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By *aith Skynbyrd OP   Woman
47 weeks ago

Somewhere else

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By *aith Skynbyrd OP   Woman
47 weeks ago

Somewhere else

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
47 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

Subtle. Real subtle.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
47 weeks ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Doesn’t it result in the death of a fairy?

No….wait….that’s if one doesn’t believe in them isn’t?

Ahhh *discombobulated*

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By *aith Skynbyrd OP   Woman
47 weeks ago

Somewhere else


"Subtle. Real subtle."

*giggles*

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By *aith Skynbyrd OP   Woman
47 weeks ago

Somewhere else


"Doesn’t it result in the death of a fairy?

No….wait….that’s if one doesn’t believe in them isn’t?

Ahhh *discombobulated* "

I DO believe in fairies x

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago


"… is that the end of the friendship / relationship / situationship for you?

What if you never asked them to make any promises? And they insisted. Then they broke it.

In general do you expect people to do what they say they’re going to do? "

I think if someone breaks the faith, that can be a really really hard one to overcome. Whether they insist or you insist.

How can you trust them again, as they do it once, they'll do it again....you promote the mistress you create a vacancy and all that jazz .....

I guess as per usual it all depends on the circumstances...... But sometimes it's just best to walk away.

I hope people will do as they say, but I don't expect it. When they follow through I'm pleasantly surprised, until I get to know someone to see if this is their normal way, I just assume it won't happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago


"[Removed by poster at 20/12/23 18:54:50]"

I'm sorry I replied with your original wording on .....do you want me to delete it?

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By *eordieJeansCouple
47 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

If it’s a pinky promise that person is dead to me.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
47 weeks ago

Glasgow / London


"I DO believe in fairies x"

Maybe you *are* a fairy.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

I don't take anything anyone says that seriously. A promise doesn't mean a thing.

It's just words.

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By *parkle1974Woman
47 weeks ago

Leeds

It changes things for me if it happens.

I don't believe anything they say afterwards as I just think " you're lying" x

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By *xfordjohnMan
47 weeks ago

Oxford

Yes, I do believe people when they promise to do something, and I do get upset when they betray that promise. Better to have a conditional promise that you both accept, but even that can be difficult. Generally, if people break promises or don't deliver without good reason, I wouldn't trust them again.

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By *aith Skynbyrd OP   Woman
47 weeks ago

Somewhere else


"[Removed by poster at 20/12/23 18:54:50]

I'm sorry I replied with your original wording on .....do you want me to delete it?"

No - it’s okay.

I got cold feet.

But it’s probably not a bad idea to actually have the discussion.

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By *aith Skynbyrd OP   Woman
47 weeks ago

Somewhere else


"I DO believe in fairies x

Maybe you *are* a fairy. "

Elf

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By *aith Skynbyrd OP   Woman
47 weeks ago

Somewhere else

Okay so, the way I feel about it is, don’t make promises. Promises make me uncomfortable.

And yeah - I’m done with the person who made the promise(s).

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago


"[Removed by poster at 20/12/23 18:54:50]

I'm sorry I replied with your original wording on .....do you want me to delete it?

No - it’s okay.

I got cold feet.

But it’s probably not a bad idea to actually have the discussion. "

It got to late anyway to remove it, the deleting time ended....:/

But it wasn't a bad subject, it was just a few questions...

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By *aith Skynbyrd OP   Woman
47 weeks ago

Somewhere else


"[Removed by poster at 20/12/23 18:54:50]

I'm sorry I replied with your original wording on .....do you want me to delete it?

No - it’s okay.

I got cold feet.

But it’s probably not a bad idea to actually have the discussion.

It got to late anyway to remove it, the deleting time ended....:/

But it wasn't a bad subject, it was just a few questions..."

Thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

The second someone breaks something I make a mental note, it'll notice. If they repeat I lose faith. That inevitably leads to the end slowly at worst.

It depends on the promise though and why it was broken. If someone breaks a promise because I have treated them badly or shown them I'm not worth keeping it for then that's the consequences I should face and own it.

If someone promises something and breaks it out of sheer laziness, complacency I count it that they didn't owe me it anyway. It was their choice to do it if they wanted to.

If they break a promise out being malicious, selfish or abusive etc and it harms me then they can go fuck themselves and I won't even explain why I'm walking away.

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By *ris GrayMan
47 weeks ago

Dorchester

Don't give them a 2nd chance

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By *ris GrayMan
47 weeks ago

Dorchester

Unless you love their hands

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By *aith Skynbyrd OP   Woman
47 weeks ago

Somewhere else


"Unless you love their hands "

Nope. This was not someone who got to put hands on me.

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By *ris GrayMan
47 weeks ago

Dorchester


"Unless you love their hands

Nope. This was not someone who got to put hands on me."
really omg hands free...... Thats technology at its best

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By *aith Skynbyrd OP   Woman
47 weeks ago

Somewhere else


"Unless you love their hands

Nope. This was not someone who got to put hands on me.really omg hands free...... Thats technology at its best "

You're sun-d*unk

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By *ris GrayMan
47 weeks ago

Dorchester

Lol or you'll have to do better than that

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago


"The second someone breaks something I make a mental note, it'll notice. If they repeat I lose faith. That inevitably leads to the end slowly at worst.

It depends on the promise though and why it was broken. If someone breaks a promise because I have treated them badly or shown them I'm not worth keeping it for then that's the consequences I should face and own it.

If someone promises something and breaks it out of sheer laziness, complacency I count it that they didn't owe me it anyway. It was their choice to do it if they wanted to.

If they break a promise out being malicious, selfish or abusive etc and it harms me then they can go fuck themselves and I won't even explain why I'm walking away."

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