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By (user no longer on site) OP   
47 weeks ago

An insult or a compliment?

Ladies, if someone called you this how would you take it?

What's the male equivalent?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
47 weeks ago

little house on the praire

I've been called a cold fish. Think it just means someone who doesn't show their emotions

I don't think it's a good or bad thing

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By *a LunaWoman
47 weeks ago

South Wales

I’d tell them that the right man could make me melt.

And wink at them flirtatiously.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

King cool?

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

I’d haaaaaate to be called that

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By *aitonelMan
47 weeks ago

Liverpool


"I’d haaaaaate to be called that "

Frozen chicken?

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago


"I’d haaaaaate to be called that

Frozen chicken?"

Eeeee

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By *emorefridaCouple
47 weeks ago

La la land

My other half calls me it all the time. And it's kind of accurate I'm a bit frosty until I get to know people

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By *zeroMan
47 weeks ago

Glasgow

Mr Freeze? Could I make ice related puns?

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago


"I’d haaaaaate to be called that "

It’s childish and a throwback to the 90s. I called girls that in school.

But….., there’s some women in here probably act the way they did that earned that immature remark to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Kinda gives off negative vibes. Didn't the ice queen in the story want a cold and unfeeling world.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
47 weeks ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I believe the male equivalent to be, ‘Closed’ or else aloof.

Decidedly less insulting than the evoked image of something along the lines of a Disney villainess

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By *eordieJeansCouple
47 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Chilly Willy

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By *oo..Woman
47 weeks ago

Boo's World


"I’d haaaaaate to be called that

Frozen chicken?

Eeeee "

Birds Eye!!

Sorry Fluffy

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago


"I’d haaaaaate to be called that

Frozen chicken?

Eeeee "

Nice nuggets

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By *oo..Woman
47 weeks ago

Boo's World

Ice Queen is an insult usually I've heard it used as "cold hearted b*tch"!

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
47 weeks ago

Somewhere else


"I’d tell them that the right man could make me melt.

And wink at them flirtatiously."

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

From a random guy then it's a veiled insult as you don't show them any or enough attention.

From someone you know then you're probably just a cold hearted bitch.

Either or.

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By *odevilWoman
47 weeks ago

exeter


"I've been called a cold fish. Think it just means someone who doesn't show their emotions

I don't think it's a good or bad thing"

I've been called that too!

I think ice queen was intended to be derogatory but I didn't really understand why.

On the flip side, if people are overtly emotional they're accused of being dramatic or irrational. So actually, you can't really win.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Who has ever called someone an ice queen in a nice way? Maybe Elsa from frozen is the only one.

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By *aitonelMan
47 weeks ago

Liverpool


"Who has ever called someone an ice queen in a nice way? Maybe Elsa from frozen is the only one. "

There are two ice queen's in this thread already!

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
47 weeks ago

Somewhere else


"I've been called a cold fish. Think it just means someone who doesn't show their emotions

I don't think it's a good or bad thing"

I think that’s the male equivalent? (Don’t really know.)

If someone called me an Ice Queen I’d feel accomplished.

Like Ice T. I fucking LOVE him.

Iceberg Slim was a good writer, too.

My point is… when men are called “Ice” anything, it’s usually a compliment.

I’d take it as one even if it weren’t meant that way

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Let it go op. “let it go!…..’

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
47 weeks ago

Somewhere else


"I've been called a cold fish. Think it just means someone who doesn't show their emotions

I don't think it's a good or bad thing

I've been called that too!

I think ice queen was intended to be derogatory but I didn't really understand why.

On the flip side, if people are overtly emotional they're accused of being dramatic or irrational. So actually, you can't really win. "

BINGO.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

It's a compliment. 99% of the time it's said by a sad bitter man who is crying because the "ice queen" won't fuck him.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago


"Who has ever called someone an ice queen in a nice way? Maybe Elsa from frozen is the only one.

There are two ice queen's in this thread already! "

Do you say that as a compliment?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
47 weeks ago


"I've been called a cold fish. Think it just means someone who doesn't show their emotions

I don't think it's a good or bad thing

I've been called that too!

I think ice queen was intended to be derogatory but I didn't really understand why.

