, so it’s not like one can hide there body count, then what is it ? "

You can hide your body count. It's just a green tick then, no number.

I personally don't like them, I don't write them and I don't want to receive them.

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

You can pick and choose which ones to show, so for example any that go into details of sex for example you can choose not to show and show only the social ones perhaps.

Also anyone who you have blocked or they have blocked you, those verifications don't show either.

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By *a LunaWoman
48 weeks ago

South Wales

Sometimes verifications create drama.

Some folk covet other folk and if they see they have been out shagging others and not them a shower of shit befalls all involved.

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
48 weeks ago

Somewhere else

Hide em cause I don’t want anyone to know what my kinks are… maybe

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
48 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I have seen too much of how people can react to seeing who someone they fancy is fucking. I prefer to avoid causing people unnecessary drama so I don't tend to show sexual verifications. I only leave the summary up at the moment so I don't keep getting the oh so benevolent offers to leave me a verification if I do X, Y and Z

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By *ealitybitesMan
48 weeks ago

Belfast

Partly because at least half my verifications have left the site so there is nothing to display and partly because there are some I no longer wish to be associated with.

I don't have any play veries anyway and I find the term body count crass.

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
48 weeks ago

Somewhere else

"Hide em cause I don’t want anyone to know what my kinks are… maybe

But then I tell everyone I’m the forums what they are anyway… maybe

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
48 weeks ago

Next Door

I hide my veris as I've had lots of issues from others on here. Often the issues have been cause of Jealousy (they got turned down by someone who met me, as an example).

I'm reluctant to even give veris as well.

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
48 weeks ago

Somewhere else

"Partly because at least half my verifications have left the site so there is nothing to display and partly because there are some I no longer wish to be associated with.

I don't have any play veries anyway and I find the term body count crass. "

I beg to differ… Body Count is a kickass band fronted by HRH Ice T. They can stay.

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By *ddie1966Man
48 weeks ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.

"Hide em cause I don’t want anyone to know what my kinks are… maybe

But then I tell everyone I’m the forums what they are anyway… maybe

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
48 weeks ago

Somewhere else

"I have seen too much of how people can react to seeing who someone they fancy is fucking. I prefer to avoid causing people unnecessary drama so I don't tend to show sexual verifications. I only leave the summary up at the moment so I don't keep getting the oh so benevolent offers to leave me a verification if I do X, Y and Z

They have only your best interests at heart

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

We keep 1 hidden, our first one. We were both very d*unk and can't really remember it. Most of ours are social with just a couple of play ones. We do like to read other people's before arranging anything

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By *oodmessMan
48 weeks ago

yumsville

I had buddies up to maybe 3 or 4 yrs ago but my veris are 10yrs old so are pretty dusty.

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
48 weeks ago

Somewhere else

"I hide my veris as I've had lots of issues from others on here. Often the issues have been cause of Jealousy (they got turned down by someone who met me, as an example).

I'm reluctant to even give veris as well.

I’ve heard stories of people reading veris, then contacting the people someone met for the purpose of poisoning the well.

It’s amazing how much ill will some people have. If it’s true. Which I hope it isn’t.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
48 weeks ago

Portsmouth

A verification doesn't mean you've had sex, could be a social or club veri.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
48 weeks ago

Portsmouth

"I hide my veris as I've had lots of issues from others on here. Often the issues have been cause of Jealousy (they got turned down by someone who met me, as an example).

I'm reluctant to even give veris as well.

I’ve heard stories of people reading veris, then contacting the people someone met for the purpose of poisoning the well.

It’s amazing how much ill will some people have. If it’s true. Which I hope it isn’t."

I've had guys contact the guys I've met and ask them about me

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By *hunky GentMan
48 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"A verification doesn't mean you've had sex, could be a social or club veri."

Indeed. 95% of my veris are from socials, especially group socials

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

Has anyone actually had a bad verification?

I’ve often wondered this because my understanding has been a verification is a “ reflection” of your thoughts.

All very subjective!

