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"Im alone coz life is a bitch tbh lol " What’s up chap at 24 ! No parents or f Amily to join ? Or is that far too boring ? | |||
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"yep and fate for me but used to it now." So what are your plans for Monday then ? | |||
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"Im alone coz life is a bitch tbh lol What’s up chap at 24 ! No parents or f Amily to join ? Or is that far too boring ? " there far up the country | |||
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"Choice and happy with it " That’s a positive attitude ?? | |||
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"Are you guys alone by choice or fate ? Ok with it ?" Not a lot of choice really…. Been like that a few years so comfortable with the idea now. | |||
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"Im alone coz life is a bitch tbh lol What’s up chap at 24 ! No parents or f Amily to join ? Or is that far too boring ? there far up the country" Can’t be that far the uk is fairly small Not enough pull perhaps | |||
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"Im alone coz life is a bitch tbh lol What’s up chap at 24 ! No parents or f Amily to join ? Or is that far too boring ? there far up the country Can’t be that far the uk is fairly small Not enough pull perhaps its a lot of money to get to scotland n back lol" | |||
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"I think restaurants should have a captain’s table, a long table which can be booked by single people to meet others… thoughts ? " Great idea  | |||
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"Normally work it, prefer the extra money tbh. Off this year... It'll be stressful, noisy, grandkids over excited and folk falling out " So busy Christmas for you then no time to let your mind wander ! | |||
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"I think restaurants should have a captain’s table, a long table which can be booked by single people to meet others… thoughts ? " Xmas at pubs is ££... We've done it in the past, and it was a well overpriced, miserable affair! Can only seeing it be worse for folk on their own to be honest? | |||
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"I think restaurants should have a captain’s table, a long table which can be booked by single people to meet others… thoughts ? Great idea "I like your handle ! Made me laugh ?? | |||
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"I think restaurants should have a captain’s table, a long table which can be booked by single people to meet others… thoughts ? " Good idea | |||
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"I think restaurants should have a captain’s table, a long table which can be booked by single people to meet others… thoughts ? Xmas at pubs is ££... We've done it in the past, and it was a well overpriced, miserable affair! Can only seeing it be worse for folk on their own to be honest? " Then an extension of the idea would be for singles it’s normal run of the mill pricing perhaps ! | |||
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"I think restaurants should have a captain’s table, a long table which can be booked by single people to meet others… thoughts ? Xmas at pubs is ££... We've done it in the past, and it was a well overpriced, miserable affair! Can only seeing it be worse for folk on their own to be honest? Then an extension of the idea would be for singles it’s normal run of the mill pricing perhaps ! " Serving staff don't want to be there themselves? Even on double time, unless they opt in?.. So, it's here's your plate without a smile. And no way are pubs gonna cut their mark up for Crimbo 
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"I think restaurants should have a captain’s table, a long table which can be booked by single people to meet others… thoughts ? Xmas at pubs is ££... We've done it in the past, and it was a well overpriced, miserable affair! Can only seeing it be worse for folk on their own to be honest? Then an extension of the idea would be for singles it’s normal run of the mill pricing perhaps ! Serving staff don't want to be there themselves? Even on double time, unless they opt in?.. So, it's here's your plate without a smile. And no way are pubs gonna cut their mark up for Crimbo
It's a nice idea though "I take your point but somehow I think there are lots of nice people out there but we often don’t give them an opportunity to be nice | |||
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"I think restaurants should have a captain’s table, a long table which can be booked by single people to meet others… thoughts ? Xmas at pubs is ££... We've done it in the past, and it was a well overpriced, miserable affair! Can only seeing it be worse for folk on their own to be honest? Then an extension of the idea would be for singles it’s normal run of the mill pricing perhaps ! Serving staff don't want to be there themselves? Even on double time, unless they opt in?.. So, it's here's your plate without a smile. And no way are pubs gonna cut their mark up for Crimbo
It's a nice idea though
I take your point but somehow I think there are lots of nice people out there but we often don’t give them an opportunity to be nice "If they're working on min wage, and also wanting to spend Christmas day with their own family?... They probably don't want to be 'that' nice? | |||
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"Alone for Xmas is the norm. Im not significant enough to anyone, I've made my peace with that." Everyone is significant ! You should defo join a captain’s table ! | |||
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"First Christmas for a couple of years I won't be alone, Christmas dinner at my new partner's house with her family. Sadly I haven't got out of cooking the Christmas dinner " Was that a new partner or a new house ?? | |||
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"First Christmas for a couple of years I won't be alone, Christmas dinner at my new partner's house with her family. Sadly I haven't got out of cooking the Christmas dinner Was that a new partner or a new house ??" new partner | |||
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"I am. Most of my family are gathering at my sisters, 30 miles away, but I go back on shift on Boxing Day and don't want too much hassle or drama before I go back. "So you can’t really be bothered fair enough ?? | |||
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"I am. Most of my family are gathering at my sisters, 30 miles away, but I go back on shift on Boxing Day and don't want too much hassle or drama before I go back.