On the flip side, if people are overtly emotional they're accused of being dramatic or irrational. So actually, you can't really win. "

This isn't it!

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
47 weeks ago

Somewhere else


"It's a compliment. 99% of the time it's said by a sad bitter man who is crying because the "ice queen" won't fuck him. "

Yep.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
47 weeks ago


"I've been called a cold fish. Think it just means someone who doesn't show their emotions

I don't think it's a good or bad thing

I've been called that too!

I think ice queen was intended to be derogatory but I didn't really understand why.

On the flip side, if people are overtly emotional they're accused of being dramatic or irrational. So actually, you can't really win.

This isn't it!"

Oh that reads badly, I mean that I agree

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
47 weeks ago

Somewhere else


"Who has ever called someone an ice queen in a nice way? Maybe Elsa from frozen is the only one.

There are two ice queen's in this thread already!

Do you say that as a compliment? "

Oh I hope I’m one of them.

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By *aitonelMan
47 weeks ago

Liverpool


"Who has ever called someone an ice queen in a nice way? Maybe Elsa from frozen is the only one.

There are two ice queen's in this thread already!

Do you say that as a compliment? "

Many times! Because they are

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

I call myself this.

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By *aitonelMan
47 weeks ago

Liverpool


"Who has ever called someone an ice queen in a nice way? Maybe Elsa from frozen is the only one.

There are two ice queen's in this thread already!

Do you say that as a compliment?

Oh I hope I’m one of them."

Four of them now!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
47 weeks ago


"It's a compliment. 99% of the time it's said by a sad bitter man who is crying because the "ice queen" won't fuck him. "

..... or it's said by a man you were fucking, but they failed to get their claws in and control you, so they turn the blame to you because they cant be seen as looking the wanker and make you out to be the problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

I think i am an ice queen, so I'd just think, yeah makes sense!

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By *aitonelMan
47 weeks ago

Liverpool

5!

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Ok if EYE called someone an Ice Queen (which I wouldn’t because it’s a dead diss) I would be saying so as a diss.

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By *aitonelMan
47 weeks ago

Liverpool


"Ok if EYE called someone an Ice Queen (which I wouldn’t because it’s a dead diss) I would be saying so as a diss. "

It's all in the intent vs the reception of the person. It's no different than slut.

The intent of somebody calling another a slut may be an insult, while the target person takes pride in and owns it.

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
47 weeks ago

Somewhere else


"Ok if EYE called someone an Ice Queen (which I wouldn’t because it’s a dead diss) I would be saying so as a diss.

It's all in the intent vs the reception of the person. It's no different than slut.

The intent of somebody calling another a slut may be an insult, while the target person takes pride in and owns it."

I am a card carrying Heartless Bitch

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago


"It's a compliment. 99% of the time it's said by a sad bitter man who is crying because the "ice queen" won't fuck him.

..... or it's said by a man you were fucking, but they failed to get their claws in and control you, so they turn the blame to you because they cant be seen as looking the wanker and make you out to be the problem."

Yep!

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By *ittlebirdWoman
47 weeks ago

The Big Smoke


"An insult or a compliment?

Ladies, if someone called you this how would you take it?

What's the male equivalent?"

I wouldn’t take it as an insult. I would just ignore them…

#blackheart

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
47 weeks ago


"An insult or a compliment?

Ladies, if someone called you this how would you take it?

What's the male equivalent?

I wouldn’t take it as an insult. I would just ignore them…

#blackheart "

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By *aitonelMan
47 weeks ago

Liverpool


"An insult or a compliment?

Ladies, if someone called you this how would you take it?

What's the male equivalent?

I wouldn’t take it as an insult. I would just ignore them…

#blackheart "

Pirate?

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By *ittlebirdWoman
47 weeks ago

The Big Smoke


"An insult or a compliment?

Ladies, if someone called you this how would you take it?

What's the male equivalent?

I wouldn’t take it as an insult. I would just ignore them…

#blackheart

Pirate? "

Ooaaarrrr

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By *uri00620Woman
47 weeks ago

Croydon

I've been called the Stephen Hawking of emotional retardation.

Possibly similar. Pretty sure it wasn't a compliment though.

That being said, it's nice to be a genius at something!