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
48 weeks ago

Somewhere else

"Has anyone actually had a bad verification?

I’ve often wondered this because my understanding has been a verification is a “ reflection” of your thoughts.

All very subjective!

All of mine are bad - that’s why I don’t display them… maybe

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By *rHotNottsMan
48 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I think if you use the site for swinging and are not in the forums veri’s work really well, they do what they are meant to. But start getting into relationships, situationships and forums and it becomes messy.

You show me yours and I’ll show you mine

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

"I hide my veris as I've had lots of issues from others on here. Often the issues have been cause of Jealousy (they got turned down by someone who met me, as an example).

I'm reluctant to even give veris as well.

I’ve heard stories of people reading veris, then contacting the people someone met for the purpose of poisoning the well.

It’s amazing how much ill will some people have. If it’s true. Which I hope it isn’t.

I've had guys contact the guys I've met and ask them about me

I never quite understood this!

What does it actually achieve ?

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By *emini and ScorpioCouple
48 weeks ago

The South West

I think verifications started off as a way to actually verify someone is a real person but over time they’ve turned into a weird eBay type feedback comment. We’ve got plenty from club meets (when we first got on here it seemed very important to have them to prove we’re real) but the last private meets we’ve had we haven’t bothered doing them. It seems pointless when we’ve already verified eachother in the past. Perhaps some people get off on letting everyone else know what busy sex lives they have? Nothing wrong with that but we like to be discreet too.

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By *ealitybitesMan
48 weeks ago

Belfast

"I hide my veris as I've had lots of issues from others on here. Often the issues have been cause of Jealousy (they got turned down by someone who met me, as an example).

I'm reluctant to even give veris as well.

I’ve heard stories of people reading veris, then contacting the people someone met for the purpose of poisoning the well.

It’s amazing how much ill will some people have. If it’s true. Which I hope it isn’t.

I've had guys contact the guys I've met and ask them about me

I've had guys contact women I have met and ask for personal details for shit stirring purposes

I've also had women do exactly the same claiming they were just being cautious and wanted to confirm what type of person I was before they would agree to meet me.

All very strange as I had never spoken to any of them and only knew them from their forum comments and certainly wouldn't be meeting them.

I've also had a woman contact my verifications and ask them to persuade me to message her as she was 10 years below my age filter.

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By *uri00620Woman
48 weeks ago

Croydon

"A verification doesn't mean you've had sex, could be a social or club veri."

Yep. And equally a verification doesn't mean you've met or even ever seen the person.

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
48 weeks ago

Somewhere else

"I hide my veris as I've had lots of issues from others on here. Often the issues have been cause of Jealousy (they got turned down by someone who met me, as an example).

I'm reluctant to even give veris as well.

I’ve heard stories of people reading veris, then contacting the people someone met for the purpose of poisoning the well.

It’s amazing how much ill will some people have. If it’s true. Which I hope it isn’t.

I've had guys contact the guys I've met and ask them about me

I've had guys contact women I have met and ask for personal details for shit stirring purposes

I've also had women do exactly the same claiming they were just being cautious and wanted to confirm what type of person I was before they would agree to meet me.

All very strange as I had never spoken to any of them and only knew them from their forum comments and certainly wouldn't be meeting them.

I've also had a woman contact my verifications and ask them to persuade me to message her as she was 10 years below my age filter.

That’s not stalky at all.

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By *eordieJeansCouple
48 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

On our old profile we used to hide any veris with references to what we did during a meet and display the others. Usually when we meet now we make them aware we won’t display a veri if they write anything sexual on it.

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By *hole Nuts n Chill OP Couple
48 weeks ago

Basingstoke

Thanks to all you folks. All of that makes absolute sense !

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
48 weeks ago

Leeds

I don't display overly sexual verifications I'm not a fan of them, no one needs to know if I can suck like a hoover or not.

There's enough to say we are who we say we are & we meet.

Also people who left the site still snow on your verification summary but the actual verification disappears.

