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"I think it’s weird to fetishise sex with one race so much you turn it into a tattoo " So I must ask, is the ace of spades Tattoo, a sign for exclusively black men? * im naive with a lot of things.  | |||
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"I think it’s weird to fetishise sex with one race so much you turn it into a tattoo So I must ask, is the ace of spades Tattoo, a sign for exclusively black men? * im naive with a lot of things. "As far as I know, yes Seems really weird to be into black guts so much, you need a tattoo Like, weird level of almost racist fetishism | |||
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"I think it’s weird to fetishise sex with one race so much you turn it into a tattoo So I must ask, is the ace of spades Tattoo, a sign for exclusively black men? * im naive with a lot of things.
As far as I know, yes
Seems really weird to be into black guts so much, you need a tattoo
Like, weird level of almost racist fetishism "Agreed | |||
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"We use temporary ones" How long do they stay on for? Looking for vixen,hotwife or oldje one for the wife. | |||
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"We use temporary ones How long do they stay on for? Looking for vixen,hotwife or oldje one for the wife." Scrub off in the bath, have a look on Ebay to buy them. | |||
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"We use temporary ones How long do they stay on for? Looking for vixen,hotwife or oldje one for the wife. Scrub off in the bath, have a look on Ebay to buy them." Thanks x | |||
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"I think it’s weird to fetishise sex with one race so much you turn it into a tattoo So I must ask, is the ace of spades Tattoo, a sign for exclusively black men? * im naive with a lot of things. "no, it means other things in the old school tattooing | |||
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"Im getting a tattoo of a badly parked car to show im only interested in women!! "That will get you laid loads. | |||
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"Im getting a tattoo of a badly parked car to show im only interested in women!!
That will get you laid loads. "Laid out more likely | |||
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"personally dont like anything of this type for me and just my opinion it feels racist .... i think alot of people dont realise what it is if honest and just see it as something sexy but nope not for me" I'm not sure how showing that you like or prefer black guys is racist. Or have I missed something? | |||
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 to me but some men love that shit. Race play and racial fetishisation is not my vibe at all. It’s not fun or sexy. | |||
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"personally dont like anything of this type for me and just my opinion it feels racist .... i think alot of people dont realise what it is if honest and just see it as something sexy but nope not for me I'm not sure how showing that you like or prefer black guys is racist. Or have I missed something?" It might not be. But if someone, for example, is assuming that all black guys will have certain characteristics, maybe that is. | |||
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"personally dont like anything of this type for me and just my opinion it feels racist .... i think alot of people dont realise what it is if honest and just see it as something sexy but nope not for me I'm not sure how showing that you like or prefer black guys is racist. Or have I missed something? It might not be. But if someone, for example, is assuming that all black guys will have certain characteristics, maybe that is. " Again, not racist, just a stupid assumption on their part. Don't get me wrong, I don't like these tattoos either, but it's ridiculous to say they are racist. | |||
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"Im getting a tattoo of a badly parked car to show im only interested in women!! "brilliant...if there was a poll for best comment this would be my vote | |||
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"if i was reviwing this thread like a bottle of wine i would have to use very cringey,slightly uncomfortable and with normalised racist undertones! im all for interracial sex/passion/lust and love be it white/black/yellow or any other colour. but to use the word spade to normalise it to a person of black heritage is gross." I can honestly say it never occurred to me. NOW I see how it is racist. Thank you. | |||
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"if i was reviwing this thread like a bottle of wine i would have to use very cringey,slightly uncomfortable and with normalised racist undertones! im all for interracial sex/passion/lust and love be it white/black/yellow or any other colour. but to use the word spade to normalise it to a person of black heritage is gross." This.  | |||
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"personally dont like anything of this type for me and just my opinion it feels racist .... i think alot of people dont realise what it is if honest and just see it as something sexy but nope not for me I'm not sure how showing that you like or prefer black guys is racist. Or have I missed something? It might not be. But if someone, for example, is assuming that all black guys will have certain characteristics, maybe that is. Again, not racist, just a stupid assumption on their part. Don't get me wrong, I don't like these tattoos either, but it's ridiculous to say they are racist." I’m wondering what your definition of racism is, in that case. | |||