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
47 weeks ago

Somewhere else


"I've been called the Stephen Hawking of emotional retardation.

Possibly similar. Pretty sure it wasn't a compliment though.

That being said, it's nice to be a genius at something!"

*holding my fucking sides laughing*

At least your heckler was creative!

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
47 weeks ago

North West


"I've been called the Stephen Hawking of emotional retardation.

Possibly similar. Pretty sure it wasn't a compliment though.

That being said, it's nice to be a genius at something!"

I would take it to mean that you're super duper intelligent!

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By *illy IdolMan
47 weeks ago

Midlands


"Chilly Willy"

That's what I get for shagging the Ice queen.

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By *uri00620Woman
47 weeks ago

Croydon


"I've been called the Stephen Hawking of emotional retardation.

Possibly similar. Pretty sure it wasn't a compliment though.

That being said, it's nice to be a genius at something!

I would take it to mean that you're super duper intelligent! "

Or super duper emotionally retarded!!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
47 weeks ago

little house on the praire

I just see it as someone who doesn't wear their heart on their sleeve

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By *ddie1966Man
47 weeks ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.


"It's a compliment. 99% of the time it's said by a sad bitter man who is crying because the "ice queen" won't fuck him. "

Got it in one...

Even an Ice Queens heart will melt for the right man.

Personally I think the term is seriously demeaning and any person who'd use it should take a good hard look at themselves.

Just my opinion though.

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By *odevilWoman
47 weeks ago

exeter


"It's a compliment. 99% of the time it's said by a sad bitter man who is crying because the "ice queen" won't fuck him.

..... or it's said by a man you were fucking, but they failed to get their claws in and control you, so they turn the blame to you because they cant be seen as looking the wanker and make you out to be the problem."

True story:

The big baby who called me a "dreadful cold fish" (which I do think is quite funny actually) is the same guy who got more and more irate because I was extremely collected during the break up and while he was moving his crap out of my house. He then completely lost his shit because the only time I got remotely emotional because he point blank refused to SELL me the Dyson (which was actually given to us by one of his mates who fancied me).

Spiteful bastard.

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
47 weeks ago

Somewhere else


"It's a compliment. 99% of the time it's said by a sad bitter man who is crying because the "ice queen" won't fuck him.

..... or it's said by a man you were fucking, but they failed to get their claws in and control you, so they turn the blame to you because they cant be seen as looking the wanker and make you out to be the problem.

True story:

The big baby who called me a "dreadful cold fish" (which I do think is quite funny actually) is the same guy who got more and more irate because I was extremely collected during the break up and while he was moving his crap out of my house. He then completely lost his shit because the only time I got remotely emotional because he point blank refused to SELL me the Dyson (which was actually given to us by one of his mates who fancied me).

Spiteful bastard. "

Diddums

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By *aitonelMan
47 weeks ago

Liverpool


"It's a compliment. 99% of the time it's said by a sad bitter man who is crying because the "ice queen" won't fuck him.

Got it in one...

Even an Ice Queens heart will melt for the right man.

Personally I think the term is seriously demeaning and any person who'd use it should take a good hard look at themselves.

Just my opinion though."

So it just needs a man to save the day to defeat the evil queen?

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By *illy IdolMan
47 weeks ago

Midlands


"It's a compliment. 99% of the time it's said by a sad bitter man who is crying because the "ice queen" won't fuck him.

Got it in one...

Even an Ice Queens heart will melt for the right man.

Personally I think the term is seriously demeaning and any person who'd use it should take a good hard look at themselves.

Just my opinion though.

So it just needs a man to save the day to defeat the evil queen? "

See to me it just means frosty bitch, but I could be wrong.

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By *odevilWoman
47 weeks ago

exeter


"It's a compliment. 99% of the time it's said by a sad bitter man who is crying because the "ice queen" won't fuck him.

..... or it's said by a man you were fucking, but they failed to get their claws in and control you, so they turn the blame to you because they cant be seen as looking the wanker and make you out to be the problem.

True story:

The big baby who called me a "dreadful cold fish" (which I do think is quite funny actually) is the same guy who got more and more irate because I was extremely collected during the break up and while he was moving his crap out of my house. He then completely lost his shit because the only time I got remotely emotional because he point blank refused to SELL me the Dyson (which was actually given to us by one of his mates who fancied me).