Mrs

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By *imisugarWoman
48 weeks ago

Rugby

"I hide my veris as I've had lots of issues from others on here. Often the issues have been cause of Jealousy (they got turned down by someone who met me, as an example).

I'm reluctant to even give veris as well.

I’ve heard stories of people reading veris, then contacting the people someone met for the purpose of poisoning the well.

It’s amazing how much ill will some people have. If it’s true. Which I hope it isn’t."

A friend who has now left told me the same. He got messaged about me saying if he had been with me, she wouldn't touch him. He never replied. Not sure who would go out of their way to do that but it was so weird.

Also had another experience of someone hoping they could arrange a threesome behind my back. I'd never met this person but they thought it was ok to message one of my veris to try and arrange. Was really awkward when I found out, my friend was in two minds whether to tell me or not.

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By *TG3Man
48 weeks ago

Dorchester

"Since we are new here and to the world of swinging , we were wondering why some hide their verifications?

Well you can still see the verification count, so it’s not like one can hide there body count, then what is it ? "
Just so they can be selective as to who sees them, lots of jealousy in this life

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By *viatrixWoman
48 weeks ago

Redhill

Also, if someone blocks you, you block them or they go off the site the verification number remains but the veris themselves disappear.

People can hide the number of verifications too. At the end of the day it is every person’s choice to manage their verifications the way they see fit.

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

Basically if they don't bang on about you in the right way or they aren't hot enough. Then they get hidden.

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By *imisugarWoman
48 weeks ago

Rugby

"Basically if they don't bang on about you in the right way or they aren't hot enough. Then they get hidden.

I don't display all mine as I don't want loads on show at any one time, because they haven't been kind. I wouldn't display an overly sexually one either. Personal preference.

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By *rispyDuckMan
48 weeks ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

I’ve had people messaging folks in my veris claiming to be mates of mine & I had recommended them

, that’s why I now hide my veris sometimes

And we all have free will to hide or show what we want

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By *electableicecreamMan
48 weeks ago

The West

"Since we are new here and to the world of swinging , we were wondering why some hide their verifications?

Well you can still see the verification count, so it’s not like one can hide there body count, then what is it ? "

A lot of mine are just short polite veri's from people I met at a social event. They don't really say anything about me so I hide them.

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By *aitonelMan
48 weeks ago

Travelling

The coyote ugly verifications.

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By *cottish guy 555Man
48 weeks ago

London

For some meets I've written 2 verifications and asked the lady which she would prefer

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
48 weeks ago

Somewhere else

"For some meets I've written 2 verifications and asked the lady which she would prefer

Madonna or whore?

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

Beyond knowing if someone is real or not, verifications are pretty meaningless. You have no clue who someone is until you meet them in person. Could be a lovely person you have a great time with who has no verifications, or you could meet a total creep who has a wall of shinning verifications spouting how nice they are.

The sensible thing to do, get your verification tick and forget about them. Display a social meet or two if you really want to.

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

"Beyond knowing if someone is real or not, verifications are pretty meaningless. You have no clue who someone is until you meet them in person. Could be a lovely person you have a great time with who has no verifications, or you could meet a total creep who has a wall of shinning verifications spouting how nice they are.

The sensible thing to do, get your verification tick and forget about them. Display a social meet or two if you really want to."

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

"For some meets I've written 2 verifications and asked the lady which she would prefer

Omg her veri count would be double if everyone did that! She could have over 10 veris! Ewww

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By *illan-KillashMan
48 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants

"Since we are new here and to the world of swinging , we were wondering why some hide their verifications?

Well you can still see the verification count, so it’s not like one can hide there body count, then what is it ? "

Who I have sex with is the business of 2 people only.

Add in the drama they can cause............

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By *ucianpoundCouple
48 weeks ago

Cap d’Agde, France

We find the verifications essential to find out if we might be compatible and also route out timewasters.

You can’t just go on photos and the profile alone.

We display about 70% of our veri’s, we try to keep it to one only per person/couple and show only play meets.