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"if i was reviwing this thread like a bottle of wine i would have to use very cringey,slightly uncomfortable and with normalised racist undertones! im all for interracial sex/passion/lust and love be it white/black/yellow or any other colour. but to use the word spade to normalise it to a person of black heritage is gross. I can honestly say it never occurred to me. NOW I see how it is racist. Thank you." everyday is a learning day on the fab forum | |||
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"personally dont like anything of this type for me and just my opinion it feels racist .... i think alot of people dont realise what it is if honest and just see it as something sexy but nope not for me I'm not sure how showing that you like or prefer black guys is racist. Or have I missed something? It might not be. But if someone, for example, is assuming that all black guys will have certain characteristics, maybe that is. Again, not racist, just a stupid assumption on their part. Don't get me wrong, I don't like these tattoos either, but it's ridiculous to say they are racist." A stupid assumption that is based on historical racist myths used to brutalise Black people. So it is like a little bit racist. Even if unintentionally so | |||
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"I don’t think it’s acceptable to get racist slurs that assume you’re superior to black men tattooed on your body." Freeze peach tho | |||
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"personally dont like anything of this type for me and just my opinion it feels racist .... i think alot of people dont realise what it is if honest and just see it as something sexy but nope not for me I'm not sure how showing that you like or prefer black guys is racist. Or have I missed something? It might not be. But if someone, for example, is assuming that all black guys will have certain characteristics, maybe that is. Again, not racist, just a stupid assumption on their part. Don't get me wrong, I don't like these tattoos either, but it's ridiculous to say they are racist. A stupid assumption that is based on historical racist myths used to brutalise Black people. So it is like a little bit racist. Even if unintentionally so "It’s not even a little bit racist, it’s very racist. One of the reasons that black men weren’t allowed to use the same swimming pools in America was because black men were stereotyped as being hypersexual. It was believed that because of their hypersexuality they wouldn’t be able to prevent themselves assaulting and r**ing white women. The myth of the BBC mostly comes out of these racist assumptions of hypersexuality. So when someone fetishises a black man because of his penis size or hypersexuality they are using the same racist stereotypes that were used to lynch black men and set fires below their genitals. | |||
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"personally dont like anything of this type for me and just my opinion it feels racist .... i think alot of people dont realise what it is if honest and just see it as something sexy but nope not for me I'm not sure how showing that you like or prefer black guys is racist. Or have I missed something? It might not be. But if someone, for example, is assuming that all black guys will have certain characteristics, maybe that is. Again, not racist, just a stupid assumption on their part. Don't get me wrong, I don't like these tattoos either, but it's ridiculous to say they are racist. A stupid assumption that is based on historical racist myths used to brutalise Black people. So it is like a little bit racist. Even if unintentionally so
It’s not even a little bit racist, it’s very racist.
One of the reasons that black men weren’t allowed to use the same swimming pools in America was because black men were stereotyped as being hypersexual. It was believed that because of their hypersexuality they wouldn’t be able to prevent themselves assaulting and r**ing white women.
The myth of the BBC mostly comes out of these racist assumptions of hypersexuality.
So when someone fetishises a black man because of his penis size or hypersexuality they are using the same racist stereotypes that were used to lynch black men and set fires below their genitals."I know about the origins and I know it’s really racist lol. I was only joking with the ‘like a little bit racist’ thing. Because last time I called fetishisation racist, people had plenty to say about me  . | |||
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"personally dont like anything of this type for me and just my opinion it feels racist .... i think alot of people dont realise what it is if honest and just see it as something sexy but nope not for me I'm not sure how showing that you like or prefer black guys is racist. Or have I missed something? It might not be. But if someone, for example, is assuming that all black guys will have certain characteristics, maybe that is. Again, not racist, just a stupid assumption on their part. Don't get me wrong, I don't like these tattoos either, but it's ridiculous to say they are racist. A stupid assumption that is based on historical racist myths used to brutalise Black people. So it is like a little bit racist. Even if unintentionally so
It’s not even a little bit racist, it’s very racist.
One of the reasons that black men weren’t allowed to use the same swimming pools in America was because black men were stereotyped as being hypersexual. It was believed that because of their hypersexuality they wouldn’t be able to prevent themselves assaulting and r**ing white women.
The myth of the BBC mostly comes out of these racist assumptions of hypersexuality.
