FabSwingers.com forum: Optimist or Pessimst?

By *ittle_brat_evie!! OP Woman
over a year ago

evesham

which are you?

whilst i am a bubbly fun (i hope) person i am a bit o a pessimist.

If my boss asks for a 'quick chat' i always think i have done something wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I be a realist instead?

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

A realist with a penchant towards optimism, i.e. believing in people.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Don't know about optimism or pessimism - but I am definitely a glass is half-full person MOST of the time.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I'm an optimistic pessimist (since realist has already been taken).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was always a glass half full type but changed a cpl of years ago..no its half empty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Realist with a half full glass all the time .... and can always find a positive in every situation

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By *hris148Man
over a year ago

Optimist, without a doubt. In any situation, I always remind myself that it could be worse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Realist with a half full glass all the time .... and can always find a positive in every situation

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Who's round is it ? I need a top up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My name says it all

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

i'm a realist also

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Right now I am trying to be an optimist that they are going to extend my funding... but I am also being real....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cynical optimist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who's round is it ? I need a top up"

stop describing me as "round" lol

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"Who's round is it ? I need a top up

stop describing me as "round" lol

They're perky not round

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who's round is it ? I need a top up

stop describing me as "round" lol

They're perky not round"

proud too

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Who's round is it ? I need a top up

stop describing me as "round" lol

They're perky not round

proud too

You know sometimes I read the last post on a thread - go back to the original post and wonder how the hell we got there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm me nothing more nothing less extrovert to the end lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always look on the bright side of life!!!

My glass is always half full...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My glass is always half full.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm more a realist with a twinge of optimism

my glass is always half full

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By *exy firemanMan
over a year ago

essex

"which are you?

whilst i am a bubbly fun (i hope) person i am a bit o a pessimist.

If my boss asks for a 'quick chat' i always think i have done something wrong

me too!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Optimistic with short periods of mild pessimism.

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By *athnBobCouple
over a year ago

sandwell

"pessimist" is what an optimist calls a realist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a pessimist that way your never disappointed and some times pleasantly surprised

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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

wanted to be an optimist but could see the point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pessimistic optimist....

I keep a second glass topped up for emergencies....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ah good question!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Optimistic pessimist... I hope everything is ok (but I know it's pear shaped).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very much optimistic, and a realist at the same time. I think playing team sport helps with this, as you have to get round those having a bad game etc to spur them on.

The same goes with work. I have to find waysto get my team buying into new ideas to keep us aahead of the pack.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!! OP Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Maybe pessimist is the wrong word for me.....how about paranoid optimist lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"which are you?

whilst i am a bubbly fun (i hope) person i am a bit o a pessimist.

If my boss asks for a 'quick chat' i always think i have done something wrong

If my boss asks me for a quick chat..I wonder who he has shagged this time

Im a bit of a pessimist at times but on the whole an optimist

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I have been both at times.

I generally have always been an optomist.

After some tough times I became negative and this was pointed out to me. So I turned things around in my mind and focused on the positive. This ended up not helping in the long run.

Now....well I am both. Just maybe not share quite so much my feelings and opinions.

Life seems to me at the moment hits of good then a bad hits me so I then refocus on the good.

Work life is great. Personal life is crap again. Family life is stressful.

Life is a roundabout x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My outlook on life is optimist, but like a few people say in with the boss it is pessimist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always look on the bright side of life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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