If you have no veri’s or hide them we won’t meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

"For some meets I've written 2 verifications and asked the lady which she would prefer

You mean people confer on what they are going to write!

This is brand new information!!!

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By *os_GoddessofdawnWoman
48 weeks ago

In the clouds

"I think it’s classless to have a wall of your sex live on public domain, so I’d always keep mine hidden "

Agreed

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By *os_GoddessofdawnWoman
48 weeks ago

In the clouds

"I think it’s classless to have a wall of your sex live on public domain, so I’d always keep mine hidden "

Agreed

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By *rimxtcMan
48 weeks ago

toy town

I like to see the verifications that say what a nice person or how genuine

I'm not so keen on the graphic blow by blow account of the meet

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By *naswingdressWoman
48 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

People who've left the site or people where there's a block in place - those verifications don't show even if the user didn't hide them.

Sometimes what people write about each other is crass and the recipient doesn't want to display it. (Or once someone wrote a verification including my name - I'm not displaying that!)

I only display a couple. For reasons that are mine and mine alone. If people want to read into that then that's on them. People read tea leaves about everything else, whether or not there's any merit to it.

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
48 weeks ago

Tamworth

We don't hide all of ours. Over 90% are social veris because we go to events and meet lots of people.

Our hidden are either from people who have left the site or there are a couple of explicit veris which we didn't wish to share, we don't need details on what we got upto during play to be freely available.

Lots of people have different reasons. I wouldn't think anything on it, just worry about what you want to do with your own profile

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By *ustBoWoman
48 weeks ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

As others have said you can hide your veri count if you want.

I've hidden some of my veris for several reasons,none of which are anyone else's business. I also have had several people leave who have veried me so their veris are gone as well but the amount on my summary stays the same.

I don't know people care so much about them anyhow. They mean feck all bar that someone showed up at that time. I've met people with no veris who were great and I've met people with glowing veris who were complete and utter cockwombles. So I prefer to make up my own mind about people.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
48 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

"Since we are new here and to the world of swinging , we were wondering why some hide their verifications?

Well you can still see the verification count, so it’s not like one can hide there body count, then what is it ? "

Because they can

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
48 weeks ago

ashford

"I think it’s classless to have a wall of your sex live on public domain, so I’d always keep mine hidden "

Guess I'm just classless then!

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

Happy to have mine on display on here and also on our couples profile but we do have a female friend on here and although she shows her veri "tally" she hides who they are from as her previous meets have had hassle from other guys begging to see her private pics/vids and some even asking for her number!

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By *ndianLuxCouple
48 weeks ago

West midlands

Each to their own. If you hide them or display them , your summary does tells you how many meets you had.

Sometimes verifications gives a lot of information about the person we like to meet . We can also decide whether to meet that person by reading verifications, especially bareback ones.

On other things,verification trails are very important to ascertain it they are genuine people or not. We have noticed loads of fake veris too on this site.

People who visit clubs, don't have to worry about verifications but people like us who have only private meets , verifications are very important to go through.

We won't care who fucked whom as long as they fit our criteria for meets .

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By *m272Woman
48 weeks ago

London

I have had my previous public verifications used against me. Its bordering on psycho stalker shit to be honest for me when the newest/present meet takes it upon themselves to go searching looking for and convincing themselves about shit that's fuck all to do with them. Contacting or keeping tabs on my previous verifications to check if I have met them lately etc. Telling me about my past verifications latest status and profile updates because they are obsessively watching my past meets and my profile for whatever bollox they have convicted themselves of.

Both mundane and a little bit concerning on my part whilst uncalled for and not needed on my previous meets part.

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By *andy CanesWoman
48 weeks ago

south

Some of mine are to sexually described so I hide them to save my blushes

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

"Since we are new here and to the world of swinging , we were wondering why some hide their verifications?

Well you can still see the verification count, so it’s not like one can hide there body count, then what is it ? "

Number of veris doesn't equal number of meets, and meets doesn't equal shags / body count. Someone could potentially meet 30 people at a party and shag none of them but still get 30 verifications.