Spiteful bastard.

Diddums "

Oh I'm totally over it now

I just thought it was funny that he did that to spite me and then got super mad because I was mildly upset about losing the hoover rather than him.

Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
47 weeks ago

North West


"I've been called the Stephen Hawking of emotional retardation.

Possibly similar. Pretty sure it wasn't a compliment though.

That being said, it's nice to be a genius at something!

I would take it to mean that you're super duper intelligent!

Or super duper emotionally retarded!!"

Nooooooo. Intelligent! Was Prof. Hawking emotionally challenged?!

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By *odevilWoman
47 weeks ago

exeter


"

Got it in one...

Even an Ice Queens heart will melt for the right man."

Um. No.

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By *aitonelMan
47 weeks ago

Liverpool


"It's a compliment. 99% of the time it's said by a sad bitter man who is crying because the "ice queen" won't fuck him.

Got it in one...

Even an Ice Queens heart will melt for the right man.

Personally I think the term is seriously demeaning and any person who'd use it should take a good hard look at themselves.

Just my opinion though.

So it just needs a man to save the day to defeat the evil queen?

See to me it just means frosty bitch, but I could be wrong."

But they are, well maybe not the bitch part. Frosty isn't directly bad though. Again it's all about intent and reception.

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By *hunky GentMan
47 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

A hug from me should be enough to melt any heart.

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By *ddie1966Man
47 weeks ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.


"

Got it in one...

Even an Ice Queens heart will melt for the right man.

Um. No. "

Oh yes it will (come on.... join in, it is panto season after all)

He's behind you. !!

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By *aitonelMan
47 weeks ago

Liverpool


"

Got it in one...

Even an Ice Queens heart will melt for the right man.

Um. No.

Oh yes it will (come on.... join in, it is panto season after all)

He's behind you. !!"

That won't work on this one. Proper ice queen she is.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago


"I’d haaaaaate to be called that

Frozen chicken?

Eeeee

Birds Eye!!

Sorry Fluffy "

Boo

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By *odevilWoman
47 weeks ago

exeter


"

Got it in one...

Even an Ice Queens heart will melt for the right man.

Um. No.

Oh yes it will (come on.... join in, it is panto season after all)

He's behind you. !!"

Hiss

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By *ddie1966Man
47 weeks ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.


"

Got it in one...

Even an Ice Queens heart will melt for the right man.

Um. No.

Oh yes it will (come on.... join in, it is panto season after all)

He's behind you. !!

Hiss"

PS.... love my Dyson too. I'd also be lost without it

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By *illan-KillashMan
47 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants


"An insult or a compliment?

Ladies, if someone called you this how would you take it?

What's the male equivalent?"

I read that as Ice Cream.

Damn cataracts.......

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By *het 345Man
47 weeks ago

Preston

Cold fish?

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
47 weeks ago

Southampton


"Mr Freeze? Could I make ice related puns?"

Ice pole??

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By *zeroMan
47 weeks ago

Glasgow


"Mr Freeze? Could I make ice related puns?

Ice pole?? "

Thinking more "ice to see you" said in an Austrian accent.

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By *archelCouple
47 weeks ago

A field somewhere

Been called it numerous times over the years by men. Always nob heads who didn't deserve 5 minutes of my time

Mrs M

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
47 weeks ago

Southampton


"Mr Freeze? Could I make ice related puns?

Ice pole??

Thinking more "ice to see you" said in an Austrian accent."

I was more thinking about sucking....

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

I'm not sure what the equivalent for men is but I've been called a "dark horse" a few times and I have the same query about whether that's a compliment or not

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By *affron40Woman
47 weeks ago

manchester

I’ve been called ice queen many times. It’s not usually a complement… but I’m not a flirt and it takes me time to warm to people so it is what it is.

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By *he ass man 666Man
47 weeks ago

paradise city


"I'm not sure what the equivalent for men is but I've been called a "dark horse" a few times and I have the same query about whether that's a compliment or not "

Dark horse is a compliment

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By *he ass man 666Man
47 weeks ago

paradise city

Ice queen definitely a insult, make equivalent is probably arrogant prick , cunt , arsehole or any other word you like to insert lol

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