FabSwingers.com forum: My less perfect cock

By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

Women are indifferent to it. Too banter though so they still love me. Send me a message

No this is actually about that dude who said people bodyshame big penises. I've never seen that?! Have you? I guess it's one thing to say they hurt but you know, so do tight buttholes right? I once had to stop giving anal because my dick got seriously claustrophobic and it was messing with the blood flow. But I digress...

People shouldn't shame bodies generally but have you seen or accept it when they do in any case?!

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"Ew no that's disgusting" vs. "Something that's not the thing you have/like/are really turns me on".

Bodyshaming vs. opinion, respectfully expressed.

I think I've solved fab

Mrs TMN x

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By *entlemanrogueMan
over a year ago

Motherwell

I was accused of body shamming (yes shamming) when i said to a woman she looked great despite having had a baby only a few months earlier.

Cant win with some people.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"I was accused of body shamming (yes shamming) when i said to a woman she looked great despite having had a baby only a few months earlier.

Cant win with some people."

I think any compliment that comes with a caveat or modifier feels less like a compliment to me. Same as an apology followed by a justification.

Mrs TMN x

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

hypothetically speaking Bruce, if I said your penis looks like it needs a good rest this festive period, would that be body shaming?

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By *olden PoleMan
over a year ago

Kent

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"I was accused of body shamming (yes shamming) when i said to a woman she looked great despite having had a baby only a few months earlier.

Cant win with some people."

Definitely a back handed compliment. You should get stopped at "you look great".

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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"hypothetically speaking Bruce, if I said your penis looks like it needs a good rest this festive period, would that be body shaming?"

It would just be fuckin fake news is what it would be willy!

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

There is loads of body shaming comments on fab the ones that start with "I'm not body shaming but..." are the worst.

It is quite easy to express your preference without being rude to others yet most don't bother.

MrsAbz

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

"hypothetically speaking Bruce, if I said your penis looks like it needs a good rest this festive period, would that be body shaming?

It would just be fuckin fake news is what it would be willy!"

Thought that might be the case, Bruce

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't stand the fake boobs Vs natural boobs threads. In my mind it's body shaming. Even the word fake, using the word fake irks me massively.

Is it right to tell a trans woman her boobs are fake?

Or a cancer patient that's had reconstruction?

But someone that's just enhanced it's acceptable? Despite the fact they may have had them done for all sorts of reasons. I could list some!

How do the women feel when they see a fake Vs natural boobs thread when they have enhanced boobs and men say they natural are better and they pick out why implants don't feel good?

Though I don't think most of the men that say it would actually turn down a woman with implants.

There's also the fact that some guys really get off on implants and it's like a fetish, I wonder if they feel anything negative when people shame implants?

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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"There is loads of body shaming comments on fab the ones that start with "I'm not body shaming but..." are the worst.

It is quite easy to express your preference without being rude to others yet most don't bother.

MrsAbz "

Is that a blowjob with pigtails?!

My weakness!

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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"I can't stand the fake boobs Vs natural boobs threads. In my mind it's body shaming. Even the word fake, using the word fake irks me massively.

Is it right to tell a trans woman her boobs are fake?

Or a cancer patient that's had reconstruction?

But someone that's just enhanced it's acceptable? Despite the fact they may have had them done for all sorts of reasons. I could list some!

How do the women feel when they see a fake Vs natural boobs thread when they have enhanced boobs and men say they natural are better and they pick out why implants don't feel good?

Though I don't think most of the men that say it would actually turn down a woman with implants.

There's also the fact that some guys really get off on implants and it's like a fetish, I wonder if they feel anything negative when people shame implants?

To be fair most of the women I have spoken to with 'enhanced' boobs call them fake themselves. I don't think that makes it a negative just because of the word. If someone said fake tits feel shit, yeah, that's not on. It's up to people to do whatever they like to their bodies.

Plus they're great!

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"There is loads of body shaming comments on fab the ones that start with "I'm not body shaming but..." are the worst.