I hide mine because it's noones business who I'm meeting and what I'm doing with them.

The settings are there for people to adjust to the privacy level they're most comfortable with.

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By *mpierdoleMan
48 weeks ago

Birmingham

I asked the question in another forum and I've gone from showing mine to hiding, despite them pretty damn awesome and the people giving them being happy with it.

I didn't realise so much drama existed on Fab and I don't want to be part of that.

If people have an issue with me not showing friends or verifications, that is on them, not me.

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

"I have had my previous public verifications used against me. Its bordering on psycho stalker shit to be honest for me when the newest/present meet takes it upon themselves to go searching looking for and convincing themselves about shit that's fuck all to do with them. Contacting or keeping tabs on my previous verifications to check if I have met them lately etc. Telling me about my past verifications latest status and profile updates because they are obsessively watching my past meets and my profile for whatever bollox they have convicted themselves of.

Both mundane and a little bit concerning on my part whilst uncalled for and not needed on my previous meets part.

Jesus! That's definitely stalking and I would report it and avoid that person forever! Big red flags

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
48 weeks ago

Back of the bins.

Sometimes people leave veris with wording that’s not the vibe the person receiving wants it to be. So they hide it. Other times people contact others to get them to persuade them to meet them.

It’s all personal choice at tge end of the day.

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

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This! One woman's trash is another woman's treasure. Veris mean probably not a catfish, and nothing more IMO.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
48 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

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By *naswingdressWoman
48 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

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This! One woman's trash is another woman's treasure. Veris mean probably not a catfish, and nothing more IMO."

When I first joined, I used it as "probably not an axe murderer".

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
48 weeks ago

Somewhere else

Both mundane and a little bit concerning on my part whilst uncalled for and not needed on my previous meets part.

I didn’t realise it bothered you so much.

I’ll stop.

But all kidding aside, that’s horrifying.

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
48 weeks ago

Somewhere else

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This! One woman's trash is another woman's treasure. Veris mean probably not a catfish, and nothing more IMO."

And not even necessarily that…

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
48 weeks ago

Somewhere else

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This! One woman's trash is another woman's treasure. Veris mean probably not a catfish, and nothing more IMO.

When I first joined, I used it as "probably not an axe murderer"."

I wouldn’t trust it for that

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By *naswingdressWoman
48 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

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This! One woman's trash is another woman's treasure. Veris mean probably not a catfish, and nothing more IMO.

When I first joined, I used it as "probably not an axe murderer".

I wouldn’t trust it for that "

You're taking my imagination to a dark place.

That being said, I'm not dead, so there's that

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By *JtheTomMan
48 weeks ago

London

"Since we are new here and to the world of swinging , we were wondering why some hide their verifications?

Well you can still see the verification count, so it’s not like one can hide there body count, then what is it ?

You can hide your body count. It's just a green tick then, no number.

I personally don't like them, I don't write them and I don't want to receive them. "

I'm very much in this camp

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

A variety of reasons!

* they don't want you to know who they met

* later fell out with them

* don't want people they are are seeing regularly /lomg term to know they are seeing other people

* regret meeting whoever it was

* got an sti from whoever it was

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By *naswingdressWoman
48 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

* got an sti from whoever it was

I've seen some very public stuff on this one.

I don't condone it, I feel terrible for everyone involved, but it's like a car crash, I can't look away.

(I'm not laughing at the misfortune of that happening, I'm laughing at "EVERYONE BE AWARE, BIGGUS DICKUS AND HANGING FLAPS GAVE ME AN ITCHY COOCHIE TELL ALL YOUR FRIENDS")

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
48 weeks ago

Somewhere else

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This! One woman's trash is another woman's treasure. Veris mean probably not a catfish, and nothing more IMO.

When I first joined, I used it as "probably not an axe murderer".

I wouldn’t trust it for that

You're taking my imagination to a dark place.

That being said, I'm not dead, so there's that

My imagination is always in a dark place.