So when someone fetishises a black man because of his penis size or hypersexuality they are using the same racist stereotypes that were used to lynch black men and set fires below their genitals.
I know about the origins and I know it’s really racist lol. I was only joking with the ‘like a little bit racist’ thing. Because last time I called fetishisation racist, people had plenty to say about me . "Oh yeah for sure. I just hate the way we’re all supposed to pretend that fetishising black men isn’t racist, that fetishising women being sluts isn’t misogynistic, and that fetishising men fucking men isn’t homophobic. Like at some point the swing scene has to enter the 21st century. But we’re still stuck somewhere back in the sixties still. | |||
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"These tattoos are so to me but some men love that shit. Race play and racial fetishisation is not my vibe at all. It’s not fun or sexy. "It is just weird to me mate. Never understood it. | |||
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"How can you say it is not racist to call a black person a derogatory name ?" Because context is everything. As far as I know in sexual terms QoS, however distasteful, is used to display a preference or fetish. Last time I checked fetishising or having a preference for, wasn’t being antagonistic toward or prejudiced against somebody (that’s the definition of racism). The tattoo is emblematic, and that always means people are entitled to interpret them however they see fit based on their own experience… but it’s no more or less a display of preference than tattooing your football team’s badge on yourself, or painting a pride flag on your face during a parade. You risk being seen in whatever connotation the viewer sees. Plus I’d argue that most I’ve seen are in discreet places, not on people’s foreheads… if you’re looking there you’re asking to see it. Do I like them? Nope. Are they a sign of ignorance and insensitivity? Yep. Bigoted? Probably. Racist? Nope… sorry, but that word gets attached to way too much stuff and labelling somebody as racist purely because of their preferences happens way too often on here. People being polarised because they have opposing views  | |||
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"I have a preference for sex with black men but I wouldn't dream of using a derogatory word to describe them. " There are some here who would say that you are most definitely racist for your preference. Tattoos or no tattoos. Is there an alternative tattoo that a woman could have that is not racist, but excludes people based on the colour of their skin? | |||
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"I have a preference for sex with black men but I wouldn't dream of using a derogatory word to describe them. There are some here who would say that you are most definitely racist for your preference. Tattoos or no tattoos. Is there an alternative tattoo that a woman could have that is not racist, but excludes people based on the colour of their skin?" That’s ridiculous. She said ‘prefers’ not ‘exclusively’ and even if she did, that’s her choice. That’s like saying I’m transphobic and sexist because I’m not sexually attracted to TV’s or women | |||
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"What tattoo do you get when you don't have sex with anybody? "Padlock? Pocketpussy? The Bible??? | |||
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"What tattoo do you get when you don't have sex with anybody? "A no entry sign? | |||
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"What tattoo do you get when you don't have sex with anybody? A no entry sign?"Surely this only applies if you are gay? Haha | |||
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"I have a preference for sex with black men but I wouldn't dream of using a derogatory word to describe them. There are some here who would say that you are most definitely racist for your preference. Tattoos or no tattoos. Is there an alternative tattoo that a woman could have that is not racist, but excludes people based on the colour of their skin? That’s ridiculous. She said ‘prefers’ not ‘exclusively’ and even if she did, that’s her choice. That’s like saying I’m transphobic and sexist because I’m not sexually attracted to TV’s or women "A lot of people who’ve posted on these forums suggest that having preferences that exclude people because of the colour of their skin are racist. She prefers someone based on their skin colour. Just for the record, I disagree with this stance, but people on these forums argue that preferring one race over another is racist. | |||
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"I have a preference for sex with black men but I wouldn't dream of using a derogatory word to describe them. There are some here who would say that you are most definitely racist for your preference. Tattoos or no tattoos. Is there an alternative tattoo that a woman could have that is not racist, but excludes people based on the colour of their skin? That’s ridiculous. She said ‘prefers’ not ‘exclusively’ and even if she did, that’s her choice. That’s like saying I’m transphobic and sexist because I’m not sexually attracted to TV’s or women
A lot of people who’ve posted on these forums suggest that having preferences that exclude people because of the colour of their skin are racist. She prefers someone based on their skin colour.