So you can’t really be bothered fair enough ??"If you're not looking forward to Crimbo alone OP, it's probs too late this year. But next year you can offer to volunteer at your local soup kitchen/food bank, and feel part of something. There's so much out there! Noone should feel alone come Christmas x | |||
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"I am. Most of my family are gathering at my sisters, 30 miles away, but I go back on shift on Boxing Day and don't want too much hassle or drama before I go back.
So you can’t really be bothered fair enough ??
If you're not looking forward to Crimbo alone OP, it's probs too late this year. But next year you can offer to volunteer at your local soup kitchen/food bank, and feel part of something. There's so much out there! Noone should feel alone come Christmas x"I am actually not alone but I don’t enjoy Christmas that much. Funny you should mention helping out… I called my local food bank a couple of weeks ago to offer my assistance but they never called me back ! | |||
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"Yes as I have more important things and obviously need to think sadly a time to enjoy life can be shit at times unexpectedly...." What are you saying ? | |||
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"I am. Most of my family are gathering at my sisters, 30 miles away, but I go back on shift on Boxing Day and don't want too much hassle or drama before I go back.
So you can’t really be bothered fair enough ??
If you're not looking forward to Crimbo alone OP, it's probs too late this year. But next year you can offer to volunteer at your local soup kitchen/food bank, and feel part of something. There's so much out there! Noone should feel alone come Christmas x
I am actually not alone but I don’t enjoy Christmas that much. Funny you should mention helping out… I called my local food bank a couple of weeks ago to offer my assistance but they never called me back ! "It's the time of year! They'll be overwhelmed with help now! But please do call back after the seasonal period. It'll drop off then | |||
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"I am. Most of my family are gathering at my sisters, 30 miles away, but I go back on shift on Boxing Day and don't want too much hassle or drama before I go back.
So you can’t really be bothered fair enough ??
If you're not looking forward to Crimbo alone OP, it's probs too late this year. But next year you can offer to volunteer at your local soup kitchen/food bank, and feel part of something. There's so much out there! Noone should feel alone come Christmas x
I am actually not alone but I don’t enjoy Christmas that much. Funny you should mention helping out… I called my local food bank a couple of weeks ago to offer my assistance but they never called me back !
It's the time of year! They'll be overwhelmed with help now! But please do call back after the seasonal period. It'll drop off then "That’s the plan | |||
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"Over the years I’ve spent more Christmases on my own than I have in company. Really doesn’t bother me, I work for 4 or 5 hours in the morning and then go home to a slow cooked dinner that’s ready the minute I walk in the door, whatever time I get there. " Sounds like you might have an Aga or can actually use the nobs on an oven | |||
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"I think restaurants should have a captain’s table, a long table which can be booked by single people to meet others… thoughts ? " Wonderful | |||
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"Alone. Child forsook me for their dad (I'm not doing presents this year as we went to Disney in Sept so child has gone where they will get presents!). Was looking forward to some fun with a guy I've been chatting with. Recovering from a chest infection whilst raging horny. Not the best combo!" Sorry to hear about your chest infection and that no one will be able to rub it better Kids will be kids… you not too sad tough I hope ? | |||
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"Is anyone contemplating spending Christmas alone this year ? " I have a choice?   | |||
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"Alone here too" here for a chat if ya up for it x | |||
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Go to see my son later.
My ex is there, but the boyfriend is gone after last night's C.dinner with me.
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"I think restaurants should have a captain’s table, a long table which can be booked by single people to meet others… thoughts ? Great idea "Think this is a brilliant idea xx | |||
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"Alone for Xmas is the norm. Im not significant enough to anyone, I've made my peace with that." Your significant ... just not found the right table xxx | |||
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"Alone for Xmas is the norm. Im not significant enough to anyone, I've made my peace with that." Pretty much the same here, not had a proper christmas for years so got used to it now. | |||
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"I think restaurants should have a captain’s table, a long table which can be booked by single people to meet others… thoughts ? Great idea
Think this is a brilliant idea xx"This is a great idea. Maybe fab should start a matching game for any singles again next year, we could hook up, and be ‘Christmas Buddies’ | |||
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"I dream of being alone amd being able to do what I want, when I want "Don’t like to rub it in………but……….. it’s ace. | |||
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"I dream of being alone amd being able to do what I want, when I want
Don’t like to rub it in………but……….. it’s ace. "I fucking bet it is ... Seriously considering looking for a retreat or something i can do next year with a bunch of strangers! | |||
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"I think restaurants should have a captain’s table, a long table which can be booked by single people to meet others… thoughts ? Great idea
Think this is a brilliant idea xx"Need a partner to set a captains table up so if you fancy joining forces… I would love to organise something with you for a group of us | |||
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"Thank you for all contributing to this thread… sounds like many were flying solo… what about we book that captains table for a social ? I can organise… venue in MK or Northampton or Aylesbury… message me if interested… " Great idea, all those venues doable for me | |||
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"Thank you for all contributing to this thread… sounds like many were flying solo… what about we book that captains table for a social ? I can organise… venue in MK or Northampton or Aylesbury… message me if interested… Great idea, all those venues doable for me" It looks like it might just be you and me | |||
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"Is anyone contemplating spending Christmas alone this year ? " ffs its just state of mind your never alone with a fisherman's friend. | |||
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