I’ve learned to just enjoy it though.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
48 weeks ago

Gloucestershire

I’m shy

I don’t advertise

I don’t care

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
48 weeks ago

Somewhere else

"A variety of reasons!

* they don't want you to know who they met

* later fell out with them

* don't want people they are are seeing regularly /lomg term to know they are seeing other people

* regret meeting whoever it was

* got an sti from whoever it was

In my case all of the above at the same time!!!

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
48 weeks ago

Somewhere else

* got an sti from whoever it was

I've seen some very public stuff on this one.

I don't condone it, I feel terrible for everyone involved, but it's like a car crash, I can't look away.

(I'm not laughing at the misfortune of that happening, I'm laughing at "EVERYONE BE AWARE, BIGGUS DICKUS AND HANGING FLAPS GAVE ME AN ITCHY COOCHIE TELL ALL YOUR FRIENDS")"

I should not have done that to you and Biggus. I apologise.

Sadly we can’t take them down.

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48 weeks ago

* got an sti from whoever it was

I've seen some very public stuff on this one.

I don't condone it, I feel terrible for everyone involved, but it's like a car crash, I can't look away.

(I'm not laughing at the misfortune of that happening, I'm laughing at "EVERYONE BE AWARE, BIGGUS DICKUS AND HANGING FLAPS GAVE ME AN ITCHY COOCHIE TELL ALL YOUR FRIENDS")"

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48 weeks ago

* got an sti from whoever it was

I've seen some very public stuff on this one.

I don't condone it, I feel terrible for everyone involved, but it's like a car crash, I can't look away.

(I'm not laughing at the misfortune of that happening, I'm laughing at "EVERYONE BE AWARE, BIGGUS DICKUS AND HANGING FLAPS GAVE ME AN ITCHY COOCHIE TELL ALL YOUR FRIENDS")

I should not have done that to you and Biggus. I apologise.

Sadly we can’t take them down."

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By *DW1983Man
48 weeks ago

Aberdeen, Leeds, Sheffield

* got an sti from whoever it was

I've seen some very public stuff on this one.

I don't condone it, I feel terrible for everyone involved, but it's like a car crash, I can't look away.

(I'm not laughing at the misfortune of that happening, I'm laughing at "EVERYONE BE AWARE, BIGGUS DICKUS AND HANGING FLAPS GAVE ME AN ITCHY COOCHIE TELL ALL YOUR FRIENDS")"

I find it sad that in a community like this, some people can't deal with things like that like adults. If it does happen, just contact the person, let them know, politely, so that everyone can look after their sexual health and get it sorted. It doesn't need to descend into nastiness or blame.

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By *naswingdressWoman
48 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

* got an sti from whoever it was

I've seen some very public stuff on this one.

I don't condone it, I feel terrible for everyone involved, but it's like a car crash, I can't look away.

(I'm not laughing at the misfortune of that happening, I'm laughing at "EVERYONE BE AWARE, BIGGUS DICKUS AND HANGING FLAPS GAVE ME AN ITCHY COOCHIE TELL ALL YOUR FRIENDS")

I entirely agree. I've had a couple of scares and that's what I did - hey, this happened, you might want to get it checked out, I'm getting it checked and I'll let you know as soon as I know anything.

I try not to add to the crazy drama, but... sometimes I look at it.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
48 weeks ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

"Sometimes people get overexcited and mention your real name in the veri …

This and explicit details

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By *oiluvfunMan
48 weeks ago

Penrith

"Since we are new here and to the world of swinging , we were wondering why some hide their verifications?

Well you can still see the verification count, so it’s not like one can hide there body count, then what is it ? "

Some don’t like to display their written verifications, which is totally down to them. If you are interested to know, you can always ask them to show you

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
44 weeks ago

Back of the bins.

Also as has happened to a friend, the couple has broken up, she’s got a solo account which someone verified. Now he’s contacting people that verified her and being a twat about it?

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By *olfandtazCouple
44 weeks ago

Bristol

We don't have any play ones yet but we will be keeping them hidden, don't want people knowing our antics... what happens in the bedroom stays in the bedroom

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