Just for the record, I disagree with this stance, but people on these forums argue that preferring one race over another is racist. "Having a preference isn't racist in the slightest. Getting a tattoo that symbolic of a racist term is racist af | |||
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"What tattoo do you get when you don't have sex with anybody? A no entry sign?"or out of order sign ? | |||
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"What tattoo do you get when you don't have sex with anybody? A no entry sign? or out of order sign ?"Decommissioned sign seems more fitting. It allows room for recommissioned potential lol | |||
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"I have a preference for sex with black men but I wouldn't dream of using a derogatory word to describe them. There are some here who would say that you are most definitely racist for your preference. Tattoos or no tattoos. Is there an alternative tattoo that a woman could have that is not racist, but excludes people based on the colour of their skin? That’s ridiculous. She said ‘prefers’ not ‘exclusively’ and even if she did, that’s her choice. That’s like saying I’m transphobic and sexist because I’m not sexually attracted to TV’s or women
A lot of people who’ve posted on these forums suggest that having preferences that exclude people because of the colour of their skin are racist. She prefers someone based on their skin colour.
Just for the record, I disagree with this stance, but people on these forums argue that preferring one race over another is racist.
Having a preference isn't racist in the slightest. Getting a tattoo that symbolic of a racist term is racist af"There are a lot of fabbers, especially on threads about Asian men being rejected, who are very vocal and don’t agree with people’s preferences and are adamant that they are racist. | |||
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"I have a preference for sex with black men but I wouldn't dream of using a derogatory word to describe them. There are some here who would say that you are most definitely racist for your preference. Tattoos or no tattoos. Is there an alternative tattoo that a woman could have that is not racist, but excludes people based on the colour of their skin? That’s ridiculous. She said ‘prefers’ not ‘exclusively’ and even if she did, that’s her choice. That’s like saying I’m transphobic and sexist because I’m not sexually attracted to TV’s or women
A lot of people who’ve posted on these forums suggest that having preferences that exclude people because of the colour of their skin are racist. She prefers someone based on their skin colour.
Just for the record, I disagree with this stance, but people on these forums argue that preferring one race over another is racist.
Having a preference isn't racist in the slightest. Getting a tattoo that symbolic of a racist term is racist af"Nope. It can only be ‘perceived’ as racist. I don’t like them but I highly doubt that women get a tattoo of that symbol on their butt cheek in a deliberate effort to belittle, and racially slur coloured guys who are nailing them from behind, but rather as a warped term of endearment. I’ll say it again… ignorant of the connotations? Absolutely…. Bigoted (because it presumes stereotypes)? Most likely…. Insensitive? Yeah… Racist? No. Getting a distasteful tattoo in a location where it can’t readily be seen, indicating your preferences is not by definition antagonistic towards, or prejudiced against a collective. Labelling ignorance as racism doesn’t do anything to help anyone. | |||
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"I have a preference for sex with black men but I wouldn't dream of using a derogatory word to describe them. There are some here who would say that you are most definitely racist for your preference. Tattoos or no tattoos. Is there an alternative tattoo that a woman could have that is not racist, but excludes people based on the colour of their skin? That’s ridiculous. She said ‘prefers’ not ‘exclusively’ and even if she did, that’s her choice. That’s like saying I’m transphobic and sexist because I’m not sexually attracted to TV’s or women
A lot of people who’ve posted on these forums suggest that having preferences that exclude people because of the colour of their skin are racist. She prefers someone based on their skin colour.
Just for the record, I disagree with this stance, but people on these forums argue that preferring one race over another is racist.
Having a preference isn't racist in the slightest. Getting a tattoo that symbolic of a racist term is racist af
Nope. It can only be ‘perceived’ as racist. I don’t like them but I highly doubt that women get a tattoo of that symbol on their butt cheek in a deliberate effort to belittle, and racially slur coloured guys who are nailing them from behind, but rather as a warped term of endearment.
I’ll say it again… ignorant of the connotations? Absolutely…. Bigoted (because it presumes stereotypes)? Most likely…. Insensitive? Yeah… Racist? No. Getting a distasteful tattoo in a location where it can’t readily be seen, indicating your preferences is not by definition antagonistic towards, or prejudiced against a collective.
Labelling ignorance as racism doesn’t do anything to help anyone."Nor does choosing to remain ignorant help anyone. Especially when the information on it is easily found. Like in this thread lol | |||
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