It is quite easy to express your preference without being rude to others yet most don't bother.

MrsAbz

Is that a blowjob with pigtails?!

My weakness!"

That is

keeps the hair out my face and apparently is also nicely tickly on the thighs as my hair swings about. Who knew?!

MrsAbz

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"To be fair most of the women I have spoken to with 'enhanced' boobs call them fake themselves. I don't think that makes it a negative just because of the word."

But it *is* a negative word though. ‘Fake’ has overwhelmingly negative connotations.

I just don’t think there’s an alternative term that’s much better. So we’re probably stuck with it.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

I mean … you wouldn’t call them counterfeit boobs. (Would you?)

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

"I mean … you wouldn’t call them counterfeit boobs. (Would you?)"

Modified! Which is fairly accurate and not linked also much with negativity... Just not exactly sexy either. It's simply neutral.

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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"There is loads of body shaming comments on fab the ones that start with "I'm not body shaming but..." are the worst.

It is quite easy to express your preference without being rude to others yet most don't bother.

MrsAbz

Is that a blowjob with pigtails?!

My weakness!

That is

keeps the hair out my face and apparently is also nicely tickly on the thighs as my hair swings about. Who knew?!

MrsAbz "

Well.

Marry me?

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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"I mean … you wouldn’t call them counterfeit boobs. (Would you?)

Modified! Which is fairly accurate and not linked also much with negativity... Just not exactly sexy either. It's simply neutral. "

Tits are tits. They either look good or don't. Modify them all you want!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be fair most of the women I have spoken to with 'enhanced' boobs call them fake themselves. I don't think that makes it a negative just because of the word.

But it *is* a negative word though. ‘Fake’ has overwhelmingly negative connotations.

I just don’t think there’s an alternative term that’s much better. So we’re probably stuck with it."

What's wrong with enhanced boobs or breast implants? The wording used on the websites for cosmetic surgery.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I was accused of body shamming (yes shamming) when i said to a woman she looked great despite having had a baby only a few months earlier.

Cant win with some people."

Despite ?

Don't let that stop you. Why not move on to spell checking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are sensitive.

And also, bodyshaming to make themselves or their opinions superior to others is rife in the world. We all have opinions, it’s a fact, but some people don’t know when to keep theirs to themselves.

As long as your happy with your cock op, and the women who like you like it, you’ll be alright I think.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Shame is internal.

I cannot be shamed by another. I have to act against my own values or beliefs to feel shame.

Some use it as a 'guard' instead of accepting that they may just be hearing a truth they don't want to hear.

Nice Cock Bruce.....

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

"To be fair most of the women I have spoken to with 'enhanced' boobs call them fake themselves. I don't think that makes it a negative just because of the word.

But it *is* a negative word though. ‘Fake’ has overwhelmingly negative connotations.

I just don’t think there’s an alternative term that’s much better. So we’re probably stuck with it.

What's wrong with enhanced boobs or breast implants? The wording used on the websites for cosmetic surgery."

Enhanced as a word by its very definition can imply "improved" which is in a way the same issue as saying "fake", but for the other party.

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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"To be fair most of the women I have spoken to with 'enhanced' boobs call them fake themselves. I don't think that makes it a negative just because of the word.

But it *is* a negative word though. ‘Fake’ has overwhelmingly negative connotations.

I just don’t think there’s an alternative term that’s much better. So we’re probably stuck with it."

Yeah I kinda see your point, but we aren't talking about a product you've been ripped off or lied to here. It's just boobs!

But I do get it. Again I think it's because so many women have talked about their 'fake' boobs to me that I have never thought about if it could be offensive or not.

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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"To be fair most of the women I have spoken to with 'enhanced' boobs call them fake themselves. I don't think that makes it a negative just because of the word.

But it *is* a negative word though. ‘Fake’ has overwhelmingly negative connotations.

I just don’t think there’s an alternative term that’s much better. So we’re probably stuck with it.

What's wrong with enhanced boobs or breast implants? The wording used on the websites for cosmetic surgery.

