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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Bin on hear a wile and still not had a meet with a couple. I send a nice message "hi how are you both" ect bin sent friend requests and nothing. What am I doing wrong? Please help x

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

'Hi, how are you?' messages are two a penny. I get about 8 of those a day! More on some days.

What am I supposed to answer? Erm, ok thanks. And repeat!

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Stick with it....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I will Jane db9 what am I ment to say then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Address the couple by their names or initials etc to start, and mention some of the things they have written in their profile, shows you've actually read it! We hate getting 'hi how are you' messages, it's so dull

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I do all that ls83 I always try to make the message personal to the people I'm messaging but still nothing lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you what the couple are looking for? We get loads of just boring one liners nothing that piques our interest.

When we get impressed or intrigued you get the results.

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

But if your sending a message saying only ...hi how are you doing? How is that personal to the couple?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I put ect meaning there names and talking about things that have on there profile lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My partner (female) and I have been on here for five months now. Not had one good meet.

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn


"My partner (female) and I have been on here for five months now. Not had one good meet. "

But you have no pics on your profile...what do you expect lol x

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By *risboy69Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"Stick with it...."
its difficult for us single guys!

But I recommend going to a club and just try a chat and get to know them!

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

clubs are probably the way forward for single guys .. gives you the opportunity to get your personality across .. best of luck

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By *risboy69Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"clubs are probably the way forward for single guys .. gives you the opportunity to get your personality across .. best of luck "
iz that the best way?

How can a single guy approach a couple

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I can only say stick with it, keep sending messages that show you've read the profile and be open and honest. You look really nice in your pictures, friendly and smiling and a big plus surely is that you must be good at making cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"clubs are probably the way forward for single guys .. gives you the opportunity to get your personality across .. best of luck "

Are they though ?

I don't think my personality would shine at all under those circumstances because I would be unaware of how to act, what to expect and as nervous as hell.

I would have thought a no strings social would been a much less daunting experience for a single guy ?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"clubs are probably the way forward for single guys .. gives you the opportunity to get your personality across .. best of luck iz that the best way?

How can a single guy approach a couple"

I would think that would take a lot of courage. we often say how difficult it must be for single men in a lot of situations but with couples it must be even harder.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"clubs are probably the way forward for single guys .. gives you the opportunity to get your personality across .. best of luck

Are they though ?

I don't think my personality would shine at all under those circumstances because I would be unaware of how to act, what to expect and as nervous as hell.

I would have thought a no strings social would been a much less daunting experience for a single guy ?"

we always have no strings/no pressure socials with any single guy (or couple) we're thinking of moving forward with, it can be an awful lot of fun lets everyone relax and get to know each other and also shows very clearly if there's any chemistry.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I can only say stick with it, keep sending messages that show you've read the profile and be open and honest. You look really nice in your pictures, friendly and smiling and a big plus surely is that you must be good at making cake "

Yea I am a cake master lol thanks for the nice comments its given my ego a bit of a boost at least x

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