Enhanced as a word by its very definition can imply "improved" which is in a way the same issue as saying "fake", but for the other party.

Modified?

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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"To be fair most of the women I have spoken to with 'enhanced' boobs call them fake themselves. I don't think that makes it a negative just because of the word.

But it *is* a negative word though. ‘Fake’ has overwhelmingly negative connotations.

I just don’t think there’s an alternative term that’s much better. So we’re probably stuck with it.

What's wrong with enhanced boobs or breast implants? The wording used on the websites for cosmetic surgery.

Enhanced as a word by its very definition can imply "improved" which is in a way the same issue as saying "fake", but for the other party.

Oh I see you literally suggested modified haha

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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Shame is internal.

I cannot be shamed by another. I have to act against my own values or beliefs to feel shame.

Some use it as a 'guard' instead of accepting that they may just be hearing a truth they don't want to hear.

Nice Cock Bruce..... "

Thanks Granny

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I've never seen body shaming per se but i have seem women state they don't like big cocks.

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"There is loads of body shaming comments on fab the ones that start with "I'm not body shaming but..." are the worst.

It is quite easy to express your preference without being rude to others yet most don't bother.

MrsAbz

Is that a blowjob with pigtails?!

My weakness!

That is

keeps the hair out my face and apparently is also nicely tickly on the thighs as my hair swings about. Who knew?!

MrsAbz

Well.

Marry me?

Probably the nicest proposal I've ever had

MrsAbz

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I didn't realise you've had your cock out OP.

Anyway, no, I don't think I have. I've seen women discuss that it won't work with their anatomy but not... eurgh blah blah etc.

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

Im not nosey enough to worry

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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"I didn't realise you've had your cock out OP.

Anyway, no, I don't think I have. I've seen women discuss that it won't work with their anatomy but not... eurgh blah blah etc. "

Oh it's a good one! Blah blah etc xoxo

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

"I once had to stop giving anal because my dick got seriously claustrophobic"

Can I steal this for my profile?

I read it and I thought 'Every word in my eyes right now is as mad as fuck', and that's me saying that, I must have it.

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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"I once had to stop giving anal because my dick got seriously claustrophobic

Can I steal this for my profile?

I read it and I thought 'Every word in my eyes right now is as mad as fuck', and that's me saying that, I must have it.

Oh go on then you silly sausage, seeing as it's you

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

"I once had to stop giving anal because my dick got seriously claustrophobic

Can I steal this for my profile?

I read it and I thought 'Every word in my eyes right now is as mad as fuck', and that's me saying that, I must have it.

Oh go on then you silly sausage, seeing as it's you

...what the fuck did you just call me.

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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"I once had to stop giving anal because my dick got seriously claustrophobic

Can I steal this for my profile?

I read it and I thought 'Every word in my eyes right now is as mad as fuck', and that's me saying that, I must have it.

Oh go on then you silly sausage, seeing as it's you

...what the fuck did you just call me.

Easy fella easyyy now!

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

"I once had to stop giving anal because my dick got seriously claustrophobic

Can I steal this for my profile?

I read it and I thought 'Every word in my eyes right now is as mad as fuck', and that's me saying that, I must have it.

Oh go on then you silly sausage, seeing as it's you

...what the fuck did you just call me.

Easy fella easyyy now!

Does Raven know you're at her Baileys? She will reign down fury son, you better get a Ginsters in you!

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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"I once had to stop giving anal because my dick got seriously claustrophobic

Can I steal this for my profile?

I read it and I thought 'Every word in my eyes right now is as mad as fuck', and that's me saying that, I must have it.

Oh go on then you silly sausage, seeing as it's you

...what the fuck did you just call me.

Easy fella easyyy now!

Does Raven know you're at her Baileys? She will reign down fury son, you better get a Ginsters in you!

"
Raven and me have our own Bailey's and are making all the sexy videos for each other with them. Next question please.

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"Im not nosey enough to worry "

Hahaha this made me laugh so much

Love a dressed up dick pic

MrsAbz

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